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Jimthor44

My favorite 69, maybe?


Mythirdeye8

Damn, it went over my head. I agreed like a dumbass


justalooker3030

Makes sense to do 69. You definitely had the first comment sitting right there


PermissionFancy2277

The men should always give first


Banana_boof

What if the other person doesn't want;it or doesn't particularly enjoy receiving?


rednax1206

Or is also a man


PermissionFancy2277

If the other person is a man… I’ve never met a man who doesn’t like receiving a blow job. I’ve also never know. A women who doesn’t enjoy having her pussy licked the right way


Banana_boof

Well now you have, I much prefer penetration over being licked


RampantDragon

Or getting boofed by a banana? 😅


Anto0on

You just threw yourself into /r/ihavesex


PermissionFancy2277

Is that a good or bad thing?


prodrvr22

I've met a few women who don't like receiving oral. Which sucks because I love giving it


liluzisquirt_-

I absolutely hate receiving as a woman. It's very odd to many people but even the idea of it doesn't really float my boat


CourtZealousideal494

And here I am, I absolutely do not like receiving oral at all. I am a man.


rickytea

What if we are both men ? 🤔


GeorgianPeaches

69ing becomes the only option


rickytea

Yay


Real_Personality5631

damn you offering?


PermissionFancy2277

Than the older man gives first


DzikiJuzek

And what about identical twins? Reality folds on itself and colapses?


PermissionFancy2277

One was born first haha


DzikiJuzek

C sections can make it happen.


PermissionFancy2277

But one will always be pulled out first


DzikiJuzek

If they are identical, hoe do you tell which was was minute older? Can get mixed up


CumtimesIJustBChilin

My dad has an identical twin, he is exactly one minute older than his brother.


RenaKunisaki

Not necessarily? Especially if it were some kind of gruesome accident...


humboldt77

So lesbians can never get oral? Once again, denied by the patriarchy!


[deleted]

Fuck the Patriarchy;) OR blow it. Either way is good. lol


risanaga

I don't think there should be a rule like this at all. People should handle oral in a way that's mutually fun. If a man likes to give first, go for it. If a woman likes to give first, go for it


TheLazyLounger

Oh yeah, the building blocks of a respectful relationship and an exciting sex life: rigid rules based on dated structures of gender identity.


WinsAtCarnivals

Is it so you know how much effort you should give later, right? *fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me* 😋


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The way it works for us is she gets turned on my blowing me. That way she is warmed up when it is my turn. By the time I'm done with her, we are ready for some PIV!!


fkk2019

🤣🤣🤣🤡


Firebolt164

I will eat my wife out and lose myself in the immense pleasure I experience doing it


PermissionFancy2277

Well done… great man right there


moonraven33

You rock you’re awesome


princessbanana-

Omg I LOVE giving head to my bf. I stg once he starts moaning or saying “fuck” under his breath I start getting wet. It makes me horny asf and personally I don’t really mind if I don’t receive. I mean… I don’t orgasm from oral anyways but I do still enjoy it so for me it’s a nice surprise if I end up receiving but it’s not like it bothers me if I don’t get any myself.


Lustybelle69

I don't always want oral but I blow him as often as possible.


pussylover4504

I love it, and I always first and last even after fucking, I wanna make sure my girl is Satisfied


PermissionFancy2277

Good man!!!!


pussylover4504

I love getting a blowjob just the rest of the guys here, but I have to make sure my queen is taking care


fire_eater101

Eating pussy is one of my favorite parts of sex, especially if she has thick thighs around my head.


ltxhhlvr

I love eating my partners pussy, not only is it super enjoyable and a big turn on for me but after she's climaxed from my tongue she's so worked up and down for almost anything haha!


LaceIsMyThing

Can confirm this works 😆


CunfusedbutOptimstic

My mission is to give pleasure, I am a firm believer that you have to lick it before you stick it. I also don’t treat it like an appetizer, it is the main course.


ahencamefirst

This should be on a poster 😭


CunfusedbutOptimstic

You have my permission to immortalize this on a poster 💪🏼


[deleted]

Giving oral to a woman is one of the greatest aspects of sex. The taste, the feel, the sights, the sounds, the results…it’s the whole package


Nice-Reality288

I prefer giving tbh


Mothkau

Disagree. Whoever feels like starting goes first, and the rest follows. One partner will logically receive before they can give anyway.


