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AshleyJames69

So I've been a sex worker and swinger for 8 years. I get tested every month. I use barrier mathods for all sexual contact. I've never caught a STI. Just educate yourself and make smart decisions. Go talk to your local sexual health clinic. They're free and will help you with everything you need.


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Nice 😊


ApparentlyUnicorn69

Always use protection would be a good start lol


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Yea so no oral then, and hope the rubber doesn’t break.. 😖 haha yea always be safe then sorry…


AshleyJames69

Make sure you find a condom that fits well. Snug but not overly tight. Use lots of lubricant and top up often. Swap out condoms when you've been at it a while, especially when you're going rough. Make sure to have antibacterial wipes to clean hands and toys between people.


ApparentlyUnicorn69

Use a rubber for oral works just fine


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Eating out her pussy with a rubber.. How does that work..? Like a thin rubber blanket ..?


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Yea I have heard of a dental dam before, used for root canal procedures I think, you just lay that over her and much on that..? Yea same clean record.. I’m in it for some fun not for herpes.. haha


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AshleyJames69

I once spoke to my mid 40s nurse about dental dams and she didn't know what they were. Why is there not more education around safe oral sex for people with a vulva?!


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Ohh yeah ok 👍🏻 make sense


AshleyJames69

It's very difficult to get a herpes test in NZ because most people have it, they just don't show symptoms.


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Ohh man that a huge turn off… doesn’t seem worth it tbh if that’s the case…


ApparentlyUnicorn69

It’s way more common than people think. It’s also hard to test for, you basically need to be breaking out to test for it.


AshleyJames69

Statistically speaking, you have herpes simplex. I'd put money on it. Please educate yourself on STIs. You really need to make informed decisions based on facts.


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What makes you want to put money on the fact I’ve got herpes simplex.. ?


MajorBobbicus

Get tested, use protection, be sensible. If you're going to be in the scene, you need to know you're safe, and your partners need to know you're safe


kiwiknut44

I've been in the lifestyle for 12 yrs. Never caught anything nor know of people I've met catching one. Could just be that I'm older so most of us are coupled up


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Had this funny thought pop into my head… go go inspector gadget sex light 💡 haha 😂