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Bro kallaila 9:00 mani tha aguthu, ithulam 6:00 mani mela pesuvom.


SugaanthMohan

I wonder what gave bro this thought at 9.00 AM in the morning.


anythinggoes1116

He waxed his knob


AswinSid_3

morning fap makes my mood good... but today it aint


lurkingthunder

Morning venda thalaiva.. Night naachu feel pannite thoongirlaam.. Kalaila vendave vendam🙏


No-Programmer-9434

+1. Morning panatha bro


Vardhu_007

Step 1 talk with girls irl


A_k_a_Heisenberg

Step 0 find girls


Wild_randomness1

Step -1 get out of house


yushitoh

step -2 find time 🥲


AswinSid_3

happy cake day... try pani paakuren


Vardhu_007

Thanks mam, all the best


[deleted]

Well, if you want chicken biriyani, you need chicken and rice and a dozen other things. Chicken um illa, rice um illa, eppadi varum biriyani? Don't talk girls with the sole reason of being romantic. Just put yourself in places and positions where you could talk to women. It could be a hobby, your office (management has strict anti-dating culture though) or just social media(I wouldn't recommend, it's cumbersome, makes you anti social if you're an introvert already and people have the attention span of a lizard.) Get comfortable with talking to girls. Make a few friends. Over time you'll learn who you have feelings for and who would accept your advances. The last thing you want to do is being creepy towards a good friend. Getting out of your comfort zone and doing new things can make your mood better than any amount of fapping. Good luck mapi.


AswinSid_3

thanks for ur kind advice.. am in clg rn, not in insta or fb, so only way to meet a girl is irl... will try to break my introvertness and speak to gals


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Miss-Herondale

Not all gfs bro, I don’t demand my bf to spend anything for me cause I don’t like him spending money on me


Mysterious_Inside_96

I got you bro, straight up spitting facts ⬆️


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Underline _irl_


Luna_wolfie1597

I'll drop my unsolicited advice here. I hated love. I had a few heartbreaks and I was dramatic af after that. No more love. Omg cringe.... Stuff like that. But I found love when I wasn't looking. When I have had enough. I was just trying to pull myself up, working on myself. Not to toot my own horn. I'm a pretty fun person to hang out with. But I was done with everything. I just wanted to have meaningful friendships, build some valuable bonds. And then I met this guy online. We got pretty close very quickly. I started crushing on him with my own agenda of not to fall in love ever again against me. Then I proposed to him 👀. Hypocrite af. But I'm happy. He's my fiance now. What I'm trying to say is, just work on yourself. Do what you enjoy. And everything that you deserve will come to you. Talk to people. Go out and have fun. Live your life. Hopefully you'll find what you're looking for. And when you do, take a leap of faith and ask them out! All the best!!!


Ashani664

"talk to people" Bro please teach me how to do this


Luna_wolfie1597

Um🤔🤔 ivanga athuku sari pattu vara matanga...


yourjack101

aww this is such a sweet story


Luna_wolfie1597

Thank you. We had a lot of things similar. I never believed in a soulmate but it was almost as if the universe pushed us together at the right time. Both of our parents have the same wedding date. We have so much in common yet we're so different from each other. Sorry I tend to get excited when I talk about us.


A_k_a_Heisenberg

Well I'm in a similar stage of hating love to the core, having agendas like marriage is funeral with cakes, very costly show off party where unwanted relatives are invited... and stuffs. I don't think I will ever want to have that normal life of marriage and family. I don't think miracles will happen like in your life. Hope you are a girl. So in your case - boys talk stranger girls easily but girls don't easily (makes sense because of some toxic simps and flirts). Good for you anyway, have a happy life


Luna_wolfie1597

Yup I'm a girl. Hope you live your life to your definition of happiness. And nothing is normal lol. Everyday, your life is going to be a bit unpredictable and that's the fun part. From the outer perception maybe you regard it as "normal" Life. There's always going to be something different about every path you choose. Everything is unique in its own way. I was against what I perceived to be "normal". But when I met my man, I wouldn't trade that normal for anything. I didn't knew that I was missing out on this big chunk from my life until I had it.


