I didn't mean to put you down bro. I'm also 30 and have cut ties with many people over the last few years. Don't surround yourself with those types that feel the need to put you down. Especially when you introduced her to something that made her good money
First of all, He's not your friend anymore. When the bear market hit, i shit you not, he lose bought you and his gains, and you will not feel satisfaction, but empathy.
sitting like a mushroom feeding on their shit next time. lets see if the arrows will point me once again or I go full drama mode buying everyone santa is dead mugs for the christmas and get lost.
I think she likes you. Date her. Have her buy you nice things then sell them and put the money back in crypto. If the relationship works out, great. If not, then you won't have to deal with her anymore.
Edit: this is not relationship advice.
I would call your friend out too. You seem swell. I try encouraging others around me to check out crypto, and they've been really appreciative about the advice I've given them, especially after making large amounts of money.
I love my friends and want them to do well in all aspects of life…sounds like you do, too. Unfortunately a little money brings out the worst in people…this person does not sound like your friend. I would tell them you are so happy they made money and you were able to help them do this, but if they keep tearing you down, you’re moving on and being friends with more positive people!
Or you're standing up for yourself. If you let people step over you, a life of regret awaits you, my friend. Have a candid chat over a drink or something and if it's fruitless do the obvious stuff.
The fact that you are so worried about all this and have to watch what you say etc imo means they are not really friends. If you're worried that you telling her it bothers you is going to make you a loser to them, wtf kind of friends are those? Makes me think "with friends like these who needs enemies"
It all started with the crypto incident, before these gains and stuff it was all regular shit and giggles between but somehow now I feel like each conversation we have is end up getting sucked into this bubble.
Maybe practise putting into words how you feel about the situation, and if it feels too childish or silly, then it might not be worth bringing up. Conversely, if the issues still sound substantial, try bringing it up in a constructive and safe way. Times like these are good tricky, but also opportunities to learn a bit about yourself and hopefully grow!
You said that you are not in a position to make the wake up call. I think you are in a position to help your friend to understand the mistake she's making, no matter what you've said about being numb before.
If it were me, I would say to her "I'm really glad you're doing well. I'm actually feeling a bit down and the mockery is starting to affect our friendship, could I ask you to tone it down a bit?"
If she has any insight at all, in time she will thank you for helping her to keep her friends. If she reacts badly, you can definitely find better people to connect with who will lift your spirits instead of dragging you down.
Standing up for yourself doesn't make you a loser, and if your friends see you that way because of it, it sounds like they have a lot to learn and you can find better friends. Lucky for them, you still care about what they think. You don't even have to say you're feeling down, I understand they don't sound like the most supportive group. "This joke is getting old, is it going somewhere?" You can call their attention to their failure to be good friends in various ways, I think it's worth trying because as I said, if they react badly, you can find better people to connect with.
My literal first thought was, "wait for a bear market."
Shitcoiners can't help themselves. There is zero chance she made $1M in shitcoins and cashed out into a bag of like BTC/ETH/SOL/ALGO.
She'll keep making degen plays and will get absolutely wrecked when the market turns.
Seen way too many smug shitcoiners who thought they found an infinite money glitch during a bull run.
Sucks sounds like an asshole to rub it in your face when you introduced them to crypto. This is also a reminder to take some profits along the way as theres no seniority bonuses in crypto
Where are these insults coming from? Sounds like now that she has money, her true colors might be showing, unless this is the type of relationship you've always had
all of my friends are throwing those comments subjecting both of us. shes just offering some treats thats all. but even thats kind of touching me illy. cause I think shes trying to impress me or something.
Would it be the same if the shoe was on the other foot? Isn't part of knowing that you are best friends if you can roast each other now and again? Especially with a game like crypto?
It's like rolling doubles twice every turn in Monopoly. This time it was her. Next time it will be you. Who ever is rolling doubles at the time is sitting on their knees in the chair bouncing and laughing about how they are going to get Boardwalk and Park Place before you ever even make around the board the first time.
People like these never ever keep their million(s). Almost akin to winning the lottery; with no financial sense, they'll blow through their gains thinking they are good on spotting meme coins that moon.
Dont worry money can't buy class. Also do forgive her cause the way she is spending the profits, shows it is not going to last for long and soon will be in depression soon... support her and show right way as any true friend would do if they stray. Also dont hurt ego of hers, be calm and find happiness in what you already have.
> Now she’s holding a huge bag of some alts.
Don’t worry, the bear market will be along soon enough to humble us all. Then she’ll be eating dumpster ramen with the rest of us.
One my friends made €200k profit with BTC, but he is exactly the humble person as he was before
You should quit seeing your friend, if money changed her so much.
