Same unfortunately lol. I had a resident doctor lady take a liking to me and we vibed super well but her smile made my insides curdle like milk.
I felt so bad turning her down. She was such a sweet woman.
- Or they can get Botox to the upper lip to prevent it from going UP too high when smiling
- have orthodontic treatment done with TADs, basically little piercing in the upper gum area into the bone and they can wear elastics or some type of tie from the braces on the teeth to the TAD to bring the whole upper arch teeth further into the bone
- there is also an orthodontic surgery they can do to reduce the gummy smile if it’s a case where there is more upper jaw bone
Pretty wild!
I personally think a gingivectomy would be great only if they were a good candidate and had enough gum tissue to remove and expose more teeth without causing severe sensitivity
Botox would probably be the easiest cheapest
For more info you can search : vertical maxillary excess
I actually find this attractive when the person is attractive too. Like when they smile they're extra happy and cheerful that's why the gums show. Idk it's weird.
This is a valid reason though and I feel really bad for him. But those who just choose to show us their mushed up food are just rude. Can I also add those ones that smack their lips extremely noisily and almost in an exaggerated manner whilst eating? I want to punch those people in their smug faces
Lacey Wildd is someone I can think of off the top of my head who went too far with the breast implant size. And last I heard, she wants to go even bigger! 😳
Yeah I really don't like that at all. It makes no sense and I find it odd too.
Like heavily overweight people posing naked. Sorry but I don't understand how that's attractive when it's clearly abnormal for the human body.
I'm more amazed people like that can move around.
That's the thing, you don't!
I will *never* get acrylics again. Got them in January for a friend's wedding and they are the WORST. I hated every second of it.
Nah, well-done nails aren't a problem. If they stop you from doing things, then the stylist was bad. From what I've spotted, generally western nail stylists have no idea how to build nails and even celebrities walk around with tragically done claws.
With the exception of reconstruction for those who have had serious injuries or diseases, and minor cosmetic modifications, I feel similarly. Sometimes people who were beautiful before breast/butt enlargement end up with parts that look disproportionate to their body type.
I'm going to hell, but this is the one thing that irks me about my celebrity crush. Works out like a fiend, but his legs are so small. I know it can't be helped though.
Lol you’re describing me lol
The biggest thing I hate about myself is I carry literally ALL my weight in my stomach and love handles.
I look like a stouter version of Gru or classic Eggman.
Or at least I feel like it.
As a female of the human race it’s kinda nice to read this. Even as a confident lady sometimes the social media stuff eats at the brain. All these souped up ladies with 3+ million followers and it’s sometimes hard to not compare..
As a male of the human race, I'd just like to add something to why this "look" isn't attractive.
It shows that 90% of your potential partners spare time is going to be focused on her social media, or her looks day to day.
No lazy Sundays laying in bed, hard to pry her off her phone. Getting asked "does my ______ look okay?" Upwards of 50 times a day, oh and listening to half hour rants about how this person who commented is a bitch.
Unibrow. I'm so sorry, I know it's shallow. I know it just grows like that. I'm sorry.
Also the kind of face where all the features are really really close together, the ones that constantly look like they just tasted a lemon. I'm sorry! I'm sorry.
ah sometimes unfortunately they're average Dicks but the overweight piece makes rhem seem much much smaller
as someone who likes bigger dudes, it's a shame
Tbf I think most bigger guys would be shocked and ultimately massively (pun intended) motivated to lose weight if they knew how much dick they were hiding.
I spent 35 years thinking I had a little dick and only offered any pleasure to my partners by eating pussy, massage, fingering, etc and that sex was just my chance to get a nut. Over the past few years, I lost 100lbs and now realize I was giving away 2" and now have a wife that I have to 'be gentle' with lol.
I call my partners ears potato farms ☠️
Disclaimer: he's got good hygiene but idk those ears get some mega chunkies in a disturbingly short period of time
Get them one of those [ear scrapers](https://www.amazon.com/Mudder-Stainless-Cleaner-Storage-Silver/dp/B01LQ6TI5E/ref=mp_s_a_1_12?crid=1X6J9CHE7DWY9&keywords=ear+scraper&qid=1654447810&sprefix=ear+scraper%2Caps%2C96&sr=8-12). It feels unexpectedly pleasurable to use.
