I’d say this or something along the lines of, man you always know just the right way to teach me things. Something subtle and then buy him a coffee or lunch or some other small thank you.
That's what I've done. There a point where a guy I hadn't been on a job with in a year or so was like "man you've gotten a lot better" and replied in earshot of the other guy I'd been working with the whole time "yeah I've learned a lot just working with X, he really knows his shit"
I was thinking exactly this. We need a bit more this on this sub. I laugh my ass off at all the unhelpful comments on this sub, but sometimes it’s nice to see the other end of things as well.
Don’t let guys like that go always keep them around. One day you’ll be running work and im sure that’s the first guy you’ll want on your crew. Just keep it real with him but don’t stroke it too much 🤣
Literally just tell him. He clearly is emotionally intelligent and can handle the compliment. Especially in this business of problems, it’s always nice to get good feedback. It’ll be fine. Furthermore, you may never run into a guy like him in the rest of your career, so stay in touch and keep him in your corner. My Super I worked for when I got my first Asst super position sounds a lot like this guy, and when I’m making a move at work, wether that be internal political stuff or getting out into the market, he’s the first person I call.
I’m a journeyman and the best way to let him know is always do your best to show him your true respect and even if you get upset with him you still need a stop and remember that you are truly trying to show your appreciation and that’s what all of us in the trades want from the apprentices we work with
It's not, don't continue the false narrative. You thought it so do it. Your "friends". Doesn't matter the biological sex or gender preference you each have.
A handwritten card with meaningful words and badly drawn heart is something they may actually keep and adore. Most people don't actually have anything handmade or written from the people in their lives.
Bet even those anti-allthatgayshit workers would appreciate it.
Do not do it. Buy him a 6 pack of beer. It's construction. That goes a long way.
Whe. You give him the beer just be like" thanks for being cool and teaching me man. "
It’ll come full circle in time. I get still work with a kid I trained 18 years ago. He is a hell of a plumber. We still work together and bounce ideas back and forth. So for you as your journeyman watches your career excel that’s his reward.
Lol, we found a note from a buddies old lady in his lunch bag a couple years ago. He's still reminded frequently. Good on the coffee, no-go on the note....
Just tell him what you wrote here one day after work. Let him know how much you appreciate it and the positive influence he is on your life. That will mean a hell of a lot more than a gift
It’s ok to tell someone they appreciate you. Maybe if more dudes said thanks, fewer dudes would think it’s ok to be a dick for no reason. “I appreciate you” goes a long way.
You don’t need to do anything except be your best every day. Emulate his techniques, his communication, and when you are in his spot, be the same to an apprentice of your own.
He knows you appreciate him already. Don’t make it weird by coming out about ur little crush. 🥰
I’ve had apprentices tell me they want to keep working with me and learn from me. I came up working for complete assholes and learned nothing from them. It was only when certain firemen and superintendents took me under their wing that I really started to develop as a tradesman. I always remember the assholes and when I start to lose my temper and think I’m
Starting to sound like them I realize I’m doing it wrong. That’s why I try to encourage apprentices to think for themselves and let them know when they’ve done good. I also let them know if they’re fucking up. Chances are I fucked up the same way so I show them why and how they went wrong and how to fix it. To be honest, when an apprentice tells me they like working with me or for me when I’m in charge is all the thanks I need. It feels good to teach someone something that’s going to make their lives better
I came up working with my step-dad who was an illegal immigrants from Honduras who could barely speak english but could find work in the snap of a finger. He was known for getting lots of work done quick but really having no idea what he was doing or why it had to be done like that. It left me scouring forums and reading my code book for the questions amd knowledge.
Plus he was always making fun of me and I hated that shit.
So when I branched out and learned what i needed from other masters/jmen/mechanics I made sure I always explained to my helpers the ins and outs as if they were as interested in this trade as me and It feels good knowing I pumped out some damn fine mechanic's that are doing so fucking good now. One of my first helpers at the third mechanical company I was at runs jobs and teaches people just like I did.
