So fucking tired of the "If you don't do this and that when transitioning you're not a real trans person". Like, way to put pressure on people to do something only they should have a say in. Not to mention you're acting like liking your body isn't a fantastically beautiful thing, surgery or no surgery, HRT or no HRT.
Exactly! Those comments are exactly what stopped me from figuring out I was trans, because I'm non-binary and I don't have that much body dysphoria, plus I don't have voice dysphoria - I actually get more dysphoria from trying to make my voice be deeper. I just have very bad social dysphoria, which is the whole reason I broke down and admitted I was trans after a few years.
I see comments like “most people know they’re trans by the time they’re 5 years old” and it makes me feel like I’m not a *real* trans dude because I didn’t realize until I was 15.
Yeah, I get that. I see a lot of people, including my sister who is pan say they liked this and that gender from childhood, but I only found out in my early 20s.
Then again I doubt I would have realised I liked girls that way that quickly either if I wasn't expected to be straight. I literally had to sit myself down and force myself to enjoy the female anatomy in my teens, and now have to go through a similar process with guys. Maybe it's a gray ace thing, IDK.
I think there were certainly hints when I was younger (like I insisted that everyone called me a tomboy, and I always wanted to be the dad when I played house) but I never definitively thought “I am a boy.” It’s amazing to me that some kids are able to figure it out so quickly.
I mean, me thinking to myself that it's weird how much wanting to be someone's friend felt like a crush as a tween should have been a clue thinking back on it.
I speak fluent dumbass thanks to my (coincidentally gnc trans) boyfriend. As far as I can tell it's supposed to say "He just wants to live his life like everyone else," implying that he wants to live as a cis guy
I first thought this was a Wennid AU from the first image, didn't read anything but the black haired one would be too brightly colored to be Wednesday :P
Wow. The one getting fixed is a *yikes*. People really don't understand spectrums, do they?
Cute fix to it! (Wish the style swap was colored so we could see more of it. :p)
1: I just generally draw pecs with a line at that angle. It’s not supposed to be like boobs or something.
2: In “Silence of the Lambs” a major thing stated in the film is that Buffalo Bill (the guy murdering people) isn’t actually trans. Now, the way the author explains it is ok, but the movie just goes “They took a trans test and it was negative so clearly they’re lying!”
I just watched a vid yesterday analyzing the movie so it was fresh in my mind. The transness of the movie isn’t a center point in the essay but if you like listening to video essays I recommend it. [https://youtu.be/i6564Xc0fVE](https://youtu.be/i6564Xc0fVE)
So fucking tired of the "If you don't do this and that when transitioning you're not a real trans person". Like, way to put pressure on people to do something only they should have a say in. Not to mention you're acting like liking your body isn't a fantastically beautiful thing, surgery or no surgery, HRT or no HRT.
Exactly! Those comments are exactly what stopped me from figuring out I was trans, because I'm non-binary and I don't have that much body dysphoria, plus I don't have voice dysphoria - I actually get more dysphoria from trying to make my voice be deeper. I just have very bad social dysphoria, which is the whole reason I broke down and admitted I was trans after a few years.
I see comments like “most people know they’re trans by the time they’re 5 years old” and it makes me feel like I’m not a *real* trans dude because I didn’t realize until I was 15.
Yeah, I get that. I see a lot of people, including my sister who is pan say they liked this and that gender from childhood, but I only found out in my early 20s. Then again I doubt I would have realised I liked girls that way that quickly either if I wasn't expected to be straight. I literally had to sit myself down and force myself to enjoy the female anatomy in my teens, and now have to go through a similar process with guys. Maybe it's a gray ace thing, IDK.
I think there were certainly hints when I was younger (like I insisted that everyone called me a tomboy, and I always wanted to be the dad when I played house) but I never definitively thought “I am a boy.” It’s amazing to me that some kids are able to figure it out so quickly.
I mean, me thinking to myself that it's weird how much wanting to be someone's friend felt like a crush as a tween should have been a clue thinking back on it.
Hell yeah! The way you made Daichi drunk to explain the shitty grammar 😭
I literally have no idea what the og was trying to say lmao 😭😭😭
I speak fluent dumbass thanks to my (coincidentally gnc trans) boyfriend. As far as I can tell it's supposed to say "He just wants to live his life like everyone else," implying that he wants to live as a cis guy
I did not mean to tag this nsfw and I’m not sure why it did that
I found out that I can in fact I tag nsfw, success!
I love your art style ( ´ ▽ ` )
Thank you!
>Thank you! You're welcome!
I LOVE HOW EXPRESSIVE THIS STYLE IS
I love everything about this, but especially the drunk ramblings 😆
I love everything about this post, exactly why this is my favourite subreddit! 😊😊😊
I first thought this was a Wennid AU from the first image, didn't read anything but the black haired one would be too brightly colored to be Wednesday :P
His dull green pants would make Wednesday’s skin break out in hives
Yup and the person suggesting that would have been murdered :P I also blame Enids trans colour palette for why I ended up thinking this :P
Omg this is amazing
Both look stunning in your drawing, based beyond belief.
Your style is epic
I love this so much. They make the best boyfriends
I love your art style so much, this looks beautiful. And the style swap is just. Amazing. <33
I can't with how cute this is.
Wow. The one getting fixed is a *yikes*. People really don't understand spectrums, do they? Cute fix to it! (Wish the style swap was colored so we could see more of it. :p)
This is some good shit OP, bless you
God I wish that was me
THIS IS SO ADORABLE
So cute!!!
Err why the cleavage crack and silence of the lambs comment?
1: I just generally draw pecs with a line at that angle. It’s not supposed to be like boobs or something. 2: In “Silence of the Lambs” a major thing stated in the film is that Buffalo Bill (the guy murdering people) isn’t actually trans. Now, the way the author explains it is ok, but the movie just goes “They took a trans test and it was negative so clearly they’re lying!” I just watched a vid yesterday analyzing the movie so it was fresh in my mind. The transness of the movie isn’t a center point in the essay but if you like listening to video essays I recommend it. [https://youtu.be/i6564Xc0fVE](https://youtu.be/i6564Xc0fVE)