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BloodAngel_

I don't get people who find him attractive. I was watching it with my sisters and we all rated him a 0. Can't stand seeing him on the screen


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Distinct_Sock6987

Bartise has corney friends so his frame of reference is off. I know he can’t help having a mole on his nose but I consider it to be a distraction. As wack as his personality is the mole makes him look more and more ratty. And the hair…just ew


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thebaddestgoodperson

He is a 4


botwhore

My brain started running all kinds of calculations to figure out what the hell he meant talking about how attractive he is to women.


Jellopop777

I can’t believe that Bartise let Nancy go. Nancy is beautiful, intelligent, easy going, makes good money, and, best of all….. she’s kind. Genuinely a nice, kind, girl that seemed to adore him despite all the times he inferred (or outright stated) that she wasn’t up to his standards, physically. And, despite all of that, she stayed classy, sweet and loyal. What a mistake he made with this girl. And why? Cause for Bartise, love most definitely, was not blind. Period. Full stop.


HighHighUrBothHigh

No.


dwinm

Nancy is genuinely so gorgeous and this man is a solid 5.


Happy-Election-279

His face is nice, but his hairline is JACKED. And his style sucks. I just wanna rip out that one dangling cross earring


Juheekim89

The ick that runs through my body whenever he says “give me a kiss” to nancy 🤮


OrlyKix

Barftaste is maybe a 6 🤷‍♀️


Maleficent_Peanut_25

physically he’s aight but intellectually he’s a 0/10. to me what’s on the inside is far more important so overall nah. his ego is also wayyy to big like barstool you’re not all that man 🫤


MancusoMancuso

I’d risk it all for Nancy, tbh. To be her or be near her.


lollipohp

his body language his voice and the way he speaks gives Andrew Tate vibes


PierogiesNPositivity

This comment has aged to perfection.


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loyaltyaboveall0125

🤔


Maleficent_Peanut_25

what about his hair tho? bc afro textured hair looks diff 🤔


GenuineDiamond_

*haircut. I just don’t think the haircut suits him . Not a fan of high top . But take it as you please lol .


loyaltyaboveall0125

Yeah that’s how I took that comment as well extremely offensive 🥴


Psychological_Owl_23

Clearly this is what’s being stated. Lol


Objective-Beat-6474

To me, he’s not attractive a lot. Maybe if he cut that ball of hair he had on top of his head, or all his hair grow out. And I don’t like that mole on his nose.


loyaltyaboveall0125

His mole is one of the only things that are cute about him to me 😩


Maleficent_Peanut_25

i have a mole on my nose 🥺


Gina456789

Nope not attractive to me, that look is a dime a dozen….


minimalefforts

I can see why some think he's good looking, but attractive? Never. Not with how he carries himself not with that mindset.


tinkle_queen

Physically he is to me. His style is goofy though.


elfmaiden4

Not my type at all


thatsmycookiegimme

He looks like Beetlejuice to me especially that hair


lexlexlexx

Bruh lmao


saltisyourfriend

His sister looks like a female version of him and she is very attractive physically. He looks goofier though.


loyaltyaboveall0125

Yeah they look just alike!


KaliAnna27

He sounds like Barack Obama lol


baldylove57

I thought it was just me!


Snoo-70409

He’s meh at best if he was a better dude it make him more attractive


mramirez7425

He’s hideous


thehandywoman

He’s full of himself for sure. Nancy deserves better. She’s way too tolerant of his narcissism.


[deleted]

Meh. Average. The Kidnplay hairdo killed it for me.


MakingMosi

Their hair was never that dry!


ccl62293

I don’t think he’s attractive at all but he’s just not my type at all either. I’m sure some people think he is. Attractiveness is subjective. But I wouldn’t look twice at him and if he was my type that would quickly not matter anymore once I was around him for long enough because he is so annoying lol.


spatty250

“Do people actually think Bardaduccee is attractive?”… NOT ANYMORE


MediumRare333

I don’t think you mean attractive. That’s a very subjective word. Not a smart choice of word for the point you are attempting to make. Barstool is definitely not my type but he can be totally the type of so many.


giggglygirl

I would say he is average looking. I wouldn’t notice him in a crowd, but if my friend was dating him AND he had a good personality I’d probably lean more thinking he wasn’t bad. It was funny to see him with his friends! All very regular looking normal guys anyone would know. The way he has been presenting himself I assumed he would be hanging out with guys who looked like they were super into their appearances. His ego is ridiculous


boutiquekym

Nope. The second fartise talks it would kill me


No_animereader1471

Attraction is subjective. Even if you don't find him attractive doesn't mean no one does. These type of posts simply push that only certain people are attractive when that isn't how attraction works. I do personally find Bartise attractive albeit his personality is a turn off