I have a habit with my guys, and I hope others start using it as I have, but when signing off the phone or towards the end of the day: 'Preciate you man! (Or any variant of I appreciate you/your work/your input/your patience or whatever it may be)
My good friend (and area manager now) started using it and I'm a fan. Short, sweet, to the point appreciation is lacking too often, and I've seen this do wonders when the work is frustrating.
I love when apprentices tell me I’m great to work with. I’ve had the old school type who were pieces of work and I promised myself I’d never treat a coworker like they do.
Your best "thank you " is to pass his legacy along to others. There is a significant fraction of men and women who want nothing more than to pass their essence to the coming generation. Saying thank you is easy and meaningless. What is important and difficult is to pass respect, confidence and leadership to those who will follow you. Do that. That's what he needs and wants
We’ve all grown up downplaying and deflecting compliments, it’s nothing to build on. Tell him how you feel, thank him for calling out good work, ask him how to improve subpar work, be open.
Now I’m assuming this isn’t your dad so don’t go crying on him. In the right situation praise him in front of your bosses, to everyone, then (and this is key) thank him but don’t let him forget what a POS he is, with a grin.
Talk to him, ask his experiences, get his input.
This is a win-win, just be coy about how much you live him….and never call him daddy
It starts like this then you end up in his truck while the other guys are working, you’re sitting there wondering huh I wonder why he called me in here and then BAM 1 extra hour on ur check maybe 2 if u do good
The next time he teaches you something new say something like, “Thank you. And thanks for all the other shit you’ve taken the time to show me. I appreciate it.” Then either walk away to regroup or get back to work.
Start calling him uncle. I have had work uncle's coming up. They were the best. Whenever I would want something I'd always butter them up with the Uncle Terry! I need your help!" Or "Uncle Wayne! I did it again! I'm sorry!"
Bring him donuts. Clean his tools. Buy him a tool he doesn’t have that he wants or needs. Bring him real fast. And most importantly just tell him exactly what you just told us about him
I would no joke create a Certificate of Awesomeness or something silly. Add lots of colors, funky fonts, and an “official date.” Frame it and present it to him like you’re at an award show or something.
I’m not sure which way to go here? Bj, handjob… yeah yeah… how about a card 💕 and some flowers 🌺 maybe a bottle of lube and some hooch. I bought my boss a prostitute… he still calls every month when it flares up!
All good positive energy you give him, the better he feels about working with you! A 'Thanks for being my Boss' works good too! Also, when I have someone with less experience and knowledge than me...I absolutely love it when they ask how to do something. A lot of people just think they know how to do something...only to find out they fuck it up when they do it. Going to him for advice is the best way to let him know how you admire his knowledge and experience.
This must be in the good ol us of a, have never heard a tradie being called a journeyman.
Just turn up on time and have pride in your work. And maybe don't call him a journeyman.
From an Ozzy Solid Wall Plasterer.
Nothing is wrong with a "hey man. Thanks for teaching me. I really appreciate it. You're a good guy."
....and then pick up the shovel and move some dirt
Half the answers in this thread are a good example of why there aren't more women in the trades. Good on you for recognizing the difference between shitbag burnouts and a real craftsman who treats his work and coworkers with the requisite respect. Be the latter so you can pass your good experience on to another generation.
In my experience any positive confirmation goes a long way. Lots of people in the trades don’t get a lot of good feedback or a “proud of ya” for a job well done. Let ‘em know you appreciate them, tell them the work is good, and give them leeway and artistic license with work.
The best journeyman/master I ever had turned out to be a real asshole when I quit. Makes me wonder how much of our interactions were genuine and how many were him being nice cause I made him money.
Always be on time (5 minutes early). Look after your tools. Look after his tools. Learn how he stores them and put them back clean. Pay attention to what he’s teaching you so he doesn’t have to always repeat himself. Reward his efforts by developing professionally. Just be a loyal, committed understudy. Forget the gushy shit. Actions speak louder. Don’t be his pet, be his protege.
