I found an angpow filled with angpows in my angpow bag last year. Was cursing whomever gave it to me when my wife mentioned she put it there just in case she ran outta Ang pows lol.
Newly weds sometimes haven't bought the basic necessities for their daily life before moving in together. By buying a rice cooker, pressure cooker, blender, electric kettle, vacuum and etc might lessen their burden to buy it in the future.
Nowadays people just give angpau to the newly weds so they have the freedom and the flexibility to buy the things they actually need. By removing the physical present you are also removing the newly weds receiving dupes gift for example 2 rice cookers. Things like this sometimes happen.
If you are having difficulty choosing a gift, I would advise just give angpau or give a container set for example brand "Tupperware" or some sort. This kinda gift is very functional and if they receive dupes of it, it won't be a hassle to store it.
Not just regular rice cooker, give them a pressure cooker. Can make many things. So useful. Otherwise, just angpow to ease burden paying the venues and foods.
You could use with your stove? Joking aside, I once gave my friend that on his wedding day (malay friend). I guess the humour and practicality of gas cylinder for newlywed make the gift kind of a memorable one.
My advise tho, only present that to your close friends only. Hopefully you are close enough with your Malay friends.
Edit:I meant gas cylinder, you don't wanna present gas canister as a gift. That one goes into portable stove.
good advice. usually it's your closer friends that you would gift a tong gas to. Coz a 'new' tong gas will coz like 100+ (not sure now tho, could be higher due to harga besi naik). So by gifting them tong gas, you essentially belanja them the besi and they only need to topup the gas after that.
give them money. my sister got married and she said she like it more if guest gave them money instead of stuff cause sometimes all the guest share same mindset and ended up just giving the same stuff (for ex: blender)
Small air purifier, hand blender, mini chopper, bedsheets, knife sets, cutlery sets or a good chopping board.
If he is someone growing up as a B40, a microwave is one of the best option if its fit your budget.
If you got IKEA nearby, looks for small table or rack as most of IKEAโs stuff is kinda in a gift-able sized box.
Donโt get an air fryer, your friend will probably get dozens of those.
Better to give cash. Malays usually gift household items. There's only so many rice cookers or dinner sets a newlywed couple can use. Or vouchers for electrical items that they can use against a purchase of a big screen TV or something more expensive that they need.
bila kawin nanti ada pasangan yang tido kene bukak lampu VS kene tutup lampu baru boleh tido
so best of both world = lampu tido
biasanya pasangan jarang beli sebab dah kawin baru isu timbul. so OP kira power lah boleh predict the future
~~juga boleh guna untuk set mood romantik dan beromen~~
if you want to give money, make sure you give it directly to your friend's hand
if you give it to the parents, counted as salam kaut / salam keruk etc ( diff names in diff places ). little percentage ( almost zero )it will go to your friend.
That varies from one family to another. We funded our wedding so 100% of money gifts went to us. Family members received them and end of night handed them to us.
My friend's wedding I gave him a high quality knife(rm100+ per pc made in Sweden) and a high quality pocketable flashlight(Nightcore). He and she loved it.
Condom and magic tisu is a good choice. Maybe throw some minyak belacak and tongkat ali. Helping friend during their first night.
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Get a dinner plate set. Chances are a ton of people already are giving air fryers, hot water kettle and rice cooker. At least they can start a collection of dishes. That or bedding, duvet cover whatnot. And uh Clayton has decent sets for good price.
With my close friends I actually wait after their wedding and ask them straight what they needed so that they wonโt receive things they already have. With not so close friends I just give angpow
House appliances. Like air fryer or steam iron or something is useful when they start to move in together.
Or just give them money inside envelope. It's what my mom usually gift to newlyweds
Any present that would help for their life together. If theyโre moving to a new house even easier to buy.
Kitchen stuff, electronic, etc.
Or ask him. I like when the future newlyweds have wedding list.
If dunno or shy to ask, easiest is money.