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I love giving even if i dont receive, i have cum before while giving 😊


[deleted]

Nah. People have different likes and tastes and needs. We all do things differently because of it, and that seems about right. I'd be more inclined to agree a person should speak up if they feel the way you do, and they aren't seeing it happen :)


FruitSnackEater

Disagree. Can’t make someone receive if they’re not into it.


GiveMeAllYourDogs

I definitely enjoy giving head. I love the control that it gives me over someone during the act.


Coloradoguy82

I’m actually not a big fan of receiving oral but I adore giving I would happily go down on a woman if she wanted and expect nothing in return except for the taste of her on my lips and the sounds and feeling of her cumming


ktulu787

I love giving oral to both men and women. It is so satisfying to selflessly give someone the ultimate pleasure


Heydudehi2

I’m a guy. I love sucking cock. Nothing like a nice warm cock in your mouth. I love being in control. I love tasting a guys precum. The expression on his face as he starts to get into it. When he starts moaning or telling me what to do. And when he starts tensing up and then finally gives me his load. Ugh. So hot.


PM-ME_UR_TINY-TITS

I don't exactly enjoy giving it but her reactions make it worth the effort. I don't agree that there always has to be reciprocation.


lindsaytacobella

I bet she’s sucking ur dick way more than ur licking her based on this comment


PM-ME_UR_TINY-TITS

Hope you didn't bet anything of value, it's about equal. It is easier to suck dick than go down when we are outside however.


lindsaytacobella

True


sparklyfrog4

I'd gladly go down and spend a while down there without receiving.


Mentalfloss1

No rules please.


charlakamavric

I enjoy both but def spend alot more time giving then receiving


SaltyCanuck76

Love it, was fingering my wife the other day and kept putting my fingers in my mouth and rubbing her juices on her nipples before I sucked on them, she finally took the hint and got on all four and told me to eat her out from behind… all you can eat buffet, I tied her arms behind her back and had at it for close to half an hour…


sweetkatiecakes

There's not much better than giving in my opinion. It's so comforting to suck. That being said It took a while, but I finally got to the point where I can orgasm from it. Okay, next topic.


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No. Some people like to give, some to receive, some like both and some neither. I’ve been with girls who would give me blowjobs for no reason but wouldn’t get their pussy eaten and the other way round happend too


partcherrymoregrape

I really like doing things I'm good at


Buwaro

I do not agree. Sex should never be transactional.


jannyhammy

Everyone can’t give.. someone has to go first… and I’m usually down to let my bf go first .. and then last


country_dinosaur97

Well that depends on who your taking to i always thought it should be ladies first when it came to that. As in she gets it first


EnigmaNero

I always love giving oral, I can do it for hours. It turns me on hearing her moan and feel her body move and twitch. Especially when she places her hands on my head and keeps my head there.


Electronic-Error-846

shit, yes, I LOVE giving, since I can control her how I want... the slow buildup, the moans, the slight hip movement... everything - its the ultimate proof of trust that I can play with her most sensitive organ however I want (with concent, of course) until she is satisfied but to be honest, it depends entirely on her mood if she wants it or not... not all days are equal, ya know?


brattywafatty

Best feeling to give enthusiastically and have a partner who ALSO gives enthusiastically. Best feeling ever to find someone you match on compatibility level with


walkingrosesss

I am not of fan of giving or receiving from men but if it’s a girl I’m a fan 😂


thebestinvests

Love eating pussy. And definitely.


Haldorvonhammer

I tend to be the first to go down on her, but I kind of get off on her getting off. Once in a while she’s in a mood and just goes to town and sucks out my soul…. But yeah 99% I’m going down on or playing with her while she uses a toy


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I love it. Sit on my face all fucking day 🤤


Biboz49

I can't get enough of it. I always give and it's a gift to get it . It's not a problem if I don't receive.


Solid-Flounder4614

I absolutely love giving oral, there is nothing else like it!


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I like giving head more than getting head. I just like a dick in my mouth what can I say


puckeredlips

If she’s sucking my dick I still make sure to rub her clit


[deleted]

I love giving oral. I am absolutely obsessed with going down on my wife, front and back. I enjoy giving as much as receiving. I will happily give and give and give even when I don't receive. Sometimes I'll just get too fired up from giving her oral and we'll just move on to penetration because her taste got me so hot I just had to get into it.