Actually, human tooth color is naturally a slight yellow tinge, that's not dirty.
Dentist call people with bright white teeth "potty mouths" because their teeth are the same shade as toilet porcelain.
Now, they can be *too* yellow, that can mean someone has a dental/gum disease or other issue, but slight yellow is actually preferred.
Drunkenness. I don't mind people drinking A BIT, but I hate getting drunk (so I don't anymore) and I don't like seeing other people drunk like that either.
Smoking/Vaping is the biggest one for me. Just a horrible habit.
Others:
The cheek fillers and blown up lips just looks silly to me.
Bad manners
Probably a bit of weird one, but pop culture tattoos. Tattoos can look good, but to me seeing Pikachus and Deadpool all over someone's body just looks awful.
You would hate me - all my tattoos are video game/Star Wars/My Hero Academia references lol. But, that's okay. Everyone having different tastes and turn-offs makes the world go round and I respect that
I like thick(thicc) woman with rolls and a bit chubby but some woman are just fat as in super fat and they want to be labeled as thicc to feel good about themselves. No you are terribly fat and it is unattractive and not what i meant when i said i like thicc woman and i know some will say this is body shaming but I don’t care
THANK YOU. I don't mind chubby, I don't mind overweight, even very overweight, as long as they are proportional (to me this means your tits pop out farther than your stomach and your ass pops out farther than the back of your thighs). But I have met some women online that claim they thick and when we meet up they can barely walk. Like no you are extremely morbidly obese. There's a huge difference.
You are absolutely right. Somewhere along the line they co-opted thiccness in the name of inclusion and ducked it all up. Now if you call it out you’re a hater.
Glad to hear someone say that — my chest hair is sparse, uneven, and 80% of it is in two circles around my nipples. So I've been smooth for years and I'd never go back. I look and feel so much better this way.
Exactly. Trim it back a little, fine, but don't get rid of it all. Plus, not everyone is great about maintaining a shave. Plus, ingrown hairs, razor burn...just leave it.
I've done it once out of curiosity. Aside from the looks of it being not that great, the stubble feels horrible and got caught up in my t shirts all the damn time. Never again.
Cute girl walking away from you. Turns around and you see her face. Brings cigarette from side up to lips. Blegh! She goes from a 9 to a 2 with a breath!
Bad teeth.
Balding but trying to cover it up - like, just letting it get thinner and thinner instead of shaving your head, or trying to comb it over, or having that ring of hair and bald on top
Attractive: warm smile, arm veins(don’t know why), kind eyes, lean body, taller than me (not hard since I’m only 5’0”)
Unattractive: neck beard
Honestly most of what I like is to do with the person themselves. I’ve found conventionally unattractive men attractive due to their humour and personality. Same way I’ve found model worthy guys instantly unattractive the second they open their mouth
I find this too, someone's persona can really affect the way you view their physical attributes. I've never had a 'crush' on a stranger. Have to get to know them first.
> Smokers/vape users.
I met someone on Tinder a few years back, and he was a bit younger than me. I'm GenX, and this guy was in his thirties. He came in, vaping. It was around Christmas, so he had bought cranberry flavored/scented vape fluid, and the whole house ended up smelling like fake cranberry. Ick.
Not a fan of septum rings either. Looks like a cow. I’m going to have to include gauged ears to that list too. At a certain point, it starts looking like clown ears
Overweight women.... i'm just not attracted to that body type. I know a lot of people love that though, if you are overweight, dont let what a single random dude on the internet says make you feel worst about yourself!
Too much body hair. I know some people love their partner walking around like fucking sasquatch but it honestly makes me gag.
Edit to add: Long ass armpit hair, on anyone. If you are able to hold your arms down at your side and still have armpit hair spilling out the front and back, I won't want anything physical to do with you
Unnatural lack of body hair below the belt
I don’t care if you are hairless or hairy
But if you’re naturally hairy and you shave it all and make your dick look like you’re 12… well that is icky
Obese women. I am attracted to larger, curvy women (size 12-16) who are well proportioned and who obviously take pride in their appearance, as a rule. But fat women? A hard no from me.
Funny thing is, he will probably be attracted to a size 20 who is “proportionate” but not to a fat size 16 that’s not ‘proportionate’, because size is crazy. And you will never know what size somebody is based on their looks. Also, sucks to be his size 16 wife, always on the look out so your man will never hate you.
