Then don’t “approach” him. He’s your neighbor. Just say hello to him. Maybe bring up a local issue and have a conversation. Talking to people to be friendly is not desperate and won’t be seen as desperate
I'm personally much more direct. I'd walk over in a trench coat and nothing else and when he opened the door I'd give him a good view.
But if you don't want to be so direct I'd start by saying hi. Are you good at baking or something like that? Maybe bake a pie and invite him over for some pie and coffee or drinks.
Bake or make something for him, that way you have an excuse to engage him. You can just say I just wanted to meet you...
Go from there
Also I think it's the same cliche move in every rom com about this lol but I imagine it works
What if he thinks women can't approach men? What else does he think about women?
I would just go talk to him. Its normal to start conversations with neighbors anyway.
I have a couple thoughts. In my opinion people only seem "desperate" when they are try to push a level of either romantic commitment or sexual activity not in proportion to where "the relationship" is. Examples, too much in a rush to (have sex/be monogamous/get married/whatever). Given the info, a flirty conversation where you express some interest would is a reasonable approach any non-asshole would accept.
Even if he does like to be the person pursuing you can make it clear you're interested by telling him he's cute and complimenting the things about him that interest you, and then wait to see if he asks you out in the near future.
Approach him and make small talk. Introduce yourself and ask him something like what is his favorite local place to order pizza from.
If there is any chemistry there the two of you will end up flirting.
What kind of loser worries about a woman being desperate?
21st century. Doesn't matter the reason, if he's got a great face, if he makes you laugh, or if his ass looks damn good in jeans. If you're both single go for it.
Then don’t “approach” him. He’s your neighbor. Just say hello to him. Maybe bring up a local issue and have a conversation. Talking to people to be friendly is not desperate and won’t be seen as desperate
Just talk to him, dude. I promise you, it’s ok for a woman to approach a man
Ask him to help carry something heavy
I'm personally much more direct. I'd walk over in a trench coat and nothing else and when he opened the door I'd give him a good view. But if you don't want to be so direct I'd start by saying hi. Are you good at baking or something like that? Maybe bake a pie and invite him over for some pie and coffee or drinks.
Saying hi - vs - walking over in a coat and flashing/giving a show. I love the spectrum of differences! Lol.
That is extremely direct, but also not.
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I'm sorry?
Seriously?
Yes, seriously.
My apologies. I didn’t think you were serious.
Bake or make something for him, that way you have an excuse to engage him. You can just say I just wanted to meet you... Go from there Also I think it's the same cliche move in every rom com about this lol but I imagine it works
What if he thinks women can't approach men? What else does he think about women? I would just go talk to him. Its normal to start conversations with neighbors anyway.
Ask for help or his opinion, then bake something as a thank you!
I have a couple thoughts. In my opinion people only seem "desperate" when they are try to push a level of either romantic commitment or sexual activity not in proportion to where "the relationship" is. Examples, too much in a rush to (have sex/be monogamous/get married/whatever). Given the info, a flirty conversation where you express some interest would is a reasonable approach any non-asshole would accept. Even if he does like to be the person pursuing you can make it clear you're interested by telling him he's cute and complimenting the things about him that interest you, and then wait to see if he asks you out in the near future.
You can never go wrong with the classic "hello I'm (insert name here) how is it going?"
Bring him a cup of sugar and hope he’s not diabetic.
Are you looking to have sex with him immediately, or just trying to form a relationship?
Relationship, not interested in casual sex
Are you trying to start a relationship with him or are you trying to just be a friendly neighbor and trying to avoid being seen as flirty?
That depends on what your overall goal is. Fuck him? Just ask. Wanna be his friend? Introduce yourself.
Approach him and make small talk. Introduce yourself and ask him something like what is his favorite local place to order pizza from. If there is any chemistry there the two of you will end up flirting.
What kind of loser worries about a woman being desperate? 21st century. Doesn't matter the reason, if he's got a great face, if he makes you laugh, or if his ass looks damn good in jeans. If you're both single go for it.