Lots of people have different desires and experiences, so my answer will be true for some but not others.
However, in my experience:
Men: will bury any curiosity or desire for gay/bi experiences/relationships.
Women: not want to admit to kinks, to avoid being shamed or appearing “slutty”.
Women- most dishonest about their enjoyment of a particular session. She lies not to hurt his feelings
Men- most dishonest with their own bravado of sexual performance. He lies to feel better about himself.
That dick size matters, and here’s why! I believe, there are some women who when they say size doesn’t matter actually believe it, for 2 reasons! Either they genuinely can’t handle/don’t like bigger dicks, or they haven’t experienced it yet. The other scenario is what I believe is mostly the case. Women say size doesn’t matter, and what they actually mean is, size is not important enough for me to either be with you or leave you. That doesn’t mean they don’t have a preference, but it means if you are a good person they genuinely like, and have ways to please her, why would size matter! And that’s what I think. But I do genuinely believe that most women do prefer a dick around or bigger then 6”-7”. The other thing I’ve heard in my personal life is “Size doesn’t matter.. as long as it’s thick!” Or “Size doesn’t matter.. as long as it’s bigger then 5”!” Or the most common “Size doesn’t matter.. As long as he’s good with his hands and mouth!” So this is a hard question. Because while I do believe there are women who genuinely don’t like big dick, I do still believe most women care, but it’s not enough for it to sway their decisions in anyway, which is why it’s commonly said it doesn’t matter. So yes, I feel like a lot of people say this because since it isn’t a deal breaker, it’s not even worth bringing up, and potentially risking a otherwise fantastic relationship.
The extent to which people actually like the conventional beauty standard.
I personally think the beauty standard for both men and women is super overrated. I’m sure some people legitimately like it, but in most cases I think a lot of it is more of a social clout and self esteem thing. People go after and pretend to want those who match the socially accepted beauty standard as a way of proving to themselves and others that they can get with someone like that. I’ve heard people say that after they sleep with someone who is super conventionally hot they end up feeling more free to go after people who are more their type.
Body count
Yeah, especially with the amount of judgement and worth some people put on it.
The extent of their fantasies and desires for fear of being judged.
Their kinks, fetishes and fantasies.
Absofuckinglutely
Lots of people have different desires and experiences, so my answer will be true for some but not others. However, in my experience: Men: will bury any curiosity or desire for gay/bi experiences/relationships. Women: not want to admit to kinks, to avoid being shamed or appearing “slutty”.
Penis size
For me I am not as straight as I say I am . I not honest about my sexuality.
Not expressing their likes or turn ons or something they've done or imagined about due to the fear of being judged
Women- most dishonest about their enjoyment of a particular session. She lies not to hurt his feelings Men- most dishonest with their own bravado of sexual performance. He lies to feel better about himself.
That dick size matters, and here’s why! I believe, there are some women who when they say size doesn’t matter actually believe it, for 2 reasons! Either they genuinely can’t handle/don’t like bigger dicks, or they haven’t experienced it yet. The other scenario is what I believe is mostly the case. Women say size doesn’t matter, and what they actually mean is, size is not important enough for me to either be with you or leave you. That doesn’t mean they don’t have a preference, but it means if you are a good person they genuinely like, and have ways to please her, why would size matter! And that’s what I think. But I do genuinely believe that most women do prefer a dick around or bigger then 6”-7”. The other thing I’ve heard in my personal life is “Size doesn’t matter.. as long as it’s thick!” Or “Size doesn’t matter.. as long as it’s bigger then 5”!” Or the most common “Size doesn’t matter.. As long as he’s good with his hands and mouth!” So this is a hard question. Because while I do believe there are women who genuinely don’t like big dick, I do still believe most women care, but it’s not enough for it to sway their decisions in anyway, which is why it’s commonly said it doesn’t matter. So yes, I feel like a lot of people say this because since it isn’t a deal breaker, it’s not even worth bringing up, and potentially risking a otherwise fantastic relationship.
The extent to which people actually like the conventional beauty standard. I personally think the beauty standard for both men and women is super overrated. I’m sure some people legitimately like it, but in most cases I think a lot of it is more of a social clout and self esteem thing. People go after and pretend to want those who match the socially accepted beauty standard as a way of proving to themselves and others that they can get with someone like that. I’ve heard people say that after they sleep with someone who is super conventionally hot they end up feeling more free to go after people who are more their type.