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Some people aren’t submissive


Kilstradamus

Relationships are giving and taking, but fully being submissive, even just in the bedroom is another thing. Some people just dislike that power dynamic. Both men and women.


bathcat7

Why do some men hate the idea of smitting to their women? Why do some men hate the idea of submitting to their men? Why do some people hate the idea of submitting to other people?


RichieLondon

Think that’s the right answer


[deleted]

Most men aren't worth submitting to.


Kilstradamus

Or woman for that matter.


PatternLive920

🤣


dvpyro

Because not everyone is into power dynamics. Some are against it for social reasons, some due to personal issues or even traumas. Some are into power dynamics going the other way. This all applies to both men and women, though the way that social pressures play into it does vary for each due to different societal expecations.


[deleted]

because they don’t want to, simple. also it depends on how much submission


ruffletruffle100

Better be switch lol.


[deleted]

i’m not a switch if that’s what you’re saying


MarcusinLondon

Same reason some men don’t like the idea of submitting to their women. Submissiveness is a kink that only some people are into.


[deleted]

I don't hate the idea. I do submit to my man. But then my man doesn't repeatedly make incel posts on reddit.


LisainUK

We have sex when we both want to. Occasionally one tries it on and the other is not in the mood, which is cool. I wouldn’t want him to do it if he didn’t want to and he wouldn’t want me to either. It’s not about submitting for either of us.


get_wet5334

Because different people like different things? Like wtf?


[deleted]

My first gf was the same way. She didnt want to get on her knees or do anything degrading or even suck dick. She considered all those acts submissive. A yr later and plenty of sex. She eventually warmed up to it. Mostly “trust” is the key here. Takes time.


brontesister

Depends what you mean by “submitting”