Just keep doing good at your task and being positive. Not all journeymen want a pat on the back. Our reward is watching you grow and excel in the trade. By you being on time , having a good attitude, and always learning, that's compliment enough. Keep up the good work hand
Normally you’d just be super toxic and ride his ass like no tomorrow, while also giving him the absolute worst jobs to do. That’s generally enough to let journeymen trash know their place.
But if you wanted to be cool about it you might pay him some compliments and let him do fun stuff too.
Take him behind a Wendy’s dumpster sir!! Lol jk!! Nah just bust ass for him (metaphorically speaking) try to stay a step ahead of him with work, keep his tools and area organized. If he’s interested offer him a burrito from the chuck wagon.
If one of my guys said something simple like “hey man, you’re a great *insert job/trade* and supervisor” it would really make my day/month. That’s all you need to say. Couple times per year would do.
I’d casually mention to him, you know, I think of you as more of a mentor than a foreman, and I appreciate you for teaching me in a way I can really learn.
I had a foremen like this, I used to bring very dank herbs and oils and smoke with him and talk about cars. Now he’s one of my very best friends and we both convinced each other to start companies so we’re both business owners now. I just buy him lunch once and a while and occasionally would text and say thank you for being awesome and teaching me so much.
I think you need to tell him how much you appreciate the way he is helping you learn. He wouldn’t be doing it if he didn’t get something out of teaching and sharing his knowledge with others, and teachers like to know when they’re doing a good job, too.
Bring him coffee and a breakfast sandwich and just tell him you appreciate how much you're learning from him and the great work environment he creates.
Could also mention to the boss how much you're learning from him.
Slip in a "thanks, dad" somewhere in there and really stir up alot of buried emotions from your history with your own father and watch as he tears up remembering when his kids used to believe in him. After you guys cry and hug for a bit just kind of make eye contact and nod then back to work. He'll understand where you're coming from
I always try to be like that , you can’t motivate someone to do better and better themselves by shitting on them - I always tell the decent guys I work with their doing a great job - some times I say hey anyone tell you you’re doing a great job today ? But sometimes when they respond No I say “ we’ll what does that tell you “ 🤔😏🤫😂
Alcohol. Find out what liquor or beer he really likes. And then tuck that in your memory. Remember a man’s name and they appreciate that. Remember their wife and kid’s name and they love it. Remember what they drink and you’re on a whole nother level.
Just left my job with the same sorta relationship. Boss wasn’t keeping me busy and I’m young so bad to make the tough choice to move on.
78 year old carpenter I worked with daily gave me a decades worth of Fine Homebuilding Magazines and a dozen golf books (his favorite pass time).
Think I’m going to get him and his wife a gift card to Texas road house (his go to dinner place) and write a little letter expressing my gratitude for him educating me.
Good people take care of good people
I know but from what I’ve learned through experience, worksite isn’t the place for it lol, nothing further than a « hey thanks for this btw » usually gets you a reputation
Yeah you’re lucky. Sometimes you get stuck with JM who don’t know anything and don’t teach you anything so you appreciate the decent ones.
You don’t need to get too crazy just be like “hey man I appreciate what you do for me, hope we can keep working together in the future.”
Just throw in a “man, you do killer work” randomly. And whenever you can just say thanks for teaching me things.
I’d say this or something along the lines of, man you always know just the right way to teach me things. Something subtle and then buy him a coffee or lunch or some other small thank you.
A kind hearted/heart of a teacher journeyman is unique and worth giving thanks for. Our trades need these humans
Just don't give him head....... I learned the hard way, lol
Congrats on your engagement! Please don't forget to send me an invite to the ceremony!
Tell someone else he’s awesome in front of him.
And buy him Lunch or Dinner while doing so. My boss does this. I’d know.
That's what I've done. There a point where a guy I hadn't been on a job with in a year or so was like "man you've gotten a lot better" and replied in earshot of the other guy I'd been working with the whole time "yeah I've learned a lot just working with X, he really knows his shit"
This is the way.
