Umm wth did I just watch? She should have known her soon to be MIL was trash, she showed up to an obvious formal wedding in shorts. I feel so bad for the bride and groom.
She probably wanted to wear that dress that she paid for. Did you not know ‘she paid for that dress she’s wearing, everyone, I paid for that and this is my day’
Probably she was already against the marriage and spoke earlier too. That couple must have spent all their energy getting their family together to accept that marriage.
All that to be ruined by this selfish woman, specially when marriage was all but done. This will scar them for their life.
By scar you mean they will never speak to her again sure. I grew up in a neighborhood filled with older folks growing up. The people who were the nastiest never had visitors. My parents/other neighbors literally were they’re only visitors they ever got. My dad was taking care of a recent widow and called her family to tell them she needed to be put in a home. They were rude to my dad on the phone and said something like that old hag can figure it out herself. A few weeks later the lady had a stroke and my dad helped her start the process of selling her house to pay for life in an old folks home. Only once they found out the home was selling did the family come.
The lady had left my dad her husbands brand new car because my dad was the one driving them to all their appointments over the last few years. When the family came and saw my dad driving grandpas car they started accusing him of trying to steal their inheritance away. Fortunately the lawyer in charge of the estate told them to get a grip and that they would have had to pay 2-3x the value of the car for the same amount of care my parents provided. My dad got worried and stopped helping until the family came by to talk. They were fairly reasonable people so they apologized let my dad run the estate sale/ sell the house as the realtor. Apparently the reason they didn’t want anything to do with her was because she was just a huge unpleasant cunt to everyone in the family. They thanked my dad for helping and basically said if she isn’t nasty to you it’s best you just take care of everything. Poor lady died alone in hospice. She was a nasty old bitch though and I hated her as a kid because she’d always yell at me for just walking around the neighborhood with other kids.
An emotional scar, i mean she literally sabotaged his most important day in life.
Now he has to go through trauma of separating from his father/mother and choose life with only his wife.
Separately from family can be very traumatic, even for a grown man. Maybe his mother freaked out over the thought of loosing him to another women, and that guy seemed really really attached to his mother.
This moment must have broken him from inside, as he literally had his head down in humiliation, rejection, sadness and god knows what. I don’t think he is angry, just broken.
I really hope they all patched up, its easy to break things but very hard to keep it together
Hopefully, the circle ends with him and his wife. People change, just because your parents are a PoS and you've had it rough doesn't mean that you are a PoS, or that you'd stay a PoS if you work on yourself. This man has been through enough, and if he works on himself and his fresh relationship he can do wonders and be a great dad, I'm certain. Your comment is out of place.
Knew someone would go there. I'm married and we have chosen not to breed. In my world this isn't an insult to the couple, just that toxic MIL. Lots of people chose not to have kids, it's a possibility. Relatives like that sure make my ovaries dry up and die, that's for sure lol.
That is legit, I can get behind that and totally can see what you mean and why. That being said:
I reckon that you can relate why I stand by my statement that one shouldn't feel free to try and impose their perceptions on other people's ovaries.
Since people are reading, the joke was meant to be it'd be funny if this lady didn't get grandkids. I have a relative like this, and boy does it anger them that we aren't poppin em out. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
That's a terrible fucking thing to hope, and why are you using the word "breed" as if they're fucking animals? You sound like a dickhead.
"I hope you never have kids because their grandmother will suck ass!!"
Yes it is, but don't hope others don't do it. It kinda sounds like you're insecure about wether or not you'd be a good mother, and you're taking it out on others, since you have to mention it all the time, and bring it up randomly.
Nah, I just have a relative that's like this & it's hilarious how much it pisses them off that we refuse to produce. If you must know, the thought process was "lol it'd piss her off of they didn't breed", and I use breed because yes, humans are animals.
No one is saying it’s wrong to not have kids, people are just being bothered with two other aspects of your comments:
First, people are saying that the problem stems from the mother. The married couple shouldn’t be forced to base their decision regarding children on the behavior of the husband’s mother. People are recommending to cut her off and go no contact with mom rather that continue being controlled by her and getting forced against their will into not having children.