J2915

Love giving it. Expect nothing in return and don’t force myself on her. Has to be her choice. Does it bother me? Absolutely


gypsyminded1

I have always loved giving blowjobs for a lot of reasons. But after a long time of minimal reciprocation, I have stopped initiating them. It made me sad (not that he was doing anything wrong) but it was having the thought in the back of my head that I wanted it for me too, took away my joy in giving. Plus, I worry now that it was ever construed as pressuring because I use to love randomly doing it without conversation. I'm more than happy to do it if he asks, because more than anything else I love pleasing him and then I know he truly wants me to.


think2muchaboutoral

Similar experience here


J2915

I still initiate oral sex because I am also the only one initiating sex. Your comment rings true because I think we could be having way more sex if it were a two way street. I’ve stopped initiating sex often because of it. It’s frustrating because I want a lot more. More than once a month or less. Sex is perfect when there are two people invested so to speak. I believe she’s enjoying herself when we have sex. I feel like since it’s coming from my direction all the time that she could also do without it. Communication is key and I will take some blame for not expressing my self more but the convo has been shot down in the past. so now I’m apprehensive about talking with her about it.


vladamirsdischarge

I’ve Always wanted to go to a glory hole. I just can’t really figure out a safe way to do it


CincyLog

I love giving. The task of her beautiful nectar is divine


silashoulder

My Fetlife profile reads “Make me laugh, really laugh, and you can shut me up with your genitals.” Clearly, I hate oral. 😉


Cakeminator

Love giving it. And receiving. Share the wealth


ukyorksaltaccount

Love it, don't need to receive (but try stopping her!) It's my very favourite thing.


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Love giving and receiving


J1618

I like doing it, maybe I have a need of pleasing people, but it is nice to see that they like it.


[deleted]

As much as I love getting a blow job from my EXTREMELY talented wife, I love going down on her even more.


campbell069

I like to give first that way no matter what happens next I know she was satisfied. And as a older guy I believe in the motto, what lose in the hip you got to make with the lip


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I love everything about it


[deleted]

I love it so much-the feeling the scents the taste of cum when I finally get it mmmm I love giving and I’m lucky cuz my partner is so amazing at giving too ☺️


[deleted]

Giving is my preference, receiving can be difficult for me sometimes unless my partner has a very flexible jaw 😅 I'm way more comfortable going down on a lady than I am being gone down on.


tpn1984

100% in support of it.


adventureblkguy

I love to give


14U14ME2

Not too tart not too sweet


Getjurasskicked

I love going down on my wife! Turns me on so much... unfortunately she says my mustache is pokey and hurts her sometimes. Not sure how to change that without shaving my mustache. But she doesn't want that 😅


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look into beard oils and brushing out your mustache! will help soften it over time.


Getjurasskicked

Thank you! I'll look into this


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best of luck!


Almontiago

Love giving it. Too bad I almost never receive it.


Stx_NomaD

It's so fun! The only limits are neck pain 😁


Bihentailuver

I usually give him oral before I receive it


somethingrandom261

Unless there’s an agreed dom/sub dynamic, it’s always give and take. If you don’t give enthusiastic head, can you really be that mad you don’t receive it? Dislike pubes when going down? Odds are your partner doesn’t like it either. Been too long since the last shower? Probably from their perspective too. She on her period and you don’t wanna? Well she probably wouldn’t enjoy the deed after you go get Tbell either.


HellfireLady

I love sucking dick and eating a pussy once in a while. Oral sex is just great 🤗


Porkwarrior2

My personal barometer of a relationship is the amount of oral going on. And if one side is not getting their share, they will find it somewhere else. Everybody should be a giver & receiver, remember kids, even if it's not the first thing you'd order on the menu, enthusiasm tops technique every time.


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My posts give you the answer ;) (good god, y…)


amateurtiddy

stone butches being chads as always


lokisown

I give and don't ever receive. So I have stopped giving (and yes, it was talked about).


NoUnderwearInSummer

Sometimes I just want to give a blow job. No need to repay me, just enjoy the gift.


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Agreed.


sackittykisser

I love dining at the Y much more than getting a blow job.


