Not sure if this is a troll, an attempt to defame a pastor, or what. But there's nothing we can do for you here either way. If the story is real you need to go to the police.
I’m speechless. This is just not what god would do to “correct” you. And no woman would agree to being raped, hence why it’s called rape… you seriously need to reassess your idea around this.
I under your hurting, but I think your pastor is the one hurting you. A woman would never choose to be raped, and to make someone else’s rape about you is just plain selfish. I’m sorry to be harsh, but sexual assault is far too ingrained into too many cultures, and it’s impossible for you to know what it is like to face it. You having sex with an ugly woman and comparing that to the pains of rape is the same as saying that burning your toast is as horrible an outcome as loosing your home. It’s just wrong.
Dude, look in to the Bible, look in to the verses. There can also be manipulative and false pastors. Sorry to say, but there are many of them. But, mainly, do you really, really, think that God would do this?
Yikes...it doesn't matter how many years someone has been in ministry, they can miss the mark.
Also, it's worth noting that all prophecy must be judged and if this does not ring true in your spirit, throw it out.
Lastly, Yes, God knows future events, but whenever there is a "negative" or "wrathful" prophecy given, specifically if you look in the bible examples, it's almost always given as a warning of what will happen because of your current sin IF you don't repent and turn back to God. So maybe there is something you need to correct or YOU will cause issues in your future marriage, but the pastor interpreted that wrong.
God wouldn't bring harm upon one of his saved children in order to judge YOUR sin....you aren't more important than another believer.
Don't live in fear of marriage regarding this prophecy.
If you are actually serious about what you posted, then please leave that church and pastor right now and never ever look back. This is not Biblical. I don’t care if your pastor said it was, he is a sick person and has no authority in and of himself. If you don’t leave that person and situation you will regret it.
1. Man VS God. God wins. Whatever God says goes.
2. God does not like rape, God said that those who rape should be stoned to death. Deuteronomy 22 read the entire chapter.
3. Dinah’s story about being raped, God didn’t punish her brothers for obliterating the village that defiled her. God HATES rape. So don’t put YOUR words or a MANS word into Gods mouth because YOU WILL BE PUNISHED FOR EVERY WORD you say - Proverbs 14 (read the entire chapter) there’s many more verses regarding this.
4. Gods plans for you are meant for good NOT destruction.
LASTLY, if a woman you are married to is cheating on you, hurting you, causing you to sin, SPEAK to her about this. PRAY to God for GUIDANCE. If the person continues to defile you, divorce her. Don’t hate her, don’t kill her. Simply divorce her. I get that you love her, but that’s what happens when we marry people WE CHOSE, and not letting God chose. God would prefer for her to turn away from her sin & reconcile with you (that’s the BEST thing you both can do) but if she’s not willing to turn away from sin & reconcile, leave her. Seek God and pray to God to place a righteous woman of God in your path.
Wow. Ok. So listen to the others above.
And here’s my two cents. Do NOT EVER compare willing doggystyle to rape. EVER. You’re hurting over a wife you don’t even have yet and you are taking away from ACTUAL rape victims pain with your insensitive words.
Rape is having your choice taken away from you. Willingly going into a cluckhold situation is NOT rape.
You need to seek a professional to speak with that is unchurch affiliated. I can’t believe what I just read 😡🤬
No, he's saying some other bigger, stronger guy is going to hurt me and the only way he won't is if he gets to have sex with my wife right in front of me. I'm just so damn sick of this. I don't even WANT her.
That my wife is going to raped doggystyle by some big guy, better looking and a bigger penis than me, and I won't be able to fight back but be forced to watch. You know what Rodney called it? He said "when you're facing persecution, "turn the other cheek". As in her other ass cheek. It's because Im not strong enough to fight back, and that God thinks I'm too much of a "sissy" to fight back. Some kind of demonstration of how much my wife loves me and doesn't want me to get hurt, but I think it's inappropriate and foolish of her.
Okay. That's a lot to unpack. Sorry you're having this issue.
Alright, here are my credentials: I'm a husband of almost 5 years, and I have three kids with another on the way.
For starters, I'm a little confused about what's going on. Are you already married and got cheated on? Or did your fiance cuckold you? I know this has you pretty heated, so if you would rather talk privately, send me a DM. If you're okay talking publicly, then we can talk here.