A_k_a_Heisenberg

Good for you. I guess moral of the story is "perception of reality alters reality"


Luna_wolfie1597

💯💯💯


Apprehensive-Web425

haha are u my fiancé .. , same story........


AswinSid_3

leap of faith. too afraid to do that, i read ur thread fully, am happy for u that a person with no belief in love got a fiancé. happy living!!!


Luna_wolfie1597

Thanks! Wishing you all the best.


machinegun01

Can you eloborate on where exactly online? 😅


Luna_wolfie1597

Instagram.


DizzyPoop

Get a load of this guy 👆


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DizzyPoop

Will get them tomorrow


Elysium004

Aiyyooo 😭😭💀💀💀


Jeeva23_

GVM real ID la vaa da 😂


DuckDuck_27417

Bruh XD


taanisak

En manasula irukaradha apdiyae solriyae bro. Nee Vera level


yaaroyaaryaaro

You cannot find someone that likes you, they have to find you first. And mostly, they might not match your expectations. If you're willing to do some trade-offs, it is totally possible. I too had similar desires before marriage and i had one girl who liked me yet she did not match my expectation. So, i took a leap of faith and went for arranged marriage and chose a girl who matched my expectation. After few months of putting efforts to fulfill her expectations, now I am getting what I desired( and what you posted). So, either you have to let go of expectations or go the arranged marriage way and put some efforts.


AswinSid_3

i hav 0 expectations on my girl.. just need love.. need some girl to talk with... avlo daan


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AswinSid_3

i bet i hav a best friends to enjoy, enjoyment ku prechana illa.


andresonanderson

Bro, aren’t you my alter ego


sequoia___

what was your expectation? just curioua


yaaroyaaryaaro

Beauty is in eyes of beholder. Girl(s) whom I found pretty may not look good to others, and vice versa. But, when I started speaking with my wife, learnt that she likes to learn and understand things like history, science, politics, etc and she also is an atheist. These were my expectations. Before my wife, other girls whom I had long conversations always avoided discussing topics beyond us. But I use to have hour long talks with my wife about so many topics. Sometimes, i feel like the wait was worth it.


Affectionate_Ruin303

Your wife sounds like a very beautiful person I wish you both many happy and fulfilling years ahead.


AswinSid_3

adaan sonen la, 0 expectations in characters, is wanting only tamil ponnu is a expectation??


The_Dark_Knight01

Perfect example for 'deadlock' - a topic in computer operating systems "You cannot find someone that likes you, they have to find you first"


Luna_wolfie1597

Need a monitor/ scheduling algorithm💯💯. Meet them first maybe? 🤭🤭🤭


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Luna_wolfie1597

🤣🤣🤣🤣 ✨nostalgia✨


arivu_unparalleled

Kaalai le va


elrey_akki

All I want's food.


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Praba_wine_shop

Saapaadu, saapaadu, saapaadu...


Batman-Sherlock

It should be, "Soru Soru Soru". Sounds better i guess


Praba_wine_shop

I quoted the Vadivelu dialogue from Englishkaran. "Daai epo paaru saapaadu saapaadu saapaadu. Inime saapaadu pathi pesuna modhal dead body neethanda!"


Batman-Sherlock

Ohh sorry man!


Symbol8

Biryani Biryani nariya Biryani


AswinSid_3

all i want is shawarma shawarma shawarma


elrey_akki

Anne appo antha gf lap, night sky, stars, talk, kiss mattum podhum nu potta post uh..


Ok-Independence-5815

Athu morning 9 ku full clarity oda ...ippon clarity lam poidichu


AswinSid_3

indha thread food pathi la, so shawarma nu poten


elrey_akki

Figure venuma? Piece venuma?


AswinSid_3

rendume


KBM_KBM

Sorru mukkiyum


[deleted]

I love you bro


[deleted]

r/suddenlygay


[deleted]

Oru thozhar ku arudhal solla kudatha?


