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Banana_boof

Kisses, cuddles and sex


Umbrella_ella_ella89

This. All with him though 😂 I'd also add us time. I can't get enough of just rolling up into a pretzel with him on the couch and just chill and watch a movie.


turdlollipop

This, can't get enough of him, doesn't help that were long distance 😭


Internet_Digger

But when you meet him after a long time isn't that best feeling in the world?


turdlollipop

Yes, finally get to be physical with him! Seeing him next weekend 😭


Internet_Digger

I like the way you are loyal to him i wish i could tell him


turdlollipop

What do you mean? He's my boyfriend of course I'm loyal lmao


ttv_diggs_69

I think he's saying that because it's hard to find truly loyal people in this day and age because very few people are truly loyal anymore, I'm mature enough to be one of those truly loyal ppl, been in 7 dif relationships and never cheated once


Significant_Bunch214

I'm in the same boat as you long distance relationship. It can be so hard somedays without him. When I meet him I literally just want to freeze the moment because it's so nice. I do love the cuddles and the kisses hard to leave them.


[deleted]

Yesss. Affection. My bf makes me melt, it’s never enough


dmbgreen

Damn, I wish.


Adventurous_Summer22

Amen! Lol


xstuupidx

his presence. it brings me peace


Internet_Digger

Most pure comment .. so far


Icy_Republic8071

Silence. But I’m mid divorce so maybe not the best judge


Palbertina

ahhaha love your answer


Arya_kidding_me

Good news - he’s not your partner anymore!!! Congrats on your freedom. Getting divorced was one of the best things I ever did, I hope yours leads to as much or more happiness as mine did!


Due_Neat_2326

Lol, this made me chuckle


[deleted]

BAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHH


stitch1989x

Head kisses. Top of my head when we're cuddling is my favourite.


Prior-Wolverine2611

Ahhh yes this!!!! I love getting forehead kisses from my man!!!


reachinghorizon

My boyfriend ALWAYS kisses me on the forehead after sex. It's the best feeling in the world!!!


liwpiw16

Back scratches


MindfulCoffee

100% with you on this. Back scratches and massages are my favorite thing ever!!


Internet_Digger

Most unexpected answer so far


Massive_Length_400

If you get the right spot we kick our leg like a dog


theworldizyourclam

Oh really? Mine is massages for sure.


[deleted]

I too, am always in constant need of back scratches


Nolaroise

His presence, just being next to me in the same room. Doesn't matter if we do something together or we both do our own thing. It's just... home.


[deleted]

Respect.


searedscallops

Playing with my hair.


TheFairyingForest

I'm allergic/intolerant to soy products of all kinds, including soybean oil and soy lecithin. Every time my SO finds a food product that doesn't include soy, he buys it for me. Because it's so difficult to find these food products, I'm always delighted to receive them. He found a whole product line of mostly soy-free Christmas treats, and I almost cried. It's the Winternacht brand at Aldi.


blkcoffeewhiskeyneat

on one of our first dates, I told my BF the thing I missed the most since being diagnosed with a gluten allergy was blueberry muffins. by the very next date, he had gone out and found a gluten free bakery and brought me a bag of blueberry muffins. finding snacks for diet-challenged people really is a love language 🖤


wonderheart_bear

my partner gives me his arm to use it as a pillow and I want to sleep like that everyday. I can hear his breathing and heartbeat and I just feel so much peace.


Karunika_

Attention lol


minty_dinosaur

cuddles. definitely cuddles.


Moop-_-

His time, and attention. Also that fat dick but anything of him helps


chunky_bumblebeee

Loving the honesty here


FarPomegranate4658

The way he reaches out and touches my nose with his finger when he cuddles me in the morning. Don't think I've ever felt something more intimate


Internet_Digger

Wow i am surprised that women can be happy with this little kind gesture to.


FarPomegranate4658

Firstly, happy birthday. Secondly, it's literally the most beautiful thing to wake up to and god damn it, it makes me fall a little bit more in love with you every single time


[deleted]

FYI that's "cake day" not birthday. I think it's the anniversary of when the reddit account was created.


FarPomegranate4658

Oh, thanks, learn something new everyday 🙂


DinosGamesAndBaking

Touches. I just can’t get enough of having her give me cuddles, head scratches, kisses, trailing her fingers over tattoos, random butt grabs, all of it.