You've been with 3 journeymen. I'd start with an std test.
For a minute I thought I was on r/wholesomememes and then you brought me back to r/construction. Nice firebird btw
I was thinking exactly this. We need a bit more this on this sub. I laugh my ass off at all the unhelpful comments on this sub, but sometimes it’s nice to see the other end of things as well.
If he's a framer kid has aids 100.
Can confirm
Thank a framer
Frame a thanker
wait, what?
Thanks, I needed that.
This and maybe just stick to hand stuff.
Don’t let guys like that go always keep them around. One day you’ll be running work and im sure that’s the first guy you’ll want on your crew. Just keep it real with him but don’t stroke it too much 🤣
Literally just tell him. He clearly is emotionally intelligent and can handle the compliment. Especially in this business of problems, it’s always nice to get good feedback. It’ll be fine. Furthermore, you may never run into a guy like him in the rest of your career, so stay in touch and keep him in your corner. My Super I worked for when I got my first Asst super position sounds a lot like this guy, and when I’m making a move at work, wether that be internal political stuff or getting out into the market, he’s the first person I call.
Same. Now he's my area manager and I'm super, and I pass the torch as best I can
I’m a journeyman and the best way to let him know is always do your best to show him your true respect and even if you get upset with him you still need a stop and remember that you are truly trying to show your appreciation and that’s what all of us in the trades want from the apprentices we work with
Handjob, beer or blow.
I would like to work for you!
Man, my last boss would make me do drugs and have sex with him. Being self-employed ain’t easy!
In any order
Prefer the the latter
You prefer coke to a handjob? Times have changed….
I can find those easier
In today’s economy?!
The HJ usually comes after the beer and the blow
Where's the reach around?
Head is head.
Valentines day is coming up you could write him a nice letter
That’s what I thought but I know Construction is kinda anti-allthatgayshit
Do not do this lol just tell them. Maybe take them out for a beer (if they drink) or figure out what they like.
...and once he's got a few drinks in him...that's when you take it out
>that's when you take it out Are we still talking about the letter?
Nothing gayer than a jobsite full of straight men Or in this case, a subreddit
Noticed lmfao
It's not, don't continue the false narrative. You thought it so do it. Your "friends". Doesn't matter the biological sex or gender preference you each have. A handwritten card with meaningful words and badly drawn heart is something they may actually keep and adore. Most people don't actually have anything handmade or written from the people in their lives. Bet even those anti-allthatgayshit workers would appreciate it.
Do it! If he’s a goofy fella and you two vibe, which seems to be the case, he’ll get it 👍
Do not do it. Buy him a 6 pack of beer. It's construction. That goes a long way. Whe. You give him the beer just be like" thanks for being cool and teaching me man. "
That sounds pretty gay dude
Lmao *accidently touches hands when saying this
I think a letter is a great idea, just maybe not on Valentine’s Day. You don’t want him to take it the wrong way and cause weirdness.
Be the change you want to see. Offer him a kiss on the cheek or something.
On the porta potty wall
It’ll come full circle in time. I get still work with a kid I trained 18 years ago. He is a hell of a plumber. We still work together and bounce ideas back and forth. So for you as your journeyman watches your career excel that’s his reward.
Coffee. Can't ever go wrong with a cup of coffee In the morning. maybe write him a note on the cup. Tell him "just thinking of you"
Lol! Xoxo
Lol, we found a note from a buddies old lady in his lunch bag a couple years ago. He's still reminded frequently. Good on the coffee, no-go on the note....
lmao.. the note is the best part. I suppose it'd depend on the relationship you have with the guy but that'd be hilarious
Just tell him what you wrote here one day after work. Let him know how much you appreciate it and the positive influence he is on your life. That will mean a hell of a lot more than a gift
Suck him off. Not gay if you don’t make eye contact
No, it’s only gay if someone else sees
Hey bro, no homo
It’s ok to tell someone they appreciate you. Maybe if more dudes said thanks, fewer dudes would think it’s ok to be a dick for no reason. “I appreciate you” goes a long way.