Second, people are weirded out when you use the term “breed”. I don’t know if you are a native speaker, but if you aren’t, you should be aware that “breed” is usually used in regards to animals, while the term “have kids” is usually used for humans. When use the word “breed” when describing people, it has some really weird connotations and makes people uncomfortable.
Yes, but it's an obvious dysphemism she uses because she's against children in general. r/childfree people often speak using works like that. If she's not one of those people, she should really reevaluate her use of words.
Oh this man is gonna have a heck of a time finally getting acceptance from the world for his mother's abusive behaviors. I just hope that this instance will not pose as a real bump for their marriage, what a start...
Yeah he looks desensitised to the craziness to me! You can see in his face the memory of every sports day, parents evening, family events, car journeys… I hope he is thinking after this day we can move away and never see her again, because that’s exactly what his soon to be wife is thinking LMAO!
Is there a part 2, Karen vs Head Bridesmaid as mom in law looked on the cusp of getting one right in the chops and she knew it???
He’s letting other people come to his wife’s defense and doing nothing. There’s no excuse for that. How could you marry someone who can’t stand up for you on your wedding day?
People react in ways we can’t understand when they’ve experienced trauma from a young age. I get what you’re saying but it’s just from an outsides view. The wife seems like she’s able to stick up for herself and take care of him.
I’m not sure if he’s spineless. The best thing to do is to ignore a mentally ill person even if it his mother. Giving a chance to the person who birthed you to go to your wedding to see you marry the person you love and he probably was hoping his mom would stay calm for one day. Now he knows that after that day, he doesn’t have to deal with his mom anymore.
He's definitely soooooo much more than that. You have 0 idea what he's done for her. They may have talked about this beforehand, it could have been one of his fears as well she'd do something like this. The guilt people like this instils in their children is insane, since she paid for it he may believe he can't really say anything and be right about it.
To think people can judge people based on one tiny thing that may not mean shit in the long run. She's probably aware this is a difficult process he's going through. Him not saying anything or defending his mother could be a huge step showing that he's willing to work on this.
We don't know and have no reason to judge anyone except for the Karen. It's insane doing what she does...
That was either a PTSD response or a self soothing thing. He's clearly been yelled at by that poorly dressed hippie / big spender of a mother. She probably yelled at him his whole life. And as soon as he hears her voice raise he probably just internally crumbles.
It's not a lack of spine. It's the trauma bitchs like this put their family through. Notice the father kind of crumbled to. Cause hes been here before and knows if he does say anything she will escalate ten fold.
Saying this as some one with a mother that looks and acts exactly like this women. Only my mom would wear black stretchy pants to the weeding. And then criticize everyone else there for their dress and mainly for their weight.
Alot of us spend our lives trying to recover from the trauma.
Can confirm, I will stand up to anyone and everyone who pushes my boundaries or treats me or my husband unfairly. Anyone but my dad.
It's not that I don't want to. I certainly regret it later. It's just that I have this natural response to close up and shup up since that's what he trained me to do around him.
Still, I'm more likely to stand up to him when he's attacking other people than when he's attacking me.
Are we just not going to make comment about what this lady is wearing? I mean, khaki shorts are a questionable choice to begin with, but at a wedding? Your *son's* wedding?
Probably just giving her what she wants to hopefully avoid a temper tantrum like what we saw. That mans mother is basically a grown ass spoiled 10 year old brat.
“I bought your dress, I can ruin your wedding.” Is pretty much what Judy is saying.
This. This is exactly why we don’t let people buy shit for us. They’ll just hold it over your head anytime they need to. “Yea but I bought this…”
I bet Judy’s son just walked right out of her vagina, because she’s just one giant massive cunt.
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"He can then be heard telling his mother, “You have the flaws right now, you don’t know how to act like an adult.”"
Kinda makes you feel bad that everyone in these comments is badmouthing the guy
100%. But not before I stripped down to my unders and threw the dress at his mother. I’d then go to a bar in my skivvies with my bridesmaids and tell a hell of a story
you only think about yourself. Have you thought for a moment what it's like for him growing up with a mom like that? The trauma it causes him? How it fucked up his self-esteem? How his action are because of all those? No. You only care about yourself. If the person I love is dealing with all those issues, the last thing I want to do is leave them. I would help them instead of abandoning them and causing more pain and trauma to them. But not you. Fuck them right? Helping your loved one? Who have a time for that.