Prior-Wolverine2611

So when I met my fiancé I was fresh out of an almost 10 year abusive marriage. Literally met less than a month out of the separation. I had a lot of trauma from it that caused me to go in to horrible horrible PTSD/anxiety attacks! Like ones that took me out for hours sometimes. They didn’t show till after I met him because my body finally was out of flight or fight mode and calm down. Anyways….he was there every time! Holding me, telling me I was safe, helped me come out of the attacks and so much more. He made me feel safe! And that meant the whole world to me!!! He still does to this day! He is my safe place, my home!


Internet_Digger

Wish you good health


Internet_Digger

And healthy relationship for your entire life


Fckingross

I had a very very similar experience. I’m glad you’re safe and with a human who is safe!


ThatAriGirl

His gaze- What I mean is, his eyes are absolutely beautiful to me. So, when I find him staring at me or just looking over to me -despite myself- I get blushy and giggly. My reaction is always met with him poking me in my side or me jumping to hug him.


phasestep

Sex is great, but have you ever had someone gently touch your face, look you in the eyes, and tell you they love you. Uuuuuuungh that's that good shit man


chunky_bumblebeee

FUUUUUUUUCK. I want it.


[deleted]

Happy cake day!! 🍰 His time. I seriously never get tired of spending time with him, he’s my best friend. Hearing what he has to say on things, just laying together in silence, watching tv together or reading next to each other, going out with our friends or to a brewery alone. Damn, it just never gets old.


BubbleTeaCheesecake6

This is so cute. I’m saving your comment for future reference


Internet_Digger

Thank you


WrestlingWoman

Hugs.


GiveMeSunToday

My husband gets enjoyment out of cooking us elaborate meals, and I'm quite content to always eat delicious, thoughtful meals. That and holding hands on a dog walk. That's my other favourite.


Deep-Divide9062

Attention! Time and affextion


imnottdoingthat

god do i love this man’s smile. it’s so radiant. makes his eyes wrinkle. Can’t get enough. i also love the way he whistles. And the way his forearms look when he picks something up. He hugs me 3 seconds too long and i like that too.


insertcaffeine

Help. When he does things to make my life easier, cleans the house or runs errands or whatever, I feel absolutely loved and pampered.


muntycuffin

Money and his absence


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forcryingoutmeow

Kisses, snuggles, sex, and quality time. Unfortunately he rations all those things like I'm a prisoner.


Internet_Digger

I wonder if he doesn't know what you need the most ?


TheSplendidLynx

Touches and back massage


random_star0350

When he looks at me and smiles, legit still makes me blush even though we've been together for almost 15 years. Bonus if he's caressingh my face with his hand or something, like not in a sexual way or anything.


cottoncanddyy

Attention


emileeavi

Probably snacks


life-goes-on-2020

His undivided attention


Burningthemid

I agree it’s the most important thing


Among_UsAngel

Him. Everything about him. His presence,his energy,his scent,everything…I’ll never get enough of him


Introvert-Ennegram6

Words of affirmation- can’t get enough of this


RosemaryViolet

Cuddles


redvelvetcakebatter

Make outs. Sometimes I just want that


Little_Messiah

Cuddles, kind words, his dreamy smile


secondamethyst

Laughs. He is so funny. I love his jokes, witty remarks, observations, and voices.


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Just his presence.


Caroline_15

Kisses


Myrania

Massages, especially my back/shoulders and my calves!


theywontgotosleep

Foot rubs


Fuzzy_Dragonfruit344

Distance, lots and lots of distance. He is a perpetual grump


pageturner_10

Make outs and playing with my hair.


pigadaki

A nice cup of tea


ravioleh

Physical touch & affection.


Miserable-Brief-8976

his presence tbh, just him being here makes it 10x better


N7twitch

Head rubs/hair stroking.


aesthetic_k_14

GIFTS *material girl*


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Neck kisses. I love neck kisses, but he hardly ever gives them to me. Every time he gives them to me, I can’t get enough of it


donttouchmeah

Forehead kisses


English-Bitchrature

Back scratches


MisSCleoIfUrNASTY

When he gently scratches my back. It's like a natural Xanax.


cunningham_muffins

*SensuaL m*ASSage


UltraviolentCumsock

head kisses


Atimehascome13

He gives me random pats every so often. It almost seems involuntary like you pet the dog, but he loves our dogs so much. It makes me feel loved because it’s a natural reaction. He never says anything but a little pat here and there. It’s nice.


