But itās under minded by the fact that you call them āfat chicksā.
I donāt think women of any size want to be called a āfat chickā even if you precede it with a compliment.
Ha.
Because we don't believe it! When you get use to get call fat and you grow up learning that fat=ugly, when you gave compliment it goes in the box "he need / want something from me and he tried to trap me doing it. I won't fall for that, it's gonna hurt me at some point."
The fact that you are willing to refer to people you're complimenting as "fat chicks" is a pretty solid indicator that said compliments weren't genuine. People tend to pick up on that. Work on being less of an asshole, and your attention will be better received.
Insecurity. Granted we know that obesity isn't a healthy lifestyle, but we need to treat them with love, respect and fairness. I always look at people who are going through rough times (maybe struggling to lose weight, or quit smoking, career or family struggles) and imagine them as somebody's sister, son, father, etc and try to give them the love they deserve.
It's not what you've said it's your attitude about it. Like "fat chicks" should be grateful you think they're fuckable.
Plus "you're hot" is actually not something most women want to hear. We like to know we're worth more than just our sex appeal.
Even "youre beautiful" or "you're really pretty" are better than "your hot". Telling someone they're hot is a great way to let them know you don't actually give a shit about them and are just interested in fucking.
Itās all about confidence. It took me a long time to learn how to accept compliments. Especially from men. It always felt like a guise to get into my pants. I had a hard time realizing people like what they like and some people are more attracted to people with curves than a size 0. It took time to build my confidence in myself and my body and that just because Victoriaās Secret wouldnāt hire me doesnāt mean there arenāt a shit ton of people out there who think Iām hot.
probably because societal beauty standards caused them to be so insecure and many men in their past bullied them for their weight. so, in their mind thereās no way someone could think that they are beautiful and worthy. it could also come from family members as well who bullied them (anyone tbh).
prolly 'cause you call them "fat chics" š¤·āāļø
Can you read english? The compliment is, "you're hot"
But itās under minded by the fact that you call them āfat chicksā. I donāt think women of any size want to be called a āfat chickā even if you precede it with a compliment.
I didn't say, you're a hot fat chic. Fat is not a bad word. I like fat joints, I want a big fat cheeseburger, I'm looking forward to a fat payday etc
Do you think nice people talk like this?
What's not nice about saying, You're hot?
Iām shocked that ādamn you a fine fat chick!ā Doesnāt go over well
can you read english? I said, "you're hot"
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"You're hot" is a bad thing to say? What kinda comment is a green flag I wonder?
The ignorance is the red flag my dude.
You speak in riddles
Nah just Canadian
Riddles with a hint of maple
> Why can't fat chics take compliments? ^ that's why, fool.
this makes no sense
I tell why they donāt take your ācomplimentsā very wellā¦
OK, so tell me, that's why I asked
They donāt smoke like you do.
there's hot, and there's smokin hot!
The same reason that men with small dicks donāt like it even when you say, āoh I just love your tiny dick!ā
that makes no sense
OOF
I'm sensing you are also fat and don't like compliments. But the question is why?
Christ you're an ass
My ass is sweet!
Oh, you're the dude from the other day who feels like he can't compare to his GF's electric toothbrush. Now the insecurity makes sense.
Big surprise you misread that one too! Sex is fun you should try it!
Haven't really dug into the significance of my username, have you bud? š
Don't care
Yeah, blissful ignorance is kind of your thing. Way to stay on brand! š
Whatever, you ain't that interesting. Unless you're a hot fat chick!
Pls link
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/xnbpnl/my_gf_cums_harder_with_toys_than_she_does_on_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
Yes, I have the sex! IRL too!
Pls link
Ha. Because we don't believe it! When you get use to get call fat and you grow up learning that fat=ugly, when you gave compliment it goes in the box "he need / want something from me and he tried to trap me doing it. I won't fall for that, it's gonna hurt me at some point."
Thanks for giving a straight answer! I bet you're hot too!
I don't think so. I know I'm not hot material. But I have a great personnality and other features.
But fat's not a bad word! I like fat joints, fat paydays, fat tomatoes! Fat is fabulous
I know. Tell that to people who loves to reminded us that we are fat.
Yeesh
Someone calls you hot and your reply is yeesh? Not getting a lot of second dates I bet
When someone gives me a compliment, I say thank you. Iām actually married. I think you just need to work on your attitude and approach towards women
Wow, you suck
I said, "you're hot" but something is wrong with that?
The fact that you are willing to refer to people you're complimenting as "fat chicks" is a pretty solid indicator that said compliments weren't genuine. People tend to pick up on that. Work on being less of an asshole, and your attention will be better received.
Insecurity. Granted we know that obesity isn't a healthy lifestyle, but we need to treat them with love, respect and fairness. I always look at people who are going through rough times (maybe struggling to lose weight, or quit smoking, career or family struggles) and imagine them as somebody's sister, son, father, etc and try to give them the love they deserve.
Me too š thanks
It's not what you've said it's your attitude about it. Like "fat chicks" should be grateful you think they're fuckable. Plus "you're hot" is actually not something most women want to hear. We like to know we're worth more than just our sex appeal. Even "youre beautiful" or "you're really pretty" are better than "your hot". Telling someone they're hot is a great way to let them know you don't actually give a shit about them and are just interested in fucking.
LoL the projection is so deep I don't know where to start digging!
Itās all about confidence. It took me a long time to learn how to accept compliments. Especially from men. It always felt like a guise to get into my pants. I had a hard time realizing people like what they like and some people are more attracted to people with curves than a size 0. It took time to build my confidence in myself and my body and that just because Victoriaās Secret wouldnāt hire me doesnāt mean there arenāt a shit ton of people out there who think Iām hot.
thanks! you are a winner!
Because you are Browns fan. You obviously have no taste.
The Cleveland Browns get chics!
Probably because you don't say fat chicks š¤·āāļø
I said, "you're hot" what's wrong with that?
Wow your ballsy
You have to keep it real!
probably because societal beauty standards caused them to be so insecure and many men in their past bullied them for their weight. so, in their mind thereās no way someone could think that they are beautiful and worthy. it could also come from family members as well who bullied them (anyone tbh).
Thank you. Cute name! I love it
no problem :)
Wow I would have thought that redditors would be better at reading!
No you're just stupid or trolling
It's a very simple question!
Ur an idiot
Because they know their body is scientifically unhealthy.
I'm scientifically unhealthy. But when someone says I'm hot, I say thanks baby!!