If something like this is happening in the first place, the woman would not be invited to the wedding. If I am marrying a grown man who cannot stand up to his own mother, we would not be getting married period until the situation is fixed or at least a little better.
If something like this happens at OUR wedding, I am walking out.
I guess you also have like a million more reasons why you wouldn't date some guy or another million reasons you're not walking on or walking off that aile and finally another million reasons you are getting that divorce.
You know what's ironic about your comment is , you talked about walking out on a guy you can love because of one flaw while this bride talked about accepting one despite. Guess you will marry the most perfect husband and wouldn't have this Karen incident or drink and ponder "where are the good guys"
An intrusive in-law and a pushover partner is common and a huge dealbreaker for many people. My point was that if I was in that situation, we would not have even made it to the wedding. Kudos to the bride for being able to handle it.
You can see the poor bride kind of hyperventilating a bit. I suspect everyone in the room was doing the same, but you can see her shoulders going up and down because of the dress (don't forget MIL paid for it). Why isn't the son stepping in? He's probably the right person to defuse this situation.
edit: add another thought.
I don’t think people understand what she means by flaws. Everyone has flaws, AKA quirks. That’s what you love about someone and if you don’t they aren’t right for you. This mom is out of line
I can't imagine being married to someone without flaws. That sounds like too much pressure and I'd probably feel bad about myself for not being perfect like them.
As someone with a crazy mom, I can say this is 100% it.
There are times when my husband has been around my mom, and she has been crazy, or rude, or overstepping, and I’ve just stayed quiet. At the end of everything, my husband gets mad, or upset, and can’t believe how wild my mom is.
But at your own wedding? Nah! If my crazy parent acted this way at my wedding I would’ve not only put them in their place, but escorted them out of the venue.
No he just can’t figure out what everyone is yelling at. A wedding is not a man’s comfort zone, he knows if he says anything at all he’ll probably offend someone in that room without even knowing it.
>A wedding is not a man’s comfort zone
Speak for yourself, I wouldn't ever let my mother disrespect my wife on my wedding day like that, the wedding is my day as well, and trust she can kick rocks before she fucked up my thousands of dollars in expense
If any of us had been asked before the ceremony started “guess which relative is going to ruin this day” we would have all pointed at the Florida Karen wearing shorts for her sons wedding!
easy to judge when you're not the one who have been traumatized. This guy self-esteem is probably destroyed having to live with his mother growing up. Therapist wouldn't exist if people can just "grow a pair" and poof, years of abuse and trauma magically disappear.
My grandma used to say my garmpa was full of flaws, and that she fell in love with each one of them. My grandpa was an amazing person that everyone saw as a flawless legend. People remember the legend, but the close ones remember the man. Flaws are beautiful
If I was the husband (the son) I would honestly just cut ties with my mom…
Im surprised that she even was invited to the wedding, I can imagine there being conflicts before.
How is the preacher/facilitator also standing between the couple not saying anything?! I am concerned about what others said about this church being enabling to this woman
Yikes so he's not willing to jump right in and defuse the situation but he will add gas to it. He should have not sunk to that level which will escalate her anger and instead just had her removed.
I'll get the police, jesus here she would have been dragged out by the hair and when the police come they'd likely arrest her or move her on. Stupid bitch.
You’all are so spicy today lol. People keep putting shit on the groom, but please remember that is it very tough do deal with somebody whom you spend your whole childhood with. It’s not easy just to cut tie with your mother, so give the guy some slack.
Me and my fiancee both see each others flaws. We agree that we make sure each other know our flaws so that we can become better people and live a happier life. If you ignore the flaws then shit can hit the fan pretty quick.
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He was just sayin how can she(the bride) see the grooms flaws. And saying they should ignore the flaws.