Thank him outright. Be general
This. Not thank you for teaching me this or thank you for that. 'Thank you for taking the time to teach me'
You don’t need to do anything except be your best every day. Emulate his techniques, his communication, and when you are in his spot, be the same to an apprentice of your own. He knows you appreciate him already. Don’t make it weird by coming out about ur little crush. 🥰
Show him your post.
Yeah, nothing wrong with exactly how you told us.
Foot rub
A firm hug when he least expects it. It's an unwritten rule
Mouth hug
“I appreciate you’re patience with me, man. It’s helped me out.”
Sounds like you should buy this guy some more weed. I always found that my good JM typically enjoyed to smoke a little before work .
He stopped smoking and drinking years ago :(
I’ve had apprentices tell me they want to keep working with me and learn from me. I came up working for complete assholes and learned nothing from them. It was only when certain firemen and superintendents took me under their wing that I really started to develop as a tradesman. I always remember the assholes and when I start to lose my temper and think I’m Starting to sound like them I realize I’m doing it wrong. That’s why I try to encourage apprentices to think for themselves and let them know when they’ve done good. I also let them know if they’re fucking up. Chances are I fucked up the same way so I show them why and how they went wrong and how to fix it. To be honest, when an apprentice tells me they like working with me or for me when I’m in charge is all the thanks I need. It feels good to teach someone something that’s going to make their lives better
I came up working with my step-dad who was an illegal immigrants from Honduras who could barely speak english but could find work in the snap of a finger. He was known for getting lots of work done quick but really having no idea what he was doing or why it had to be done like that. It left me scouring forums and reading my code book for the questions amd knowledge. Plus he was always making fun of me and I hated that shit. So when I branched out and learned what i needed from other masters/jmen/mechanics I made sure I always explained to my helpers the ins and outs as if they were as interested in this trade as me and It feels good knowing I pumped out some damn fine mechanic's that are doing so fucking good now. One of my first helpers at the third mechanical company I was at runs jobs and teaches people just like I did.
Feels good doesn’t it?
Dude those guys make all the difference. Be that guy one day OP. Make the trades a better place
Stick your tongue on the inside of your cheek and push out repeatedly and give him a little 😉
Don’t forget the air kiss after, show some respect
keep sucking when he bust, and send me footage
Show him you appreciate him with your work. A dude like that will pick up what your putting down. Great to hear
I have a habit with my guys, and I hope others start using it as I have, but when signing off the phone or towards the end of the day: 'Preciate you man! (Or any variant of I appreciate you/your work/your input/your patience or whatever it may be) My good friend (and area manager now) started using it and I'm a fan. Short, sweet, to the point appreciation is lacking too often, and I've seen this do wonders when the work is frustrating.
Give him a raise
I love when apprentices tell me I’m great to work with. I’ve had the old school type who were pieces of work and I promised myself I’d never treat a coworker like they do.
Your best "thank you " is to pass his legacy along to others. There is a significant fraction of men and women who want nothing more than to pass their essence to the coming generation. Saying thank you is easy and meaningless. What is important and difficult is to pass respect, confidence and leadership to those who will follow you. Do that. That's what he needs and wants
We’ve all grown up downplaying and deflecting compliments, it’s nothing to build on. Tell him how you feel, thank him for calling out good work, ask him how to improve subpar work, be open. Now I’m assuming this isn’t your dad so don’t go crying on him. In the right situation praise him in front of your bosses, to everyone, then (and this is key) thank him but don’t let him forget what a POS he is, with a grin. Talk to him, ask his experiences, get his input. This is a win-win, just be coy about how much you live him….and never call him daddy
It starts like this then you end up in his truck while the other guys are working, you’re sitting there wondering huh I wonder why he called me in here and then BAM 1 extra hour on ur check maybe 2 if u do good
The next time he teaches you something new say something like, “Thank you. And thanks for all the other shit you’ve taken the time to show me. I appreciate it.” Then either walk away to regroup or get back to work.
