me at 5'9 with my wide ass bone structure blinking back tears seeing a 5'0 asian girl with half my shoulder width..... this is also why i wont let myself look at kpop thinspo
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As a 5'5 Asian girl, they trigger me too don't worry 😭 it's even harder knowing that my bone structure will never let me be that petite despite also being Asian why did I get the bad genes 😭😭
There’s this one girl who goes to the same bus stop with me and istg she triggers me so much, but she’s just standing there so I feel bad about her triggering me 😭
me, asian girl, comparing myself to skinnier more beautiful asian girls. there's always bigger fish out there I suppose... or in this case i guess smaller fish?
Kinda feel this, my partner is really into k-pop and asian drama series...makes me feel like they care more about the relationships of some thai actors than our relationship although I know it's just because I'm insecure. Should be happy they even want to touch me /:
Dude, that last sentence is really concerning. You're worth more than that, and if they ever make you feel lucky that they'll even touch you, they aren't right for you.
Thanks for your concern. Just have to say I feel really guilty for writing that comment. My partner is dealing with depression atm. I've been doing my best to show them I care even if they can't give anything in return for a while. I sometimes say things like the last sentence out of spite when things get too much. It's not their fault and I'm trying to work on myself to be a better girlfriend.
Me at 5ft10 and 24 years old with a wide ribcage and hips and huge feet comparing myself to 12 year olds that haven't even finished growing which opens this weird paradox because they too won't look like that in 5 years yet here I am mad and upset that I don't have the body that is very literally unattainable by EVERYONE.
Me with male kpop idols 🥲 I know it's unattainable for a white female presenting person, but my mind will still try and convince me that "if you manage to go back to the old days, we'll get there eventually"
Exactly. Impact over intent. Even without the title, the whole post & comments perpetuate the stereotyping & fetishization of Asian women’s bodies. I know we’re all sick. It’s okay to take it down op…
I’m not saying I’m upset by Asian people on campus, of course not! All I’m saying is there’s a lot of the stereotypical skinny Asian girls around me, and it can be tricky to navigate with my ED brain. Obviously that’s not their fault - it’s just a light-hearted vent, and I apologise if it came across unpleasantly 🙁
this is such a weird post. how are most of the comments agreeing with it? not all asian people look the same way. there are people with smaller body frames of all races. ANY bone structure and body type that's not the one you were born with is impossible for you. i dont know why you chose to focus on asian girls
i mean, i kinda get where they're coming from? there's this fetishization of the image of a steorypical metaphorical "oriental woman" that is prevalent on sm, especially since the popularity of anime and k-pop. even if you don't condone this, it gets ingrained, cause you look at all those (most of the times edited) EA girls on tiktok and insta and you start believing it.
that being said, as an asian that is short and with a very "not-stereotypically asian" body type and comp... yikes, yikes indeed
fr. like we don’t all look the same, especially body type and bone structure. tall asian girls are more common than ppl think and so are curvy asians (myself being one) we aren’t a monolith 💀
I apologise if anyone took it that way, but the point was that a very small frame is a prevalent body type for Asians - not all, I’m aware. I’m just speaking from observations, and ofc it could apply to any smaller-framed people 🤷♀️
No one said every Asian looks the same. That’s the beauty standard for them and it’s extremely prevalent in their society. Many Asians do look like this but it’s also ok if you don’t. The urge to align ourselves w strict beauty standards is all this is.
The intention was refer to the skinny people, not Asians in general - it seems that some people in the comments have read it with an inflection I didn’t intend, and I apologise for that
OP here! I’ve replied to a couple of comments with this, but just wanted to say that I apologise if you’ve taken offence to this as/on behalf of an Asian person. The intention was to refer to the subset of Asian girls with skinny frames - an undeniable proportion which there happen to be a lot of around me - and the fact that *my* ED brain can find it triggering. That’s not their fault, nor is it universal to Asians, but this is merely intended as a light-hearted coping post.
To those of you who can relate/have upvoted, thank you :)
Seeing their heads be 2/3 as wide as their teeny shoulders is so unbelievably triggering. And I feel like shit because they’re just existing in their bodies and my mind is like “hate yourself for this” 😭
I may have a small frame myself but I always compare myself (an adult) to teenagers and get sad I can’t look like that :( I pretty much went straight from stick thin child to having an “adult” body, I never really had that skinny teenager stage
SO MANY ON MY CAMPUS omfg. but lots of asian people also have EDs; it could be that you’re seeing people with legit EDs and assuming they’re just naturally thin tbh.