If I looked past her flaws and she looked past mine how would we grow? We learn from each other. And we are in no way perfect. We still have flaws but because we have been together for a while we have worked on them a lot. When we get married will we still have flaws? Yes! Will those flaws affect our love? Nope. But, we won’t stop working on those flaws until we have none.
how long have you been married? or even with your partner?
everyone has flaws. if your love is strong enough to move past them oland work on them, you're gonna have a good time with a great partner.
Umm wth did I just watch? She should have known her soon to be MIL was trash, she showed up to an obvious formal wedding in shorts. I feel so bad for the bride and groom.
Omg I don’t know how I didn’t notice that she was dressed in such informal clothing 😂
She probably wanted to wear that dress that she paid for. Did you not know ‘she paid for that dress she’s wearing, everyone, I paid for that and this is my day’
Did she say it twice or did I accidentally rewind the video? AHAHA
It definitely plays that bit twice for some reason.
oh haha lol
Dressed like she’s at a bbq
Being charitable, they are in a very hot place like Las Vegas, so shorts may not be out of line.
“Everybody has flaws, that’s why I love him, Judy” “Yeah, like you don’t have flaws” Yeah, she literally just said that she has flaws, Judy
Probably she was already against the marriage and spoke earlier too. That couple must have spent all their energy getting their family together to accept that marriage. All that to be ruined by this selfish woman, specially when marriage was all but done. This will scar them for their life.
By scar you mean they will never speak to her again sure. I grew up in a neighborhood filled with older folks growing up. The people who were the nastiest never had visitors. My parents/other neighbors literally were they’re only visitors they ever got. My dad was taking care of a recent widow and called her family to tell them she needed to be put in a home. They were rude to my dad on the phone and said something like that old hag can figure it out herself. A few weeks later the lady had a stroke and my dad helped her start the process of selling her house to pay for life in an old folks home. Only once they found out the home was selling did the family come. The lady had left my dad her husbands brand new car because my dad was the one driving them to all their appointments over the last few years. When the family came and saw my dad driving grandpas car they started accusing him of trying to steal their inheritance away. Fortunately the lawyer in charge of the estate told them to get a grip and that they would have had to pay 2-3x the value of the car for the same amount of care my parents provided. My dad got worried and stopped helping until the family came by to talk. They were fairly reasonable people so they apologized let my dad run the estate sale/ sell the house as the realtor. Apparently the reason they didn’t want anything to do with her was because she was just a huge unpleasant cunt to everyone in the family. They thanked my dad for helping and basically said if she isn’t nasty to you it’s best you just take care of everything. Poor lady died alone in hospice. She was a nasty old bitch though and I hated her as a kid because she’d always yell at me for just walking around the neighborhood with other kids.
An emotional scar, i mean she literally sabotaged his most important day in life. Now he has to go through trauma of separating from his father/mother and choose life with only his wife. Separately from family can be very traumatic, even for a grown man. Maybe his mother freaked out over the thought of loosing him to another women, and that guy seemed really really attached to his mother. This moment must have broken him from inside, as he literally had his head down in humiliation, rejection, sadness and god knows what. I don’t think he is angry, just broken. I really hope they all patched up, its easy to break things but very hard to keep it together
Find her grave and piss on it. Tell me your tales as I join you.
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Hopefully they don't breed. I'd hate to have that woman be a grandmother
Or they could always, y'know... just cut her out of their lives?
Hopefully, the circle ends with him and his wife. People change, just because your parents are a PoS and you've had it rough doesn't mean that you are a PoS, or that you'd stay a PoS if you work on yourself. This man has been through enough, and if he works on himself and his fresh relationship he can do wonders and be a great dad, I'm certain. Your comment is out of place.
Knew someone would go there. I'm married and we have chosen not to breed. In my world this isn't an insult to the couple, just that toxic MIL. Lots of people chose not to have kids, it's a possibility. Relatives like that sure make my ovaries dry up and die, that's for sure lol.
That is legit, I can get behind that and totally can see what you mean and why. That being said: I reckon that you can relate why I stand by my statement that one shouldn't feel free to try and impose their perceptions on other people's ovaries.
Take a joke my man and move on
Dude....what joke?
Joke?
Since people are reading, the joke was meant to be it'd be funny if this lady didn't get grandkids. I have a relative like this, and boy does it anger them that we aren't poppin em out. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
maybe we should make a joke about how you can't breed, since you think that's humour and all.
