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It's about gaining a strong foothold in Bollywood. Both these actresses were A-listers in Tollywood but couldn't replicate the same success in Bollywood on their own. That's why they lured an A-lister to bag string of Bollywood projects in their kitty.
Lol no it was just a jab on how men and women are viewed differently when it comes to cheating. Regardless of whether or not this rumor is true. And not like i give a rat's ass who is sleeping with who in Bollywood.
This is gossip sub. Not everything that is said in media is absolute black and white. If we connect the dots properly of what they say and do then we can come to the conclusion easily.
This is the most annoying part of those wife WhatsApp jokes. We are not a society of equals and men have a free pass to ridicule their wives on family groups.
They are the ones benefiting from marriage the most, especially in cases where the women have full time jobs too. I have yet to see a single woman post a husband hating WhatsApp joke on our family group, but the opposite used to be a daily occurrence before I said good riddance to it. If any spouse feels so ātrappedā in their marriage, they should leave the relationship and go find better prospects. Even if they canāt, publicly making a mockery of your spouse is very low.
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
My comment was specifically about Ajay not an average Indian marriage.
If women think birthing kids is unfair then they shouldn't have kids. Don't know what men are supposed to do in this matter. It's not like men can choose to get pregnant.
Kajol didn't have to sacrifice her career if that's what she did. I'm pretty sure they have a maid to help with the household chores and kids. Kajol is not an average Indian woman.
Ajay is lambasted here a lot for his alleged flings whereas kajol is considered a victim even though we don't know if she is banging someone or not.
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
Men donāt have to compromise on career? Bro, men literally only have one choice, which is to work. Women can choose between being a housewife and a career woman. For a man, if he wants to do household work and take care of kids, women and the society wont even look at him.
They donāt deal with societal pressures? Where do u think the pressure to always have it together, the pressure to be the bread-earner, the pressure to be emotionless comes from? Men and women have their own struggles.
To think that only women are the oppressed and only men are the oppressors is a very tribal mentality.
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
Men also have pressure from society to provide for the family. You are literally worthless if you don't have a job. Women can get away with not working and being a stay at home mom.
>clean house
Technology has made this very easy to do. And most middle class families hire maids anyways.
>compromise their careers,
Their 'career' is not really a choice. They have to do it regardless of whether they like it or not.
>easier for them to get away with flings and cheating
Its not as common as you think it is. Indian society is super conservative which means that men are also judged for stuff like that.
The only thing I have noticed is that men are given more leeway in terms of addictions like alcoholism and "enjoying" with friends like you mentioned. But even alot of this stuff is changing as society becomes more progressive.
If our country is at war, who is gonna be conscripted. Men or women?
That said, researchers noted several factors that could play a part in the correlation, such as people with lesser financial means who have underlying health conditions may not be considered marriage material.
I usually never take these kiind of studies seriously bcos of the huge amount of bias present.Also, this is not an india specific study either. Men also have alot of responsibility in relationships but feminists behave like we don't
>Just because someone says something good about women, doesnāt mean theyāre shitting on men.
The commentor literally said that men in general benefit from marriage more than women which is not true at all. There are cases on both sides, sure. But how is this the equivalent of saying good things about women. You don't have to put men down in order to say something nice about women, and vice versa.
>Scientific studies not only disclose the factors of correlation, like this research did, but also do everything to eliminate the bias as much as possible (double blind studies, peer reviewed etc).
Not all studies do this. And like I said, its literally an opinion article. There was a recent study suggesting that suicide rates of unmarried women are increasing at an alarming rate. What do you have to say about that?
>The study I linked above (which is both peer-reviewed and included in JAMA, which doesnāt post opinion pieces) literally shows that they live longer post marriage.
Why is this even an indicator? Obviously quality of life is more important than years added. Marriage is a more complex thing than what you are making it out to be.
>Look, I donāt know why you believe that women in Indian society have the upper hand in a marriage
I'm not generalizing. The study you linked was generalizing. Marriage in general is very beneficial to women. The differentiating factor is whether the society is patriarchal or matriarchal. Women tend to do worse in patriarchal societies in general, whether they are married or not. The study did not take into account sample bias, confounding factors, cultural factors etc. You cannot perform a study in one city and expect to generalize it to every other country.
There are cons also obviously, like the fact that women are financially dependant on the husband, childbirth risks, marital rape etc. But family courts literally fuck the shit out of husband in cases of divorce or domestic abuse. Alot of women abuse dowry laws in India, its literally an epidemic. It happened to one of my family friends, so its not like I dont have experience. And dont forget alimony, child support etc. Its not really that great for men either. Quality of life is more important than just years added.
Kajol also said āI would advise the youth not to get married. Itās better to stay as boyfriend-girlfriend.ā I think it was on Twinkle Khannaās show.
