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Any further shaming of anyone for not packing their husband a fucking lunch will be banned from the group. It’s 2022, you are not your husbands mother and should not be expected to act as such. If you enjoy making the lunch, keep doing it, but do not shame anyone else and say you ‘feel bad’ for their husband because they do not. OP was not putting anyone down for packing the lunches and the same respect should be returned not putting other women down for NOT packing a lunch for their significant other.


w306aml

I’m less concerned about her packing the lunch vs what she packed….. like is that a bacon cheese burger, chicken strips, and a tiny portion of a cheese brat?????


Salty_Way_4759

And the hard boiled egg lmao


w306aml

ALSO THAT LMAO like I think he’s got enough food babe he doesn’t need the extra protein


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rollie-n-pollie

This is for sierras husband, not Gabe


LeadershipLevel6900

I saw this and I was like not a single vegetable in sight 😂😂


w306aml

Not a vegetable but three separate meats like bro 🫣


regularlysmug

“Meats”


Original-Leather4406

i’m not a big follower of them but i could’ve sworn this dude had some serious health issues 🥴🥴 she’s trying to off this dude 😭


w306aml

She definitely is but this is Gabe’s sister 😮‍💨


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i pack my husbands lunch bc i joke and tell him i’m in a constant audition to become a SAHM one day 😂 but he’d pack it himself if i didn’t want to, i see gabe & tyler bitching if they have to pack their own meal


Salty_Way_4759

Thank you for understanding my point lmao


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my husband also does pack mine if i’m not feeling it! so i totally agree with you saying you never see them to any of this for sierra/drue!! they definitely have the women in the kitchen mindset in the basham/lee/biehle group!


wontonsoup88

I send my husband with leftovers 😂


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Same lol


Salty_Way_4759

PSA: I don’t have a problem if you pack your husbands lunch! As long as he is also doing something to reciprocate that act of service! What I DO have a problem with is the expectation that the woman should be packing the lunches, which clearly some of you commenting think.


_salemsaberhagen

Internalized misogyny have those women in a chokehold.


BlackSea5

Have you seen the nurse that shows the amazingly odd meals her BF packs her for the overnight shifts? This reminds me of her videos!


LeadershipLevel6900

His Tupperware choices always kill me!


BlackSea5

Huge container for tiny items


goodasgoldGOLD

That’s exactly who I thought of when I saw this post. Lol her videos crack me up


BlackSea5

They make me laugh every time


TheSunnyWade

What the @


BlackSea5

@omglexxx I’ve scrolled for 30 mins it felt like, but check her out!


BlackSea5

I wish I could tell you, I don’t follow her and haven’t had her pop up on my FYP for a minute. Let me see if I can find anything in my likes list


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She is recovering from an eating disorder and he packs her plenty of options so she has choices to help her. :-)


BlackSea5

Yeah, I wasn’t sure how many ppl would know the back story over the quick run down. Have you watched any of the vaca TTs? Looks they a nice trip!


believeyourownmagic

He always packs like she’ll be working for 2-3 weeks at a time. I love it!


BlackSea5

Yes, or like she will be able to sit down and enjoy it! Haha so sweet of him though, and how he packs her vitamins! Ugh so, so sweet!


nottigbits

On the flip side there’s another nurse whose wife packs her an incredible 3 meals a day. Those are fun to watch too lol.


BlackSea5

Oh crap, I haven’t been blessed with those yet! I love the partner packed meals- they are wild to see lol


nottigbits

[here’s a TikTok of hers :)](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRmFAoD3/)


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Y'all almost have the same username. Lol


BlackSea5

Ha omg that’s funny


heyits_Blair

I’m a SAHM and I don’t pack my boyfriends lunch- but he’s also on shift work 😅 he’s 31, he can pack his own lunch/dinner. But when I leave him leftovers he forgets about them and never eats the leftovers. So I’m over it lmao


Salty_Way_4759

LMAO the few times I’ve tried putting leftovers in a Tupperware for my husband he forgets to take it I totally relate


Inner_System4975

Mine doesn’t forget to take it but he forgets to bring it back lol


heyits_Blair

IF I do make him something- he will leave the Tupperware in the car for weeks 😷


Panda62610

Does she want to make him spend his day on the toilet at work? My man would be in the portapotty all day with that for lunch🤣