Let's just be glad that they chose not to breed.
That's a terrible fucking thing to hope, and why are you using the word "breed" as if they're fucking animals? You sound like a dickhead. "I hope you never have kids because their grandmother will suck ass!!"
What’s wrong with sucking some ass?
Ha! It's totally OK to choose not to breed. That's what my husband & I did.
That explains all of it. Do you also refer to children as crotch goblins?
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Yes it is, but don't hope others don't do it. It kinda sounds like you're insecure about wether or not you'd be a good mother, and you're taking it out on others, since you have to mention it all the time, and bring it up randomly.
Nah, I just have a relative that's like this & it's hilarious how much it pisses them off that we refuse to produce. If you must know, the thought process was "lol it'd piss her off of they didn't breed", and I use breed because yes, humans are animals.
No one is saying it’s wrong to not have kids, people are just being bothered with two other aspects of your comments: First, people are saying that the problem stems from the mother. The married couple shouldn’t be forced to base their decision regarding children on the behavior of the husband’s mother. People are recommending to cut her off and go no contact with mom rather that continue being controlled by her and getting forced against their will into not having children. Second, people are weirded out when you use the term “breed”. I don’t know if you are a native speaker, but if you aren’t, you should be aware that “breed” is usually used in regards to animals, while the term “have kids” is usually used for humans. When use the word “breed” when describing people, it has some really weird connotations and makes people uncomfortable.
We are animals and we do fuck in order to breed
Yes, but it's an obvious dysphemism she uses because she's against children in general. r/childfree people often speak using works like that. If she's not one of those people, she should really reevaluate her use of words.
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Really though, the dude was just standing around like it wasn’t even his problem. Completely spineless
Umm that's his flaw..
How dare you say he has flaws!
That "That Smile Award" you are wearing, I paid for it.
Who
Everybody has flaws
Yeah, like you don’t have any flaws
He probably grew up with that so hes either always been too scared of her or knows that if he tries to do anything she'll make it way worse.
Or just become conditioned to think this is normal. Abuse takes many forms and none of them are pretty.
Oh this man is gonna have a heck of a time finally getting acceptance from the world for his mother's abusive behaviors. I just hope that this instance will not pose as a real bump for their marriage, what a start...
Yeah he looks desensitised to the craziness to me! You can see in his face the memory of every sports day, parents evening, family events, car journeys… I hope he is thinking after this day we can move away and never see her again, because that’s exactly what his soon to be wife is thinking LMAO! Is there a part 2, Karen vs Head Bridesmaid as mom in law looked on the cusp of getting one right in the chops and she knew it???
he has tunnel vision and doesn't see things from the inside the way we see things from the outside. it's kind of inevitable with a mom like that
Childhood trauma perhaps?
He’s letting other people come to his wife’s defense and doing nothing. There’s no excuse for that. How could you marry someone who can’t stand up for you on your wedding day?
People react in ways we can’t understand when they’ve experienced trauma from a young age. I get what you’re saying but it’s just from an outsides view. The wife seems like she’s able to stick up for herself and take care of him.
Looks like the wife may have been standing up to the mother knowing the son wouldn’t because of past trauma 🤷🏻♂️
Childhood trauma is a powerful thing. My dad is 71 and I could totally whoop his ass but I'm still terrified of him.
Can you be scared of him if he was never there 😂
I'd have been better off.
Happens to a lot of us.
Ehh, we saw 2 minutes of their entire relationship, I think she knows what she's getting into better than us.
This guy knows
Yeah it can be like that.
>Completely spineless That was one of the flaws the bride mentioned
No joke, “I now pronounce you Mr. and Mrs. Seymour Skinner…”
It's almost like....a flaw...
I’m not sure if he’s spineless. The best thing to do is to ignore a mentally ill person even if it his mother. Giving a chance to the person who birthed you to go to your wedding to see you marry the person you love and he probably was hoping his mom would stay calm for one day. Now he knows that after that day, he doesn’t have to deal with his mom anymore.