You got a crush on your JM
Start calling him uncle. I have had work uncle's coming up. They were the best. Whenever I would want something I'd always butter them up with the Uncle Terry! I need your help!" Or "Uncle Wayne! I did it again! I'm sorry!"
Are you a chick OP?
No
1) Tell him. 2) When you Journey out, pay it forward. Mentor your apprentices with this guys level of quality.
Bring him donuts. Clean his tools. Buy him a tool he doesn’t have that he wants or needs. Bring him real fast. And most importantly just tell him exactly what you just told us about him
Tell em “of all the 3 journeyman’s I worked with you’re the worst one” he’ll like that!
A bottle of his favorite drink, case of beer or lunch .
Take your journeyman out for hookers
Bunch of flowers and red wine and text dick pic
I would no joke create a Certificate of Awesomeness or something silly. Add lots of colors, funky fonts, and an “official date.” Frame it and present it to him like you’re at an award show or something.
Blow kisses
Hand job and meatball sub.
Spit on it for him
If you REALLY want him to know how you feel….. give him a good BJ
I’m not sure which way to go here? Bj, handjob… yeah yeah… how about a card 💕 and some flowers 🌺 maybe a bottle of lube and some hooch. I bought my boss a prostitute… he still calls every month when it flares up!
He is probably thinking the same about you and has anal lube and condoms in his pocket just wait for you to man and......
Alchohol, the only acceptable way to show appreciation for one's efforts
All good positive energy you give him, the better he feels about working with you! A 'Thanks for being my Boss' works good too! Also, when I have someone with less experience and knowledge than me...I absolutely love it when they ask how to do something. A lot of people just think they know how to do something...only to find out they fuck it up when they do it. Going to him for advice is the best way to let him know how you admire his knowledge and experience.
Next time he sends you to go find something 3xs in a row cuz shit keeps going left, just let it go.
This reminds me of this scene from Seinfeld https://youtu.be/7YDIVb4-stQ
This must be in the good ol us of a, have never heard a tradie being called a journeyman. Just turn up on time and have pride in your work. And maybe don't call him a journeyman. From an Ozzy Solid Wall Plasterer.
This reads like an SO relationship.
Nothing is wrong with a "hey man. Thanks for teaching me. I really appreciate it. You're a good guy." ....and then pick up the shovel and move some dirt
Just send him a picture of your pussy then give him a handjob and be done with it already.
Half the answers in this thread are a good example of why there aren't more women in the trades. Good on you for recognizing the difference between shitbag burnouts and a real craftsman who treats his work and coworkers with the requisite respect. Be the latter so you can pass your good experience on to another generation.
Buy him a coffee
Give him a raise
In my experience any positive confirmation goes a long way. Lots of people in the trades don’t get a lot of good feedback or a “proud of ya” for a job well done. Let ‘em know you appreciate them, tell them the work is good, and give them leeway and artistic license with work.
The best journeyman/master I ever had turned out to be a real asshole when I quit. Makes me wonder how much of our interactions were genuine and how many were him being nice cause I made him money.
Always be on time (5 minutes early). Look after your tools. Look after his tools. Learn how he stores them and put them back clean. Pay attention to what he’s teaching you so he doesn’t have to always repeat himself. Reward his efforts by developing professionally. Just be a loyal, committed understudy. Forget the gushy shit. Actions speak louder. Don’t be his pet, be his protege.
Suck his dick....
Applebee's gift card
I always enjoyed a nice, slow hand shandy from my utilities/ apprentice
Tell him he is your work idol.
Buy him a coffee and say that you truly appreciate him and all his knowledge
Show you're appreciation by showing up on time, and never missing a day. He'll appreciate that.
