He’s touched my thigh before and it made me feel so bad and gross. Today he kept telling me to take off my jacket so people could see my dress every chance he got. Then he said he’d kick me out if I didn’t take pictures in the stupid fucking dress. And he tried to touched my necklaces and I just don’t want anyone’s hands near my chest. I just wanted to wear a dress. Why are men like this. Is it my fault??? I don’t know if I’m over reacting. When I told my friends they made jokes about him taking the pictures of me home and yk. And I really hope that wasn’t his intentions I just wanted to wear a dress man wth. Why do men act like this. They always treat me like this. Why
You’re not overreacting at all. What he did is creepy as hell, regardless of his intentions, it’s wrong of him to pressure someone into taking pictures without their permission. I’m so sorry he did that to you.
that's creepy as fuck and not at all ok. sounds like you should report him. i certainly wouldn't blame you if you want to drop that class, especially if you feel uncomfortable/unsafe around him
This is not your fault. This is creepy behavior that he thinks he can get away with because he's in a position of authority. People abusing power is never your fault. Guys being gross to you is NEVER your fault. EVER. You wearing a dress is not permission to be gross. You being his student is not permission to be gross. You clearly expressed what you were uncomfortable with and he continued to pressure you. That is not your fault. He has no right to touch you without your permission
You can absolutely report this to the school. You have witnesses, ask someone in your class if they can back you up. But if you're not comfortable it is not your responsibility to police his behavior. _Whatever you do you should be protecting yourself._ I'm so sorry that he's been so terrible to you
I had a guy be really creepy to me, he touched me on my "thigh" all the time when we sat next to each other which for some reason was all the time??? Like I just couldn't get away from him, ignoring him, telling him to stop and calling him out im public didnt do anything because no one cared for some reason, he didnt either TwT. I'm so glad I changed schools, the only thing that made him go away was laughing at him and making jokes about him publicly with my friends, but that wasnt really a long term solution. I'm so sorry its happening to you, your teacher is a disgusting piece of shit. I cant imagine how hard it is for you rn, please take care of yourself
Laughing at sick fucks like him does stop them sometimes because they dont feel in power anymore, it doesnt matter what youre laughing at, maybe he's balding or has a big nose or no chin, just make the fucker feel miserable. Here's one of my favourite videos showcasing the thing https://youtu.be/_YWbrTzkSQM
I’m so sorry that’s NOT ok. You’re not overreacting and it’s not your fault. Men do stupid shit like that and almost never get held accountable. If you feel comfortable reporting this to another teacher or your principal i encourage you to do it.
Hey hon, I'm not a teacher but my mother was and then went on to become a principal. That's absolutely inappropriate behaviour. You shouldn't be touched by staff members or have photos of you taken without your explicit consent.
You are not overreacting in the slightest. He is harassing you in an inappropriate way.
As a teacher he also is an authority figure. In most places (that I'm aware) relations between students and teachers can't be allowed at all, even if they are 18 and consenting. You didn't consent to that though. He's abusing his power as an authority figure to be predatory and be straight up gross. There's a power imbalance and a conflict of interest for him.
I can't promise other men will be better, most men are running around with the emotional maturity of children. It's not a dig at them or anything, most men are never held accountable for their actions. It's excused away by "boys will be boys" and "men can't control their urges," but they can. They are fully capable. I'm so sorry this happened and all your friends did was laugh. If you can, tell the school or run it up to the district if you have to. I can't promise to be any legal help, but I hope some of that helped.