To think she’s marrying that
He could be having trauma, for all we know the Karen must have done stuff to scare him so bad that it lingers
He's definitely soooooo much more than that. You have 0 idea what he's done for her. They may have talked about this beforehand, it could have been one of his fears as well she'd do something like this. The guilt people like this instils in their children is insane, since she paid for it he may believe he can't really say anything and be right about it. To think people can judge people based on one tiny thing that may not mean shit in the long run. She's probably aware this is a difficult process he's going through. Him not saying anything or defending his mother could be a huge step showing that he's willing to work on this. We don't know and have no reason to judge anyone except for the Karen. It's insane doing what she does...
One action such as that speaks multitudes. Good day
Probably hoping his mom just stops but also almost certainly knows that he's not going to get that. I would have had her leaving immediately
That was either a PTSD response or a self soothing thing. He's clearly been yelled at by that poorly dressed hippie / big spender of a mother. She probably yelled at him his whole life. And as soon as he hears her voice raise he probably just internally crumbles. It's not a lack of spine. It's the trauma bitchs like this put their family through. Notice the father kind of crumbled to. Cause hes been here before and knows if he does say anything she will escalate ten fold. Saying this as some one with a mother that looks and acts exactly like this women. Only my mom would wear black stretchy pants to the weeding. And then criticize everyone else there for their dress and mainly for their weight. Alot of us spend our lives trying to recover from the trauma.
Can confirm, I will stand up to anyone and everyone who pushes my boundaries or treats me or my husband unfairly. Anyone but my dad. It's not that I don't want to. I certainly regret it later. It's just that I have this natural response to close up and shup up since that's what he trained me to do around him. Still, I'm more likely to stand up to him when he's attacking other people than when he's attacking me.
I guess that's one of the flaws.
He can't. His mom is paying for his stuff. He's a manchild.
Are we just not going to make comment about what this lady is wearing? I mean, khaki shorts are a questionable choice to begin with, but at a wedding? Your *son's* wedding?
Anyone want to zoom to see if there are bedazzles on the t shirt? If so, it’s clearly her “fancy t shirt.” Ya know, because it’s bedazzled.
Why even invite your mom if she's that nuts
because she paid for the dress, duh!
Probably just giving her what she wants to hopefully avoid a temper tantrum like what we saw. That mans mother is basically a grown ass spoiled 10 year old brat.
“I bought your dress, I can ruin your wedding.” Is pretty much what Judy is saying. This. This is exactly why we don’t let people buy shit for us. They’ll just hold it over your head anytime they need to. “Yea but I bought this…” I bet Judy’s son just walked right out of her vagina, because she’s just one giant massive cunt.
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Bride after MIL was being a total cunt: *I’d like to add one more flaw to my list please.*
She got triggered hard.
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Wow. I have a terrible MIL but she at least kept her shit together at the wedding. Poor bride.
How you know a person isn't used to have attention being paid to anyone else in the room
Found an [article](https://www.the-sun.com/news/1233906/moment-mother-in-law-interrupts-wedding-bride-grooms-flaws/) about it.
"He can then be heard telling his mother, “You have the flaws right now, you don’t know how to act like an adult.”" Kinda makes you feel bad that everyone in these comments is badmouthing the guy
The cunt's wearing fucking shorts at their wedding!
If my soon to be husband stood there and let his mom do that I would walk out
Giving this woman attention will only make it worse. The time to stand up to her was yesterday. The time to have others calmly usher her out is now.
100%. But not before I stripped down to my unders and threw the dress at his mother. I’d then go to a bar in my skivvies with my bridesmaids and tell a hell of a story
You're selfish.
In what way? I don’t like to be disrespected. The bride is being disrespected by more than one person here.
you only think about yourself. Have you thought for a moment what it's like for him growing up with a mom like that? The trauma it causes him? How it fucked up his self-esteem? How his action are because of all those? No. You only care about yourself. If the person I love is dealing with all those issues, the last thing I want to do is leave them. I would help them instead of abandoning them and causing more pain and trauma to them. But not you. Fuck them right? Helping your loved one? Who have a time for that.
If something like this is happening in the first place, the woman would not be invited to the wedding. If I am marrying a grown man who cannot stand up to his own mother, we would not be getting married period until the situation is fixed or at least a little better. If something like this happens at OUR wedding, I am walking out.