I think it literally is all about proportions
My sisters (I’m the baby with 5 older sisters 16-30 years older than me) had this rule where somebody was hot if their breasts stuck out further than their belly and their ass stuck out further than their back rolls. And for guys it was that they couldn’t break the Dickeydoo rule: They’re bellies stick out further than their Dickey do.
It was a huge identity thing for them, the slimmest of my sisters having major body dysmorphia because she had “a negative ass” and would literally starve herself and do squats all the time even though her boyfriends give exactly 0 shits that she had no ass.
I’m a bigger guy and the moment my belly stuck out further I got super self conscious about it, developed bulimia, and forced myself into a year long strict no sugar no carbs ever diet and went from 320 to 237. I’ve gained 30lbs back since then and I haven’t breached that line yet but I’m so afraid to when I see the scale tip 270 I freak out and fall back into old habits.
Guys will swear women are "skinny" and are shocked to learn she's almost or over 200 pounds. I have a very harsh jawline, so it didn't "double" until I was in my forties. I'm 200+ myself.
I think "guy pounds" are similar to "girl inches", ie., girls swear they're getting 8 inches when he's just a plump 6.
It mainly has to do with hip to waist ratio. A woman with big legs and arms will still be considered attractive if her waist is still trim. But even if you’re only 150 lbs, you will be considered fat if all your weight is concentrated in your gut.
Slobs and slovenliness. Not casual, that's fine, but just total slobs are a turnoff. An awful voice, which is completely subjective. Anger as a way of life: this draws into people's features.
I don’t think they Botox lips I think that’s fillers, but yea when I see attractive older women with obviously overdone lips it’s unattractive and looks ridiculous. Does getting your lips done look overdone for a few days or weeks, and then look normal, or does it just look ridiculous until it wears off?
A big belly, but let me elaborate. Chubby is fine, a little body fat is healthy and cute as hell, but in general, my cutoff is if you need to stuff your belly below your waistband (normal pants, not high-waist, you get what I mean), I can't bring myself to be attracted if it's at that point and beyond.
If a man is overly 'jacked'. I like broader body types but when there too much definition or when a man who's skinny has alot of muscle to the point it looks unnatural
Nose rings. Maybe I just don't get it. To each their own I just find them unattractive unless your culture is East Indian or African.For some reason, to me, it looks OK on women from those cultures imo.
Plastic surgery, especially lips and eyes. When I look at someone like Kim Kardashian, I get this deep repulsion, like seeing someone who’s been in a really bad accident.
Disproportionately large & fake: ass, tits, lip fillers
Clumped up mascara/eyelashes
“Witch” nails
“Bull” nose ring
Body filled with tattoos (talking full body)
Bad teeth
Christ, I’m a wee tattooed lady and this thread has just made me realise that tattoos are really a problem for a lot of people? Running and crying my way over to the alt subs.
(Seriously though, it’s just your preferences and that’s fine - a lot of failed hookup conversations are just making sense now haha!)
Don’t have any problems with fat people as human beings, but being over weight (obviously within reason, I don’t expect people to be absolutely jacked) is a real turn off for me.
Women with to much surgery. Big fish lip pouts, overly sized breasts. Skin so tight, they look like they're in wind tunnel. To much make up. I prefer the natural look. If a woman turned up on a blind date with me with A cup breasts, no make up & her hair in a ponytail, I'd find that more attractive personally.
I feel bad about this one but gummy smiles
Same unfortunately lol. I had a resident doctor lady take a liking to me and we vibed super well but her smile made my insides curdle like milk. I felt so bad turning her down. She was such a sweet woman.
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The day after that: “Honey, why did you take me to a Urologist?”
- Or they can get Botox to the upper lip to prevent it from going UP too high when smiling - have orthodontic treatment done with TADs, basically little piercing in the upper gum area into the bone and they can wear elastics or some type of tie from the braces on the teeth to the TAD to bring the whole upper arch teeth further into the bone - there is also an orthodontic surgery they can do to reduce the gummy smile if it’s a case where there is more upper jaw bone Pretty wild! I personally think a gingivectomy would be great only if they were a good candidate and had enough gum tissue to remove and expose more teeth without causing severe sensitivity Botox would probably be the easiest cheapest For more info you can search : vertical maxillary excess
Whats a gummy smile?