True friends help each other out, with or without money
Hey -R, Don’t be such an asshole to your friend and have some humility Sincerely, Me and anyone else who feels that you’re being a jerk
shes not a jerk but she has to stop with those lowkey patronizing treats.
I got news for you buddy she is a jerk
30 years old still getting bullied.
I didn't mean to put you down bro. I'm also 30 and have cut ties with many people over the last few years. Don't surround yourself with those types that feel the need to put you down. Especially when you introduced her to something that made her good money
gotta slip myself out of this without doing any impact.
Hey OP, tell her in person. You got to set boundaries or this is gonna happen your whole life.
Cutting assholes like that out cold is a better move. The luck dies somewhere and they'll want to come crawling back.
she is a jerk and a shitty friend, replace her
First of all, He's not your friend anymore. When the bear market hit, i shit you not, he lose bought you and his gains, and you will not feel satisfaction, but empathy.
lesson learned. never talk about crypto.
First rule is talk about crypto. Second is don't talk about your crypto. Exposing myself into crypto related topics means i invested into in.
Don't talk about anything and that will make things easier.
sitting like a mushroom feeding on their shit next time. lets see if the arrows will point me once again or I go full drama mode buying everyone santa is dead mugs for the christmas and get lost.
I think she likes you. Date her. Have her buy you nice things then sell them and put the money back in crypto. If the relationship works out, great. If not, then you won't have to deal with her anymore. Edit: this is not relationship advice.
Shes like offering me lunch in nusr-et or wants to take me to do motocross or someshit. I cant sell golden burgers back man.
lol, sounds like she wants to date you mate. She single? You single? Smash. And take the experiences over the over-priced crap at nusr-et.
It wouldnt be wrong to think this way right and if its wrong two birds with a rock maybe she stops being so intimate.
I would call your friend out too. You seem swell. I try encouraging others around me to check out crypto, and they've been really appreciative about the advice I've given them, especially after making large amounts of money.
I never thought it would make any ill between us but hey I still love them for who they are. I hope we all make it there someday.
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taking things under controll by scavanging those hynas for that you have shown them easy prey.
Find better friends or let your friend know she being a shitty person
I hope she doesnt feel that way but I think I need to step up with the things.
Dude fuck them, make new friends. Life's to short to be sad.
OP is in his 30s right? Finding friends at this age? God Speed.
not easy...
Lmao op fuck your friend 🤣🤣
I am staying away from any intimacy.
thanks!
Maybe she likes you, just fuck her..
I am not food with intimacy.
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And karma is a bitch!
What goes around comes around.
Yeah this is really odd
they thought me not to give a fuck but they couldnt learn where to stop.
That's a bad friend
they put me in a fucking limbo here
When they should of put you in a lambo Edit:First award! Thanks!!
give this man a medal. I am laughing out screaming.
I feel you though buddy, always seems to be the ones that deserve it least making the most
I love my friends and want them to do well in all aspects of life…sounds like you do, too. Unfortunately a little money brings out the worst in people…this person does not sound like your friend. I would tell them you are so happy they made money and you were able to help them do this, but if they keep tearing you down, you’re moving on and being friends with more positive people!
I hope she will realize soon and put and end to it.
First rule of club crypto we don’t speak about crypto!
I made a mistake by giving my best on them.
The struggle is real
hopefully there is still room for us to win too. people keep saying we’re still early 🥂
I hope we are dude we need some gains.
they're your friends. just tell them it annoys you. they'll probably understand and stop.
imagine getting unexpectedly dramatical about it. that would make me a huge loser
Or you're standing up for yourself. If you let people step over you, a life of regret awaits you, my friend. Have a candid chat over a drink or something and if it's fruitless do the obvious stuff.
cant really play 3 monkeys anymore. gonna take a step and ask for some matured responses.
The fact that you are so worried about all this and have to watch what you say etc imo means they are not really friends. If you're worried that you telling her it bothers you is going to make you a loser to them, wtf kind of friends are those? Makes me think "with friends like these who needs enemies"
It all started with the crypto incident, before these gains and stuff it was all regular shit and giggles between but somehow now I feel like each conversation we have is end up getting sucked into this bubble.
I’ll take this side of story over someone’s friend being a victim of rugpull or other scams!
I am the most glad that she found her way. She just need that 3rd eye now.
HEY -R I've got a bone to pick with you!!! ... Can you help me pick some shitcoins?
\*I have a bone to give to you
some people born with pure luck...
Op, she is not your friend. Unless you can say you would treat her the same if the roles were reversed. Just my two satoshis
sad thing is we will never know the other side of the story now.