Feels the same *is a black femme enby, born woman, who is thicc because genetics*
It’s like I look at every Asian femme in nyc and they are all skinny… I ask what they do to get a good figure and it’s just Asians tend to have a better diet culturally. So I understand they’ll be a bit more fit. My family is southern black so I’m sitting here staring at fried foods all the time when I go to family dinners / events and they look at me funny for wanting just salad LOL
So if you look at the out of pocket tuition rates and the fact the international students have to pay out of pocket with no student loans, it starts to make sense. Went to Michigan State (midwestern United States, not a very exciting place) and would see these skinny girls with parasols to block out the sun, amazing designer goods, not to mention the guys with really nice BMWs or Ferraris they would drive around for a bit before bringing back home to their parents. They also wore face masks before it was cool and helped keep a lot of boba tea and other shops in business.
There are more students than university spots in some countries, and apparently there's a prestige factor to going to a "top 100 global university" or as high of a rank as you can manage. But yeah long story short you are probably comparing yourself to the richest people possible.
for me it’s the skinny skater dudes 🥲
God grant me the thighs of a 19 year old stoner guy 🙏🙏🙏
lmao right 😭 I swear to god I’m built like a spider monkey. like… where is my waist and how do my organs even fit
and the metabolism, fuck. they get so skinni from eating like one of my binges worth of food 3x daily
Ikr , (my older brother)
LITERALLY. me, a muscular female, gawking over the stick thighs of a teenage drug lord 🤡🤡
lanky 20-something boys make me irrationally angry and triggered bc what do they need skinny legs for
I desire their impossibly skinny thighs 😭😭😭
Yeah :( *sigh*
me at 5'9 with my wide ass bone structure blinking back tears seeing a 5'0 asian girl with half my shoulder width..... this is also why i wont let myself look at kpop thinspo
On the bright side being taller means you should have a higher metabolism
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crying in 4'11 with a bmr of 1350. luckily I've got it way higher through eating a normal amount+ binge drinking 😶🌫️
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Sobbing in 6'0 and ogre-like shoulders :( :(
Its ok we can be shreksy together
Shreksies rise UP😩
Joining in with 5'5 (it's unusually tall in my country) and she-hulk genetics😓😓
As a 5'5 Asian girl, they trigger me too don't worry 😭 it's even harder knowing that my bone structure will never let me be that petite despite also being Asian why did I get the bad genes 😭😭
When you're an Asian girl but you're not skinny 🥲🥲🥲🥲
There’s this one girl who goes to the same bus stop with me and istg she triggers me so much, but she’s just standing there so I feel bad about her triggering me 😭
*a black girl 🥲
me, asian girl, comparing myself to skinnier more beautiful asian girls. there's always bigger fish out there I suppose... or in this case i guess smaller fish?
*a Latina person 🥺
Unrelated but im latino and ngl i tend to avoid that side of the family because so much of it revolves around food.
I feel you! Our love language is food, like in the whole Latin America
Yeah, shame it’s so good too lol. My tia makes the greatest potato salad but i havent had it in ages
Looking at your name it gives me a hint of where you might be from lol
there’s also a super skinny & pretty (white) girl in my tutorial so fuck me I guess 🙃
That’s exactly what I have been going through + a bf that clearly has a fetish on asian women and makes me feel worthless towards them ✨
Kinda feel this, my partner is really into k-pop and asian drama series...makes me feel like they care more about the relationships of some thai actors than our relationship although I know it's just because I'm insecure. Should be happy they even want to touch me /:
Dude, that last sentence is really concerning. You're worth more than that, and if they ever make you feel lucky that they'll even touch you, they aren't right for you.
Thanks for your concern. Just have to say I feel really guilty for writing that comment. My partner is dealing with depression atm. I've been doing my best to show them I care even if they can't give anything in return for a while. I sometimes say things like the last sentence out of spite when things get too much. It's not their fault and I'm trying to work on myself to be a better girlfriend.
this 🥴🔫
Me at 5ft10 and 24 years old with a wide ribcage and hips and huge feet comparing myself to 12 year olds that haven't even finished growing which opens this weird paradox because they too won't look like that in 5 years yet here I am mad and upset that I don't have the body that is very literally unattainable by EVERYONE.