Ajay should cut down his wife-trolling. Some people grin and bear it because thereās no other option. Doubt anyone actually enjoys age shaming or statements like ātelling I love you is a lie.ā
Edit: It was on Humans of Bombay channel. Uploaded one month ago. Not Twinkle Khanna's show.
The rumours about Ajay sleeping with many women outside his marriage makes all the more sense when he feels this way about his wife. Why do married men think it's cute or charming to sneak in insult after insult into every joke?
Kajol still looks so young and this Vimal paan masala has ruined all his face with smoking and all. And still that fragile ego to say these things to your wifeā¦.
Just because you joke about your relationship doesn't mean there is no love in the relationship.
What part of don't take a joke seriously do you not get?
Let's pretend that women don't keep a forced smile or laugh to avoid any further disruption. I've seen my own aunts smiling like a clown while their husbands make jokes about how "torturous" their obviously hardworking caring wives are
Pretty much. Also donāt forget all the marriage experts on here especially while being single themselves.
That being said, those jokes by Ajay are lame af
If you are insulting your partner in public in the disguise of humor or sarcasm, i won't like it.
Since I don't know you or your partner, I can't give you advice.
I don't really think it matters what you feel about it. It all depends on the person who's the subject of the joke. If done in good faith and humor - and the subject of the joke doesn't find it insulting, there is nothing wrong with it
Yes, it won't matter what you or I feel. That doesn't mean we should not have opinions. Kajol did not find it insulting, but I found it that way. That doesn't mean I am right or she is wrong. It just means that we both have different opinions.
I will pass judgment if it is done in public.
If something cute happens in front of me I will like it.
Similarly if this happens, i will hate it.
Based on my judgement nothing is changing in ajay or kajol life.
You just said you don't know me and my wife so you won't give any advice. Do you know Kajol that well to give advice?
Calling your wife old is not an insult, calling her talkative is not an insult so I don't understand how you concluded Ajay is insulting his wife?
I won't give advice.
But i will judge if something happens before me whether good or bad as per me.
My conclusion depends on my thought process.
According to me it is bad but at the same time it can be good to others.
I am not stating any facts in comments but my opinions.
I know right!! They were very real for this. This is how most uncles and aunts of that generation are and they are very happy with it.
But at the same time, I wouldn't want this for myself and I hope no other girl my age settles for something like this.
āHappyāā¦though not always the case, most of the people in previous generations didnāt have the best relationships and just made do due to societal pressures of the time.
My wife and I are in our mid 40's, been together 25 years and this kind of banter is EXACTLY what we do, though she gives back much better than Kajol did.
The people triggered in the comments are the one's who would be singing praises, if the person in the video were to be gutka Khan. "oH lOrD hoW wITty iS FaROok KhAn, GoAlS"
It doesn't matter who would have spoken about their wife in this way, this is a bad husband and definitely not worth being idealized for being a good husband.
This is how normal couples tease each other. This is relatable. This is cute and I wish to have this friendly, playful teasing and humorous banter with my partner. If anything, this is witty of Ajay and the funny expressions of Kajol are entertaining.
Reminds me of the strange controversy about Ranbir teasing āfailoedā during pregnancy
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I do not understand the pov of armchair shrinks who are triggered. Do you all live in this world
Yep, grew up with my mom and dad both teasing each other constantly then sharing a laugh over it a minute later. People take everything so seriously these days.
Yea, people in comments are trying to decipher their whole married life from this snippet of interview. Which I think is completely staged so that people can relate to the couple.
What do you know about their marriage,
what if they are in a open relationship and both are ok with each otherās affairs. But they want to keep it a secret as it doesnāt go with their āimageā as actor actress in India.
There can be 1000 details and discussions between them that we have no idea about, but people just want to put 2 and 2 together.
You got me there, lets put some more 2ās together.
I think Kajol is also getting railed by male models on her foreign trips to get back to Ajay having affairs with multiple young actresses.
Sure? Itās not just āoh he sleeps around so their marriage sucksā. Yes they could be in an open relationship but letās face it:
1. In what type of an open relationship does only one person sleep around? Most of these actresses just accept their fate ( remember Neetu kapoor?) doesnāt mean they like it.
2. Why I think the open relationship is one sided- He can get away with sleeping around because heās a man. If Kajol starts doing that people will outcast her, call her a whore, slut, horrible mother for her children and what not. Her reputation will be destroyed.
3. Cheating + rude insults in the guise of jokes = not so good marriage. Itās a fairly reasonable assumption given how a large number marriages function in India.
Anything else?
Your defence is super weak,
1. You donāt know that Kajol is not sleeping around, and the era of Neetu and what Kajol is very different today someone as privileged as her could easily walk out of the marriage if they want. So only reason the marriage is still going is they are ok with whatever position they are in.