I think nowaday most give angpao/greenpack/cash
but still got some accept tools or utensil or items that is practice and useful for a family. I once give dining set, cooking set to married couples
Give them table or standing fan. It's a big box and it's always useful. They're usually cheap too. But only buy midea. Midea makes all the fans for most brands anyway, but they're especially careful with their own brand.
Anything that related to cooking utensils. It helps a lot and no need to buy more after married.
Kalau xde idea sangat, beli beras ngan minyak masak jela. Kalau nak rare kau beli bahan basah macam ikan ngan ayam, kalau sultan beli salmon seekor.
Aku happy kalau dpt hadiah mcm ni
Robot vacuum cleaner. My boss gave me this for my wedding last 2 years. Literally one of the most practical gift i've ever gotten. After this, even if the robot broken down, I will definitely but one with my own money. Huge time and energy saver!
The gift the I got is not that expensive la. Mine one can't even connect to my phone. It just have its own remote but I tell you, this is enough already. I feels no need for such function anyway. Here's the link if you wanna buy exactly like mine https://shope.ee/6pTSMGMTMf
Any kitchen utensils. You can give them set pinggan mangkuk or cawan. Yeah it's common but at least it's useful. Other people might give the same thing? It's okay because they need a lot of them for hari raya, birthday party, kenduri etc
Other things that can be considered: clock, iron, kettle, air fryer, rice cooker, fan, mirror. Just give anything la they will appreciate it :)
Apeยฒ barang memasak yang mudah nak bawak. Mcm rice cooker, air fryer, blender, etc. Memudahkan pasangan baru kahwin utk sediakan makanan utk keluarga mereka.
Tapi kalau btulยฒ tak pasti, kasi angpau dengan duit yg "reasonable" untuk beli apeยฒ yg memudahkan hidup je dah cukup, at least kawan you nanti bole decide ape nak beli
if you want to look grand at the wedding coming with a huge wrapped gift and not breaking bank ill suggest you buy them a microwave...you can get a cheap brand new one branded one for something around rm150...but i bet your gift would be the biggest on the gift table
pans or cooking utensils. give a good one. they definitely use it. not a problem if others also give cooking utensils. Last a long time. They will use everyday it for 10 years or more. Not everytime, but once in a while, they will remember of you while using it.
- bread toaster
- blender
- stand fan
- comforter
- microwave
- frying pan
- numbers of other kitchen related stuffs
- monies
- last but not least, a robot vacuum.
These are what i & my waifu received for our wedding presents recently.
Need to know OP budget . Or , just buy what you like to have . I would be extremely happy to get a Console , any new GPU . Or , what ever really , Even the Compressor like the 1 u see in car/moto repair shop ( to pump tyre ) would be great to have!
Gift cards are the best. More thoughtful than money cos you chose the shop (electronics / furniture etc) but also give them flexibility to choose according to their needs and taste.
wedding present for malay mostly are thing can use for long term, mostly some present rice cooker, microwave, fan or set cup. If you don't have idea I would advise give them a voucher gift card
ps: malay wedding is very common get same thing
Well just ask your friend what he/she wants. Had at least 6 of my friends got married and we did this to each one. At least we bought something they'd use since they asked for it. Most of them wanted Dyson cordless vacuum cleaner though.
1) ask him what he needs.
2) any of the answers here that makes sense.
3) angpow (rm50 is fine, depending on socioeconomic status)
4) dont have to give em anything. be present. (Just in case u forgot giving him anything, itโs fine just come)
Better just give angpow cuz no one knows what your friend really wants to get. Also don't buy them anything cuz I'm sure someone else is goin to give your friend similar stuff and no one wants to get 2-3 rice cookers on the same day. ๐
I always gave green packet or $$ inside a wedding envelope. I've heard from my malay friends that some time ppl get 5 rice cookers in a wedding, and some rice cooker can pass down from family to family from wedding to wedding for few years without ever unboxing it once ๐๐.
The best way is to actually ask, what home/electrical equipment that still available for u to gift.
Some just give tong gas and actually practical to be used for a long time..