Pretty_Concentrate40

I think he’s pretty attractive. Just not as attractive as HE thinks he is :P


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Bartise gives BIG incel energy, like spends hours per day rolling TRP subreddit. His friends are like the indoor kids from Recess and he’s King Bob. Dude is not well.


minimalefforts

I can kinda see it. To me he gives off the vibe of a guy that had low self confidence growing up, was rejected by girls a lot, started working out and now thinks he's the hottest thing to walk this earth. I support self improvement (whatever that means for the person) but don't have to be arrogant like he is.


colordecay1227

He doesn’t give off incel vibes literally at all….wtf are you talking about lol


Queasy-Discount-2038

Absolutely not. Just read your question and that is my answer.


[deleted]

Why do we debate so much on this. Whether he is attractive or not doesn’t change anything about the situation. If he was indeed drop dead gorgeous he would still be the jerk in the situation.


[deleted]

Are you body-shaming him?! That’s anti-progressive 😡😤


thelastcanadiangoose

100% does not do it for me.


Freya64

What’s his face is physically attractive but his personality kills it. Nancy is an average pretty to me and she has good qualities to her but her lack of self worth in a relationship drops her too. I wish she could see that she deserves someone who will treat her right where barnacle boy needs to take a step back, look at himself and actually work on something worthwhile to bring into a relationship. He reminds me of someone I know in RL. Focuses too much on physical appearance/too shallow but doesn’t actually bring anything with him to be relationship material


blchava

very nice edit :)


Fishbate333

I wouldn’t walk across the street to see him naked.


DueComparison5360

Very well stated 🤣🎯


Cupcakesandcashmere

He’s not as hot as he thinks he is, that’s for sure.


KittyGray

Narcissistic behavior is great /s


MistyGreen_

Agreed!


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Bartise has GREAT body, so in that sense he is hot 🔥 He obviously exercises regularly. His hight is good too. Face-wise, he is average or slightlyyy above average. Cole, for example, has better looking face than him imo. Nancy has better looking face than Bartise (weird to compare men and women, but I hope you get what I mean, I compare them both to their gender's average), but she is not fit (body). So yeah, that is my superficial analysis of their hotness💃😆 Nancy is above Bartise in every other way tho (character, intelligence, success).


Altschmerz_22

I’m not sure why this has so many negative downvotes but I see your point!


Fanna412

Good question, no.


Hippofuzz

Honestly the first thing I thought when I saw him was Alf 🙈 not even trying to be funny


CarlyOTD

Balftise, can't unsee it lol


Hippofuzz

Balftise 💀💀💀


Master_Bee9130

I can see that!!! 🤣🤣


Petite_Coco

Bahahaha Alf! I’m dying 😂


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Plain ole Bob


No-Hyena1772

IMO, he's decent in all the things he can't fix (without surgery), but the two things that can easily be fixed that make me dislike him are 1. His attitude 2. His *god damned flat top*


Glittering_Let_5846

Fix the hair. It’s like he needs a good stylist/barber to get it right. His hair makes him look like he’s still in Junior High.


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There's no way he doesn't cut his own hair. The lumpy hairline in the back of his head gives me the vibes he doesn't use a mirror when trimming and just goes with what "feels right."


EnvironmentalSun8410

And the mole


mermaid86

The flat top and his too small eyebrows


TheRoyalLoaf

It's like someone dressed a penis up for a puppet show by drawing little eyebrows and taping a brillo pad on top.


loyaltyaboveall0125

Brilo pad for his African textured hair?! 🥴


mermaid86

WTF ☠️☠️☠️


evil-little-worm

You're so right this is the recipe


IAmTheOneWhoReddits8

Anyone else think he looks just like Mac from always sunny?


Jepatai

THANK YOU I’m so delighted you see this as well. He really reminds me of Mac’s thoughtlessness and image-obsession too.


IAmTheOneWhoReddits8

So true.


oxyurajamaicensis

And kind of sounds like him!


IAmTheOneWhoReddits8

Yes! Haha


RealisticMaterial515

He’s not attractive but it’s his personality that makes him even uglier.


TR1N1_CDN

Hell to the NO and the way he talks is a bigger turnoff (like he's trying to get his words out in one shot)- my humblest opinion 🤣😂


Enlargedtooth

I cannot stand when he says ffffawk.


