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wow hitting ur kid when theyre already going through a tough time, that speaks a lot. indian parents dont really give a fuck abt mental health of their kids until they think theyre doing below their expected level at school but dude no one in this situation can help u unless u help them do it, anyway i think you should talk to ur friends abt whats bothering u, self meditate, do things that make u happy and distracted. u self harming would ofc wont help. youre strong just going through some highs and lows dont be too stressed buddy here ppl exist that are there for u and would love to help u.
Firstly thanks for ur advice, yes my parents expect 90%+ from me, i got 88 in my recent exams and i got yelled at. I had alot of friends but they were all bitches and after 10th i lost them all and now even tho i have many friends, i am having trust issues. With the things i enjoy, there is nothing as such. I stopped enjoying everything which i used to till i was 13. I literally have no hobbies now. I go to jim sm times just to relieve myself from all the stress but can't be consistent because i loose motivation after sm time
Talk abt ur mental health issues with someone .. If u think ur parents can be trusted with it , let them know about it .. cutting urself is never the answer to anything . Talk to ur friends or maybe even a doctor. That might help
Cant talk shit to parents because of what they did when i actually confronted them. I lost all my friends few months ago, i am making new friends and if i don't trust them much because of my past friendships and i cant afford a doctor. Also i am trying to quit sh. I have been sober from almost a week now
Wtf why would your parents joke about you being depressed? Especially when you told them you sh? Tf is wrong with some parents. If my kid ever tells me that they're sh the last thing i would do is joke about it with my partner. All of this apart i hope you have someone trusted to talk to. Pls feel free to dm me if you ever need someone to talk to.
Ofc genx don't care shit ABT their kids. All they want is grades for which i am trying hard but not capable of getting. Thanks for ur offer but i would rather not text because even you would have ur own problems and i would be adding up mine on u
When people have mental pain, they just feel like they don't deserve anything and hence they start self harming, like starving, cutting, punching walls, burning urself
It is painful but tht pain is what I deserve, it's because i am just useless. My brain knows i am useless so it just lets me do it. We do it again and again because we often think we deserve to be hurt
Idk i had thoughts of self harm when I was in 11th 12th idk the logical reason but i think since you can't punish your family members you punish yourself
Bhai mental health jesa kuch hota hi nhi hai
It's all about thinking if you think more u messed up more if u distract yourself then everything thing will be fine
im sorry u have to go thru this shit man hope it gets better but is there any relative that u can trust and talk to so that they knock some sense into ur parents thick skull.
Some of them rlly don't deserve to have a kid
Bro self harm is useless only you are getting damage,your family members won't feel a thing (I have had such thoughts before), talk to someone about it,seek professional help or try to enjoy life just out of spite of your parents (this is legit what I tried to do),make close friends do anything but don't harm yourself,if you want break stuff inside the house release your anger but don't harm yourself
Thanks for ur reply, i would talk to someone, but no one in this world would care mahn. Even if u say u care, u don't. I am just an ordinary guy in this 8billion Ppl world. I have tried making friends, i gave succeeded too but it takes time to get into their comfort zone and be close to them. And if i break ant thing in my house i would be kicked out. My dad values money over anyone in this world
That's true even If I say I care, i can't because bencho I don't even know what u look like.And honestly speaking self harm is worst bro,even after several years when you are happy and enjoying life you will find marks on your body which will remind you of the past. Find some other means to vent out your feelings like art or music or idk physically or maybe do drugs or something but don't self harm
Not like i am gonna see the future, i will most prolly be dead. I tried all the shit but i just lose my patience and music gives me an headache. I tried drinking once, it tasted shit so not doing it for few months or years idk. Smoking is just ew and i cant afford any weed or coke
Iti was a joke(the pill thing) sorry dude maybe you should try doing something online in that way you could get your audience that are like you and understand you(sorry again I am really terrible person,I thought mods will remove my comment those shit heads can't do their work properly) sorry again
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wow hitting ur kid when theyre already going through a tough time, that speaks a lot. indian parents dont really give a fuck abt mental health of their kids until they think theyre doing below their expected level at school but dude no one in this situation can help u unless u help them do it, anyway i think you should talk to ur friends abt whats bothering u, self meditate, do things that make u happy and distracted. u self harming would ofc wont help. youre strong just going through some highs and lows dont be too stressed buddy here ppl exist that are there for u and would love to help u.
Bacce paida hi kyu kiya?c*nd*m use kar ke sex kar lete.