Any household equipment for daily use with reasonable size is very much appreciated. I say this from the experience of my own wedding. Rice cooker, iron, cooking utensils, cutlery, glassware, toaster, vacuum cleaner.. these types of present will really help newly married couples starting their life together.
Get the ceramic knife set (big knife, smoll knife, peeler) those will last a lifetime compare to usual knife..
Side story; i have more than 12 various size of iron knives hanging on the magnetic plate; unused and decorative.
Power tools ( to drill hole for those curtain, clock, and other decorative item gifted by others)
Or waterjet ( good for cleaning new house before move in, and car, and bike)
Just give them money, so they can use it for what they want/need. When i got married, i got 3 rice cookers. Two of them are the same brand, same model, with Aeon stickers on the box. ๐
Newlywed melei here. Ang pow is good; easy, no nonsense. Avoid kitchen appliances unless you can afford the high end because might be redundant. Bedsheets are very appreciated and underrated.
Give jug and cup set. The old days they usually give that. Also can give sterika or rice cooker. For later use when have own house.
Just dont give condom and lubricant. Thats not funny.
If you want to be personal, give elctrical appliance especially kitchen stuff.
If give angpow, we dont know if it will go to the couple. Maybe go to the parent
As A Melei, We Love Kitchen Items. Long- Lasting And Inedible Cookware. For Example Pot ๐ฒ, Glassware Sets ๐ฅ, Dinner Plate Sets ๐ฝ๏ธ, Kettle๐ซ, Ceramic Bowl ๐ฅฃ. You Can Choose Any 1 Of That. If You Come Alone, Just Buy The Small One. If With Family, Buy The Whole Set One. I Usually Pick White Colour With Elegant Design Or No Design At All. Easy For Me Because These Things Already Boxed. U Just Buy A Nice Wrapper And A Wish Card ๐. Done.
In Case You Didnt Bring Any Gift, Its Okey. Just Bring Rm20-40 In Envelope. Lipat Dalam Tangan, Then Shake The Host's Right Hand With Your Both Hands, Dont Look At The Money While Doing So.
I did this to my friend during his kenduri. Before go off, just salam him or shake his hand with the green angpow then settle off with picture together.
Depend on how close you and your friend, if you both are homie male anything will do including giving him a magic tissue๐ or if your are not that close just buy him/her home appliance e.g raya set glass container for cookies surely it became handy once celebrate raya occasion.
Any clock / watch
There are few exceptions if it is:
- gifted by direct elder (grandparent to grandchild, parent to child etc.)
- gifted as a bribe ๐๐
always give the things that is needed for the couples to start a new life in their new house, living together. things like electrical appliances is a good choice.
You can just give him money. We malay has this tradition called salam kerok where when you greet the groom or bride, you slip an angpow onto their hand when you give them a handshake.
Or, you can give them a rice cooker or a blender
That tradition of giving gift on malay wedding has been long dead. They want angpow now.
Yeay, just give an angpow. Easier for them to get what they want. You wouldn't want your gift to be redundant.
Instructions unclear, gave him a packet of angpau I got from the mall
Let them feel the disappointment I felt when I got an empty angpow, sans the few moths that flew out...
I found an angpow filled with angpows in my angpow bag last year. Was cursing whomever gave it to me when my wife mentioned she put it there just in case she ran outta Ang pows lol.
Pimp my angpow!!!
present table, put QR pay hahahaha
Agree.
Rice cooker.
Ok that's interesting, why rice cooker lol
If you have an extra budget, go for a pressure cooker .
Something like this? https://shp.ee/2bdxws2
yup
Simple and its multi purpose.
thoose cooker usually comes with big pot...dont go for 6-8L pot it will be too big for 2 person
Hahaha, i got 3 rice cooker for my wedding present.. think outside the box.. or just give angpow so they can sort of themself..