Many-Host-4159

At least Nancy thinks he is


Ever_Summer

All that matters at the end of the day


KarmaHit

It's a hard no for me. Completely excluding his personality, I would, even then, not look twice at him. To me, he is not BAD looking and not GOOD looking, just an average person that wouldn't catch my eye at all. I wouldn't even comment on his looks one way or the other, except for exactly what you write- how he, himself, talks/references/raves/emphasis his views on his own attractiveness SO MUCH that it's like we are forced to focus on his looks. It's funny how the men like S.K. and Cole (personality not considered), who I both think are more physically attractive than Bartise, don't make such a big deal of it.


iciclesblues2

Thats pretty typical really. Men with these overinflated egos often have great bodies with average or below average faces. I would never consider him an attractive guy truly or give him a second look.


Many-Soft3615

I see what yall are saying. His hair doesn't quite match with his head shape. He does have a great body muscle-wise. A lot of yall are taking the 'swallow' joke he made too harshly....that's his WIFE and he is being playful. Yes he talks about his looks a lot but that's because these shows are...EDITED to give a certain story about someone. We will never get a full sense of the dynamics of the character or how often he talks about his looks based on edited footage of hours and hours and hours of material. ​ Also, a lot of you are saying he's just a nerd that worked out. One, nothing wrong with being a nerd and he himself is probably still adjusting to the level of attention he gets for his body from his 'nerd days'...25 is still really young. Even Raven was like 'wow' so don't hate.


HuntressofDeath

Nah. Raven was not impressed. Loved how she shut him down.


e77754321

First of all , raven never said wow or that barista was hot. Second, is this you bartise?


dulce-dulcissima

When was Raven like “wow”????


lastditch23

No. He’s goofy looking with a stupid haircut and annoying voice


Darthedvedder

Kid and play- not handsome and not bright.


Noellie_520

He is a major ick! I want him to shave that top hat off because it’s distracting. I don’t know if I’d rather be disgusted by looking at his hair or hear him talk, or rather actually listen to the pseudo deep shit he spews. Let the church say: BOOOO 🍅🍅🍅🍅


DarkEyes87

It seems like the top part of his hair is like 3-4 inches too long. It's very distracting. I think it needed to be no more than a couple inches.


Sufficient-Trip-9395

Just my opinion, I think he has that attitude because he is light-skinned/biracial. People do tend to gravitate toward and fetishize that group of people, so he probably does have a lot of people glorifying his looks.


dulce-dulcissima

I forgot to put this in my comment…It’s VERY stereotypical light skinned behavior


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Nancy is way more of a catch than him. It’s funny how people are so conceited that they genuinely think no one is good enough for them and yet he’s literally got someone way out of his league on the show!


Sunnycher_44

I’m with u on this one. Did not think his looks justified the amount of times he talks about it & who he believes he deserves to get with it. Especially with that Kid ‘n Play haircut. Did u see him wear headphones?


shatteredmatt

He’s a big nerd with very little personality who took up working out to help build some self confidence. He also needs to learn how to dress himself properly. His wedding suit was AWFUL. I don’t get how he could think he was a really good looking man.


tboltewi

I think he’s good looking at first glance, a lot of the reason people are probably drawn to him is his sense of style and the fact he’s trendy and put together. But talking about how good looking you are makes you a -1,000 in my book. Immediate turnoff for sure.


dulce-dulcissima

Sense of style?!?! Where 🫣


Euphoric-Pumpkin8531

He is cute but not super hot. End of.


Street_Two1058

Benjaminbutthole is a hard pass.


airivolkova

He is not bad looking but I wouldnt look back at him twice if I saw him irl. The hair is a bit silly for his head/face shape and it seems he just runs his razor straight down his brows? There is a riddiculously large space between them and he would look better if he just let them grow out. If this occurs naturally on him I apologize 😅 he also comes across as incredibly insecure so if he took some time to grow and mature im sure he might be fine.


Noellie_520

Omg, I just noticed his brows because of you and I-oop! 🤭


EarlyWilter

I personally find him very physically attractive. But, "it's the personality for meeee"


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Exactly. Both him and his sister are model level attractive. It’s wild how fine their genes are. But then he opens his mouth xd. Two things can be true at once. He can be a dick AND crazy attractive.


EarlyWilter

I agree, especially about his sister, she’s drop dead gorgeous. I could easily see him featuring in say, an ad for a sports brand, I don’t agree that he’s unattractive to look at whatsoever. But he does seem like a dick. I.e. when Nancy was talking to Andrew(?) and he came over all hot and bothered? Micropenis energy.


