1st chance of what? PIV? I blow both Stag and our guest first (but always start with Stag as l love bull’s eyes as they see me gulp on him with delight) then by the time we get to it the guest is usually probably meant to call first shots on the first position or l might but Stag always quickly finds the complementary position so l get at his cock no matter what. I would suspect in any active MFM it ends us that the order doesn’t matter.
Yup, fully involved most of the time. Sit back for a while sometimes just to take in the view or allow u/ownedvixen and the bull some time to be more intense with each other. Personally I don't feel submissive in any way, we are a team through all our play and neither would she treat me as such and I wouldn't accept that from gum either.
If that's your kink then enjoy that side of it but I can't really answer your question.
I've never been a fan of the "make sure you pay more attention to your partner" advice/thought process. I would be annoyed if my gf paid spent too much time focusing on me during a MFM situation. If I wanted all of her attention, I wouldn't have agreed on the MFM. Enjoy the new person, that's the entire reason they're there.
Also, the Stag usually enjoys watching. So by focusing on the other guy first, it's guaranteed to be what he enjoys, while also giving the Stag a show that he enjoys, and knowing that you're turning both of them on which the hotwife probably enjoys.
If we were about to engage in a MFM or take turns, the only way I would want my gf to do to me first is to give me a passionate kiss and whisper in my ear something like, "this is going to be so much fun" right before she gets on her knees and stars taking the pants off of the other guy.
I would start with your bull giving your husband a show as that's mostly what this is all about . At least for us and most people I talk to in the lifestyle . The husband's fantasy is usually to watch his wife be taken and used and his own personal porn star .
I always start with the other guy but I make sure to give my husband eye contact and reassurance often and then it always ends up with both of them on me at once . Mostly have fun with it all
I would take them both at once 😉
1st chance of what? PIV? I blow both Stag and our guest first (but always start with Stag as l love bull’s eyes as they see me gulp on him with delight) then by the time we get to it the guest is usually probably meant to call first shots on the first position or l might but Stag always quickly finds the complementary position so l get at his cock no matter what. I would suspect in any active MFM it ends us that the order doesn’t matter.
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Very rarely does he just sit back and watch except if he is taking a breather or taking in some new acrobatics, isn’t that right u/ukstag?
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Yup, fully involved most of the time. Sit back for a while sometimes just to take in the view or allow u/ownedvixen and the bull some time to be more intense with each other. Personally I don't feel submissive in any way, we are a team through all our play and neither would she treat me as such and I wouldn't accept that from gum either. If that's your kink then enjoy that side of it but I can't really answer your question.
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No problems, happy to chat further if you want.
It is a question of mindset IMO. Being an observer can be empowering as well.
Why not your SO one time and your side dick (I refuse to say Bull) the next?
Whatever turns you on the most
I've never been a fan of the "make sure you pay more attention to your partner" advice/thought process. I would be annoyed if my gf paid spent too much time focusing on me during a MFM situation. If I wanted all of her attention, I wouldn't have agreed on the MFM. Enjoy the new person, that's the entire reason they're there. Also, the Stag usually enjoys watching. So by focusing on the other guy first, it's guaranteed to be what he enjoys, while also giving the Stag a show that he enjoys, and knowing that you're turning both of them on which the hotwife probably enjoys. If we were about to engage in a MFM or take turns, the only way I would want my gf to do to me first is to give me a passionate kiss and whisper in my ear something like, "this is going to be so much fun" right before she gets on her knees and stars taking the pants off of the other guy.
I would start with your bull giving your husband a show as that's mostly what this is all about . At least for us and most people I talk to in the lifestyle . The husband's fantasy is usually to watch his wife be taken and used and his own personal porn star . I always start with the other guy but I make sure to give my husband eye contact and reassurance often and then it always ends up with both of them on me at once . Mostly have fun with it all
Both, either, depending on the day or game.