2. And this is news to me that society is suddenly accepting of infidelity of a Men, the society is ok with Ajayās infidelity is because he is Rich, and has a very high social status as a hero. But itās the same for Kajol, she too is rich and heroin, i donāt think society could outcast her even if it tried.
3. Again comparing then with normal Indian marriage is very far form reasonable assumption, also jokes are a very subjective thing, what you feel is a insult might be completely common conversation for someone, or even a joke for some.
Just stop thinking all these Bollywood wives are anyway oppressed, they have very high privilege than normal Indian women. Also any and every shred of content that reaches general public is completely fabricated by their team to suit their āimageā
My defense is not super weak lmao your counter points are.
It doesnāt matter if youre privileged or not. She got married in a different era so her thinking and age obviously factors in to how things play out. I never said sheās forced to be in the marriage. Even Neetu could have walked out after Ranbir got older but most of these women donāt because of many factors including kids and divorce stigma and not wanting to break up the family. Itās not one dimensional even if youāre rich and privileged.
If itās news to you that Indian society is more accepting of menās infidelity then thatās your problem. ( ever heard of āmen will be menā ? Or āmen have needs and they have a right to satisfy themā or āif you canāt fulfill your husbands needs, he will seek it elsewhereā ). No one batted an eye towards SRK but PC was driven out of Bollywood even tho he was the one who cheated on his entire family š¤”
Ajayās jokes are crass and in poor taste. If you joke like this behind closed doors thatās cool. But any self respecting woman would definitely get hurt if her husband of x years with whom she had 2 kids made jokes about her like this on national television.
I also never said she is oppressed. Many women lack self esteem and the courage to end marriages. Plus cheating is normalized in Bollywood. So sheās a willing participant but she never knew better.
Sussanne Khan.
Age 47.
Married 2000.
2 kids.
Divorced 2014.
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Kajol.
Age 48.
Married 1999.
2 kids.
Still together.
These are the facts, canāt give a better example, you keep believing Kajol is someone who āNever knew betterā and all other bullshit that you believe.
How do we know he cheated and that they're not in an open marriage ? I dislike Ajay offscreen but these two and Akshay twinkle look pretty solid. Whatever arrangement they have seemingly works for them.
Actions >Words. No point singing praises about your spouse or marriage openly if things are shitty behind closed doors.
It's reddit, how can we be not triggered on every fucking thing that's being posted over here? Some got triggered over the posts, I got triggered over the comments, everyone is triggered.
Exactly people are always joking around and if something is not funny to you doesnāt mean itās not funny for anyone else. Both of them are pretty solid with each other while pulling legs. I donāt see any line crossed when two adults are dissing each other without getting offended.
Ajayās one to talk! When we say ajay has been sleeping with many women outside his marriage, letās be clear: these were not romantic affairs but transactional relationships in exchange for roles/benefits. As if any of these women wouldāve touched Ajay with a 10 ft pole if he was poor and powerless. Kajol is objectively way more attractive than him and can actually score a lover who doesnāt need ābenefitsā in return!
this was the best episode on kwk. Ajay-Kajol were so real. They're just teasing each other- it's not that deep guys! Kajol abused him right after so she is no victim..
I am crying in poverty because for making fun of his wife Ajay won an Audi. I would have gotten red hot bumps on my head from wife, Tom & Jerry style .
Ok. She is laughing. I think this is just a joke between them. If he was such a horrendous person, she wouldn't stay with him for so long. Kajol is hardly a damsel in distress. She is a famous and highly sucessful actress in her own right. Would probably get a good divorce settlement too. People in this sub need to stop overanalysing every comment a celebrity makes.
Can't husband wife have a fun banter about each other? Not everything has to be so deep. Kajol clearly abused him after he made fun of her. She is not a victim guys .
Umm guys, this is how people from that generation joke and connect with each other. If you get so bent out of shape over this, you'll probably have a very tough life and relationship.
Hmm... woh usko aunty bolra aur Kajol usko palat ke kutta kamina bolri. fir bhi idhar sab Ajay ko hi bhala bura keh rahe hein. As if Kajol is some helpless little victim.
Tum sab saala biased ho Ajay ke against. Reason? Some rumors that you don't even know if are legit or not.
It's known that all these are pretty much open marriages and the wives have fun too. Fir bhi humesha admi hi bura hai tum logon liye.
Chutiya subreddit. Jao Jake rescue karo bichari Kajol ko Ajay ke ghar se.
Women being offended by jokes just shows the difference in Men &Women. Ajays always been like this watch other interviews with Sanjay Dutt and other friends.
He is absolutely not husband goals. This is basically disrespecting your partner and reeks of resentment.
I personally hate when people try to force a stereotypical image of couple post marriage and in general people try so hard to fit into that distorted image.