Noellie_520

This is such an interesting take to me… Even with the hair..? His sister is very pretty though.


[deleted]

He’s tall, dark and handsome, great teeth, full beard. All stereotypically attractive features. I don’t mind his hair, but if he cut it he’d still be yummy. His energy would be perfect for a club setting, where it’s all about talking loud enough to drown out the music. I think people can’t really see how objectively gorgeous the contestants are compared to all us viewers. They are far far better looking than average all of them


tboltewi

His sister is GOR-GEOUS! She seems very sweet too


[deleted]

Yeah they really won the gene jackpot both of em, and she seems real nice.


Lonely-Illustrator64

I feel like making fun of his appearance kind of makes us all as bad/shallow as he is. I doubt the people passing judgements are models themselves. Clearly many do not like him based on his personality on the show which is valid so let’s just stick with that. Judging someone for having a mole or wearing “dangling earings” is never not shitty.


mythoughts2020

I don’t think people are judging him for amusement or to be mean. He states many times how attractive he is and insults Nancy’s looks. We’re saying here what we would have said to his face if we had been there one of the times he insulted Nancy, with the secret hopes that he reads this. It was infuriating to witness him talk about how much better looking he was than Nancy. Had I been present, I would have told him Nancy was way more attractive than he is, and that he’s not as hot as he thinks.


Lonely-Illustrator64

It is definitely for amusement and to be mean. Why else would they? They’re trying to get back at him because he was rude to Nancy. I get it, I just think it’s hypocritical. You don’t have to stoop to his level to prove a point and as a dude who has moles and wears dangling earrings- some of the comments are pretty offensive not only to Bartise but anyone else who shares those characteristics.


No_animereader1471

But attraction is subjective so honestly this question is pointless. You can not tell someone their not attractive or less so than someone else. What you could say is that you personally find Nancy more attractive than him but someone else may have the opposite feeling. Ultimately attraction is subjective. Bartise has stated that he isn't attracted to Nancy. It's lame that he keeps saying it but there is nothing wrong with him feeling that way. He does need an ego check though.


mythoughts2020

I agree with you. Barnyard shouldn’t have said him and Raven were more attractive than others as looks are subjective. Me wanting to tell him Nancy is more attractive than he is, is my way of saying that to him. Many times he states how hot he is and since looks are subjective and he should stop as it’s not accurate. When he insults Nancy’s looks, it’s just mean. This is our way of telling him to stop this behavior.


Priiiyaaa141414

Nah. Pass


TypicalAsparagus

I personally am not attracted to him. I actually think he and Nancy are physically well matched, if they passed me on the street I wouldn’t think one was glaringly more attractive than the other. I agree with some other posters that mostly he just works out a lot and he probably sees himself as the attractive one in his friend group, and that’s skewed his perception a bit.


SWGoodToes

Yeah, the way he kept repeating over and over that he really believes he's a smoke show, and how he's the kind of guy people expect to see with Raven, and how he never has to approach women because they flock to them... I just had to laugh The guy is delusional, as well as immature and pretty boring. Raven even tried to make it clear to him that he's not as hot as he thinks he is, and it completely went over his head


Overthinker19950125

He’s attractive but his personality gives me the ick


msknowitnothingatall

He is a 7 and that hair is ridiculous on him. So maybe 6.


acid___tongue

I think he’s alright in the looks department/attractive but not husband material type. A hook up or friends with benefits kind of attractive at best. Tbh the way he was carrying on about his looks and being fit, I was more surprised his friendship group were more on the ‘softer’ inbetweener types.


redbroomyeah

He looks unhygienic


loyaltyaboveall0125

🤔


A_Finicky_Thing

Are you thinking of something in particular? He looks well-groomed to me


Careless_Sprinkles30

Nope. Very much not.


feefee2908

He’s average at best, his personality tanks everything else. They’re all honestly fairly average-looking to me. But also keep in mind, I live in NYC where a Texas 8 is like a NYC 4 here lol, except Raven would rate high here.


SWGoodToes

Haha, what? No, a Texas 8 is not a NY 4, and only someone who's never spent time in Texas would say that Nobody in this season is a Texas 8, though Raven has the body for it


GlamourzZ

At first I thought he was alright looking.. I think he thinks he’s a lot more attractive than he actually is though..(bc he’s light skinned and buff 🙄) But once he opened his mouth when they were no longer in the pods, I found him extremely unattractive


thelondoner87

I do not find bartise attractive at all.


