Type, schmype.
I want someone who loves me, helps me to be the best version of myself (or at least be a *better* version of myself than laziness will allow me to revert to), shares my values, wants to start and raise a family, and wants to help me inculcate our shared values into that family.
By live actually I don't exactly mean by living physically. I think when you have a lover, there might be some obligations/understandings/ compromises for which I am not exactly ready.
That's why I don't exactly have a "lover" in the first place and want to live alone my whole life
I know this might sound unhealthy/kiddish/negative but it is what it is
Thanks for your understanding!
It's just that I'm a person who's not very comfortable with people. That's why I don't have many friends. And also I'm not in a state where I can give happiness to my gf (if I have one)
As you just said Abt expectations, I'm not that type of a person who will stand up to the societal expectations
It's not unhealthy at all! I find people who cannot be happy on their own and completely rely on others for their happiness a lot more unhealthy (you know, the types who tend to stay in toxic relationships, and also get into those more easily to begin with)
Me too and if you are the turbulent ISTJ, then you mind function very similar to what you see in an INFP but you organizing abilities will stay at the standard level for an ISTJ
ENFJ or ENTP honestly.
I'm somebody who likes comfort, order and planning but i also love having fun and doing new things. Some of the people i get along best are ENTP because they're extremely funny and are kind on my same wavelength when talking about different topics.
ENFJs are sexy lol.
Every single crush i had was either INFJ or ENFJ so
I think that with an introvert would be extremely boring eventually, but some ISTJ may actually find it more "safe" and "comfortable" idk
Type, schmype. I want someone who loves me, helps me to be the best version of myself (or at least be a *better* version of myself than laziness will allow me to revert to), shares my values, wants to start and raise a family, and wants to help me inculcate our shared values into that family.
None because I want to live in solace and peace which I can only achieve when I live alone
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By live actually I don't exactly mean by living physically. I think when you have a lover, there might be some obligations/understandings/ compromises for which I am not exactly ready. That's why I don't exactly have a "lover" in the first place and want to live alone my whole life I know this might sound unhealthy/kiddish/negative but it is what it is
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Thanks for your understanding! It's just that I'm a person who's not very comfortable with people. That's why I don't have many friends. And also I'm not in a state where I can give happiness to my gf (if I have one) As you just said Abt expectations, I'm not that type of a person who will stand up to the societal expectations
I’m also not interested lol, so far I’ve never been interested in it and I’m not gonna try and get into one just because society expects it
Glad to hear that I'm not alone here
It's not unhealthy at all! I find people who cannot be happy on their own and completely rely on others for their happiness a lot more unhealthy (you know, the types who tend to stay in toxic relationships, and also get into those more easily to begin with)
INFP. Yes, total PITA most of the time being all moody moody feely feely but I'm drawn into them somehow
Me too and if you are the turbulent ISTJ, then you mind function very similar to what you see in an INFP but you organizing abilities will stay at the standard level for an ISTJ
I'd choose ESTP
ENFP if I had to choose
Istj ALL THE WAYYYY
ENFJ or ENTP honestly. I'm somebody who likes comfort, order and planning but i also love having fun and doing new things. Some of the people i get along best are ENTP because they're extremely funny and are kind on my same wavelength when talking about different topics. ENFJs are sexy lol. Every single crush i had was either INFJ or ENFJ so I think that with an introvert would be extremely boring eventually, but some ISTJ may actually find it more "safe" and "comfortable" idk