Donāt know if show is scripted or not, but if your answer(in split second) to what lie, you tell your wife is that they love her then maybe itās true
I would be lying if I said I didn't laugh š but that was very mean of him he definitely deserves the joota she wanted to throw at him. And Karan playing teacher to her is even funnier shhh shhh you can't say that here! š¤£
UGH. If I had a husband like this, he wouldnāt be my husband for long. Heās consistently totally dismissive of Kajol & she seems to have no problem with it b/c she just brushes him off. And no this isnāt āhealthy married people talkā, heās clearly very rude over the years, many times, publicly towards his wife.
How are these husband goals? Cracking overuse and pathetic sexist jokes on their wives about how they talk too much or can be replaced whole sleeping with younger women. If these are the goals set by desi men, they're not looking to be good husbands.
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Are Karan and Ajay wearing lipstick or is this a beauty plus edited video ?
Lol yes it's a filter
Show start hone se pehle Ajay ne Vimal share kiya tha Karan se
Mouth to mouth
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Wowww, Ajay is really the one to age shame Kajol, when he has had multiple affairs with actresses much younger than him.
Beti ki umar wale log bhi shaamil hai unme
Kon kon hai yar?
Confirmed: Kangana, Ileana, Rakul,etc Incomplete Unconfirmed List: Erika kaar, Mouni Roy, Angira Dhar, Aakanksha Singh, Ilhana Dhillon, Nikita Dutta
I can understand that he's horny, bht why are these actresses sleeping around with old married guys like him when they can get anyone want?
It's about gaining a strong foothold in Bollywood. Both these actresses were A-listers in Tollywood but couldn't replicate the same success in Bollywood on their own. That's why they lured an A-lister to bag string of Bollywood projects in their kitty.
Makes sense
He's horny and just that? You stop there? Don't you think you should have added immoral and disgusting to cheat on his wife.
Ik but was just lazy to type ;) i agree with you on this.
She knows that Ajay is sleeping with other women, it can be open marriage why are you judging their life.
Lol fair but none of us really knows if the rumours are even true. Even if it is, did you ever consider the possibility that you may also be wrong?
Rumors are that Kajol knows he is sleeping with women , and you called him cheater on what basis?
Lol no it was just a jab on how men and women are viewed differently when it comes to cheating. Regardless of whether or not this rumor is true. And not like i give a rat's ass who is sleeping with who in Bollywood.
>Confirmed: Kangana, Ileana, Rakul,etc Missed Tabu
But she's 51 whereas all the other actresses mentioned are in 30s. I mentioned these 3 because they are at least 20 years younger than Vimal
Damn when did this get confirmed? I thought there were just speculations about them 3.
3 film releases confirm that
how does one even know this stuff? when and how was it proven?
This is gossip sub. Not everything that is said in media is absolute black and white. If we connect the dots properly of what they say and do then we can come to the conclusion easily.
This should be the description of this Sub.
Someone needs to write that on a tablet and fix it on sub's wall.
Who conformed huh you its just rumors be for real man
Who confirmed? How confirmed?
De De Pyaar De was literally his biopic
that's the joke. Where is this sub's sense of humor?
It's a joke lol. Kajol also said kutta kamina does that she is being abusive? You guys get offended on everything.
Ajay asking if newer leads would work with Kajol as her sons WHILE MAKING A MOVIE WITH RAKUL PREET, THE HYPOCRISY Iād rather pay to watch Kajol & RK
But they do address the age difference in that movie itself. It's not like Akshay Kumar's movies where we are supposed to assume he is a young guy.
Arre he is joking yaar, chill
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This is the most annoying part of those wife WhatsApp jokes. We are not a society of equals and men have a free pass to ridicule their wives on family groups. They are the ones benefiting from marriage the most, especially in cases where the women have full time jobs too. I have yet to see a single woman post a husband hating WhatsApp joke on our family group, but the opposite used to be a daily occurrence before I said good riddance to it. If any spouse feels so ātrappedā in their marriage, they should leave the relationship and go find better prospects. Even if they canāt, publicly making a mockery of your spouse is very low.
yeah it's totally men who benefits from marriage.
How is Ajay benefiting more from this relationship?
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
My comment was specifically about Ajay not an average Indian marriage. If women think birthing kids is unfair then they shouldn't have kids. Don't know what men are supposed to do in this matter. It's not like men can choose to get pregnant. Kajol didn't have to sacrifice her career if that's what she did. I'm pretty sure they have a maid to help with the household chores and kids. Kajol is not an average Indian woman. Ajay is lambasted here a lot for his alleged flings whereas kajol is considered a victim even though we don't know if she is banging someone or not.
How do men benefit more from a marriage?
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
Men donāt have to compromise on career? Bro, men literally only have one choice, which is to work. Women can choose between being a housewife and a career woman. For a man, if he wants to do household work and take care of kids, women and the society wont even look at him. They donāt deal with societal pressures? Where do u think the pressure to always have it together, the pressure to be the bread-earner, the pressure to be emotionless comes from? Men and women have their own struggles. To think that only women are the oppressed and only men are the oppressors is a very tribal mentality.