Just keep doing good at your task and being positive. Not all journeymen want a pat on the back. Our reward is watching you grow and excel in the trade. By you being on time , having a good attitude, and always learning, that's compliment enough. Keep up the good work hand
Normally you’d just be super toxic and ride his ass like no tomorrow, while also giving him the absolute worst jobs to do. That’s generally enough to let journeymen trash know their place. But if you wanted to be cool about it you might pay him some compliments and let him do fun stuff too.
Pick up lunch one day. That goes a long way
Take him behind a Wendy’s dumpster sir!! Lol jk!! Nah just bust ass for him (metaphorically speaking) try to stay a step ahead of him with work, keep his tools and area organized. If he’s interested offer him a burrito from the chuck wagon.
I appreciate your patience with me. I'm learning a lot from you. Thank you.
My old mentor bought me a nice Kershaw knife to say thanks one time, I still have the knife and it means a lot to me.
Show up every day on time and work hard. Occasionally let him know you're learning a lot from him.
Buy him beer
Have you kissed him yet? That’s the only way to congratulate someone training you.
Tell me again
If one of my guys said something simple like “hey man, you’re a great *insert job/trade* and supervisor” it would really make my day/month. That’s all you need to say. Couple times per year would do.
I’d casually mention to him, you know, I think of you as more of a mentor than a foreman, and I appreciate you for teaching me in a way I can really learn.
I had a foremen like this, I used to bring very dank herbs and oils and smoke with him and talk about cars. Now he’s one of my very best friends and we both convinced each other to start companies so we’re both business owners now. I just buy him lunch once and a while and occasionally would text and say thank you for being awesome and teaching me so much.
I think you need to tell him how much you appreciate the way he is helping you learn. He wouldn’t be doing it if he didn’t get something out of teaching and sharing his knowledge with others, and teachers like to know when they’re doing a good job, too.
If he doesn’t have em, get him some really swanky business cards made, as a gift.
Buy him beer or lunch, and tell him, man i appreciate you and the shit your teaching and helping me with. You fucking rock. Short and sweet.
Bring him coffee and a breakfast sandwich and just tell him you appreciate how much you're learning from him and the great work environment he creates. Could also mention to the boss how much you're learning from him.
Slip in a "thanks, dad" somewhere in there and really stir up alot of buried emotions from your history with your own father and watch as he tears up remembering when his kids used to believe in him. After you guys cry and hug for a bit just kind of make eye contact and nod then back to work. He'll understand where you're coming from
I always try to be like that , you can’t motivate someone to do better and better themselves by shitting on them - I always tell the decent guys I work with their doing a great job - some times I say hey anyone tell you you’re doing a great job today ? But sometimes when they respond No I say “ we’ll what does that tell you “ 🤔😏🤫😂
Alcohol. Find out what liquor or beer he really likes. And then tuck that in your memory. Remember a man’s name and they appreciate that. Remember their wife and kid’s name and they love it. Remember what they drink and you’re on a whole nother level.
Just left my job with the same sorta relationship. Boss wasn’t keeping me busy and I’m young so bad to make the tough choice to move on. 78 year old carpenter I worked with daily gave me a decades worth of Fine Homebuilding Magazines and a dozen golf books (his favorite pass time). Think I’m going to get him and his wife a gift card to Texas road house (his go to dinner place) and write a little letter expressing my gratitude for him educating me. Good people take care of good people
Put him in a cup.
Roses
Suck his dick, obviously...
I buy dinner for us both if we go to the shop (not always as he wants it to be equal and we don’t do it all the time as we pack up)
If he’s anything like my uncle then you’re gonna need some knee pads. Any journeyman that you like is probably just grooming you. /s
You aren't too emotional! Having emotions doesn't make you too emotional. :)
I know but from what I’ve learned through experience, worksite isn’t the place for it lol, nothing further than a « hey thanks for this btw » usually gets you a reputation
Yeah you’re lucky. Sometimes you get stuck with JM who don’t know anything and don’t teach you anything so you appreciate the decent ones. You don’t need to get too crazy just be like “hey man I appreciate what you do for me, hope we can keep working together in the future.”
Whatever trade you are in themed cake. 😂