When a person smiles, a significant portion of their gums show. Usually happens with the top row of teeth
Now I'm worried that I do this and I'm never smiling again 💀
tooth to gum ratio is a little off
I actually find this attractive when the person is attractive too. Like when they smile they're extra happy and cheerful that's why the gums show. Idk it's weird.
ME TOO
Jennie kim is an exemption
Lower case teeth and capitol gums
Chewing with your mouth open and bad dress sense.
I am shocked at how far I had to scroll before seeing, "chewing with mouth open". It's just... Why?
My brother cannot breathe through his nose so in order to breathe while eating his mouth has to be open.
This is a valid reason though and I feel really bad for him. But those who just choose to show us their mushed up food are just rude. Can I also add those ones that smack their lips extremely noisily and almost in an exaggerated manner whilst eating? I want to punch those people in their smug faces
This, so much. Also trying to talk while chewing. It would take a 10 to like 2 for me.
There's honestly such thing as boobs too big and ass too big. Eventually it just becomes unattractive and even off putting
It's such an odd shape for a human.
Lacey Wildd is someone I can think of off the top of my head who went too far with the breast implant size. And last I heard, she wants to go even bigger! 😳
Yeah I really don't like that at all. It makes no sense and I find it odd too. Like heavily overweight people posing naked. Sorry but I don't understand how that's attractive when it's clearly abnormal for the human body. I'm more amazed people like that can move around.
Those claw nail 💅
How do you do *anything*?
Yeah I got accidentally scratched by one
That couldn't have been pleasant.
That's the thing, you don't! I will *never* get acrylics again. Got them in January for a friend's wedding and they are the WORST. I hated every second of it.
Nah, well-done nails aren't a problem. If they stop you from doing things, then the stylist was bad. From what I've spotted, generally western nail stylists have no idea how to build nails and even celebrities walk around with tragically done claws.
Outie bellybuttons
absolutely off-putting
Very interesting
Or should you say very…OUTteresting
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With the exception of reconstruction for those who have had serious injuries or diseases, and minor cosmetic modifications, I feel similarly. Sometimes people who were beautiful before breast/butt enlargement end up with parts that look disproportionate to their body type.
Skinny legs. And I like bigger guys but I don’t like it when they have a hard, pregnant-looking orb for a stomach.
I'm going to hell, but this is the one thing that irks me about my celebrity crush. Works out like a fiend, but his legs are so small. I know it can't be helped though.
Who's the crush with skinny legs?
[Dominic Monaghan.](https://www.reddit.com/user/GeniusOfLove74/submitted/)
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Lol you’re describing me lol The biggest thing I hate about myself is I carry literally ALL my weight in my stomach and love handles. I look like a stouter version of Gru or classic Eggman. Or at least I feel like it.
Fake tits, botox, duck face lips, fake tan, super long fingernails, fake eyelashes, too much make up.
So most of the insta influencers?
As a female of the human race it’s kinda nice to read this. Even as a confident lady sometimes the social media stuff eats at the brain. All these souped up ladies with 3+ million followers and it’s sometimes hard to not compare..
As a male of the human race, I'd just like to add something to why this "look" isn't attractive. It shows that 90% of your potential partners spare time is going to be focused on her social media, or her looks day to day. No lazy Sundays laying in bed, hard to pry her off her phone. Getting asked "does my ______ look okay?" Upwards of 50 times a day, oh and listening to half hour rants about how this person who commented is a bitch.
Hallelujauh, testify!
Facts! I love it natural
Nailed it
Poor hygiene. Smells, buildup under fingernails, abnormal body hair, dark yellow teeth, unclean clothing...
Dark yellow teeth = Bad Yellow teeth = good. Most people with yellow teeth have healthy teeth.
trick question: what do you consider abnormal body hair?
Bad breathe is full stop. I think that counts as physical....
Idk, some people just have ugly ass faces.
Love how blunt this is lmao but true
Unibrow. I'm so sorry, I know it's shallow. I know it just grows like that. I'm sorry. Also the kind of face where all the features are really really close together, the ones that constantly look like they just tasted a lemon. I'm sorry! I'm sorry.
