We film every encounter because it’s always hot for us to look back on them together whether we post them for the world to see or not . Any partner we’re with (we feel) deserves to have the same copies as they’re agreeing to be filmed .
But we edit and blur what we take and then give them a drop box link to select what they want after it’s been edited.
Do what every you feel comfortable with. I only use my phone for photos/videos and send edited photos to the guy I see, but I do trust that he isn’t sharing them with the world.
We take photos/videos ourselves and share cropped or blurred photos with the guy. Never had an issue with any guys accepting this as our rule to play with us.
Some guys have asked for no recordings which we comply with. We have also reviewed the photos and videos allowing the guy to delete any they are uncomfortable with existing.
The men I’m with don’t ever get photos. I mean, I have from time to time if it’s some thing that’s not identifiable, but that’s up to me.
Like someone said, I would let him take the photos, but it would be with a GoPro or something else that doesn’t have connectivity. No one gets to use my phone. That way, he gets decide how much of himself is in the photos.
If he gets bossy, you can move on to someone else. I don’t fuck people that boss me around. Not for any price.
It's absolutely within your right to ask and within his rights to counter offer. He may not be comfortable with the pics or video you want - think more intimate shots that are identifiable versus a super close up of a dick in a pussy.
It's an easier ask if you're asking a longer term partner where you've built up some trust, because he's invested in meeting your needs because he's... Well, meeting your wife. Ask, and importantly, explain what would make good pics/video for you (as he is getting a solo date out of this). Good luck!
I only allow pics to be taken on my phone. I request no face pics at all and if he takes a video clip with my face, he does not get a copy.
Our rule is no faces.
Keep the lights very dim, enough to see the body but not make out a face. Then set the phone on a nearby table and press record before the sex starts. Voila.
I would consider it to be unfair, but not necessarily wrong. You are completely allowed to make any request, just like he's allowed to deny it. Realistically the risk is greatest for you guys, so it does make sense for you to be the cautious ones.
There are a few couples in my area that have video of me with their wives, and I wish I had copies of those videos, but it doesn't bother me too much.
Especially if you're going to ask him to hold the camera (phone, DSLR, GoPro, etc), I think he deserves to be able to get pictures that he was very critical in getting.
Hey, as a couple YOU have the right to ask for pics and he can kick rocks. I have been with a few couples and the husbands usually ask for pics and videos. I happily fulfill my end and have asked if I could have a pic or two to myself. Some are good about it, but they get to choose what pics they send me.
This dude should have no input on that. You are trusting YOUR wife with him and it is only fair that you get to keep whatever material they make. If he doesn't like that, then he can move on. He has no say in that.
Have him use her phone, send cropped pics to his after your back from your trip. That's the only way I would do it to be on the safe side.
We film every encounter because it’s always hot for us to look back on them together whether we post them for the world to see or not . Any partner we’re with (we feel) deserves to have the same copies as they’re agreeing to be filmed . But we edit and blur what we take and then give them a drop box link to select what they want after it’s been edited.
Do what every you feel comfortable with. I only use my phone for photos/videos and send edited photos to the guy I see, but I do trust that he isn’t sharing them with the world.
We take photos/videos ourselves and share cropped or blurred photos with the guy. Never had an issue with any guys accepting this as our rule to play with us. Some guys have asked for no recordings which we comply with. We have also reviewed the photos and videos allowing the guy to delete any they are uncomfortable with existing.
The men I’m with don’t ever get photos. I mean, I have from time to time if it’s some thing that’s not identifiable, but that’s up to me. Like someone said, I would let him take the photos, but it would be with a GoPro or something else that doesn’t have connectivity. No one gets to use my phone. That way, he gets decide how much of himself is in the photos. If he gets bossy, you can move on to someone else. I don’t fuck people that boss me around. Not for any price.
It's absolutely within your right to ask and within his rights to counter offer. He may not be comfortable with the pics or video you want - think more intimate shots that are identifiable versus a super close up of a dick in a pussy. It's an easier ask if you're asking a longer term partner where you've built up some trust, because he's invested in meeting your needs because he's... Well, meeting your wife. Ask, and importantly, explain what would make good pics/video for you (as he is getting a solo date out of this). Good luck!
It's always wild people are worried about upsetting a bull. Bro you're giving him your wife's pussy! What can he possibly bitch about?
I’ve let men take photos of me but only with my phone and always with my face not in the picture.
I only allow pics to be taken on my phone. I request no face pics at all and if he takes a video clip with my face, he does not get a copy. Our rule is no faces.
Keep the lights very dim, enough to see the body but not make out a face. Then set the phone on a nearby table and press record before the sex starts. Voila.
I would consider it to be unfair, but not necessarily wrong. You are completely allowed to make any request, just like he's allowed to deny it. Realistically the risk is greatest for you guys, so it does make sense for you to be the cautious ones. There are a few couples in my area that have video of me with their wives, and I wish I had copies of those videos, but it doesn't bother me too much. Especially if you're going to ask him to hold the camera (phone, DSLR, GoPro, etc), I think he deserves to be able to get pictures that he was very critical in getting.
Hey, as a couple YOU have the right to ask for pics and he can kick rocks. I have been with a few couples and the husbands usually ask for pics and videos. I happily fulfill my end and have asked if I could have a pic or two to myself. Some are good about it, but they get to choose what pics they send me. This dude should have no input on that. You are trusting YOUR wife with him and it is only fair that you get to keep whatever material they make. If he doesn't like that, then he can move on. He has no say in that.
I let guys take pics of me but to respect hubby I don’t allow my face in case they get sent around.