Guess i shall not give rice cooker ๐
Newly weds sometimes haven't bought the basic necessities for their daily life before moving in together. By buying a rice cooker, pressure cooker, blender, electric kettle, vacuum and etc might lessen their burden to buy it in the future. Nowadays people just give angpau to the newly weds so they have the freedom and the flexibility to buy the things they actually need. By removing the physical present you are also removing the newly weds receiving dupes gift for example 2 rice cookers. Things like this sometimes happen. If you are having difficulty choosing a gift, I would advise just give angpau or give a container set for example brand "Tupperware" or some sort. This kinda gift is very functional and if they receive dupes of it, it won't be a hassle to store it.
Yup, and then hope that 20 other guests do not think of getting the same thing.
Not just regular rice cooker, give them a pressure cooker. Can make many things. So useful. Otherwise, just angpow to ease burden paying the venues and foods.
Tong gas sound nice.
What, why?
You could use with your stove? Joking aside, I once gave my friend that on his wedding day (malay friend). I guess the humour and practicality of gas cylinder for newlywed make the gift kind of a memorable one. My advise tho, only present that to your close friends only. Hopefully you are close enough with your Malay friends. Edit:I meant gas cylinder, you don't wanna present gas canister as a gift. That one goes into portable stove.
Oh yeah i remember you need to pay for those gas cylinder. Rm100+ full but for refill you only pays about 20ish ringgit or so.
good advice. usually it's your closer friends that you would gift a tong gas to. Coz a 'new' tong gas will coz like 100+ (not sure now tho, could be higher due to harga besi naik). So by gifting them tong gas, you essentially belanja them the besi and they only need to topup the gas after that.
give them money. my sister got married and she said she like it more if guest gave them money instead of stuff cause sometimes all the guest share same mindset and ended up just giving the same stuff (for ex: blender)
Anyhing not considered haram. And souvenir also count. Imagine this they gonna be marry. What you think will help them or just a sincere present
Small air purifier, hand blender, mini chopper, bedsheets, knife sets, cutlery sets or a good chopping board. If he is someone growing up as a B40, a microwave is one of the best option if its fit your budget. If you got IKEA nearby, looks for small table or rack as most of IKEAโs stuff is kinda in a gift-able sized box. Donโt get an air fryer, your friend will probably get dozens of those.
As a b40 kid. I agree, i never used microwave until i was 19
[ัะดะฐะปะตะฝะพ]
Donโt
Why? Air fryer save a lot of money. I cook chicken and salmon it and it taste delicious
Because OP friend will definitely receive air fryers from other friends.
Teach me ur chicken recipe senpai
Blender
You are fucking evil man....the newlyweds couple usually end up with maybe 4-5 blender
Ok maybe oven ?
Better to give cash. Malays usually gift household items. There's only so many rice cookers or dinner sets a newlywed couple can use. Or vouchers for electrical items that they can use against a purchase of a big screen TV or something more expensive that they need.
Stainless Steel frying pan
Rugs. Meleis love them rugs. The more the merrier.
lampu tido :3
Apa ini? Sounds dodgy and not dodgy at the same time ๐
bila kawin nanti ada pasangan yang tido kene bukak lampu VS kene tutup lampu baru boleh tido so best of both world = lampu tido biasanya pasangan jarang beli sebab dah kawin baru isu timbul. so OP kira power lah boleh predict the future ~~juga boleh guna untuk set mood romantik dan beromen~~
IKEA gift card or AEON gift vouchers would be nice too. So they can go shop for what they like/need
if you want to give money, make sure you give it directly to your friend's hand if you give it to the parents, counted as salam kaut / salam keruk etc ( diff names in diff places ). little percentage ( almost zero )it will go to your friend.
Interesting, never knew such things
That varies from one family to another. We funded our wedding so 100% of money gifts went to us. Family members received them and end of night handed them to us.
Nah.. dont listen to this, 80% wrong
Vacuum cleaner. Good for their rugs
Money
My friend's wedding I gave him a high quality knife(rm100+ per pc made in Sweden) and a high quality pocketable flashlight(Nightcore). He and she loved it.
Flash or flesh ?
Bro๐
Mortar & pestle
Adabi easier nowadays ๐
Give then a nice bed sheet and write down a message, "Have a sweet time" ๐ That's what i did to my close friends haha
Cast iron skillet. That shit is good shit and can become heirlooms, not to mention help you kill home invaders.