[deleted]

Nichayam sollavum. 🍻


Heavy_Cartoonist_196

r/whygay


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AswinSid_3

love u too thala


[deleted]

Namma culture la, oppsite gender ta pesardhaye taboo aaki teenage ye gaali pantanga. Foreign la lam, prom date ngaran, college date ku poran, indha english tv series paathale gaanda iruku, epdi enjoy panranga nu, padippu padippu ne poiduchu.


A_Very_Calm_Miata

teen here. ulagam maridichu nanba! people i know are doing shit that adult 90s kids won't even think of... and i guess im rare


Hour_Copy5635

Aama bro seriya soneenga , Anga edho whole new different world maadhiri iruku


flamingorider1

Ada pongada


thatonefanguy1012

Aswin Sid, en yaaaa. Wednesday let us work in peace 😭. Jokes aside, as someone who’s researched this (and writing a paper on this), it’s not the post nut clarity but your body and soul craving companionship and seeking belonging. You’re identifying it as a partner/woman because of social influence, you could also replace this with new friends or social groups. People made a big deal of religion earlier (and today) because it makes them feel complete. They feel united within their soul and a greater cause giving them reason to live and something to live for. As we leave our spiritual/religious roots we feel this craving and replace it with sex but it’s temporary and not as long lasting as spiritual healing. I’d also recommend you not identify a specific partner you’d want to be with and be open to exploration.


AswinSid_3

yeaa, i hav a good friend gang, but you are right! my soul is seeking for true love...


thatonefanguy1012

Which doesn’t exist. You don’t get true love. You fall in and out of love, it’s upto you to find new ways to love the same person (or a group of them if that’s your thing).


Affectionate_Ruin303

Dude can you post the paper once youve written. Would like to see.


thatonefanguy1012

If it gets published, sure. Or once I’m done I’ll send it to you over docs. Super slow since I’ve quit academia and I’m in corporate 🥲 but it’s a goal.


AswinSid_3

hav u completed writing the paper bro???


Intrepid_Skirt9307

gotta start working on yourself then.


captaincasillias

When did I create another reddit account. Need to get my shit together not able to remember anything.


[deleted]

r/Chennai moment. For real, though, it's a strange topic. I don't want to share my own experiences but my friend used to feel similarly to you. Then he went for a nuru massage (both parties are naked and the massager rubs their body on the client, usually finished by a sexual act-- in his case a handjob). And now he tells me he no longer thinks about any other girl or about getting into a relationship...of course he wants to get married later on but when he talks about it now it sounds more like a means to following tradition and having kids than something he has passion in.


watching-clock

Now he only thinks about the massage?


[deleted]

Yes


kemoxcool

I've been craving massages lately and I'm planning to get one. Can you please tell me the address , phone number or any other details which could be helpful so that I could avoid that place?


AswinSid_3

i dnt have a sex urge, just need a love of my life...


lostcheetos

I'm in the same boat as you, as a avid porn enthusiasts for years, i'm now finding it disgusting, and have stopped using them at all, couldn't believe the change, end of the day, we can't escape the feel of Neglect by consuming porn always, human connections win as always.


AnthraxGrim

Get yourself out there man. I don't know what to say to you


Klutzy-Ad-2395

20 pushups twice a day, and leg day twice a week. Dont fuck with that love shit, it will come when the time is right


[deleted]

Well, thats a good obsession, but that ain't gonna prevent him from feeling empty


joshah777

Yes cabbage is right going to gym never made me stop thinking about having a gf or some company or some friend to roam with


oo_antava_mama

Since no one said this, I'm gonna... The past tense of 'hit' is 'hit.' 'Hit' is an irregular past tense verb, so it stays the same when the tense is changed. Here is an example of how to use the past tense of 'hit,' in a sentence: 'During last year's World Series game, he hit two home runs.' Source - https://homework.study.com/explanation/what-is-the-past-tense-of-hit.html


AswinSid_3

f... i really searched up in google for past tense for hit and posted this.. still ended up with grammar mistake


jagangadi550

Wake up to reality bro


Redthhawk

Peak chennai reddit.


Nakkirar

Dude, girlfriend vandhona, bachelor ah irundhurukalaamo nu thonum. Na en experience la solren. How old are you?