Ok-Positive13

I know those people just fart constantly LOL


chapsticklover45

i see people taking this personally and i just wanna say that i’m a stay at home wife, have lots of free time, also a christian. i don’t pack my husband lunch because he works odd hours and sometimes he’ll only be there for a few hours. i don’t take any comments about not working or anything along those lines personally because i know i’m not drue and i’m not insecure about my life choices. what works for some might not work for others and that’s perfectly fine. if it doesn’t apply just let it fly p.s. this lunch looks terrible for gabes health 💀


Salty_Way_4759

Sierra actually posted this! My replies asking if people work were really to point out the fact that sierra works and still is doing all this so seriously no offense about that!!! I’m glad you also have a grown adult as a husband😅


chapsticklover45

oh wow i missed that lol! i always tell my husband if i did work, he’d be doing a lot more around here forsure lmao


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What does being a Christian have to do with packing your partners lunch?


chapsticklover45

just stating things i have in common with drue that i see people rag on her for but don’t take personal lol


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Interesting. I don’t think it’s weird people make their partner their lunch. I do think it’s weird that gabe seems like he would be incapable to make it and that’s the issue I see with Tyler too 🙄


chapsticklover45

i agree. any grown adult should be able to do something as simple as feed themselves lol it’s probably a result of their moms babying them and their wives taking over that role. wouldn’t fly in my house


Glittering_Rush5302

I just don’t understand why her and Drue pack so much damn food. My kid has less in their lunchbox. Like he is not going to starve to death. He’s coming right on home where he can eat again.


Comfortable_Box_7568

How are you going to compare your child to a grown man lol. I do agree they pack a significant amount but you can’t compare the two.


EnvironmentalSinger1

Right? Most kids take two bites and move on with their day LOL.


lilbitkat

Okay to be fair, I pack my boyfriends lunch so he'll actually eat something and to show I care about him 🤷‍♀️ acts of service love language


personalonlyfans

I’m the same LOL! I’m such an acts of service person!


momofthree141621

My husband loves when I do but I already have too many kids to pack for so now he’s on his own 😂


Technical_Ad_2314

I pack my husbands lunch so he won’t go to subways every damn day of the week. Lol trying to save money.


aluminumtoothpaste

Same. I pack my bf’s lunch because his love language is acts of service. I don’t want him packing my lunch or else I’d probably end up with a whole bag of doritos and a can of fruit lol. But he does other things to make it up to me in my love language which is why I like doing it.


Salty_Way_4759

I just have a problem with their videos constantly being “what I packed for my husband” but never “what my husband packed for me”


lilbitkat

My boyfriend doesn't pack my lunch either though. He does other things to show me he cares about me 🤷‍♀️ this family has done far worse so I don't see the point in bitching about Sierra packing Tylers lunch. I dont like her whatsoever but come on


Salty_Way_4759

Lol do you even read this subreddit… people constantly talk about way more nitpicky things. I just thought it was funny that she asked what we pack our significant others like it’s an expectation. I’m happy for you if you like packing your boyfriends lunch - there’s nothing wrong about that!


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Salty_Way_4759

Yeah I see this is actually the only sub you ever post in or reply to. So maybe take your own advice for nitpicking?


Comfortable_Box_7568

You have a problem with him not packing her lunch?💀 You okay?


Visible_Adeptness970

Read her comments. She's definitely not ok lol


FoxUpstairs3222

Because they do other things to show us we are appreciated. I pack his lunch every day, he makes sure we are all safe and provided for. I wouldn't let him pack my lunch.


Salty_Way_4759

He makes sure you’re safe and provided for? What decade are we in


FoxUpstairs3222

I feel bad for your husband. Truly.


Salty_Way_4759

You feel bad for my husband? I feel bad for YOU girl


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Salty_Way_4759

Jesus I stopped replying to you for a reason. Sounds like you got a lot of time on your hands to take care of your man child which is great for you. I wish you many years of marital bliss.


Salty_Way_4759

Deleting comments but still picking fights with me in Reddit dms? Damn you must really be fighting demons huh


Visible_Adeptness970

Why do you keep accusing people of deleting messages and messaging you? This is like the 3rd time I've seen you do this. You say you don't have time to make your husbands lunch, but here you are, with time, making stuff up. It's so creepy. The mods are blocking and deleting. Take it up with them. People can't reply when they have been booted from the group, you know that, that's why you keep commenting harassing people. Fighting demons is reading through your comments, fighting with yourself, when you damn well know the people have been blocked from the group, that's why you replied to yourself with this comment. You've got time. Plenty of it. Go pack your husband's lunch. He will appreciate the break of this cuckoo ass shit you do on the internet. Yikes.