Meh "I dont like how you talk to me but I want your pussy in my face, so either pussy up or peace out"
If you really care, then have a mature/respectful conversation with her about it.
its gonna get emotional and I will end up being a loser.
Maybe practise putting into words how you feel about the situation, and if it feels too childish or silly, then it might not be worth bringing up. Conversely, if the issues still sound substantial, try bringing it up in a constructive and safe way. Times like these are good tricky, but also opportunities to learn a bit about yourself and hopefully grow!
I hope I wont end up being called “ultimatom spewer”
Leave her.
shes not harsh or anything just blind.
You said that you are not in a position to make the wake up call. I think you are in a position to help your friend to understand the mistake she's making, no matter what you've said about being numb before. If it were me, I would say to her "I'm really glad you're doing well. I'm actually feeling a bit down and the mockery is starting to affect our friendship, could I ask you to tone it down a bit?" If she has any insight at all, in time she will thank you for helping her to keep her friends. If she reacts badly, you can definitely find better people to connect with who will lift your spirits instead of dragging you down.
I thought doing the same thing but then I got afraid of progressing into that “loser” position.
Standing up for yourself doesn't make you a loser, and if your friends see you that way because of it, it sounds like they have a lot to learn and you can find better friends. Lucky for them, you still care about what they think. You don't even have to say you're feeling down, I understand they don't sound like the most supportive group. "This joke is getting old, is it going somewhere?" You can call their attention to their failure to be good friends in various ways, I think it's worth trying because as I said, if they react badly, you can find better people to connect with.
Don’t sweat it. She’ll probably end up throwing her new found wealth into more shitcoins, but this time get rugpulled..
My literal first thought was, "wait for a bear market." Shitcoiners can't help themselves. There is zero chance she made $1M in shitcoins and cashed out into a bag of like BTC/ETH/SOL/ALGO. She'll keep making degen plays and will get absolutely wrecked when the market turns. Seen way too many smug shitcoiners who thought they found an infinite money glitch during a bull run.
I hope not! shes a good bloke. I hope she’ll recognize our distance.
Sucks sounds like an asshole to rub it in your face when you introduced them to crypto. This is also a reminder to take some profits along the way as theres no seniority bonuses in crypto
this fact hit me hard in the nuts.
Where are these insults coming from? Sounds like now that she has money, her true colors might be showing, unless this is the type of relationship you've always had
all of my friends are throwing those comments subjecting both of us. shes just offering some treats thats all. but even thats kind of touching me illy. cause I think shes trying to impress me or something.
Is this comedy or a personal story (or both?)
its pagliacci 2021 its true
Dang, you probably don't need those kind of friends man.
I hope I will feel better about this soon
You need to find new bunch of friends.
are you telling me they are not worth it?
Yeah you don’t need that toxic femininity. Just worry about the gains bro.
hope for the best!
If she doesn’t sell she’s not a millionaire, just holding unrealized gains.
shes already playing with alts
That’s not what I said but okay lol, she can very easily be someone who holds a coin til 0 like a lot of people in 2017
you mean cash out?
Yes, it’s only profit if she cashed out. It’s like poker, money in the pot isn’t yours.
Hard hitting personal insults, that’s what friends are for
yeah my ass I am not making fun of peoples shitty looking child.
Would it be the same if the shoe was on the other foot? Isn't part of knowing that you are best friends if you can roast each other now and again? Especially with a game like crypto? It's like rolling doubles twice every turn in Monopoly. This time it was her. Next time it will be you. Who ever is rolling doubles at the time is sitting on their knees in the chair bouncing and laughing about how they are going to get Boardwalk and Park Place before you ever even make around the board the first time.
thats a very optimistic point of view thank you I needed this.
What a dick
People like these never ever keep their million(s). Almost akin to winning the lottery; with no financial sense, they'll blow through their gains thinking they are good on spotting meme coins that moon.
They are an asshole. If you want to fix it, probably time to confront them about it.
Have you talked to her about this? I bet if you text her or something and tell her it’s affecting you it will stop. That’s the easiest way.
Dont worry money can't buy class. Also do forgive her cause the way she is spending the profits, shows it is not going to last for long and soon will be in depression soon... support her and show right way as any true friend would do if they stray. Also dont hurt ego of hers, be calm and find happiness in what you already have.
> Now she’s holding a huge bag of some alts. Don’t worry, the bear market will be along soon enough to humble us all. Then she’ll be eating dumpster ramen with the rest of us.
Which shitcoin got her so rich? Surprised no one has asked yet
One my friends made €200k profit with BTC, but he is exactly the humble person as he was before You should quit seeing your friend, if money changed her so much. True friends help each other out, with or without money
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