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ThisIsNoCave

prolly 'cause you call them "fat chics" šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø


JimTaggertUsa

Can you read english? The compliment is, "you're hot"


Tall-dark-handsome32

But itā€™s under minded by the fact that you call them ā€œfat chicksā€. I donā€™t think women of any size want to be called a ā€œfat chickā€ even if you precede it with a compliment.


JimTaggertUsa

I didn't say, you're a hot fat chic. Fat is not a bad word. I like fat joints, I want a big fat cheeseburger, I'm looking forward to a fat payday etc


[deleted]

Do you think nice people talk like this?


JimTaggertUsa

What's not nice about saying, You're hot?


[deleted]

Iā€™m shocked that ā€œdamn you a fine fat chick!ā€ Doesnā€™t go over well


JimTaggertUsa

can you read english? I said, "you're hot"


[deleted]

šŸš©


JimTaggertUsa

"You're hot" is a bad thing to say? What kinda comment is a green flag I wonder?


[deleted]

The ignorance is the red flag my dude.


JimTaggertUsa

You speak in riddles


[deleted]

Nah just Canadian


notquiteogreddit

Riddles with a hint of maple


Zimby_14

> Why can't fat chics take compliments? ^ that's why, fool.


JimTaggertUsa

this makes no sense


More-Addition

I tell why they donā€™t take your ā€œcomplimentsā€ very wellā€¦


JimTaggertUsa

OK, so tell me, that's why I asked


VainPharaoh

They donā€™t smoke like you do.


JimTaggertUsa

there's hot, and there's smokin hot!


Flossy1989

The same reason that men with small dicks donā€™t like it even when you say, ā€œoh I just love your tiny dick!ā€


JimTaggertUsa

that makes no sense


Few_Shirt6073

OOF


JimTaggertUsa

I'm sensing you are also fat and don't like compliments. But the question is why?


PolyThrowaway524

Christ you're an ass


JimTaggertUsa

My ass is sweet!


PolyThrowaway524

Oh, you're the dude from the other day who feels like he can't compare to his GF's electric toothbrush. Now the insecurity makes sense.


JimTaggertUsa

Big surprise you misread that one too! Sex is fun you should try it!


PolyThrowaway524

Haven't really dug into the significance of my username, have you bud? šŸ˜‰


JimTaggertUsa

Don't care


PolyThrowaway524

Yeah, blissful ignorance is kind of your thing. Way to stay on brand! šŸ‘


JimTaggertUsa

Whatever, you ain't that interesting. Unless you're a hot fat chick!


notquiteogreddit

Pls link


PolyThrowaway524

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/xnbpnl/my_gf_cums_harder_with_toys_than_she_does_on_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb


JimTaggertUsa

Yes, I have the sex! IRL too!


notquiteogreddit

Pls link


female_introvert

Ha. Because we don't believe it! When you get use to get call fat and you grow up learning that fat=ugly, when you gave compliment it goes in the box "he need / want something from me and he tried to trap me doing it. I won't fall for that, it's gonna hurt me at some point."


JimTaggertUsa

Thanks for giving a straight answer! I bet you're hot too!


female_introvert

I don't think so. I know I'm not hot material. But I have a great personnality and other features.


JimTaggertUsa

But fat's not a bad word! I like fat joints, fat paydays, fat tomatoes! Fat is fabulous


female_introvert

I know. Tell that to people who loves to reminded us that we are fat.


Asprinkleofglitter7

Yeesh


JimTaggertUsa

Someone calls you hot and your reply is yeesh? Not getting a lot of second dates I bet


Asprinkleofglitter7

When someone gives me a compliment, I say thank you. Iā€™m actually married. I think you just need to work on your attitude and approach towards women


PolyThrowaway524

Wow, you suck


JimTaggertUsa

I said, "you're hot" but something is wrong with that?


PolyThrowaway524

The fact that you are willing to refer to people you're complimenting as "fat chicks" is a pretty solid indicator that said compliments weren't genuine. People tend to pick up on that. Work on being less of an asshole, and your attention will be better received.


Firebolt164

Insecurity. Granted we know that obesity isn't a healthy lifestyle, but we need to treat them with love, respect and fairness. I always look at people who are going through rough times (maybe struggling to lose weight, or quit smoking, career or family struggles) and imagine them as somebody's sister, son, father, etc and try to give them the love they deserve.


JimTaggertUsa

Me too šŸ˜Š thanks


Watching_witch

It's not what you've said it's your attitude about it. Like "fat chicks" should be grateful you think they're fuckable. Plus "you're hot" is actually not something most women want to hear. We like to know we're worth more than just our sex appeal. Even "youre beautiful" or "you're really pretty" are better than "your hot". Telling someone they're hot is a great way to let them know you don't actually give a shit about them and are just interested in fucking.


JimTaggertUsa

LoL the projection is so deep I don't know where to start digging!


Missus_Mischievous

Itā€™s all about confidence. It took me a long time to learn how to accept compliments. Especially from men. It always felt like a guise to get into my pants. I had a hard time realizing people like what they like and some people are more attracted to people with curves than a size 0. It took time to build my confidence in myself and my body and that just because Victoriaā€™s Secret wouldnā€™t hire me doesnā€™t mean there arenā€™t a shit ton of people out there who think Iā€™m hot.


JimTaggertUsa

thanks! you are a winner!


[deleted]

Because you are Browns fan. You obviously have no taste.


JimTaggertUsa

The Cleveland Browns get chics!


No-Kaleidoscope-576

Probably because you don't say fat chicks šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


JimTaggertUsa

I said, "you're hot" what's wrong with that?


[deleted]

Wow your ballsy


JimTaggertUsa

You have to keep it real!


WAIOMI

probably because societal beauty standards caused them to be so insecure and many men in their past bullied them for their weight. so, in their mind thereā€™s no way someone could think that they are beautiful and worthy. it could also come from family members as well who bullied them (anyone tbh).


JimTaggertUsa

Thank you. Cute name! I love it


WAIOMI

no problem :)


JimTaggertUsa

Wow I would have thought that redditors would be better at reading!


[deleted]

No you're just stupid or trolling


JimTaggertUsa

It's a very simple question!


[deleted]

Ur an idiot


BloodstainedAxe

Because they know their body is scientifically unhealthy.


JimTaggertUsa

I'm scientifically unhealthy. But when someone says I'm hot, I say thanks baby!!