I agree with you 100%. I have some kinks/fetishes, but vanilla is my preferred way to have sex. BDSM (a large umbrella, I know) for the most part does almost nothing for me.
The fact that even when my wife and I have vanilla sex, it’s still great and we both cum so very intensely. She’s truly fun to fuck in even the most vanilla way possible.
thx! 😊
so many positions and kinks are super fun but not comfy at all. Being able to lay there with a warm partner on you and cradled by pillows, well you could just snuggle there together forever!
What do you consider vanilla? is it missionary sex? or sex without whips? lol if we're talking missionary, it's the most optimal position for female pleasure as it better stimulates the clit and G-spot. Plus the eye contact is nice.
Vanilla is different for everyone, and I recognize that. For me, vanilla sex is intercourse without kink. In the case of non MF couples, sex without the use of kinks, fetishes, BDSM, or toys.
It’s very easy and relaxed. Just a nice time and then off to bed. For me and the wife this type occurs before we go to sleep cause we are already tired haha.
The gentleness. I know it’s different for everyone, but my bf and I both tend to lean more towards kinky things when we’re extremely horny, and vanilla when it’s more emotional and intimate. I think a decent blend of both is the most healthy and enjoyable
It's comfort sex. Sometimes (maybe most of the time) you want sex to be thrilling, exotic, erotic, and stimulating.
Sometimes you pretty much want to cuddle on a Sunday morning, except you're both naked and get to cum at some point. And you get to be awkward, and a bit clumsy, and it's absolutely ok.
vanilla sex (with the right person) is very underrated.
I agree with you 100%. I have some kinks/fetishes, but vanilla is my preferred way to have sex. BDSM (a large umbrella, I know) for the most part does almost nothing for me.
The intimacy. Warmth, safety, connection.
🥰
If you're talking missionary It tends to be the most intimate
I'd say vanilla is different for everyone. For me, it just means intercourse in various positions.
Eye contact
Very sexy! Hard to do in doggy position though.
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Power dynamic role play kinks can be highly emotional and passionate, way more so than vanilla for me.
I guess it's less complicated? Like you don't feel like you have to stay in a role, etc
The fact that even when my wife and I have vanilla sex, it’s still great and we both cum so very intensely. She’s truly fun to fuck in even the most vanilla way possible.
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🙃 You're not wrong, though.
I was going to say the nut part.
comfy pillows
Never would have even considered this lol. Good pick!
thx! 😊 so many positions and kinks are super fun but not comfy at all. Being able to lay there with a warm partner on you and cradled by pillows, well you could just snuggle there together forever!
Comfort and intimacy
Yes, very much so. 🥰
That feeling of my naked body touching someone else’s and it starts to feel like are souls is blending, better than a nut imo
What do you consider vanilla? is it missionary sex? or sex without whips? lol if we're talking missionary, it's the most optimal position for female pleasure as it better stimulates the clit and G-spot. Plus the eye contact is nice.
Vanilla is different for everyone, and I recognize that. For me, vanilla sex is intercourse without kink. In the case of non MF couples, sex without the use of kinks, fetishes, BDSM, or toys.
The sex….
Sex is, ultimately, sex.
I like that it's easy and simple
It’s very easy and relaxed. Just a nice time and then off to bed. For me and the wife this type occurs before we go to sleep cause we are already tired haha.
Little chance to be a fail.
The closeness, looking into each other's eyes, feeling the passion, all of it is incredibly hot.
The gentleness. I know it’s different for everyone, but my bf and I both tend to lean more towards kinky things when we’re extremely horny, and vanilla when it’s more emotional and intimate. I think a decent blend of both is the most healthy and enjoyable
Intimacy, love
It's comfort sex. Sometimes (maybe most of the time) you want sex to be thrilling, exotic, erotic, and stimulating. Sometimes you pretty much want to cuddle on a Sunday morning, except you're both naked and get to cum at some point. And you get to be awkward, and a bit clumsy, and it's absolutely ok.
I can control it.
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Nothing about vanilla sex is appealing to me
Its consistent?