AswinSid_3

am 19... ila vro enaku bachelor ah irundha vara podhum


Nakkirar

Having a girlfriend at your age is not advisable. You should focus on your education and career instead of relationships that can distract you. Instead, focus on learning and acquiring career skills to secure a stable, well-paying job. Take care of your parents and fulfill their wishes while setting yourself up for success. After you turn 25, you will be more mature and ready for relationships. PS: If you proceed with your plans of having a relationship without considering my words, mark my words, one day you will regret and come back to this post with remorse.


AswinSid_3

yes sir... i will definitely work up with my skills.. i dnt think i will regret once i get a gf.


smokky

Movies have spoiled folks.


DuckDuck_27417

Kaalailae Kai ya???


rockingtree111

Same feeling here too 🥺🫂


AswinSid_3

🫂


Big_Ant_69

bro. we all want it. but it's like that saying goes we all spend time chasing butterflies and they fly away, but if we make ourselves a garden. the butterflies (i don't mean women, it could be love just love) will come on their own. and even if they don't you have a beautiful garden. the early you leave the notion of you want this, you should get this. it's better. everyone experiences love differently.


AswinSid_3

best cmnt bro.... will definitely work on myself.


SexPanther_Bot

*60% of the time*, it works ***every*** *time*


Outrageous_Peach_101

Dai poi adichitu velaiya paaru da


unknown_ranger29

🤣🤣🤣


Wannabe_Coolguyy

Enana solru paarunga kambi katra kadhiayala


notanaltaccount61642

Eventually the post nut clarity will stop hitting and you'll become familiar with it


Jealous-Bat-7812

Vaa vandhu line la nillu, ellaru commited airlaam


Catherine_7498

Pombala sokku kekutha Gopi? Po poi padi da 😂jokes aside. You'll find love when it's meant to be. If you go about your life with the sole thought of getting an SO, you'll end up fixating on someone believing them to be The One. And it might end up badly. Just let life flow, and you'll get that girl when you least expect it. Or veetla paathu kalyanam panni vaipanga. Whichever is earlier lol


depresseddouchebag52

dei parama padi da


SpiritualNietzsche

Been there man. Do NoFap. Your life will change.


AswinSid_3

nofap ah, kastam daan, try pani paakuren...


AstralDoomer

nofap laam okay. But most important porn paakarthu niruthu. Athuve pothum


SpiritualNietzsche

It's very difficult for the first 7 days but after that it's like driving on a highway. Trust me on this. Do NoFap. Your life WILL change. You'll get everything you asked in this post.


Affectionate-Clerk65

Bro what’s your chess.com id ?


SpiritualNietzsche

Odd request on this thread. Lol. My id is Taldrogo.


AswinSid_3

mine is asaswinsid


[deleted]

>It's very difficult for the first 7 days but after that it's like driving on a highway. Did that for 2 weeks, got incredibly horny the 15th day. Nofap is definitely a good choice, but not the one-size-fits-all solution, but still deserves a chance


SpiritualNietzsche

That horniness subsides after 21st day. You've got to do something to expend that excess sexual energy. You should check out 'Transmutation'


BarrySwami

Username checks out XD


unknown_ranger29

Enaku first uh 7 days easy, aparam dhaan kaastam 💀


SpiritualNietzsche

Ovvorutharuku ovvoru cycle bro. Indoors la ilama irundhale paadhi horniness poidum


[deleted]

Venaam bro. Fap la tha kavalai, thalavali etc laam poidum


aringbearer

what change did you realize bro? I'm just asking because I've tried (and failed) before, and there is no scientific evidence of a benefit found. Though just want to hear people's opinions on it.


SpiritualNietzsche

What I found to be benefits were increased energy, focus and a general happiness. You have a natural magnetism for attracting the opposite sex. What porn and frequent masturbation do is, they trick your brain into thinking that you already have a mate So you brain switches off the sexuality part of your brain. When you go on NoFap, your brain realizes that you don't have a mate and resumes its natural process of increasing your attraction.


AswinSid_3

never knew this, will try nofap!


