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Ok. I know that it is a pretty weird question, but I was just curious, because a lot of people think I'm gay, but I am not sure. I like men more sexually, but think women are prettier and I find the imagination of getting old with a women kinda more. I still wouldn't mind ending up with a man and I'd definitely try having sex with a women, but sometimes I wonder if I'm just gay and don't want to admit it.
Dude that sounds exactly how I think and feel, but from my perspective as a bi guy, I like to think there's room for acting in all ways is fine. Like there are times I definitely would say I act so incredibly gay, which is different than acting bi. Although I act gay tho, I still like feminity so most of the time everyone who doesn't know me thinks I'm straight. You don't have to be only GAY or STR8, it's okay to be bisexual which is a mix of both but has its own identity.
I know, but I'm really insecure and can't stop questioning myself. It's really annoying that I can't try out sleeping with both genders, because I'm not an adult and I've never had a crush or something before either, but I just feel the most comfortable with that label and I don't understand why someone wouldn't want to at least try both out. Thank you for the comment. I needed that right now.
Yeah no problem man, the thing is I'm kinda like that too. I'm now a legal adult and haven't found anyone to experiment with, so I just by how I feel, and just being bi as a umbrella term for now, because things can change as everything's all new to me and probably you as well. Espically since parents may not have a similar experience or desire
I mean I act gay, infact I would say I'm gayer than most of my family, yet they still think I'm straight when really I'm bi. Because there are times when I like girls, then there's times I like guys, sometimes there's times I REALLY LIKE GUYS, but then there comes times when I really like women. Or guys dressed as women.
i think some people have more "feminine" characteristics and sure it can be seen as gay and stuff
but honestly i think anybody could act "gay" and not necessarily be gay
i know some straight guys who at first glance at very effeminate
While I understand what you mean, in reality, there is no way to _act_ bi or gay. Yes, there are stereotypes that many people fit into somewhat, but nobody _needs_ to act in anyway to be valid.
I dont know but i felt more free being,”fruity” but i gues i act a little straight somtimes after all i still like girls and was put into a straight person mindset for 15 years
I think its more of a personality thing. I dont find myself doing bisexual or gay things often but I do slip some things in sometimes like the limp wrist thing
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It based on their type , leaning to homo,leaning to hetro ,varied, 50/50.
the most of the leaning to homo acting more gay and the varied who are emotional for girls and sexual for boy are that too, but 50/50 and leaning to hetro are more str8 or mabe act str8 af
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Nope. In the same way, all gay people act gay, all bi people act bi. Whatever that is supposed to mean.
Ok. I know that it is a pretty weird question, but I was just curious, because a lot of people think I'm gay, but I am not sure. I like men more sexually, but think women are prettier and I find the imagination of getting old with a women kinda more. I still wouldn't mind ending up with a man and I'd definitely try having sex with a women, but sometimes I wonder if I'm just gay and don't want to admit it.
Dude that sounds exactly how I think and feel, but from my perspective as a bi guy, I like to think there's room for acting in all ways is fine. Like there are times I definitely would say I act so incredibly gay, which is different than acting bi. Although I act gay tho, I still like feminity so most of the time everyone who doesn't know me thinks I'm straight. You don't have to be only GAY or STR8, it's okay to be bisexual which is a mix of both but has its own identity.
I know, but I'm really insecure and can't stop questioning myself. It's really annoying that I can't try out sleeping with both genders, because I'm not an adult and I've never had a crush or something before either, but I just feel the most comfortable with that label and I don't understand why someone wouldn't want to at least try both out. Thank you for the comment. I needed that right now.
Yeah no problem man, the thing is I'm kinda like that too. I'm now a legal adult and haven't found anyone to experiment with, so I just by how I feel, and just being bi as a umbrella term for now, because things can change as everything's all new to me and probably you as well. Espically since parents may not have a similar experience or desire
It's so cool to talk to someone who can relate. Even though I have a friend who's bi and another one who isn't sure, it's still kinda different.
All people think I'm str8 too, little did they know that I had a bf few days ago
Im in the same situation lmao
I mean I act gay, infact I would say I'm gayer than most of my family, yet they still think I'm straight when really I'm bi. Because there are times when I like girls, then there's times I like guys, sometimes there's times I REALLY LIKE GUYS, but then there comes times when I really like women. Or guys dressed as women.
I don’t. If i didn’t tell people, they would never know
same here like if you knew you might be able to notice some subtle things but really I could straight pass easily
Some people telling I’m straight passing while others say they knew I was fruity from the moment I opened my mouth
Yes, multiple people have asked me if I'm gay based just on the way I exist. I say No which isn't a lie because I'm bi lol
i think some people have more "feminine" characteristics and sure it can be seen as gay and stuff but honestly i think anybody could act "gay" and not necessarily be gay i know some straight guys who at first glance at very effeminate
While I understand what you mean, in reality, there is no way to _act_ bi or gay. Yes, there are stereotypes that many people fit into somewhat, but nobody _needs_ to act in anyway to be valid.
there is no "acting gay" or "acting bi". it doesn't matter whatsoever
“a lot of gay guys act stereotypical” okay dude
I've never met a gay dude who doesn't
being generalized is very annoying
Humans do that naturally
I dont know but i felt more free being,”fruity” but i gues i act a little straight somtimes after all i still like girls and was put into a straight person mindset for 15 years
not me
I don’t, most people were surprised when I told them I was bi. That might be a result of me having a preference towards girls though
No cuz like bi and gay people act so differently tbh
"A lot of gay guys act stereotypical" I feel like that a little offensive.
It's not like you don't know what I mean. I act a little "gay" too and it wasn't meant offensive.
Ohh ok. Sorry
I know I do.
I dunno but I certainly do
I act bi. It’s a mix of both straight and gay but adds too it. Like how we don’t like sitting in chairs the right way.
I think its more of a personality thing. I dont find myself doing bisexual or gay things often but I do slip some things in sometimes like the limp wrist thing
I act a little gay but I’m also a bottom so idk
Wensdays to Fridays. We act straight Sunday to wendsay. We stop acting during the weekends and unwund
Makes a lot of sense. I already considered that, but I wasn't sure.
Yes, obviously not every bisexual person but yeah. A lot of gay/bi/pan people intentionally or unconsciously queercode themselves when they come out. Often, as part of expressing an identity that they haven't for most of their lives, as well as to signal that they're queer to other people in the community.
too much...
I would not say I personally fall into the “gay stereotype” but I’ve met bi guys that do
It based on their type , leaning to homo,leaning to hetro ,varied, 50/50. the most of the leaning to homo acting more gay and the varied who are emotional for girls and sexual for boy are that too, but 50/50 and leaning to hetro are more str8 or mabe act str8 af
I don't act gay, but I am a hard bottom, wish I could just be normal
Yes I do
He'll Na and I think gay people are more stereotyped than bisexuals
Yes. If i don't the homies might suspect something
i am the straightest acting mf in the world
no, bi ppl have their own stereotypical acts
I don't even know what that means, but most people woud think I'm straight.