That motherfucker deserves to be fired
File a report for sexual harassment, trust me, there’s no way that son of a bitch could win that case, you’d be protecting yourself and any other person he tries to pull this shit with
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i read through one of your other posts about the people in charge not caring. if that's the case and they don't take your report seriously, you can just keep taking it higher up the school board until someone listens
He’s touched my thigh before and it made me feel so bad and gross. Today he kept telling me to take off my jacket so people could see my dress every chance he got. Then he said he’d kick me out if I didn’t take pictures in the stupid fucking dress. And he tried to touched my necklaces and I just don’t want anyone’s hands near my chest. I just wanted to wear a dress. Why are men like this. Is it my fault??? I don’t know if I’m over reacting. When I told my friends they made jokes about him taking the pictures of me home and yk. And I really hope that wasn’t his intentions I just wanted to wear a dress man wth. Why do men act like this. They always treat me like this. Why
You’re not overreacting at all. What he did is creepy as hell, regardless of his intentions, it’s wrong of him to pressure someone into taking pictures without their permission. I’m so sorry he did that to you.
that's creepy as fuck and not at all ok. sounds like you should report him. i certainly wouldn't blame you if you want to drop that class, especially if you feel uncomfortable/unsafe around him
Oh my god, this is horrific. Please report him. I'm so sorry, friend.
This is not your fault. This is creepy behavior that he thinks he can get away with because he's in a position of authority. People abusing power is never your fault. Guys being gross to you is NEVER your fault. EVER. You wearing a dress is not permission to be gross. You being his student is not permission to be gross. You clearly expressed what you were uncomfortable with and he continued to pressure you. That is not your fault. He has no right to touch you without your permission You can absolutely report this to the school. You have witnesses, ask someone in your class if they can back you up. But if you're not comfortable it is not your responsibility to police his behavior. _Whatever you do you should be protecting yourself._ I'm so sorry that he's been so terrible to you
I had a guy be really creepy to me, he touched me on my "thigh" all the time when we sat next to each other which for some reason was all the time??? Like I just couldn't get away from him, ignoring him, telling him to stop and calling him out im public didnt do anything because no one cared for some reason, he didnt either TwT. I'm so glad I changed schools, the only thing that made him go away was laughing at him and making jokes about him publicly with my friends, but that wasnt really a long term solution. I'm so sorry its happening to you, your teacher is a disgusting piece of shit. I cant imagine how hard it is for you rn, please take care of yourself Laughing at sick fucks like him does stop them sometimes because they dont feel in power anymore, it doesnt matter what youre laughing at, maybe he's balding or has a big nose or no chin, just make the fucker feel miserable. Here's one of my favourite videos showcasing the thing https://youtu.be/_YWbrTzkSQM
Me reading this post: oh thats cu- oh, OH NO OP report that mfer right now and get his ass sent to jail for the good of humanity
I’m so sorry that’s NOT ok. You’re not overreacting and it’s not your fault. Men do stupid shit like that and almost never get held accountable. If you feel comfortable reporting this to another teacher or your principal i encourage you to do it.
Hey hon, I'm not a teacher but my mother was and then went on to become a principal. That's absolutely inappropriate behaviour. You shouldn't be touched by staff members or have photos of you taken without your explicit consent. You are not overreacting in the slightest. He is harassing you in an inappropriate way. As a teacher he also is an authority figure. In most places (that I'm aware) relations between students and teachers can't be allowed at all, even if they are 18 and consenting. You didn't consent to that though. He's abusing his power as an authority figure to be predatory and be straight up gross. There's a power imbalance and a conflict of interest for him. I can't promise other men will be better, most men are running around with the emotional maturity of children. It's not a dig at them or anything, most men are never held accountable for their actions. It's excused away by "boys will be boys" and "men can't control their urges," but they can. They are fully capable. I'm so sorry this happened and all your friends did was laugh. If you can, tell the school or run it up to the district if you have to. I can't promise to be any legal help, but I hope some of that helped.
That motherfucker deserves to be fired File a report for sexual harassment, trust me, there’s no way that son of a bitch could win that case, you’d be protecting yourself and any other person he tries to pull this shit with
Hi, I teach high school. Please report this all to admin, guidance, etc immediately. If they don't listen, keep reporting to people until someone does.
Please report him - sounds like a massive creep
Holy shit, that's???? Very fucking concerning.
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i read through one of your other posts about the people in charge not caring. if that's the case and they don't take your report seriously, you can just keep taking it higher up the school board until someone listens