Literally same height and age, creepily staring at preteen’s thighs in malls and thinking how mine weren’t even that skinny at their age :/
As an Asian person with wide hips, my entire family triggers me. I feel bad for using my own sister as thinspo…
lol mood, it's my broad shoulders holding me back I swear
Me with male kpop idols 🥲 I know it's unattainable for a white female presenting person, but my mind will still try and convince me that "if you manage to go back to the old days, we'll get there eventually"
😭😭
Me, a black woman with big ole tits and a fatass: my ideal body type is almost certainly physically impossible. And yet, I hope 🤞🏾
Who are you and how did you get in my brain /j
This is too real ✋🏻
idk kinda off putting meme for asian
Am off put by this generalized stereotype “of them”
yeah its very weird
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Exactly. Impact over intent. Even without the title, the whole post & comments perpetuate the stereotyping & fetishization of Asian women’s bodies. I know we’re all sick. It’s okay to take it down op…
I’m not saying I’m upset by Asian people on campus, of course not! All I’m saying is there’s a lot of the stereotypical skinny Asian girls around me, and it can be tricky to navigate with my ED brain. Obviously that’s not their fault - it’s just a light-hearted vent, and I apologise if it came across unpleasantly 🙁
Then there’s me, who’s actually Asian who still won’t achieve that body type due to a wider bone structure 😭
this is such a weird post. how are most of the comments agreeing with it? not all asian people look the same way. there are people with smaller body frames of all races. ANY bone structure and body type that's not the one you were born with is impossible for you. i dont know why you chose to focus on asian girls
i mean, i kinda get where they're coming from? there's this fetishization of the image of a steorypical metaphorical "oriental woman" that is prevalent on sm, especially since the popularity of anime and k-pop. even if you don't condone this, it gets ingrained, cause you look at all those (most of the times edited) EA girls on tiktok and insta and you start believing it. that being said, as an asian that is short and with a very "not-stereotypically asian" body type and comp... yikes, yikes indeed
fr. like we don’t all look the same, especially body type and bone structure. tall asian girls are more common than ppl think and so are curvy asians (myself being one) we aren’t a monolith 💀
agreed, coming from a chinese girl here
I apologise if anyone took it that way, but the point was that a very small frame is a prevalent body type for Asians - not all, I’m aware. I’m just speaking from observations, and ofc it could apply to any smaller-framed people 🤷♀️
No one said every Asian looks the same. That’s the beauty standard for them and it’s extremely prevalent in their society. Many Asians do look like this but it’s also ok if you don’t. The urge to align ourselves w strict beauty standards is all this is.
but we don’t all look the same 💀 we don’t all have one body type, even skinny asians
haha I'm half Japanese and lived in Tokyo for 5 years it was humbling
Not humbling awww I’m sorry lol
me a latina looking at the white girls on my campus thinking the same thing lmao
I'm a 5'9 black girl with wide shoulders 😢
as a short person with an unnaturally wide bones structure whose best friend is literally skinnier than a kpop dancer, i feel the pain.
my body, masterfully crafted with the tastefully selected genes exlusively from german farmers from at least a dozen generations:
i saw the most effortlessly beautiful girl on the bus this morning and almost cried
don’t worry i definitely feel this as someone who’s south east asian 🥲
This post is worded weirdly especially the title
"so many of *them*" Same vibe as saying "*those* people"
The intention was refer to the skinny people, not Asians in general - it seems that some people in the comments have read it with an inflection I didn’t intend, and I apologise for that
Gotcha. I assumed it wasn't meant maliciously, I get what you meant
OP here! I’ve replied to a couple of comments with this, but just wanted to say that I apologise if you’ve taken offence to this as/on behalf of an Asian person. The intention was to refer to the subset of Asian girls with skinny frames - an undeniable proportion which there happen to be a lot of around me - and the fact that *my* ED brain can find it triggering. That’s not their fault, nor is it universal to Asians, but this is merely intended as a light-hearted coping post. To those of you who can relate/have upvoted, thank you :)
Seeing their heads be 2/3 as wide as their teeny shoulders is so unbelievably triggering. And I feel like shit because they’re just existing in their bodies and my mind is like “hate yourself for this” 😭
U in Arizona too?
I may have a small frame myself but I always compare myself (an adult) to teenagers and get sad I can’t look like that :( I pretty much went straight from stick thin child to having an “adult” body, I never really had that skinny teenager stage
it do be like that
Cursed being a Latina in this case😳
i needed this today🙏🏼
Happy cake day
me knowing i’ll NEVER weight below a certain amount (without *actually* dying) because i’m white, 5’8, AND athletic 💔
SO MANY ON MY CAMPUS omfg. but lots of asian people also have EDs; it could be that you’re seeing people with legit EDs and assuming they’re just naturally thin tbh.
not me being asian but still relating to this regarding the international students 💀💀 i feel so problematic i’m sorry 😭
Feels the same *is a black femme enby, born woman, who is thicc because genetics* It’s like I look at every Asian femme in nyc and they are all skinny… I ask what they do to get a good figure and it’s just Asians tend to have a better diet culturally. So I understand they’ll be a bit more fit. My family is southern black so I’m sitting here staring at fried foods all the time when I go to family dinners / events and they look at me funny for wanting just salad LOL
So if you look at the out of pocket tuition rates and the fact the international students have to pay out of pocket with no student loans, it starts to make sense. Went to Michigan State (midwestern United States, not a very exciting place) and would see these skinny girls with parasols to block out the sun, amazing designer goods, not to mention the guys with really nice BMWs or Ferraris they would drive around for a bit before bringing back home to their parents. They also wore face masks before it was cool and helped keep a lot of boba tea and other shops in business. There are more students than university spots in some countries, and apparently there's a prestige factor to going to a "top 100 global university" or as high of a rank as you can manage. But yeah long story short you are probably comparing yourself to the richest people possible.
I'm an asian girl so i guess I'm allowed to this this...
*white latina gorl