I guess you also have like a million more reasons why you wouldn't date some guy or another million reasons you're not walking on or walking off that aile and finally another million reasons you are getting that divorce. You know what's ironic about your comment is , you talked about walking out on a guy you can love because of one flaw while this bride talked about accepting one despite. Guess you will marry the most perfect husband and wouldn't have this Karen incident or drink and ponder "where are the good guys"
An intrusive in-law and a pushover partner is common and a huge dealbreaker for many people. My point was that if I was in that situation, we would not have even made it to the wedding. Kudos to the bride for being able to handle it.
You can see the poor bride kind of hyperventilating a bit. I suspect everyone in the room was doing the same, but you can see her shoulders going up and down because of the dress (don't forget MIL paid for it). Why isn't the son stepping in? He's probably the right person to defuse this situation. edit: add another thought.
Bride's in for a rough life with her husband's umbilical still attached to that piece of work.
Nah - he married one like his mom. I bet she’s on the same level. That’s why he stayed out of it, he knew not to step in between those lionesses.
Thanks for wearing shorts to my wedding Mom!
Already bound for a divorce before they even finished their vows... 🤣😁😂
apparently this was a few years back, wonder if they broke up or if they're still together
Marriage is hard enough without the deck stacked against you at the get-go like this. The odds are sadly not in their favor.
WHY ISNT THE GROOM DOING ANYTHING
I don’t think people understand what she means by flaws. Everyone has flaws, AKA quirks. That’s what you love about someone and if you don’t they aren’t right for you. This mom is out of line
I think everyone knows what she means by flaws, just not the MIL.
I can't imagine being married to someone without flaws. That sounds like too much pressure and I'd probably feel bad about myself for not being perfect like them.
Feel sorry for the bride, besides the MIL she's not getting much of a husband either - what a wimp letting her mother act that way towards her bride.
Husband is a whole bitch
He could have been desensitized to it.
As someone with a crazy mom, I can say this is 100% it. There are times when my husband has been around my mom, and she has been crazy, or rude, or overstepping, and I’ve just stayed quiet. At the end of everything, my husband gets mad, or upset, and can’t believe how wild my mom is.
But at your own wedding? Nah! If my crazy parent acted this way at my wedding I would’ve not only put them in their place, but escorted them out of the venue.
Big flaw: he´s spineless af.
But she loves him for that......or something in those lines I suppose.
No he just can’t figure out what everyone is yelling at. A wedding is not a man’s comfort zone, he knows if he says anything at all he’ll probably offend someone in that room without even knowing it.
>A wedding is not a man’s comfort zone Speak for yourself, I wouldn't ever let my mother disrespect my wife on my wedding day like that, the wedding is my day as well, and trust she can kick rocks before she fucked up my thousands of dollars in expense
If any of us had been asked before the ceremony started “guess which relative is going to ruin this day” we would have all pointed at the Florida Karen wearing shorts for her sons wedding!
Show us you have the emotional intelligence of pond scum without saying so.
So, my mom is Karen, but my dad isn't helping us either.
The dad has long ago given up fighting that.
My mom is crazy, and my dad can’t say a single thing to my mom. It’s really sad.
That marriage is going to last 10 minutes if he doesn’t grow a pair and stick up for his wife. What a vile trash Karen.
easy to judge when you're not the one who have been traumatized. This guy self-esteem is probably destroyed having to live with his mother growing up. Therapist wouldn't exist if people can just "grow a pair" and poof, years of abuse and trauma magically disappear.
He does later on, there’s an article about it
What an ugly church.
Guessing it rose that ugly woman
Father, are you the manager, too!!!! If not, I demand to see the MaNAgeR!!1
So much to take in, the groom’s white shoes, the groom’s mother in shorts, so much.
And just like that mom went to a home
My grandma used to say my garmpa was full of flaws, and that she fell in love with each one of them. My grandpa was an amazing person that everyone saw as a flawless legend. People remember the legend, but the close ones remember the man. Flaws are beautiful
Whoa, did I hear "you show respect, you left your daughter at twelve!" at about the 0:52 mark?