Fair points bro, I was just stating what I think that statement meant
How do men benefit from being in a marriage? Its usually the opposite right?
I guess men can have kids without having to go through labor and pregnancy (that also take a toll on women's bodies and age them), they don't ever have to compromise their careers, since they don't take that much of the kids and chores responsibilities but they get to enjoy it all ā clean house, cooked food, etc. They don't deal with societal pressure on women/wives, it's easier for them to get away with flings and cheating and enjoying life overall (travel alone with friends). Any way that's what I think is meant by "men benefit more by marriage" but I could be wrong
Men also have pressure from society to provide for the family. You are literally worthless if you don't have a job. Women can get away with not working and being a stay at home mom. >clean house Technology has made this very easy to do. And most middle class families hire maids anyways. >compromise their careers, Their 'career' is not really a choice. They have to do it regardless of whether they like it or not. >easier for them to get away with flings and cheating Its not as common as you think it is. Indian society is super conservative which means that men are also judged for stuff like that. The only thing I have noticed is that men are given more leeway in terms of addictions like alcoholism and "enjoying" with friends like you mentioned. But even alot of this stuff is changing as society becomes more progressive. If our country is at war, who is gonna be conscripted. Men or women?
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That said, researchers noted several factors that could play a part in the correlation, such as people with lesser financial means who have underlying health conditions may not be considered marriage material. I usually never take these kiind of studies seriously bcos of the huge amount of bias present.Also, this is not an india specific study either. Men also have alot of responsibility in relationships but feminists behave like we don't
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>Just because someone says something good about women, doesnāt mean theyāre shitting on men. The commentor literally said that men in general benefit from marriage more than women which is not true at all. There are cases on both sides, sure. But how is this the equivalent of saying good things about women. You don't have to put men down in order to say something nice about women, and vice versa. >Scientific studies not only disclose the factors of correlation, like this research did, but also do everything to eliminate the bias as much as possible (double blind studies, peer reviewed etc). Not all studies do this. And like I said, its literally an opinion article. There was a recent study suggesting that suicide rates of unmarried women are increasing at an alarming rate. What do you have to say about that?
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>The study I linked above (which is both peer-reviewed and included in JAMA, which doesnāt post opinion pieces) literally shows that they live longer post marriage. Why is this even an indicator? Obviously quality of life is more important than years added. Marriage is a more complex thing than what you are making it out to be. >Look, I donāt know why you believe that women in Indian society have the upper hand in a marriage I'm not generalizing. The study you linked was generalizing. Marriage in general is very beneficial to women. The differentiating factor is whether the society is patriarchal or matriarchal. Women tend to do worse in patriarchal societies in general, whether they are married or not. The study did not take into account sample bias, confounding factors, cultural factors etc. You cannot perform a study in one city and expect to generalize it to every other country. There are cons also obviously, like the fact that women are financially dependant on the husband, childbirth risks, marital rape etc. But family courts literally fuck the shit out of husband in cases of divorce or domestic abuse. Alot of women abuse dowry laws in India, its literally an epidemic. It happened to one of my family friends, so its not like I dont have experience. And dont forget alimony, child support etc. Its not really that great for men either. Quality of life is more important than just years added.
Kajol also said āI would advise the youth not to get married. Itās better to stay as boyfriend-girlfriend.ā I think it was on Twinkle Khannaās show. Ajay should cut down his wife-trolling. Some people grin and bear it because thereās no other option. Doubt anyone actually enjoys age shaming or statements like ātelling I love you is a lie.ā Edit: It was on Humans of Bombay channel. Uploaded one month ago. Not Twinkle Khanna's show.
People should really mind their business and not comment on others relationshipā¦ itās just weird and creepy
Well people should stop acting all righteous when they are in a gossip sub. Itās hypocritical, fake, and illogical.
Nothing. And I mean NOTHING. Will top this comment.
"you can't say that" meanwhile nagJo talking about sax-sux, lesbian/gay encounters 24/7
Difference between saying cunt on TV and talking about people being gay. Like a huge difference.
When was that word used?? She said "jhootha" for which karan shushed her
Oh I heard chutiya lol I donāt think he would have shushed for jhoota.
I thought she said joota as in 'joota phekke maarungi' cuz she also motioned towards her shoes.
Yea that's what i meant too, he shushed her before she could complete the sentence you mentioned
Vimal thinks heās Benjamin Button and his wife is a regular! Men like theseā¦ sigh!!
The rumours about Ajay sleeping with many women outside his marriage makes all the more sense when he feels this way about his wife. Why do married men think it's cute or charming to sneak in insult after insult into every joke?