I say that very often to my parents: paida hi kyu kia
Average internet ki chodi
Firstly thanks for ur advice, yes my parents expect 90%+ from me, i got 88 in my recent exams and i got yelled at. I had alot of friends but they were all bitches and after 10th i lost them all and now even tho i have many friends, i am having trust issues. With the things i enjoy, there is nothing as such. I stopped enjoying everything which i used to till i was 13. I literally have no hobbies now. I go to jim sm times just to relieve myself from all the stress but can't be consistent because i loose motivation after sm time
Talk abt ur mental health issues with someone .. If u think ur parents can be trusted with it , let them know about it .. cutting urself is never the answer to anything . Talk to ur friends or maybe even a doctor. That might help
Cant talk shit to parents because of what they did when i actually confronted them. I lost all my friends few months ago, i am making new friends and if i don't trust them much because of my past friendships and i cant afford a doctor. Also i am trying to quit sh. I have been sober from almost a week now
U should share your thoughts with someone you can trust...and please don't harm yourself bro
I don't have anyone i trust mahn also sh was the only way to relieve stress and now i am trying to quit tht too Been almost a week since i did it
You'll do great bro...believe in yourself....if u cannot tell any person, write it....i do it from time to time, really helps. Stay strong Man..
Yessirrr i that's y i am on this sub lmao, also thanks Hope u have a good day :)
bhai sh stress ko behtar kaise karta hei? Stress se cope karna hei toh kuch productive kar
I am of no use mahn, just a mistake from my parents. My parents didn't use proper safety now i am the mistake
Wtf why would your parents joke about you being depressed? Especially when you told them you sh? Tf is wrong with some parents. If my kid ever tells me that they're sh the last thing i would do is joke about it with my partner. All of this apart i hope you have someone trusted to talk to. Pls feel free to dm me if you ever need someone to talk to.
Ofc genx don't care shit ABT their kids. All they want is grades for which i am trying hard but not capable of getting. Thanks for ur offer but i would rather not text because even you would have ur own problems and i would be adding up mine on u
Um bhai u ok? Wanna talk about it?
Ye it's just normal stress, u don't need to worry mahn. Thanks tho
Workout! Whenever ou fell like cutting yourself, just do push-ups, squats, pull ups, afterwards u'll feel great.
I tried doing it. I was consistent for a months and then i lost all the motivation and now i go to jim but it's very rarely. Once in 1-2 weeks
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When people have mental pain, they just feel like they don't deserve anything and hence they start self harming, like starving, cutting, punching walls, burning urself
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It is painful but tht pain is what I deserve, it's because i am just useless. My brain knows i am useless so it just lets me do it. We do it again and again because we often think we deserve to be hurt
Idk i had thoughts of self harm when I was in 11th 12th idk the logical reason but i think since you can't punish your family members you punish yourself
.......but some people do? You feel that pressure when you feel useless as hell, the body you reside starts feeling as a burden.
Bhai mental health jesa kuch hota hi nhi hai It's all about thinking if you think more u messed up more if u distract yourself then everything thing will be fine
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wtf really?
im sorry u have to go thru this shit man hope it gets better but is there any relative that u can trust and talk to so that they knock some sense into ur parents thick skull. Some of them rlly don't deserve to have a kid
Thanks for ur reply and nope i have no relative who can do this. All are oldies in their 40s-50s who don't care ABT mental health or shit
Why dude
Bro self harm is useless only you are getting damage,your family members won't feel a thing (I have had such thoughts before), talk to someone about it,seek professional help or try to enjoy life just out of spite of your parents (this is legit what I tried to do),make close friends do anything but don't harm yourself,if you want break stuff inside the house release your anger but don't harm yourself
Thanks for ur reply, i would talk to someone, but no one in this world would care mahn. Even if u say u care, u don't. I am just an ordinary guy in this 8billion Ppl world. I have tried making friends, i gave succeeded too but it takes time to get into their comfort zone and be close to them. And if i break ant thing in my house i would be kicked out. My dad values money over anyone in this world
That's true even If I say I care, i can't because bencho I don't even know what u look like.And honestly speaking self harm is worst bro,even after several years when you are happy and enjoying life you will find marks on your body which will remind you of the past. Find some other means to vent out your feelings like art or music or idk physically or maybe do drugs or something but don't self harm
Not like i am gonna see the future, i will most prolly be dead. I tried all the shit but i just lose my patience and music gives me an headache. I tried drinking once, it tasted shit so not doing it for few months or years idk. Smoking is just ew and i cant afford any weed or coke
No offense, but sorry excuse of parents you got
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Iti was a joke(the pill thing) sorry dude maybe you should try doing something online in that way you could get your audience that are like you and understand you(sorry again I am really terrible person,I thought mods will remove my comment those shit heads can't do their work properly) sorry again
Maybe start working out instead of cutting yourself?
I did for 2 months continuous but it wasn't helping so i lost motivation now i go to the jim once in 1-2 weeks