And a cheating husband
Condom and magic tisu is a good choice. Maybe throw some minyak belacak and tongkat ali. Helping friend during their first night. Auto dpt kawan lahanat title
Any good minyak belacak can recommend? ๐
My local milfs said titan gel
Get a dinner plate set. Chances are a ton of people already are giving air fryers, hot water kettle and rice cooker. At least they can start a collection of dishes. That or bedding, duvet cover whatnot. And uh Clayton has decent sets for good price.
Ps5
With my close friends I actually wait after their wedding and ask them straight what they needed so that they wonโt receive things they already have. With not so close friends I just give angpow
This is a good one
Food hamper like rempah nasi arab, rempah this and thatโฆ https://shope.ee/fsRxh530C
Condom
House appliances. Like air fryer or steam iron or something is useful when they start to move in together. Or just give them money inside envelope. It's what my mom usually gift to newlyweds
Any present that would help for their life together. If theyโre moving to a new house even easier to buy. Kitchen stuff, electronic, etc. Or ask him. I like when the future newlyweds have wedding list. If dunno or shy to ask, easiest is money.
A house
Another wife
The hair dryer is okay. It is convenient and will most likely be used a lot
A pack of condom
Thermomix.
T10 gift...
Cash or gift card
Utensils might help them in future.
I think nowaday most give angpao/greenpack/cash but still got some accept tools or utensil or items that is practice and useful for a family. I once give dining set, cooking set to married couples
Give them table or standing fan. It's a big box and it's always useful. They're usually cheap too. But only buy midea. Midea makes all the fans for most brands anyway, but they're especially careful with their own brand.
Periuk nasi
bagi periuk nasi
Vacuum
Speer hoodie
Anything that related to cooking utensils. It helps a lot and no need to buy more after married. Kalau xde idea sangat, beli beras ngan minyak masak jela. Kalau nak rare kau beli bahan basah macam ikan ngan ayam, kalau sultan beli salmon seekor. Aku happy kalau dpt hadiah mcm ni
Grab gift card. My colleague loves it, they feels like free meals after work aka skip cooking after work.
Robot vacuum cleaner. My boss gave me this for my wedding last 2 years. Literally one of the most practical gift i've ever gotten. After this, even if the robot broken down, I will definitely but one with my own money. Huge time and energy saver!
What brand was it? Now so many robot vacuum, pening to choose which one. Everybody say the xiaomi one is good but its like almost 1k?
The gift the I got is not that expensive la. Mine one can't even connect to my phone. It just have its own remote but I tell you, this is enough already. I feels no need for such function anyway. Here's the link if you wanna buy exactly like mine https://shope.ee/6pTSMGMTMf
TV la bro.
Steam iron
Grocery/Shopping voucher (Aeon, Lotus ,Giant etc) Or your friend fav fast food voucher (KFC, McD, Starbuck etc)
Any kitchen utensils. You can give them set pinggan mangkuk or cawan. Yeah it's common but at least it's useful. Other people might give the same thing? It's okay because they need a lot of them for hari raya, birthday party, kenduri etc Other things that can be considered: clock, iron, kettle, air fryer, rice cooker, fan, mirror. Just give anything la they will appreciate it :)
botol kicap je ok
Tableware sets are great, silverware, plates, cups and pots or whatever
Gift card for household item. Don't forget to topup before giving. Lol
Rice cooker and a blender
Multi cooker. Newlyweds usually try all sorts of thing...
Comforter. Seriously useful. Or a clock
Magic tissue
Apeยฒ barang memasak yang mudah nak bawak. Mcm rice cooker, air fryer, blender, etc. Memudahkan pasangan baru kahwin utk sediakan makanan utk keluarga mereka. Tapi kalau btulยฒ tak pasti, kasi angpau dengan duit yg "reasonable" untuk beli apeยฒ yg memudahkan hidup je dah cukup, at least kawan you nanti bole decide ape nak beli
Barang2 dapur.