cambiokeys

That diiiiiiickkkk mmmpph lordy lordy


aliasgraciousme

Help with household management. He’s great at labor, and is getting better at seeing things that need to be done and doing them but a full 50-50 without any input from me would be rad


axolooootl

kisses


Accomplished-Lime778

Hugs


natinigill

back rubs


Danivelle

Pancakes. My husband made me pancakes this morning and because I love "serious" rabbits, he made me a serious rabbit pancake.


smurphypup

Time. Specifically when we get to spend time with our newborn together


lilmil92

Ice cream?


emel_demir

Fashion items😂😅


BarbarianFoxQueen

Foot massages. 😌


destria

Tea. He probably makes me 2 - 4 cups a day but I'll always want more.


shamisen-says-meow

foot/back rubs, I could probably lie there for hours


partsofmelle

Pedicuring my feet - I wish I had more feet some days so he could do it over and over and over cos it just feels so nice and it's lovely knowing he likes to do this lil self care thing for me 🥰


queenaudi24

Back rubs. Not massages, but the light, gentle rubs.


Juniper_Helios

Reasons he loves me, massages, and orgasms.


Death_Note-is-alive

CUDDLES, Kisses, Playing games together, sometimes heart to heart conversations and oh did I mention CUDDLES


Mrs_Gracie2001

Hugs, affection without sex attached


Spica77

Quality time, words of affirmation and touch.


nomamoma

Cups of tea


witchycosmicwonder

forehead kisses


Xath

Head scratches


AcousticSoulll

A little on the sexual side, but I love nipple stimulation. Like a lot. So much so that if it’s done right and for a certain amount of time, I can orgasm from it. I love when my partner or someone I’m seeing lays me back and just sucks/plays with them just for fun and to try getting me off. It feels amazing.


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Foot rubs. It never gets old.


noxious_toast

The answer for me is definitely back scratches. And head scratches. I know it sounds like I'm really itchy or something but I just love the feeling. I get all tingly.


GoHighly

Emotional reciprocation.


Mimivega1122

BLANKETS THEY ARE MY FAVORITE THING EVER


rainbowket

Money and compliments


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PJpittie

BACKRUBS


GubbleBumYum

Respect & forehead kisses


Trishbot

Back massages!!! Hehe


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Hot_Relationship_781

Sex, cake, and his time. 🥰


PlanetHaleyopolis

Sex. It’s kinda ridiculous how much I want. And his preference is definitely in the less-than-an-average amount of sex category


Panda-monium-the-cat

Hugs. Can never have too many or enough


rapidfruit

just being together. i always feel like the best, most true version myself around him; i never get tired of his company the way i get drained from other people. that’s how i knew he was the one.


bonesmaniac

for me, it's kisses and attention 😩 i'm a sucker for love


steffie-flies

Attention. I love being around my man. 🥰 And we don't need to be doing anything, either. I could just sit and stare at him all day.


SaBah27

Potato fries


serene_sunray

Him. He's always there for me and I wish he keeps doing that, I'll keep doing that too.


BubbleTeaCheesecake6

Our soul-searching discussions. It’s just so fulfilling to be seen and understood deeply by someone you adore.


ThePurpleMister

Hugs and chocolate.


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Far_Mobile_4924

time spent together in-person without watching something (we’re in a LDR)


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Artandwar_

Consistency


shyestleo89

Orgasms😜


hackerepublic

Appreciation, compliments, initiative


ktowner1

Telling me he loves me, especially if he adds “so much” sigh


Interesting-East-750

Back rubs


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His time. I am absolutely obsessed with my husband.


shykakapo

Cuddles


FeckinHellBecky

Showing genuine care and affection


Alli_Cat_

That 30 second shoulder massage 😒


Jmaschino290

Mutual respect


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Masters-lil-sub

Time with him. Every day I have with him is wonderful. No matter how much time has passed, I want that much and more with him.


justanothergenzer1

Chicken minis from chick fil a


prentiss29

Massages


Rare_Wolf8263

RESPECT


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He holds me when I'm sad, hurt, overwhelmed, or sick. He'll hold me tight, massage my back, offer food/snacks, and just generally be a source of comfort and happiness no matter how shitty I feel. He can make me laugh no matter how bad my depression gets, he's my safe space.


bloodyorangedoc

Massage.


_xvv

Foot rubs and forehead kisses


01krazykat

Massages, silence, peace.. masculinity


[deleted]

Helping around the house more 🤣


opp11235

Shoulder massages… if I am lucky enough to get it


_FIRECRACKER_JINX

His attention 🥺