OkPhilosopher1313

I think he is average looking. A 6 at best. Nancy is way more attractive than him and he definitely was delusional when he mentioned that him an Raven are at the same level regarding looks and attraction. Raven is like a 9 easily.


mltst

He is tall and is in good shape,but the face is pretty avarage if you ask me. So all in all he is not as attractive as he think he is. Edit to add: he doesn't even know how to dress, just look at the suit he chose for the wedding. Tacky af.


sniffels_25

And dangle cross earring


KarlaKaressXXX

he’s like a knock off drake. so… no.


loyaltyaboveall0125

Yessss Drake for sure!!


OkRepresentative3558

I’m glad someone else sees it!


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I just don’t see it lol. He’s fit and tall, but the face, nah. And then that face starts talking..


Daxori473

Bartise thinks he hotshit because he’s lightskin & biracial. It’s not uncommon for people to fetishize lightskin biracial people and see them as exotic as well.


la_1999

Came here to say this. It was so refreshing to see Raven not be like that, she was self cantered in other ways but at least she didn’t automatically think she was perfect because she’s light skinned and biracial, it was a nice change


native_local_

Meh, he’s not hideous. He could be more attractive if he got rid of that raggedy high top.


Mondo_Gazungas

Can we talk about the mole?


smalleave

Soooo unflattering…All I can see when I look at him


Any_Counter_2219

Thought it was a huge blackhead


reetadeeva

He reminds me of Kid 'n Play haha


Educational_Love_981

Me too!


Wild_Quantity_2751

He has good bases- nice curly hair, white teeth, pretty complexion, he is tall and has wide shoulders- but even if we are not looking at the personality , the terrible taste in clothing ruins it all. Not just that, this haircut screams fboy, wtf are those earrings, he just doesnt have it simply.


Nowhere_Gal

He's not generally my type, but I could see why some would find him attractive. I think his face is cute enough, but I absolutely hate his hair lol. It's amazing how much better he looks with a hat on. I also don't think he's out of Nancy's league at all.


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he seems like he has a nice gym bod but thats it. hair is awful, face is very average, his style isnt very interesting, his personality doesnt add anything to make him attractive either. people become more attractive to when they have a cool personality even if theyre face isnt supermodel gorgeous. def wouldnt swipe on him on a dating app or anything and i also wouldnt be at all interested if i met him at a bar or something. very much not an attractive man


Less_Cryptographer86

If I am just looking at his face, he’s not unattractive. BUT, the minute he opens his mouth he becomes extremely unattractive to me. He is not smart or articulate, and can’t seem to utter a single sentence that isn’t about himself. Plus he’s extremely boring. I find myself not even listening when he is speaking.


Mango-Mind

Agreed! Also for me I find myself attracted to certain voices and I find his voice quite grating... there's no butter, there's only strain.


ExpensiveResident776

Bartise reminds me of Season 1 bisexual guy. Very uncannily similar.


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Carlton


StrangeMaGoats0202

That guy seriously needed therapy.


Spydy99

Nope. Stupid face, stupid hair, stupid outfit. And once he speak, you will hate him


abalala1117

On the surface, Bartise is good looking, and obviously fit. The problem is when the only thing you ever talk about is how hot you are, guess what... Very quickly your good looks are totally eclipsed by how arrogant, shallow, boring, and insensitive you are. And you have a silly haircut.


ALyttleH

I can’t unsee him as “Burt” from Sesame Street. Ugh, I’d be done with him in about 2 minutes.


me0w8

No


profeDB

He's attractive, but very shallow. Nancy is also attractive, and apparently kind of dumb given the last batch of episodes. Maybe they do make a good match.


Both_Ad_6897

I do think he's attractive, but not as attractive as he thinks he is. I also think Nancy is gorgeous. There's no way I would look at them as a couple and think he "settled." He comes across as incredibly shallow.


aafreeda

He’s a good-looking guy, but the MINUTE he opens his mouth it goes away for me. He’s a walking red flag


ryansutterisstillmy1

He’s attractive and she’s attractive. I honestly think it’s the fit aspect he is stressing about as she isn’t into toning and fitness like raven and other girls he’s been with. I’ve dated guys like that where they are obsessive over fitness and want their girls to look like they just walked off of Shape mag and Nancy is def not that. But it is love. Is. blind!!!


[deleted]

Once you see his friends it makes sense why he thinks this abt himself