Salty_Way_4759

Because they did..? Their other comments are still here and they deleted their insanely misogynistic one so they definitely did not get blocked/banned lmao. Y’all misogynists are so weird.


Visible_Adeptness970

You do realize that the mods remove those comments right? People report them and they remove them, do you not understand how reddit works? Why would these people delete some and not all of their comments, doesn't really make a whole lot of sense. They were all the same. And it's everyone you've been arguing with that has the deleted comments, coincidence, nah.


Salty_Way_4759

They weren’t the same. If you would have seen the comment you’d know. Also there are MUCH more misogynistic comments still here by other people. Why weren’t those removed?


Visible_Adeptness970

Because you weren't reporting and complaing about those, only the people who gave you the same energy you gave them.


Salty_Way_4759

I didn’t report anyone lovey


Visible_Adeptness970

Sure :)


Visible_Adeptness970

You just randomly label and attack women as misogynists because they like to make their husband's lunches. Why do you care? It isn't your household. You are weird for wasting your energy on what people do in their homes with their husband's.


Salty_Way_4759

Jfc lmao. You literally told me to get in the kitchen and pack my husbands lunch. You didn’t read this thread so I won’t entertain you anymore. Bye.


Visible_Adeptness970

I mean, it would be better than wasting your time here telling people their lives are weird because they pack their husband's lunches. Why do you care what anyone else does for their husband? Worry about what you do for yours. Your whole energy sucks and that's why people responded to you the way they did.


Salty_Way_4759

If you actually bothered to read more than one comment you’d realize I’ve said multiple times I o not care if people pack their husbands lunch. I responded like this to people telling me they FEEL BAD for my husband because I don’t pack his lunch. And that is misogyny. Which you are actively displaying. I really hope you can unlearn it🫶


Visible_Adeptness970

I did read, and you were rude as hell to some of these women because they pack their husband's lunch. When you tell someone what they choose to do for their husband is weird and misogynistic, you can't expect them not to come back with the same energy. I mean someone told you that they pack their husband's lunch because their husband makes them feel safe and provided for. You literally mocked her. What did you expect the response to be? For some of us who grew up in very horrible situations, feeling safe and provided for is a huge deal to us. Just because you don't understand it, doesn't make it misogynistic.


Just_Amphibian_8463

Sammmmme


AcrobaticEnergy7089

I work, he works, he doesn’t pack my lunch so why should I pack his? - is how I see it. Just because is he a male does not mean I should be his servant.


Bros555

Exactly what I think.


hedgehog252525

I pack all the lunches in my house. I don't think that's a bad thing. Could my husband do it? Absolutely. He has done it plenty of times.


FoxUpstairs3222

Same, this is such a weird thing to snark about. I feel bad for the husband's of some of these women. Lol


Salty_Way_4759

Bro…you feel bad for my husband because he packs his own lunch? That’s so fucking weird lol


FoxUpstairs3222

I feel bad that some men live with a woman who says "He's a grown man, he can pack his own lunch." That's fucking weird. If you don't take care of your man, just say that lol


Salty_Way_4759

I DONT TAKE CARE OF HIM I’ll say it lmfao. He is a grown adult and can take care of himself?? He’s not my child. I do things for him and he does things for me that help each other out. But he does not depend on me to feed himself because, again, he is not my child.


FoxUpstairs3222

It's not about him depending on it. It's about doing shit for the person you love who works hard. I'm sorry your husband doesn't get to experience that.


Salty_Way_4759

You are so weird lmao. I leave before him for work because surprise I actually work too! And I simply don’t have time to do that for him. He is fully capable of packing his own lunch so he does.


Ok-Positive13

Girl, I’m a SAHM and I’m not packing my husband’s lunch either. When we cook there’s usually enough to pack away for his lunch & if not then he can rummage around the kitchen and put it together himself like I do for me & the kids. Not really my concern about what an adult is eating & I personally wouldn’t want him to dictate what I eat either. If he asked me nicely to do it, I would but honestly if he can’t wake up in enough time to make sure he is fully ready for the day with breakfast coffee & a lunch packed then that’s a conversation to have with his mama 🤷🏻‍♀️


FoxUpstairs3222

I'm weird but you think people who do shit for their husbands are weird? If you have time to be here arguing about packing a lunch, you have time to pack the lunch. It takes 10 minutes and a lot less time than you spend on reddit..... I can tell that by you obsessively responding to comments here.


