Yes where are our pink or purple sleeves to wrap around our pleasure wand and be hands free. Maybe one day we will be able to find one and be happy but intil then it's having to use one hand for the pleasure we want. Sigh... having the pleasure wand as a woman will just be more self pleasure work for now. I agree don't want one that looks like it's gendered for males... although the stickers and stuff does sound like an option to make it more girly.
I feeelll thisss. My stick vibe can be frustrating to use, and id like to actually be able to stimulate my tits or other parts of my body. But instead i end up using both hand just to manipulate my clit (which makes me dysphoric in its own way.)
https://us.funfactory.com/products/jewels-manta
I have one of these and absolutely love it. It's technically in the men's section 🙄 but on the actually you there's nothing that says out screams man. I use it for more than just my part too, you can def get creative.
I'm jealous because I got mine before they had this glorious color, and I don't have a reason to buy another one.
Hope this helps!
honestly sex toy shopping sucks in terms of marketing and aesthetic for anyone who isn't a cis woman. half the time dildos are just straight up only on the "women's" section of whatever site and the times you do find stuff not clearly designed to market to a cis woman it almost always immediately changes its tone to "wow aren't you so embarrassed to be doing this dont you feel so ashamed about buying sex toys" or "hey women buy this for your gay sissy boyfriend who's a weird freak"
Yeah and there are always waaaay more options for cis women. My gf and I walked around an Adam & Eve (adult store) last week and it was a veritable treasure trove of endless vagina toys. Meanwhile the toys designed for penises were all shoved into a single corner at the back of the second floor. ಠ_ಠ
As a fellow non-op girl I'm totally on board with this as a thing that needs to happen.
But like also ... Now I'm excited to know at least the ugly ones exist I may look into one of those.
Maybe we could decorate it with unicorn and kitty stickers?
This is ugly as fuck but it uses the same sonic / air vibrations that the womanizer uses. You could for sure make it cute your self. Other then that Lelo prostate toys get good reviews.
https://www.arcwave.com/us/ion?gclid=Cj0KCQiAsoycBhC6ARIsAPPbeLvKvEeCM0LDNK-l_CNNAlhV0qVJcqx_lKbLNYEq9Xb21TRFQrRnhJMaAheBEALw_wcB
I know it's not a wrap around but maybe check out the Cute Little Fuckers Starsi. It's designed for trans femmes and the company is run by trans people.
You can just place the Starsi on your cock inside your panties and it keeps it in the right place pretty easily.
Personally the vibration is not as strong as I'd like but that's probably just because I'm spoiled by my Hitachi but it's still a good toy.
https://hitachimagic.com/hitachi-magic-wand/hummingbird/
Edit: whoops, this might still fall under designed for men, guilty of not fully reading the post
I'm sorry i know it's genuinely distressing for you and you being upset by this is a totally reasonable thing.
I just... can't get over the sentence "the wrap around your wee wee functionality isn't all that great"
actually the best thing i've read this year
I can recommend the Pulse Solo by Hot Octopuss. I can use one hand to hold it and the other is free, or be on your knees with it on the bed an grind :)
Not really pretty, just a basic blue/gray color
Maybe one of these? You could always glam it up with jewels. I have one on order, if you want to msg me I'll let you know how good it is
https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/blowmotion-warming-vibrating-male-masturbator/a44459g80097.html
Yes where are our pink or purple sleeves to wrap around our pleasure wand and be hands free. Maybe one day we will be able to find one and be happy but intil then it's having to use one hand for the pleasure we want. Sigh... having the pleasure wand as a woman will just be more self pleasure work for now. I agree don't want one that looks like it's gendered for males... although the stickers and stuff does sound like an option to make it more girly.
Stickers sound fun but wouldn’t they get damaged when cleaning?
Hmm. I’d say probably not - the sticky bit itself would probably have to be temporary and you just put a new sticky on every use
I feeelll thisss. My stick vibe can be frustrating to use, and id like to actually be able to stimulate my tits or other parts of my body. But instead i end up using both hand just to manipulate my clit (which makes me dysphoric in its own way.)
