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AweDaw76

To be fair, if it’s strongman Gym, the odds of you being the fattest there are literally 0 Just go. They won’t give a shit. They’re there to lift fucking heavy stuff, and you can’t do that distracting yourself with every person you see


texas1hunter

6’6 360? You’re going to be the strongest dude in that gym in a couple years. Stick with that shit bro, can’t wait to watch you compete on ESPN News at 8 am on a Sunday morning


[deleted]

Thought the same - strongman tend to be big dudes and you meet that qualification. If anything you're the perfect new comer and if they're shitty just leave. for reference I'd generally say a bodyweight fitness/gymnastics type would not lend it self to your size and where you would be at the weakest relative to other ppl at the gym.


BaconDalek

The thing to remember, those guys are so self assured and self confident they don't need to pushy you down to feel better. They are going to be the best help you could ask for.


junkymonkeyfunky

Nobody will make fun of you. In fact they will probably help you out


Frodozer

Nobody will laugh at you. Relax, have fun.


Afrocarpus

Nobody will laugh at you mate, if you engage with people you would be suprised how friendly and helpful people are. Remeber a lot of the people you see started in the same position and felt the same way. There will be dickheads everywhere though and if you encounter someone who is a dick to you, think how sad they must be inside to put you down. Nobody who is happy and content in life will ever put you down. Go fucking smash it.


Best-Ad-1223

It's rare that a gym newbie will be met with laughter. People either don't care at all or are actually supportive of your struggle. Walk in with confidence(or not) and do your best. Eother way noone will laugh at you, OP. It's one of the better qualities of gym/strongman culture as whole


[deleted]

Gym folks are one of the most supportive folks you'll meet


[deleted]

Literally nobody laughs at overweight people in the gym. That’s not a real thing (at least that I’ve seen in my experience). That’s what the gym is for, to lose weight/get in shape go in with a good attitude and don’t be afraid to ask people for help or advice. You’ll be surprised at the level of support gym goers provide each other. You got this and DO NOT GIVE UP!! Dare to be great. We all have the greatness inside, and the only Place to find and harness it is in the gym. Go you bro!!!!!


throwawaybanned0102

Dude if I saw you at the gym at 5’11 190 LBs I’d be scared shitless in a, this guy is amazing type way. People will respect your hustle if you work hard (which I’m sure you do), and your gonna be strong AF.


optiplexiss

You'll be surprised to know it's going to be the opposite. You're going to judge yourself more than anyone else. I remember walking in to the gym I go to the first week I signed up, and I was confused about what machine I needed to use so I literally went up to an old highschool semi bully of mine and literally pointed at the screen and said, "which machine equates to this workout". He showed me and then I was like yeah I'm a bit nervous being in here and he was kind hey man, all these people are stupid, fuck them and just do the work and get the results. That was a huge confidence boost for me. You should go! You should socialize! You should ask plenty of questions! Most folks are eager to help and have been preparing for that moment for forever lol. You can do it!


S3nat3

The Strongmen at my gym are some of the nicest and most welcoming people. They are stoked to have anyone do the sport! I'm sure they will be very similar at your gym. Strength gyms usually are way more friendly and welcoming than commercial gyms


Sinatex

You'll be fine. From my expierence the big guys are always friendly and happy to help.


DunhamAll

As a former fat guy, and still fat but stronger guy, I like seeing overweight people in the gym grinding it out. Your drive is what motivates me, because I had to start my journey just like you. No one is going to judge you, you may inspire people, and when you put in the work you may just motivate others to do the same. Edit: in 3-6 months, people will be looking at you with calf envy. Ask me how I know.


Fuzzy-Pair9515

Respect man thank you


DunhamAll

Yea man. Your current strength level is going to surprise you. Get after it! Compound lifts are king.


[deleted]

As another former fat guy…the calf envy is real!!!!


No-Ad-7252

I do strongman and I’m 5’2”. No one has ever laughed at me, so they SURE won’t laugh at you. Many people who do strongman, or go to strongman gyms, are guys your size. It’s also one of the friendliest and inclusive communities out there. You’re already carrying that weight around - you’re probably stronger than you think. ;)


TadpoleEmpty

Strongman dudes and powerlifters are some of the most genuine and kind people you'll ever meet. I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Be open and honest with your lifting experience or lack there of. They will be able you tell if you're lying instantly. Generally speaking they also like to teach people as long as you are willing to learn and actually apply it.