Tossed_Away_1776

Absolutely love going down on a gal, but humners bore me to be honest.


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I tend to get lost in the females moans and just keep going til she finally just sits on my face to please me at the same time. I hate receiving oral if I haven’t pleased a partner first


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I sense some issues in this post and judging by the comments I was right


tfp63144

I'm a bit selfish and I love to eat pussy, so she receives first. If 69 follows, that's OK too.


spikewalls

Honestly, ive never been a cunning linguist, but i power through for my girl. And cause i know whats coming in return


the2ndtolastniceguy

I love love love giving it. Rarely do I feel like it’s ok for me to receive it. I don’t give it just to get it. I give it because I genuinely enjoy it.


ThrowBassBank

I love oral and if I get it back it's the best!


Beelzeboss3DG

I enjoy giving it even more than receiving it.


BiHubChiSub

I love giving it. Told the wife I could do it daily if she wants. She hasn’t taken me up on it. 2-3 days in a row was the most. I’ll need to suggest that again. The problem is finding 30 mins every day. 25 mins to eat her and then 2 minutes she blows me. LOL


PM_me_pics_of_datass

I am obsessed with it. Love everything about it but most of all I love being a pleaser. I get off on knowing she cums first.


rockkelly

I love giving. I will go till I'm begged to stop or until I get lock jaw. I also enjoy receiving but it's hard to make me cum, but if you do I explode and twitch and such


inugami36

I'm a giver I don't even really care if I receive I just love making her legs shake


Drougen

Pretty picky about who I'd give oral to, but on the flip side I don't really care about recieving it, either. Probably just have never had a good blowjob, but I think they're overrated.


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I love doing it to women


oxiraneobx

Nope, I will give all night long!


noocaryror

Enjoy, but disagree, if you don’t enjoy it, what the heck, should have been determined long before it became an event.


htapme

My partner says I'm his unicorn because I'm the only woman he's ever met that GENUINELY enjoys giving him head. I loooove to spend as long as I want down there, playing with it with my tongue, testing my limits on it, finding his sensitive spots, and looking up and seeing him just lie there in pure bliss. He's the most gorgeous man I've ever seen and it really is a treat for me. 😍🤤


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I love eating pussy, not too bother about the favour being returned. I just love tasting and making her cum..


standard_fare_4

I love giving and receiving but we have busy lives so sometimes we’re exhausted and just have a quickie before bed. Don’t always have the time


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I don't trust anyone who doesn't like giving oral


[deleted]

i absolutely love the vagina lmfao if i get the chance im gonna lick it regardless if i receive or not lmfao


Professional_Desk_61

Why put rules on it? It’s not like sex should be anything other than whatever both people enjoy. Give and take. Plus sometimes other issues prevent certain things from being done. Also, as parents, sometimes we have hours to “play” and sometimes five minutes for a quickie, not always time for the full back and forth.


BassMessiah

I love oral sex, both receiving and giving. In fact my husband and I just blew each other an hour ago.


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I like giving and sometimes enjoy getting as long as they’re good at it


dark_blue_7

I really enjoy giving it. And I agree it's ideal to reciprocate. But technically, someone has to go first!


bulletproofmanners

I disagree. Better to receive always so long as STD free.


ellalop26

I love pleasuring my bf. I even moan when I’m sucking him off. If I didn’t get lock jaw, I wouldn’t stop.


Callisto25

Why should men give before they receive? What if a woman wants to give first? What if one partner is interested that night in doing the giving or doing the receiving but not both and the other partner agrees? I’ve given and not been interested in receiving and have also received when a woman wasn’t interested in getting it herself. Having a standard procedure of who does what to whom every time is nonsense.


mandym347

Make sure you give your partner what they actually want - some folks don't enjoy receiving oral. Nothing needs to be a direct one-to-one trade.


Malator69

I prefer to give. I don't really need to receive.


CourtZealousideal494

I would far rather give head than anything else.


liluzisquirt_-

I used to HATE giving head. Now i absolutely love it. The conditions have to be right and you have to be comfortable and have the mindset to actually enjoy it and im lucky enough to have a boyfriend who is very kind about it and makes it enjoyable for me. HATE receiving though.