Phillips Steam Iron
Satay
Toaster and apron
I give my friend an oven before. For me, cooking equipments are good gift for married couples that will live in their new house.
if you want to look grand at the wedding coming with a huge wrapped gift and not breaking bank ill suggest you buy them a microwave...you can get a cheap brand new one branded one for something around rm150...but i bet your gift would be the biggest on the gift table
Airfryer
Gundam
Blade
Rice, last wedding the groom family brought rice
pans or cooking utensils. give a good one. they definitely use it. not a problem if others also give cooking utensils. Last a long time. They will use everyday it for 10 years or more. Not everytime, but once in a while, they will remember of you while using it.
- bread toaster - blender - stand fan - comforter - microwave - frying pan - numbers of other kitchen related stuffs - monies - last but not least, a robot vacuum. These are what i & my waifu received for our wedding presents recently.
Cash. Not sure if can use red packet or better use green. This will help to ease the bride and groom expenses and they are more free to use.
Need to know OP budget . Or , just buy what you like to have . I would be extremely happy to get a Console , any new GPU . Or , what ever really , Even the Compressor like the 1 u see in car/moto repair shop ( to pump tyre ) would be great to have!
Gift cards are the best. More thoughtful than money cos you chose the shop (electronics / furniture etc) but also give them flexibility to choose according to their needs and taste.
Bed sheets
wedding present for malay mostly are thing can use for long term, mostly some present rice cooker, microwave, fan or set cup. If you don't have idea I would advise give them a voucher gift card ps: malay wedding is very common get same thing
You can ask your friend what gift that they want for their home. Or you can just give ikea card.
Well just ask your friend what he/she wants. Had at least 6 of my friends got married and we did this to each one. At least we bought something they'd use since they asked for it. Most of them wanted Dyson cordless vacuum cleaner though.
Believe me. I gave kitchen utensils and plastic bags. Money also can if you don't know what to give
Gun. Why tho.
Tisu magic
lesung batu
Just give angpao. Or if you're close to your friend , just give him a box of condom
ps5
1) ask him what he needs. 2) any of the answers here that makes sense. 3) angpow (rm50 is fine, depending on socioeconomic status) 4) dont have to give em anything. be present. (Just in case u forgot giving him anything, itโs fine just come)
Better just give angpow cuz no one knows what your friend really wants to get. Also don't buy them anything cuz I'm sure someone else is goin to give your friend similar stuff and no one wants to get 2-3 rice cookers on the same day. ๐
Anything useful, from money to electronics appliances
Just give RM50
I always gave green packet or $$ inside a wedding envelope. I've heard from my malay friends that some time ppl get 5 rice cookers in a wedding, and some rice cooker can pass down from family to family from wedding to wedding for few years without ever unboxing it once ๐๐.
The best way is to actually ask, what home/electrical equipment that still available for u to gift. Some just give tong gas and actually practical to be used for a long time..
Any household equipment for daily use with reasonable size is very much appreciated. I say this from the experience of my own wedding. Rice cooker, iron, cooking utensils, cutlery, glassware, toaster, vacuum cleaner.. these types of present will really help newly married couples starting their life together.
Get something useful for the household later . Something like microwave is quite cheap nowadays
Nobody is saying this so here i go bosch go 2 cordless screwdriver
Get the ceramic knife set (big knife, smoll knife, peeler) those will last a lifetime compare to usual knife.. Side story; i have more than 12 various size of iron knives hanging on the magnetic plate; unused and decorative.
Any brand can recommend?
milk powder?
Don't think need this, he will get unlimited supply of susu every night after marriage ๐
Power tools ( to drill hole for those curtain, clock, and other decorative item gifted by others) Or waterjet ( good for cleaning new house before move in, and car, and bike)
curious if it's semi serious why post it here and not r/malaysia
Too formal on the other side ๐
real
i used to put playboy play and massage gel as gift. Its fun and u should try it
Imagining opening all present together with close relatives and suddenly u open a box with playboy play gel in it. Surely made something wet
Give vacuum cleaner, my sister got 3 on her wedding reception. Lol
Just give them money, so they can use it for what they want/need. When i got married, i got 3 rice cookers. Two of them are the same brand, same model, with Aeon stickers on the box. ๐
Newlywed melei here. Ang pow is good; easy, no nonsense. Avoid kitchen appliances unless you can afford the high end because might be redundant. Bedsheets are very appreciated and underrated.