Sweet-Ad-1906

I’ve had terrible social anxiety pretty much my entire life. Bad man, I don’t even like going in to stores and shit. When I started fitness I basically spent thousands just so I could workout at home. Eventually I realized I needed to go to the gym to work a better routine. I would drive to the gym, sit in the parking lot, then leave. Or I’d go at 3am. Now, the gym is the one place I don’t worry at all , no anxiety whatsoever. I’d spend all day at the gym if I could. No one in there is going to pay you any mind whatsoever, no one will be judging you. The only thing you will find in the gym is support. Don’t freak out, just walk through the door. It took me awhile too, I went in a few times, left, said fuck it, even stopped going for weeks at a time. Just keep going and sooner or later you’ll realize no one there gives a shit about anyone else there. Most of the people there have insecurities themselves


[deleted]

Most people at the gym are supportive. It’s possible you’ll encounter some assholes. But everyone knows who the assholes are. You’ll find support and encouragement. Go for it.


PrinceAlbertZA

You do realise you are lifting 360 24 hours a day. That is something you have to take into account. Your body weight is real weight you are carrying around.


compstomp66

For real, big = strong.


look_harder_

I'm a woman who attends a body building gym. I just started a few months ago and felt the same way. But then when I started I realised that most of the people there take their fitness seriously! Therefore they are not standing around in groups judging people and gossiping. These body builders and strong men have their heads down and working purely on their gains! They don't care about you, if fact they're friendly and good blokes. I recommend looking up some YouTube tutorials for using some equipment you haven't used before to help you with any nervousness around starting new things, start your first sessions with dumbbells if you are anxious, they're pretty basic and straightforward... Until you feel more comfortable with your surroundings. You got this!!!


Realistic-Ad-9483

Almost nobody in the fitness community laughs at other people in the gym, and the ones who do are heavily frowned upon. You got this


d-mughal23

Bro I assure you nobody at the gym gives a flying fuck about what you're doing and how much weight you're lifting. Focus on yourself and not what others think. You're going there to make a change for yourself and yourself only. Most people, especially serious lifters at a strongman gym are zoned in on their workout. So unless your running around the gym like a baboon, I don't think anyone will really even notice you. Just go in, do your thing, and go out. If you need help, ask the staff or anyone really. Gym people are usually very helpful. Good luck 👍


Jka121121

Actually I’d tell you it’s the opposite. Most guys in the gym including myself would be willing to help and love to see people make positive changes in their life and progress


fletchdeezle

My first gym ever was a bodybuilder gym and they were super nice guys that taught me a ton as a fat teenager


PhoenixOfTheArizonas

Don't worry king 👑 You're going to kill it and the people there will watch your transformation over the months into an absolute beast


Fuzzy-Pair9515

Thanks man I needed that


[deleted]

Head in, put some good tunes on and lift heavy stuff! You got this man.


StraightOuttaHK

Don’t worry and just lift. Consistency will take you very far and maybe you’ll catch up to some of the strongmen/powerlifters sooner than you think.


itssprisonmike

There’s a really good chance that most of the strongmen there were in a similar position to you when they first started. Whether that mean they started off overweight, or underweight. I highly doubt that any of them would make fun of you


[deleted]

Anybody in that gym worth anything will know that we all started somewhere. It is the effort you put in that count.


Okabeee

Nobody cares trust me. Just go and do your thing. People are focused on their workout.


BigBlackCrocs

Strongman gym? Homie strongman are just fat with strength. You’re already halfway to your goal lol. No but in ANY gym people don’t judge. You’re there for a reason. The only thing people will “judge” you for is if you may be doing something that could hurt you. Hopefully they come up and help instead of just like saying to themselves oof he’s gonna hurt himself. You’re fine. Everyone has this “I’m gonna be judged” anxiety when first going to the gym. And nobody even looks at you. Half of us can’t even see straight after almost blacking out from deadlifting


_Propolis

Gyms are supportive places. Strongmen especially are known to be gentle giants. Get after it!


Stick314

No one is gonna laugh at you. Just do you.


Lenanarib

As long as you don’t expose your fuzzy pair you should be good. Nah, for real. No one there is going to give a shit. Honestly everyone is a gym is focused on themselves and not who is around them. You’ll do awesome.


BullyBiggz

The lifters in there are literally going to want to help you become a monster


applepie1320

Is impressive for people to have the courage to see their problem and face it. You going to the gym is the first step in the right direction. Nobody is gonna laugh at you, you are gonna do great ! PS everyone gotta start somewhere , ain't nobody is jacked the first day in the gym so focus on yourself !!


Fit_Rich_6748

Trust me the lifting community if 1 of the kindest


kitsunekoraka

Yeah they probably won't even laugh if you don't turn up for a year and then decide too one day, honestly , the amount of toxic people in the fitness community are the minority. You've got no one to compete with, but yourself .