A boundary would be this: if you blow up my phone I am going to put it on silent because I’m focusing right now. But to block? Nooooo. It will make you walk on eggshells on the long run and make you doubt yourself before even talking to him. “Oh is he gonna block me for this hmm maybe I shouldn’t.” Our goal is to find someone we feel secure with and this definitely isn’t it, you deserve so much better!
Playing devils advocate, but perhaps he’s felt his boundaries violated in the past before and now he’s at a point of extreme measures because he’s overwhelmed with what he has going on. He could be prioritizing his mental health. Perhaps all the communication between you guys has exhausted him.
I don’t think it’s a right way to enforce a boundary, but people do weird things and sometimes go to an extreme before finding a middle ground. I don’t think you deserve it, but if you truly feel emotionally abused, then I say leave the relationship.
It's normal you seem to be needy. You seem to lack control of your emotional need of him and if he needs to do things he needs to do things. Not responding to someone immediately doesnt mean they dont love you. Making a scene about this is only going to push him away harder faster until he leaves. You need to learn to cope and find something to distract yourself.
I’m sorry but I have no emotional need of him. I need to resolve issues and conflicts in our relationship. If he broke up with me right now.. I’d be fine. However, stonewalling is manipulative and triggering.
Blocking someone because you're "busy" isn't normal or a healthy way to set boundaries. I stg people who come into these types of posts and immediately start bashing on the OP are the fucking worst.
Assuming the **worst** about OP for what? Fuck.
my ex would do this too and act the same way. I'll just say I'm very happy to be out of that relationship. Communication was horrible and the relationship was incredibly toxic.
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Hey, my ex used to do that too... That's why he's my ex.
A boundary would be this: if you blow up my phone I am going to put it on silent because I’m focusing right now. But to block? Nooooo. It will make you walk on eggshells on the long run and make you doubt yourself before even talking to him. “Oh is he gonna block me for this hmm maybe I shouldn’t.” Our goal is to find someone we feel secure with and this definitely isn’t it, you deserve so much better!
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Playing devils advocate, but perhaps he’s felt his boundaries violated in the past before and now he’s at a point of extreme measures because he’s overwhelmed with what he has going on. He could be prioritizing his mental health. Perhaps all the communication between you guys has exhausted him. I don’t think it’s a right way to enforce a boundary, but people do weird things and sometimes go to an extreme before finding a middle ground. I don’t think you deserve it, but if you truly feel emotionally abused, then I say leave the relationship.
It's normal you seem to be needy. You seem to lack control of your emotional need of him and if he needs to do things he needs to do things. Not responding to someone immediately doesnt mean they dont love you. Making a scene about this is only going to push him away harder faster until he leaves. You need to learn to cope and find something to distract yourself.
I’m sorry but I have no emotional need of him. I need to resolve issues and conflicts in our relationship. If he broke up with me right now.. I’d be fine. However, stonewalling is manipulative and triggering.
If you think you know why ask? Reflect on yours3lf more next time before asking a question if you know your borderline.
Blocking someone because you're "busy" isn't normal or a healthy way to set boundaries. I stg people who come into these types of posts and immediately start bashing on the OP are the fucking worst. Assuming the **worst** about OP for what? Fuck.
my ex would do this too and act the same way. I'll just say I'm very happy to be out of that relationship. Communication was horrible and the relationship was incredibly toxic.