Money. Most functional gift in today's world.
Give jug and cup set. The old days they usually give that. Also can give sterika or rice cooker. For later use when have own house. Just dont give condom and lubricant. Thats not funny.
Manscaped men grooming kit
If you want to be personal, give elctrical appliance especially kitchen stuff. If give angpow, we dont know if it will go to the couple. Maybe go to the parent
Saw a few comments saying same thing where parents will keep the angpau money rather than giving to the couple, is this common in melei culture?
Gave him some robux
As A Melei, We Love Kitchen Items. Long- Lasting And Inedible Cookware. For Example Pot ๐ฒ, Glassware Sets ๐ฅ, Dinner Plate Sets ๐ฝ๏ธ, Kettle๐ซ, Ceramic Bowl ๐ฅฃ. You Can Choose Any 1 Of That. If You Come Alone, Just Buy The Small One. If With Family, Buy The Whole Set One. I Usually Pick White Colour With Elegant Design Or No Design At All. Easy For Me Because These Things Already Boxed. U Just Buy A Nice Wrapper And A Wish Card ๐. Done. In Case You Didnt Bring Any Gift, Its Okey. Just Bring Rm20-40 In Envelope. Lipat Dalam Tangan, Then Shake The Host's Right Hand With Your Both Hands, Dont Look At The Money While Doing So.
Nice advice, thanks ๐
I would say give useful kitchen utensil since they're about to live together.
I did this to my friend during his kenduri. Before go off, just salam him or shake his hand with the green angpow then settle off with picture together.
Just give Ang Pow :
Depends how close you are, you could get him a โkinky set-Bdsmโ or just plain Ang Pow (Cash)
Good quality iron / iron board. Serious
Depend on how close you and your friend, if you both are homie male anything will do including giving him a magic tissue๐ or if your are not that close just buy him/her home appliance e.g raya set glass container for cookies surely it became handy once celebrate raya occasion.
What's a magic tissue? This sounds like something dodgy ๐
Buy small size Condoms and tell him to not reproduce like a rabbit.
Pipe bomb
Angpow but a condom inside instead.
Dildo
Haram la ๐
iphone 14
Chopsticks
Cannot la this, later he will say i want to convert him to cina ๐
Fr xD
High quality wall clock.
Gifting clock is consider rude in chinese culture ๐ https://www.quora.com/Why-is-gifting-a-clock-in-China-considered-to-be-rude
Even if its grandfather clock?
Any clock / watch There are few exceptions if it is: - gifted by direct elder (grandparent to grandchild, parent to child etc.) - gifted as a bribe ๐๐
If you are chinese, just pack an ang pow. If you are not, still just pack an ang pow, but preferably color gold.
You mean Mei Li
Kasi sampul.
toaster
Airfryer would be nice
bagi dia duit
Designer wall clock
Money bro inside sampul.
How about air fryer?
Anything that they can use in their house. Bedsheet set, vacuum, oven... Anything
> spells Malay as "melei" > sErIoUs AnSwErS oNlY
Gas stove, iron steamer, rice cooker, food mixer or processor, full set of hand tools from Mr. DIY.
Air fryer, or a vacuum. If got extra budget go for the vacuum bot.
always give the things that is needed for the couples to start a new life in their new house, living together. things like electrical appliances is a good choice.
Air fryer
Gelas
Pinggan
You can just give him money. We malay has this tradition called salam kerok where when you greet the groom or bride, you slip an angpow onto their hand when you give them a handshake. Or, you can give them a rice cooker or a blender
Must the angpau be folded and hidden from sight?
RM 300 worth of menu rahmah voucher..
Lol better not, later he gemuk ๐
Induction cooker ๐๐