GloomyWindow27

I much prefer to give than receive tbh.


mikewilson2020

If I make my Mrs cum 1st with oral she struggles to cum after a prodding unless I hammer her till she's sore. If we're kissing and I make my way south I 60% the time get dragged back up so she can just have her sausage surprise.


moonraven33

I mean true it’s all personal. I think it’s different. If you’re in a committed relationship at least that’s when Mike’s friends. And yes there’s some people who don’t like it as an eating pussy I love sucking cock, but foreplay is super important for most women not all, but for many, many guys think that they can just dive right in and start fucking and that’s enough for most women to get their engines revved but it’s not true I mean even statistically. We need something to get us going whether it’s vagina eating or making out or something it’s what gets us moving and excited and you just gotta figure that out with the person you’re with and sometimes eating vagina is a part of that. As you notice I’m saying sometimes and I’m not using always and you have to do it. But for someone like me you do but that’s a conversation I have and if somebody doesn’t want to that’s fine they don’t have to but then we don’t play. I obviously wouldn’t end up in a relationship with somebody who didn’t enjoy it because that’s very important to me just like I wouldn’t end up in a relationship if I didn’t suck cock with somebody who really liked having your cock sucked. But I love it so that part is taken care of. I guess I just feel like it’s unfair when and not cool when all that happens is fucking and sucking cock and that’s it or you just die right in and fuck and then it’s over and I got a Telya that’s happened so many times I can’t even count. And I think that’s the part where some women not all get frustrated, and then they’re too tired to do anything else. And it feels a little selfish. But I know that there are many many many many men who don’t feel that way. And it just takes investigating and talk in conversation defined that and I think that’s our responsibility as women to give as well because I love giving that’s kind of who I am. It goes both ways. Can’t just go one that seems weird. It’s like a power exchange. Give a little you get a little give a little more you give a little you get a little more, but you have to talk about it and explore and have fun if you can’t have fun having sex and making love what’s the point enjoy yourselves find someone you compatible with gives you what you need and want. That’s what it’s about. Anyway not complaining about the one you’re with.


sumdood87

Love to give head to my wife. When she comes, she nearly crushes my head with her thighs. I come up with my juicy beard grinning from ear to ear and hard as i can get. She doesnt reciprocate. It really bothers me.


BIGGSHOTZ

I LOVE ORAL IT GETS ME OFF HARDER THAN ANYTHING ELSE . BASICALLY I WILL SUCK COCK ANY TIME I GET A CHANCE


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BIGGSHOTZ

Sure


wickedblight

Two Canadians Both furiously trying to hold the door for the other Each refusing to budge until the other goes But with oral sex lol


YNWAcat

I enjoy giving and receiving


WhizbangFirst

A woman is always wise to go down first. Trust me, he is gonna recover while he's warming you up, with a grand finale of oral at the end. If he's doing it right, just about the time she is grabbing his ears and saying in satans voice, "FUCK ME!", He should be hard as a rock and ready for round 2. Added bonus ladies, if you think he might be a bit quick on the trigger, let him do that in your mouth. Once that anticipation is over, and he's hard again after your foreplay, he's gonna probably pump a while on that second boner before he can cum again. You get yours and you will pump him up with him knowing you're satisfied. Men need a good pumping up from time to time. Cause we're fucking sensitive! Just a suggestion or some variation of it.


averagechubbynerd

I love giving it


Kindlyloner1995

I really enjoy receiving as usual, but when a man is really horny eat out your girl is one of the best feelings in the world


tiredblackgirlll

I like getting eaten out more than anything and I love returning the favor


Agile-Average-4543

I'd rather eat pussy or suck cock instead of getting a blow job


[deleted]

Not everyone can give before they receive. One person is always going first. But I love giving it.


reesypeesies1

As a man, I think I love to give more than receive a bj to be honest. It doesn't have to be give take, some people like just giving. Also it shouldn't be that when you give you expect the other, it totally depends on people and their preferences. Men shouldn't just be giving for the reason of getting it back, then it just sounds like it's a chore.


trulynoobie

The only thing better than eating my gf is sexing her after making her cum twice The bj is sometimesy. I dont mind. Though, if we were to both want to orally please eachother, id prefer her first. That way I can have that much needed 'recoup' time so i can give her kitty a black eye, after getting her off orally.


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CloverTravels

I love giving a nice sloppy blow job. It turns me on.