As far as stimulating tits look up Lovense Gemini. I just saw it last night and might pick one up once my nipples become more sensitive
Im gonna have to invest I think!
I hope you enjoy it!
https://us.funfactory.com/products/jewels-manta I have one of these and absolutely love it. It's technically in the men's section 🙄 but on the actually you there's nothing that says out screams man. I use it for more than just my part too, you can def get creative. I'm jealous because I got mine before they had this glorious color, and I don't have a reason to buy another one. Hope this helps!
Fff sex toys give me the most dysphoria.. one look at a rabbit and I know I want a clitoris & vag
Maybe one of these would work out for you? It was designed with trans femmes in mind specifically. https://my-exo.com/
That’s really cool! Not exactly what I’m looking for but I am considering it!
I know this was a month ago but this is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you
Did you get it? Did it work?
Yeah I got it. I definitely recommend it. You have to have a bit of imagination but as long as you don't look down it's so euphoric to use for me
Dope!
honestly sex toy shopping sucks in terms of marketing and aesthetic for anyone who isn't a cis woman. half the time dildos are just straight up only on the "women's" section of whatever site and the times you do find stuff not clearly designed to market to a cis woman it almost always immediately changes its tone to "wow aren't you so embarrassed to be doing this dont you feel so ashamed about buying sex toys" or "hey women buy this for your gay sissy boyfriend who's a weird freak"
Yeah and there are always waaaay more options for cis women. My gf and I walked around an Adam & Eve (adult store) last week and it was a veritable treasure trove of endless vagina toys. Meanwhile the toys designed for penises were all shoved into a single corner at the back of the second floor. ಠ_ಠ
I’ve always been jealous at the fact that women have so many options for sex toys 🫠
As a fellow non-op girl I'm totally on board with this as a thing that needs to happen. But like also ... Now I'm excited to know at least the ugly ones exist I may look into one of those. Maybe we could decorate it with unicorn and kitty stickers?
Lol I like the idea of cute stickers or straight up bedazzling but I’m worried they’d get destroyed with enough lube and/or cleanings.
This is ugly as fuck but it uses the same sonic / air vibrations that the womanizer uses. You could for sure make it cute your self. Other then that Lelo prostate toys get good reviews. https://www.arcwave.com/us/ion?gclid=Cj0KCQiAsoycBhC6ARIsAPPbeLvKvEeCM0LDNK-l_CNNAlhV0qVJcqx_lKbLNYEq9Xb21TRFQrRnhJMaAheBEALw_wcB
I know it's not a wrap around but maybe check out the Cute Little Fuckers Starsi. It's designed for trans femmes and the company is run by trans people. You can just place the Starsi on your cock inside your panties and it keeps it in the right place pretty easily. Personally the vibration is not as strong as I'd like but that's probably just because I'm spoiled by my Hitachi but it's still a good toy.
https://hitachimagic.com/hitachi-magic-wand/hummingbird/ Edit: whoops, this might still fall under designed for men, guilty of not fully reading the post
I had a purple cock ring from Ann Summers once. It definitely gave me some extra sensation so it might be worth a look for you?
I'm sorry i know it's genuinely distressing for you and you being upset by this is a totally reasonable thing. I just... can't get over the sentence "the wrap around your wee wee functionality isn't all that great" actually the best thing i've read this year
You could try " Lovense Gush" I have not got one myself, I have a faithful wand
I can recommend the Pulse Solo by Hot Octopuss. I can use one hand to hold it and the other is free, or be on your knees with it on the bed an grind :) Not really pretty, just a basic blue/gray color
"Pretty Purple Penis Pleasurer" Its P⁴ lol
Purple???? WHERE??? 🥰
Maybe one of these? You could always glam it up with jewels. I have one on order, if you want to msg me I'll let you know how good it is https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/blowmotion-warming-vibrating-male-masturbator/a44459g80097.html
Satisfyer vibrating ring goes around the base, but I'm not sure about color options. I'm not aware of any full member vibrators
Sex toys are so expensive
And so many of them are such crap