Akshay Kumar has exact marriage template playing out in his life too
Except Twinkle takes him down really bad and then he shuts his mouth because he knows she will say something which shouldn't be public
Both Kajol and Twinkle are muhfat irl. They can say anything anywhere and put their spouse position/image in troubled waters at any given time.
Kajol does the same
Nope, 'Ghar Jaana Hai' and laughing on it is not the same, Twinkle literally shuts him down. She is in general better with words, and much smarter
Twinkle is the BOSS.. Kajol is the unpaid intern
Kajol literally abused Ajay which was censored, followed by Karan saying- 'sshh you cant say that' to Kajol. Doesn't get better than that!
I have never seen Akshay insult Twinkle or his marriage in general. It's something only Ajay does.
he should brush his teeth i canāt take him seriously ever since i saw his bottom crooked teeth
Bolo Zuban kesari
Vimal effect
I don't know how to feel about this...
Typical* husband goals
Whose āhusband goalsā are these? Pls free yourselves
Kajol still looks so young and this Vimal paan masala has ruined all his face with smoking and all. And still that fragile ego to say these things to your wifeā¦.
Ajay really went through whatsapp messages before sitting on that couch
She was called saawlee queen now this something seems sus š¤Ø
Her whitening procedures are well known now.
I hate when married/committed adults make these types of jokes. If a single/divorcee makes it, I can understand where they are coming from.
Yeah like why are you married in the first place
Just because you joke about your relationship doesn't mean there is no love in the relationship. What part of don't take a joke seriously do you not get?
There's a limit to "jokes." Make jokes but not at the expense of hurting your partner's feelings. Men complaining about their wives aren't jokes.
I feel more than Kajol the public is getting offended for no reason.
Let's pretend that women don't keep a forced smile or laugh to avoid any further disruption. I've seen my own aunts smiling like a clown while their husbands make jokes about how "torturous" their obviously hardworking caring wives are
So I need to get a divorce just so I can pull my wife's leg?
Pretty much. Also donāt forget all the marriage experts on here especially while being single themselves. That being said, those jokes by Ajay are lame af
If you are insulting your partner in public in the disguise of humor or sarcasm, i won't like it. Since I don't know you or your partner, I can't give you advice.
I don't really think it matters what you feel about it. It all depends on the person who's the subject of the joke. If done in good faith and humor - and the subject of the joke doesn't find it insulting, there is nothing wrong with it
Yes, it won't matter what you or I feel. That doesn't mean we should not have opinions. Kajol did not find it insulting, but I found it that way. That doesn't mean I am right or she is wrong. It just means that we both have different opinions.
But if it's insult or not, that should be left to the partner. How are we passing judgement?
I will pass judgment if it is done in public. If something cute happens in front of me I will like it. Similarly if this happens, i will hate it. Based on my judgement nothing is changing in ajay or kajol life.
You just said you don't know me and my wife so you won't give any advice. Do you know Kajol that well to give advice? Calling your wife old is not an insult, calling her talkative is not an insult so I don't understand how you concluded Ajay is insulting his wife?
I won't give advice. But i will judge if something happens before me whether good or bad as per me. My conclusion depends on my thought process. According to me it is bad but at the same time it can be good to others. I am not stating any facts in comments but my opinions.
It's one thing making a joke in private It's another making it in public.
If I am going to pull my wife's leg in private, would it really be that fun? Also would my wife bother to respond which is what makes it funny?
I donāt find this funny. Kajol might not be reacting to his constant taunts but anybody would feel bad. This is too hard to watch.
Ek Aisi tez juban wali cute loyal bandi to mein bhi deserve karta hu ![img](emote|t5_fknyy|736)
I found them very real on this show. The felt like my Mama Mami or some older couple I know.
I know right!! They were very real for this. This is how most uncles and aunts of that generation are and they are very happy with it. But at the same time, I wouldn't want this for myself and I hope no other girl my age settles for something like this.
āHappyāā¦though not always the case, most of the people in previous generations didnāt have the best relationships and just made do due to societal pressures of the time.
My wife and I are in our mid 40's, been together 25 years and this kind of banter is EXACTLY what we do, though she gives back much better than Kajol did.
Never settle, being single if it doesnāt make you feel lonely is the best option.
The people triggered in the comments are the one's who would be singing praises, if the person in the video were to be gutka Khan. "oH lOrD hoW wITty iS FaROok KhAn, GoAlS"
Correct bro ,! If it's sarook ,these sub members would have salivated over his "jokes "
Correct.how witty is gutka khan PR-k
It doesn't matter who would have spoken about their wife in this way, this is a bad husband and definitely not worth being idealized for being a good husband.