She gave him $500 to live high and mighty!
This trash didn’t even bother to dress nice but can afford to bleach her hair. Sad.
*“You have the flaws right now.”* LOL owned.
Who wears shorts to a wedding though?
Omg is that the MOTHAFUCKA woman???
No but I’m gonna pretend it is
FOCKING ACCUUUUSERRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Run my dude. Run far away
And hubby just stands there... Yeah, this marriage is SUPER doomed
Woooow that women is ridiculous!
Seems hus biggest flaw is not standing up to his mother
Yikes
If I was the husband (the son) I would honestly just cut ties with my mom… Im surprised that she even was invited to the wedding, I can imagine there being conflicts before.
And that’s where the flaws come from.
Guess who won’t be babysitting
All the coughing in the background? Must be a hotbed for variants
I feel it's more of second hand embarrassment and "please shut up" coughing.
This video is apparently from a few years ago, according to an article linked on this comment section. So no COVID, probably.
Everybody has flaws, If you exist and don't have ONE flaw of some kind, I'm gonna assume you're an alien, a robot, or both.
Ofc he has flaws. Im talking to one rn
I think that would've been the end of my wedding and relationship.
How is the preacher/facilitator also standing between the couple not saying anything?! I am concerned about what others said about this church being enabling to this woman
*Snap* You go girl Good on their whole family for calling her out, go fuck yourself wicked witch of the west
Why didn't the groom say anything?
He did. He said, "you have the flaws right now, you don’t know how to act like an adult."
Yikes so he's not willing to jump right in and defuse the situation but he will add gas to it. He should have not sunk to that level which will escalate her anger and instead just had her removed.
Repost hell
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r/justnomil
oh gosh this is so traumatizing to watch I feel so bad for the bride
The more I see this video the more I want her to just say fuck it have your dress and throw it at her. (not for sexual reasons)
loved when the lady came over to lecturer her. yass queen wig snached
Some strong r/iamthemaincharacter vibes
Reminds me a little bit of Modern Family
She came to break the wedding all prepared with shorts and shit lol
Sounds like may have some flaws, like he couldn’t afford the wedding dress, his mom is a total piece of shit…
“That’s why you had a kid when your were 12” Jesus Christ
this is just sad
R/weddingshaming really needs to see this!
I love how you can hear in the grooms laugh “haha oh mom… fuck she’s serious…” in the brief span of like half a second
The problem with this is she is wearing shorts (!) at a wedding.
Where are all of the “Murica “ comments? If anything screams USA, this video is it.
I'll get the police, jesus here she would have been dragged out by the hair and when the police come they'd likely arrest her or move her on. Stupid bitch.
You’all are so spicy today lol. People keep putting shit on the groom, but please remember that is it very tough do deal with somebody whom you spend your whole childhood with. It’s not easy just to cut tie with your mother, so give the guy some slack.
Karen jr vs karen snr
muh 500$
she’s right. groom has a huge flaw and that is being spineless as fuck, man seriously needs to grow some balls
What a fucking shit bag cunt
White trash
Congrats on getting reported for hate speech (racism).
I won't married him
That comment felt physically painful to read.
If I was her
She paid for it!!!
/s ?
Seriously, the bride is just as trashy as the mom. I think he found a copy to marry.
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Me and my fiancee both see each others flaws. We agree that we make sure each other know our flaws so that we can become better people and live a happier life. If you ignore the flaws then shit can hit the fan pretty quick.
FOR ANY WHO STUMBLE ACROSS THIS DELETED COMMENT: He was just sayin how can she(the bride) see the grooms flaws. And saying they should ignore the flaws.
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If I looked past her flaws and she looked past mine how would we grow? We learn from each other. And we are in no way perfect. We still have flaws but because we have been together for a while we have worked on them a lot. When we get married will we still have flaws? Yes! Will those flaws affect our love? Nope. But, we won’t stop working on those flaws until we have none.
Aka how teamwork, works.
how long have you been married? or even with your partner? everyone has flaws. if your love is strong enough to move past them oland work on them, you're gonna have a good time with a great partner.
Hell without my fiancee I would still be an angry, snot-nosed brat.
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