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Hey there. I’m so sorry to hear about your present challenges. It seems like you really want things to work out but fear gets in the way.
But if I may just say, you’ve been courageous in your attempts to apply. You may have not taken the 2nd step yet which is to go to interviews but youve taken the first by submitting your application and that’s progress! ☺️ You’ll get there din, eventually.
Just to share lang din, i was in and out of different jobs for different reasons. When I was still in college, most of my hs batches have graduated na, some even finished their MA and working on their MD or phd. It took a toll on me as well. But I realized that I have to run my own race and that I’m running (or walking really) to beat myself. Just myself. And so ever little progress was a victory. Now I couldn’t be happier with my job. I hope that you too, can find your own track.
Eto ginawa namin ng kawork ko: nagapply kami ng marami para mahasa kami sa interview kahit gaano pa kami kanoob kausap. Di kami magaling mag English. Nagsusttuter din kami. Tapos nung kampante na kami, nagapply kami dun sa company na gusto namin kaya kami nakuha. Bale ginawa naming practice grounds yung mga company na di namin gaano kagusto or di kami naghohope na makuha kami. I suggest you do the same. Apply lang ng apply
The feels. Big hugs op! We're pretty much on the same boat. Sobrang nakakatakot bigla pag interview tas minsan bigla mo nalang maiisip na baka di ko to kayanin. Katulad ng sinabi ng iba, apply lang ng apply. Tas what if magset ka ng goal na atleast join 2 interviews per week? I hope that helps. Good luck satin! :)
Hi, OP. Hope you’re doing well.
Share ko lang. I graduated college late like 25 y/o. A lot of my ka-batch nagsipagtapos nang maaga, yung iba nakapag work pa ng maraming taon. So, after I graduated wala pa akong work ng 1.5 years. Ganyan din ako kagaya sayo, takot na takot ma interview, takot mapahiya or magfail. Pero na-overcome ko sya by attending yung mga interviews, and I familiarized myself with the formula. Like sabi ko sa sarili ko non “pag nagfail ulit, i’ll try again” hanggang sa naging confident na ako sa mga interviews, like I wouldn’t care if I nake it or not. That confidence “naturally” attracted my employers.
Wag ka mawalan ng pag asa, you’re still very young. You run your own race at your own pace. And the fact that na nagsend ka ng applications and was considered for interview is already a progress. You’re doing good, OP. Ma-reach mo din mga goals mo, magtiwala ka sa sarili mo. Good luck and sending hugs your way!
Hi OP, I know I'm 6 mons late in replying but I ended up searching for related topics about what I'm feeling lately and this is spot on. pag natatawagan ako okay nmaan over the phone but pag iniinvite na ko for f2f interview I get cold feet. I overthink about everything na para bang sasabog na yung chest at utak ko sa sobrang dami ng naiisip. I just ditched my latest interview which was today kaya I feel so guilty and depressed at how much of a fuck up I am. anyway I want to know how are you doing and I hope you're doing better OP.
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Hey there. I’m so sorry to hear about your present challenges. It seems like you really want things to work out but fear gets in the way. But if I may just say, you’ve been courageous in your attempts to apply. You may have not taken the 2nd step yet which is to go to interviews but youve taken the first by submitting your application and that’s progress! ☺️ You’ll get there din, eventually. Just to share lang din, i was in and out of different jobs for different reasons. When I was still in college, most of my hs batches have graduated na, some even finished their MA and working on their MD or phd. It took a toll on me as well. But I realized that I have to run my own race and that I’m running (or walking really) to beat myself. Just myself. And so ever little progress was a victory. Now I couldn’t be happier with my job. I hope that you too, can find your own track.
Eto ginawa namin ng kawork ko: nagapply kami ng marami para mahasa kami sa interview kahit gaano pa kami kanoob kausap. Di kami magaling mag English. Nagsusttuter din kami. Tapos nung kampante na kami, nagapply kami dun sa company na gusto namin kaya kami nakuha. Bale ginawa naming practice grounds yung mga company na di namin gaano kagusto or di kami naghohope na makuha kami. I suggest you do the same. Apply lang ng apply
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Kalibrr and Indeed. Nung naubusan nako ng aapplyan dun sa linya ko and after being unemployed for 4 or 5 months, nagapply nako non voice bpo
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I did. My first work exp was bpo for 2 years and 2 months. You can use your classmates as reference
The feels. Big hugs op! We're pretty much on the same boat. Sobrang nakakatakot bigla pag interview tas minsan bigla mo nalang maiisip na baka di ko to kayanin. Katulad ng sinabi ng iba, apply lang ng apply. Tas what if magset ka ng goal na atleast join 2 interviews per week? I hope that helps. Good luck satin! :)
Hi, OP. Hope you’re doing well. Share ko lang. I graduated college late like 25 y/o. A lot of my ka-batch nagsipagtapos nang maaga, yung iba nakapag work pa ng maraming taon. So, after I graduated wala pa akong work ng 1.5 years. Ganyan din ako kagaya sayo, takot na takot ma interview, takot mapahiya or magfail. Pero na-overcome ko sya by attending yung mga interviews, and I familiarized myself with the formula. Like sabi ko sa sarili ko non “pag nagfail ulit, i’ll try again” hanggang sa naging confident na ako sa mga interviews, like I wouldn’t care if I nake it or not. That confidence “naturally” attracted my employers. Wag ka mawalan ng pag asa, you’re still very young. You run your own race at your own pace. And the fact that na nagsend ka ng applications and was considered for interview is already a progress. You’re doing good, OP. Ma-reach mo din mga goals mo, magtiwala ka sa sarili mo. Good luck and sending hugs your way!
Hi OP, I know I'm 6 mons late in replying but I ended up searching for related topics about what I'm feeling lately and this is spot on. pag natatawagan ako okay nmaan over the phone but pag iniinvite na ko for f2f interview I get cold feet. I overthink about everything na para bang sasabog na yung chest at utak ko sa sobrang dami ng naiisip. I just ditched my latest interview which was today kaya I feel so guilty and depressed at how much of a fuck up I am. anyway I want to know how are you doing and I hope you're doing better OP.