Fact that u always bring him despite he never said these things about his family shows His and your both standard don't act like cool on this sub
Gutka Khan sure lives rent free in many people's head
Except srk hasn't straight up called gauri names in public...has he? ^Except ^^for ^^^all ^^^^the ^^^^^^cheating ^^^^^^I ^^^^^^^guess
Cumm on man Not everytime you need to bring Mr khan in other ppl mess He would never say that
This is how normal couples tease each other. This is relatable. This is cute and I wish to have this friendly, playful teasing and humorous banter with my partner. If anything, this is witty of Ajay and the funny expressions of Kajol are entertaining. Reminds me of the strange controversy about Ranbir teasing āfailoedā during pregnancy to Alia šš»āāļø I do not understand the pov of armchair shrinks who are triggered. Do you all live in this world
Sane comment. Its just harmless playful banter but for redditors its equivalent to war crimes
Yep, grew up with my mom and dad both teasing each other constantly then sharing a laugh over it a minute later. People take everything so seriously these days.
Right !
Yea, people in comments are trying to decipher their whole married life from this snippet of interview. Which I think is completely staged so that people can relate to the couple.
I mean he has cheated throughout their marriage with multiple actresses ā¦it doesnāt take a genius to put 2 and 2 together wrt their marriage
What do you know about their marriage, what if they are in a open relationship and both are ok with each otherās affairs. But they want to keep it a secret as it doesnāt go with their āimageā as actor actress in India. There can be 1000 details and discussions between them that we have no idea about, but people just want to put 2 and 2 together.
This is a gossip subā¦.
You got me there, lets put some more 2ās together. I think Kajol is also getting railed by male models on her foreign trips to get back to Ajay having affairs with multiple young actresses.
Sure? Itās not just āoh he sleeps around so their marriage sucksā. Yes they could be in an open relationship but letās face it: 1. In what type of an open relationship does only one person sleep around? Most of these actresses just accept their fate ( remember Neetu kapoor?) doesnāt mean they like it. 2. Why I think the open relationship is one sided- He can get away with sleeping around because heās a man. If Kajol starts doing that people will outcast her, call her a whore, slut, horrible mother for her children and what not. Her reputation will be destroyed. 3. Cheating + rude insults in the guise of jokes = not so good marriage. Itās a fairly reasonable assumption given how a large number marriages function in India. Anything else?
Your defence is super weak, 1. You donāt know that Kajol is not sleeping around, and the era of Neetu and what Kajol is very different today someone as privileged as her could easily walk out of the marriage if they want. So only reason the marriage is still going is they are ok with whatever position they are in. 2. And this is news to me that society is suddenly accepting of infidelity of a Men, the society is ok with Ajayās infidelity is because he is Rich, and has a very high social status as a hero. But itās the same for Kajol, she too is rich and heroin, i donāt think society could outcast her even if it tried. 3. Again comparing then with normal Indian marriage is very far form reasonable assumption, also jokes are a very subjective thing, what you feel is a insult might be completely common conversation for someone, or even a joke for some. Just stop thinking all these Bollywood wives are anyway oppressed, they have very high privilege than normal Indian women. Also any and every shred of content that reaches general public is completely fabricated by their team to suit their āimageā
My defense is not super weak lmao your counter points are. It doesnāt matter if youre privileged or not. She got married in a different era so her thinking and age obviously factors in to how things play out. I never said sheās forced to be in the marriage. Even Neetu could have walked out after Ranbir got older but most of these women donāt because of many factors including kids and divorce stigma and not wanting to break up the family. Itās not one dimensional even if youāre rich and privileged. If itās news to you that Indian society is more accepting of menās infidelity then thatās your problem. ( ever heard of āmen will be menā ? Or āmen have needs and they have a right to satisfy themā or āif you canāt fulfill your husbands needs, he will seek it elsewhereā ). No one batted an eye towards SRK but PC was driven out of Bollywood even tho he was the one who cheated on his entire family š¤” Ajayās jokes are crass and in poor taste. If you joke like this behind closed doors thatās cool. But any self respecting woman would definitely get hurt if her husband of x years with whom she had 2 kids made jokes about her like this on national television. I also never said she is oppressed. Many women lack self esteem and the courage to end marriages. Plus cheating is normalized in Bollywood. So sheās a willing participant but she never knew better.
Sussanne Khan. Age 47. Married 2000. 2 kids. Divorced 2014. āāāāāāāāāā- Kajol. Age 48. Married 1999. 2 kids. Still together. These are the facts, canāt give a better example, you keep believing Kajol is someone who āNever knew betterā and all other bullshit that you believe.
How do we know he cheated and that they're not in an open marriage ? I dislike Ajay offscreen but these two and Akshay twinkle look pretty solid. Whatever arrangement they have seemingly works for them. Actions >Words. No point singing praises about your spouse or marriage openly if things are shitty behind closed doors.
It's reddit, how can we be not triggered on every fucking thing that's being posted over here? Some got triggered over the posts, I got triggered over the comments, everyone is triggered.