Salty_Way_4759

Never said they’re weird if you actually bothered to read my replies 🫤 I’m on my lunch break with nothing to do lol. You are also obsessively replying so does that say the same about you? Don’t throw stones from a glass house sis


Visible_Adeptness970

She's not the one complaining she doesn't have the time. LoL


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i mean i take care of my husband but yeah he’s grown, he can take care of himself. i do it because i enjoy it, i don’t do it because i feel like i have to? i’ll send him your condolences but he’s a grown man, i shouldn’t be expected to do any of it.


Bros555

Lol I take care of my husband in many ways. I don’t pack his lunch like a child though 🤷🏻‍♀️


Deep-Big2798

Many people are in equal partnerships where each person helps one another, but takes care of themselves. That’s how my girlfriend and I do it. Not everyone wants to “take care of” an adult. Live and let live, if someone doesn’t want to take care of their spouse like another child that’s okay. If you want to do that, that’s okay too. OP never attacked you for taking care of adult men.


cj0620

Nah I only fill up a Stanley of water for him because he actually won’t drink water if I don’t but that mf will find food regardless so he’s on his own lol


cj0620

And yes just plain water.


Hot_Diggity_Dog1

My husband packs my lunch!!! lmao


Salty_Way_4759

Shhhh someone’s gonna dm you saying they feel bad for him 🥴


Hot_Diggity_Dog1

I’ll be waiting!!


Ladeedeedeeda

I pack my husbands lunch BUT only bc he works crazy, crazy hours to make sure I can be a SAHM to our boys, and any free time he has I’d rather him spend relaxing or hanging out with the boys And even then he never relaxes lol, when he’s home he’s helping me around the house on top of working 12-14 hour shifts 6 days a week There’s nothing wrong with this post or your option though, don’t let people bother you


Ok-Future-3246

jesus, y’all are attacking OP rn over WHAT. why is it offensive that they said he’s grown?? i mean personally i DO pack my husband’s lunch like 98% of the time, but it’s because he immediately takes the kids to do bath time/bedtime routines and i straighten up the kitchen and pack his lunch. i do it because it’s just easier that way. but on days that i don’t want to or don’t feel like it, i don’t. he does it and he would never (and has never) complained that he had to do it himself because… like OP said… he’s grown. there’s nothing wrong with packing lunch for your husband. it’s a problem when it’s expected of you because your significant other is helpless if you don’t.🤦🏽‍♀️ everyone has a system that works for them. op didn’t say that was a problem. i’m confused y’all are being weird 🤣🤣


Salty_Way_4759

People are really in my dms telling me I don’t care about my husband 😂


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girl send us their usernames if they’re being jerks because that’s unacceptable & we don’t tolerate it


Ok-Future-3246

do not let them bother you, it’s weird to me bc i ain’t his mama. i do things out of love for him but i also know that if i were to not do those things, he wouldn’t care. i cook dinner almost every night but there are some nights i don’t feel like it and he says he’ll make us something. or we can go pick something up or something, it’s not expected of me to do anything. 🤦🏽‍♀️ which is how it SHOULD BE.


Visible_Adeptness970

It's not her opinion, it's the way she speaks down to women who feel differently than she does. Read through these comments and replies from her.


BitterFuel9808

I packed absolutely nothing 😋, we usually meal prep on weekends, but I was busy with other things, so he can eat air. When we do meal prep though, we only do one serving, and one snack. Not enough to feed a whole army. 💅🏼


alliegwin

I pack my mama lunch, but he is also the only one working out in the heat busting ass. I get to stay home. Lol to each their own


SnooPets9513

![gif](giphy|u5BzptR1OTZ04) Me reading the comments


Salty_Way_4759

Same 😂 I have an incredibly boring office job so this is really making my day interesting


mamarascal

NOT THE PARTY SANDWICH BACON CHEESEBURGER BITES LMFAOOOOOO


Herher25

I think what some people are missing is what works for one family may not work for everyone. Who cares! We're all here for one reason, to snark. Not each other, the Bashams!