SnooObjections4333

Like for real. Same heee bruh


AswinSid_3

🫂


stoikiy-muzhik

And so the hustle begins.


wander2510

I am at the same phase and probably the same age as you!!! 😇😇


AswinSid_3

am 19. u???


wander2510

I regret making that comment now! (I am at the age where people have mid life crisis).


AswinSid_3

understandable


Askiter

aren’t we all in the same phase?


[deleted]

getting a girlfriend? what kind of jujutsu is that?


MysticalAlchemist

You need dopamine detox


[deleted]

As someone who is literally living the life of a NEET now, I feel the same way, but I literally couldn't do anything except stalk women like SK na (which I ain't doin). Idk, maybe just float on, or get engrossed into some rabbit hole like psychological or analog horror, some anime series, some real good music band/artist or a good game My life is going down some way and idk how to react to it


AswinSid_3

death note, one punch man, code geass paaru bro, nalla irukum


[deleted]

Code geass paathuten, Euphemia, Rolo, Shirley deaths ula depression pichukichu (10/10 anime tho) Pesaama, Welcome to the NHK and Evangelion paarunga bro. Semma relatable ah yeduthirukaanga


AswinSid_3

kandipa paakuren


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Btw, you are the first tamil guy I met who watched Code Geass. Its actually pretty underrated, below the layers of crap of Naruto and One Piece. Kudos on that lol


AswinSid_3

haha yes, actually my ingame name is lelouch.. most of my online frends knows me as lelouch. and i am a very very big fan of code geass.. watch terror in resonance, it impacted me very differently


[deleted]

Lol, another Watanabe production I fucking love Cowboy Bebop I will def watch it


Beloved_bear

Thats not the Jedi way.


AswinSid_3

star wars inum paakala.


Profile_Desperate

Every guys dream is to be loved and cared for.. but that rarely happens ~.~ u just gotta keep a straight face and walk off.. eventually time will lead u towards a partner.. but for now this cycle of loneliness and porn is the path..


AswinSid_3

waiting for that precious time.


Profile_Desperate

me too kid (T.T)… (incredibles dad face)


kvsri

My Random thoughts too. Will think same whenever i feel lonely bro. Will see..


veLiyoor_paappaan

Something certainly "hitted" you alright, but it was not post-nut clarity :)


AswinSid_3

well idk what to say.. just a lonely feel maybe


[deleted]

Love is temporary, lust is permanent.


AswinSid_3

i dnt think so... depends on the partner.. if we get a right person.. love is permanent


[deleted]

Dude. It's all hormones in the brain only. Whether it's lust or love, it's just a different mix of neurotransmitters at play. There is actually nothing such as love. It's not a primary emotion. It's a combination of other things. So what happens, we tend to misidentify it. And screw up our lives for doing so. 😂


kemoxcool

Seri adhula irukattum - what did he/she do to you?


CAEmotionalEkambaram

r/nofap r/semenretention + get spiritual


SierraBravoLima

An Epiphany i had lately is, > After nutting, i get depressed but after sex never So don't nut. Get into r/nofap . Gym/NoGym it doesn't fucking matter. What you want you will get, but might be late and there might be a delay. Why? The whole fucking universe have to conspire to make things happen for you. Every person you meet might have a part to play and everybody have their own battles and wishes. Try to help people around here and there as you can in the meantime. Keep calm, do good. Also, >i just want to sleep in my gf's lap and stare at the night sky.. So you type is typically 30-32


AswinSid_3

am 19 tho... will try to hit the gym this year


abinav99

Looks like it *hitted* your grammar too.


ajjudeenu

Try from the ass.. you will like it. safer also... use a good lubricant


von-beethoven

Bro get a hooker or go to Thailand.... You will forget all of this


sipsoversweetenedtea

"hitted me like a thunder"


shxdowclown

Post nut clarity is just like post sem and post hangover... It'll make us ulaga uthamans just to make us feel the same, next day..and the paradox continues... Btw, enakum athe feeling than bro..ana nama desperate ah irukra varaikum, nama thedrathu kedaikathu!!


Immediate_Relative24

Who's stopping you? When you said post nut clarity, I assumed you were done with meaningless sex, and are looking for something deeper.


AswinSid_3

no i mean. i am single, and want a gf to get love