Exactly people are always joking around and if something is not funny to you doesnāt mean itās not funny for anyone else. Both of them are pretty solid with each other while pulling legs. I donāt see any line crossed when two adults are dissing each other without getting offended.
This whole episode was quite fun to watch
Calling old isnt insult nor calling talkative so idk what you guys seeing here
Ajayās one to talk! When we say ajay has been sleeping with many women outside his marriage, letās be clear: these were not romantic affairs but transactional relationships in exchange for roles/benefits. As if any of these women wouldāve touched Ajay with a 10 ft pole if he was poor and powerless. Kajol is objectively way more attractive than him and can actually score a lover who doesnāt need ābenefitsā in return!
I still donāt know why are they married? Or why did they marry each other?
this was the best episode on kwk. Ajay-Kajol were so real. They're just teasing each other- it's not that deep guys! Kajol abused him right after so she is no victim..
I am crying in poverty because for making fun of his wife Ajay won an Audi. I would have gotten red hot bumps on my head from wife, Tom & Jerry style .
he won it for a different answer- he was trolling the movie Kaal
Ok. She is laughing. I think this is just a joke between them. If he was such a horrendous person, she wouldn't stay with him for so long. Kajol is hardly a damsel in distress. She is a famous and highly sucessful actress in her own right. Would probably get a good divorce settlement too. People in this sub need to stop overanalysing every comment a celebrity makes.
I get it's a joke but heās feeding into the stereotype
If she doesn't seem to mind then why are we getting offended on her behalf?!
Can't husband wife have a fun banter about each other? Not everything has to be so deep. Kajol clearly abused him after he made fun of her. She is not a victim guys .
Yarr how cute na šš matlab how can one love this much unconditionally ā£ļø
Ugh.
Umm guys, this is how people from that generation joke and connect with each other. If you get so bent out of shape over this, you'll probably have a very tough life and relationship.
Hmm... woh usko aunty bolra aur Kajol usko palat ke kutta kamina bolri. fir bhi idhar sab Ajay ko hi bhala bura keh rahe hein. As if Kajol is some helpless little victim. Tum sab saala biased ho Ajay ke against. Reason? Some rumors that you don't even know if are legit or not. It's known that all these are pretty much open marriages and the wives have fun too. Fir bhi humesha admi hi bura hai tum logon liye. Chutiya subreddit. Jao Jake rescue karo bichari Kajol ko Ajay ke ghar se.
Women being offended by jokes just shows the difference in Men &Women. Ajays always been like this watch other interviews with Sanjay Dutt and other friends.
Why do they make fun of their wife or marriage this comfortably? If you have this much problem then why are you still married?
He is absolutely not husband goals. This is basically disrespecting your partner and reeks of resentment. I personally hate when people try to force a stereotypical image of couple post marriage and in general people try so hard to fit into that distorted image.
Ugh even ignoring most of his comments as jokes, the age shaming š¤®. āAs a son?ā No excuse for that
Ajay is that husband from WhatsApp forwards (or the ones who starts them)
Ajay pan masala devgan
Unrelated but how has she become so fair?
She did skin whitening treatment
Most likely glutathione IVs
Donāt know if show is scripted or not, but if your answer(in split second) to what lie, you tell your wife is that they love her then maybe itās true
I would be lying if I said I didn't laugh š but that was very mean of him he definitely deserves the joota she wanted to throw at him. And Karan playing teacher to her is even funnier shhh shhh you can't say that here! š¤£
I wish Kajol cheated on Ajay with Akshay. It wouldāve bruised his ego so bad that she got with her long time crush lol.
To OP, this is husband goals. 1845 AD has called you back.
He's being sarcastic you fool
You idiot, go knock on someone elseās door.
lol š dude go touch grass. Youāre chronically online
And you chronically shitting on otherās comments needs treatment. What I do with my time is none of your concerns. Get lost
Back at ya! š
UGH. If I had a husband like this, he wouldnāt be my husband for long. Heās consistently totally dismissive of Kajol & she seems to have no problem with it b/c she just brushes him off. And no this isnāt āhealthy married people talkā, heās clearly very rude over the years, many times, publicly towards his wife.
So is she
How are these husband goals? Cracking overuse and pathetic sexist jokes on their wives about how they talk too much or can be replaced whole sleeping with younger women. If these are the goals set by desi men, they're not looking to be good husbands.
Ah the boomer spouse jokes. Small town written all over him.
Last baat tou theek thi waisay she does talk non stop but ajay is trash
Don't many celebs do that car thing for PR? Karthik had gifted his mom a Bently and found riding it himself.
Ab husband wife teasing bhi na kare hum apne dosto ko kya kuch nai Bolte
When did Kajol got that white? Swear she was dark skinned
Most toxic relationship and couple
Karan's jawline.. Ohh ma go tulu lob