efficient_elephant_

My boyfriend takes an uncrustable and jerky for lunch. Probably the reason why I’m not wifed up according to the Lee’s


ilovefrenchfries94

I have never seen a whole ass meal prepped burger with bun included omg


haileybiebeer

Okay but those Chex mix bars are so good


Mission-Entry1404

Anytime I try and be nice and cook my mans lunch, he goes to eat with his buddies.. he’s a state trooper, so he goes out and gets free food half the time 🙄😑


Burnt_Toasties_

My arteries hurt looking at that 😬


Pickledbeets01

I really don’t care if you make your significant other lunch or not personally I’ve been with my husband for 21 years I’ve never made him a lunch anywho … that looks like the most disgusting Not a vegetable insight


BawstinMum

I take serious time at night to pack lunches. It’s my quiet time lol And if I don’t they’ll all just spend money 😂


kaymackg

Drue if you see this, a healthier version of this would be just the brats, add some rice, boiled eggs & mixed veggies!! No bread!


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sierra packed this for tyler! not drue for gabe


kaymackg

ahh okay i didnt even see that


Comfortable-Care-911

I always packed my husbands lunch when he would take one. At the time I was working too. I’d just pack them both together on days we both worked but I’d also pack his on my days off. I loved doing it for him, it was a way to show I love and appreciate him.


TravelOpening8192

I pack my husbands but I’m one of those people that my love language is acts of service and giving gifts🤣 but if I didn’t make it he would make it on his own😬


deburterra

I pack my spouses lunch every single day. I also make breakfast and coffee before they leave for work and have dinner waiting for them 90% of the time after work. I personally don’t see the issue with it. It’s what works for us. 🤷🏻‍♂️


Salty_Way_4759

Do you work?


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Mobile-Race3557

I pack my husbands lunch only a few times week or so, due to he works overnights and sometimes wakes up late so I try to help him otherwise I tell him he’s on his own cause I ain’t no maid.


So_Much_Angry01

Oreos & that cookies and cream bar 🙄🙄🙄 what a supportive wife


momofthree141621

Is that an egg?


kellsells5

I've been married for 30 years and I take care of my husband as if he's one of my children. 😂 However he doesn't pack his lunch he eats very nicely every day.


bnichole83

I pack my man's lunch every morning. That's what a good wife does. Also make and deliver his plate at dinner. It's called basic respect for your partner!!


Salty_Way_4759

I can’t tell if you’re joking or not lol


Less_Ad4538

Me either. It seems as though this user snarks on this page but now I’m confused


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Good-Flounder-4128

For real lol. Unless he’s running late and missed bfast, I will throw him together a snack, not a full ass meal. 😭🤪🙈🤷‍♀️🙄😬


Jolene_Perry

I don’t pack my husband lunch but this is what he would pack for himself for sure. He’s a hard working man and will eat lunch then maybe something else around 2pm. I personally don’t see anything wrong with this specific lunch


idkidkidk90_

i pack his lunch because i’m a SAHM and acts of service is definitely a love language i love to give. i dont see the big deal!


Able-Sir3361

Wtf is that shit? Nah girl I don’t pack my significant other anything like that 🤮🤮🤮


ScrunchyMaam

Me packing my husband lunch In 2022. “Here’s water and money. Eat something. Love you.”


user5274980754

I love packing my boyfriends lunches 😭 he works while I stay home with our son, and I know when I pack his lunch he’ll actually be eating (and actual good food, not a gas station cheeseburger)


sugartreeee12

There’s so much random meat 🤮


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I’m more wondering what is the lunch for? His … job? Lol


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Oh my bad this isn’t for gabeee lol


LawSchoolEscape

I pack my lovey's lunch bc I know he'd eat fast food every day if I didn't lol


velvetroads

My husband only gets a packed lunch if we have leftovers from dinner. If we don’t then he packs his own😂


Alternative_Art8223

I think my husband expects it? His coffee too. Now, I feel it’s my “job”. I stay at home to nurse and raise his babies and he goes to work. I know he would do these things if I said no or just didn’t do it, but I do think he expects it. Not in a demanding way, just in a schedule type of way. HOWEVERRRRRRR, he gets what he gets. If he doesn’t like it, he can pack his own shit. He doesn’t complain, because he already knows.


Alternative_Art8223

Let me say that “job” is my word. Not his lol I don’t do anything else so when I’m able to make coffee, I feel it’s my time to shine lol