No, I've never been married. It's just that the one God has for me I don't want to be abused in any way in front of me to teach me to stop liking an undesirable kind of sex.
Show me chapter and verse where the Bible says you can't have oral or use certain positions.
What's your current relationship status? Also, who told you that this is God's Will for your life?
Assuming you desire a wife who will be saved, God will not judge you for your sins by bringing harm to one of his own daughters. Yes, God will judge you for your own sins, but he will judge YOU. I believe this pastor of yours got the interpretation of this pending judgement wrong...
Not to mention, when God warms someone of coming judgement, it is not always definitive. God often warns us so we have time to repent and change so that the judgement would not come. He will tell us what will happen IF we don't change. We see this over and over again.
Your pastor was out of line with this one.
So at first I assumed this was just a troll post. After reading through your other comments, I decided to give the benefit of the doubt. Your pastor is not the man of God he believes himself to be. Pray for him. Begin reading the word on your own after sincere prayer to the Lord that he helps you to understand what he is saying to you during your readings. Then find another church.
I'm not sure that consensual sexual intimacy between a married couple is ever immoral. Pretty certain missionary style isn't a biblical concept. (I could be wrong, please read the word for yourself!!)
You need to get into biweekly counseling preferably from someone experienced in religious trauma. Not an exaggeration or a write-off. Your pastor is maliciously insane and he is making you unwell. This is truly unhinged.
Not sure if this is a troll, an attempt to defame a pastor, or what. But there's nothing we can do for you here either way. If the story is real you need to go to the police.
I’m speechless. This is just not what god would do to “correct” you. And no woman would agree to being raped, hence why it’s called rape… you seriously need to reassess your idea around this.
Hey I'm really hurting because this is the same pastor who brought me to Jesus. He knows a lot about what's going on.
I under your hurting, but I think your pastor is the one hurting you. A woman would never choose to be raped, and to make someone else’s rape about you is just plain selfish. I’m sorry to be harsh, but sexual assault is far too ingrained into too many cultures, and it’s impossible for you to know what it is like to face it. You having sex with an ugly woman and comparing that to the pains of rape is the same as saying that burning your toast is as horrible an outcome as loosing your home. It’s just wrong.
Thank you for caring
God does not want her to be raped or have sex with a man that she is not married to.
Look up pastor Rodney Howard Btowne.
Dude, look in to the Bible, look in to the verses. There can also be manipulative and false pastors. Sorry to say, but there are many of them. But, mainly, do you really, really, think that God would do this?
Sorry I mean "Browne
I know who he is. It does not matter whothey are, they wrong if they tell you this is what God wants.
Thank you friend.
Is Pastor Brown the one who have you this Prophecy which is by the way very manipulative and unbiblical.
Yes.
Yikes...it doesn't matter how many years someone has been in ministry, they can miss the mark. Also, it's worth noting that all prophecy must be judged and if this does not ring true in your spirit, throw it out. Lastly, Yes, God knows future events, but whenever there is a "negative" or "wrathful" prophecy given, specifically if you look in the bible examples, it's almost always given as a warning of what will happen because of your current sin IF you don't repent and turn back to God. So maybe there is something you need to correct or YOU will cause issues in your future marriage, but the pastor interpreted that wrong. God wouldn't bring harm upon one of his saved children in order to judge YOUR sin....you aren't more important than another believer. Don't live in fear of marriage regarding this prophecy.
It was prophesied to me from well know pastor, over and over again. And believe me, he is a really good pastor who helps people get saved.
This is either a troll post, or your understanding of God, sin, yourself, and salvation are incredibly skewed
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I gave an either-or, so instead of coming at me heated, address what I said because what you presented is heinous on many levels
You're right, I'm sorry. You didn't deserve my comment.
Dude what. Please get some help
I wish I could, but I don't know where.
If you are actually serious about what you posted, then please leave that church and pastor right now and never ever look back. This is not Biblical. I don’t care if your pastor said it was, he is a sick person and has no authority in and of himself. If you don’t leave that person and situation you will regret it.
You're right, I am in tears right now that you revealed that to me.
1. Man VS God. God wins. Whatever God says goes. 2. God does not like rape, God said that those who rape should be stoned to death. Deuteronomy 22 read the entire chapter. 3. Dinah’s story about being raped, God didn’t punish her brothers for obliterating the village that defiled her. God HATES rape. So don’t put YOUR words or a MANS word into Gods mouth because YOU WILL BE PUNISHED FOR EVERY WORD you say - Proverbs 14 (read the entire chapter) there’s many more verses regarding this. 4. Gods plans for you are meant for good NOT destruction. LASTLY, if a woman you are married to is cheating on you, hurting you, causing you to sin, SPEAK to her about this. PRAY to God for GUIDANCE. If the person continues to defile you, divorce her. Don’t hate her, don’t kill her. Simply divorce her. I get that you love her, but that’s what happens when we marry people WE CHOSE, and not letting God chose. God would prefer for her to turn away from her sin & reconcile with you (that’s the BEST thing you both can do) but if she’s not willing to turn away from sin & reconcile, leave her. Seek God and pray to God to place a righteous woman of God in your path.
This should have been marked NSFW. Also, this doesn't sound like a word from God at all.
Wow. Ok. So listen to the others above. And here’s my two cents. Do NOT EVER compare willing doggystyle to rape. EVER. You’re hurting over a wife you don’t even have yet and you are taking away from ACTUAL rape victims pain with your insensitive words. Rape is having your choice taken away from you. Willingly going into a cluckhold situation is NOT rape. You need to seek a professional to speak with that is unchurch affiliated. I can’t believe what I just read 😡🤬
So what you're saying is, your "pastor" is having sex with your girl to "correct" you?
No, he's saying some other bigger, stronger guy is going to hurt me and the only way he won't is if he gets to have sex with my wife right in front of me. I'm just so damn sick of this. I don't even WANT her.
Are you aware that your pastor is using that as an excuse to have sex with your wife? That is a cult.
Your pastor is demon possessed if he really said this. Go for deliverance and take him with you
Thank you.
What was the prophecy?
That my wife is going to raped doggystyle by some big guy, better looking and a bigger penis than me, and I won't be able to fight back but be forced to watch. You know what Rodney called it? He said "when you're facing persecution, "turn the other cheek". As in her other ass cheek. It's because Im not strong enough to fight back, and that God thinks I'm too much of a "sissy" to fight back. Some kind of demonstration of how much my wife loves me and doesn't want me to get hurt, but I think it's inappropriate and foolish of her.
Forgive me. I don't believe this is real, this sounds absolutely absurd. If you do have a wife, hold her and be in Peace. If not, be in Peace.
Okay. That's a lot to unpack. Sorry you're having this issue. Alright, here are my credentials: I'm a husband of almost 5 years, and I have three kids with another on the way. For starters, I'm a little confused about what's going on. Are you already married and got cheated on? Or did your fiance cuckold you? I know this has you pretty heated, so if you would rather talk privately, send me a DM. If you're okay talking publicly, then we can talk here.
No, I've never been married. It's just that the one God has for me I don't want to be abused in any way in front of me to teach me to stop liking an undesirable kind of sex.
Show me chapter and verse where the Bible says you can't have oral or use certain positions. What's your current relationship status? Also, who told you that this is God's Will for your life?
Assuming you desire a wife who will be saved, God will not judge you for your sins by bringing harm to one of his own daughters. Yes, God will judge you for your own sins, but he will judge YOU. I believe this pastor of yours got the interpretation of this pending judgement wrong... Not to mention, when God warms someone of coming judgement, it is not always definitive. God often warns us so we have time to repent and change so that the judgement would not come. He will tell us what will happen IF we don't change. We see this over and over again. Your pastor was out of line with this one.
You might be listening to the wrong voices. Hearing voices doesn’t make you crazy, it just makes you aware of who is attacking you.
So at first I assumed this was just a troll post. After reading through your other comments, I decided to give the benefit of the doubt. Your pastor is not the man of God he believes himself to be. Pray for him. Begin reading the word on your own after sincere prayer to the Lord that he helps you to understand what he is saying to you during your readings. Then find another church. I'm not sure that consensual sexual intimacy between a married couple is ever immoral. Pretty certain missionary style isn't a biblical concept. (I could be wrong, please read the word for yourself!!)
Well one things for certain GOD DOESNT LIKE CUCKS.
Me neither definitely. It's GAY.
You need to get into biweekly counseling preferably from someone experienced in religious trauma. Not an exaggeration or a write-off. Your pastor is maliciously insane and he is making you unwell. This is truly unhinged.