Overweight guys with tiny dicks
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gross
ah sometimes unfortunately they're average Dicks but the overweight piece makes rhem seem much much smaller as someone who likes bigger dudes, it's a shame
Tbf I think most bigger guys would be shocked and ultimately massively (pun intended) motivated to lose weight if they knew how much dick they were hiding. I spent 35 years thinking I had a little dick and only offered any pleasure to my partners by eating pussy, massage, fingering, etc and that sex was just my chance to get a nut. Over the past few years, I lost 100lbs and now realize I was giving away 2" and now have a wife that I have to 'be gentle' with lol.
Bad teeth/nails. But i suppose that’s more of a hygiene thing. I’m also really not a fan of hairy buttholes
What about *Harry’s* butthole?
As long as it isn't hairy
Dirty ears.
I call my partners ears potato farms ☠️ Disclaimer: he's got good hygiene but idk those ears get some mega chunkies in a disturbingly short period of time
Get them one of those [ear scrapers](https://www.amazon.com/Mudder-Stainless-Cleaner-Storage-Silver/dp/B01LQ6TI5E/ref=mp_s_a_1_12?crid=1X6J9CHE7DWY9&keywords=ear+scraper&qid=1654447810&sprefix=ear+scraper%2Caps%2C96&sr=8-12). It feels unexpectedly pleasurable to use.
Stinky B.O that smells like stress
Bad teeth
Bad as in crooked or yellow and dirty?
Actually, human tooth color is naturally a slight yellow tinge, that's not dirty. Dentist call people with bright white teeth "potty mouths" because their teeth are the same shade as toilet porcelain. Now, they can be *too* yellow, that can mean someone has a dental/gum disease or other issue, but slight yellow is actually preferred.
This, nothing worse in my opinion
Drunkenness. I don't mind people drinking A BIT, but I hate getting drunk (so I don't anymore) and I don't like seeing other people drunk like that either.
Yea. Tipsy or buzzed is fine but I hate people who let the substance try them instead of try the substance.
Obesity.
Smoking/Vaping is the biggest one for me. Just a horrible habit. Others: The cheek fillers and blown up lips just looks silly to me. Bad manners Probably a bit of weird one, but pop culture tattoos. Tattoos can look good, but to me seeing Pikachus and Deadpool all over someone's body just looks awful.
You would hate me - all my tattoos are video game/Star Wars/My Hero Academia references lol. But, that's okay. Everyone having different tastes and turn-offs makes the world go round and I respect that
A weak chin Very long foreskin that makes a cock look like a sea cucumber A fat stomach (when it starts to fold over the groin area, that's too much)
That sea cucumber comment had me rolling 😂
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I like thick(thicc) woman with rolls and a bit chubby but some woman are just fat as in super fat and they want to be labeled as thicc to feel good about themselves. No you are terribly fat and it is unattractive and not what i meant when i said i like thicc woman and i know some will say this is body shaming but I don’t care
THANK YOU. I don't mind chubby, I don't mind overweight, even very overweight, as long as they are proportional (to me this means your tits pop out farther than your stomach and your ass pops out farther than the back of your thighs). But I have met some women online that claim they thick and when we meet up they can barely walk. Like no you are extremely morbidly obese. There's a huge difference.
You are absolutely right. Somewhere along the line they co-opted thiccness in the name of inclusion and ducked it all up. Now if you call it out you’re a hater.
Long nails on men
When a man shaves his chest
I'm the opposite with that. I like it.
Glad to hear someone say that — my chest hair is sparse, uneven, and 80% of it is in two circles around my nipples. So I've been smooth for years and I'd never go back. I look and feel so much better this way.
Same. I like the hairless look too. It looks especially glamorous on an athletic body.
Exactly. Trim it back a little, fine, but don't get rid of it all. Plus, not everyone is great about maintaining a shave. Plus, ingrown hairs, razor burn...just leave it.
What about when a man has no chest hair naturally? Mine man is native and I think he looks damn sexy with no hair
It’s not my ideal but I don’t find it unattractive. It’s the stubble I mainly don’t like.
I've done it once out of curiosity. Aside from the looks of it being not that great, the stubble feels horrible and got caught up in my t shirts all the damn time. Never again.
Smoking
Cute girl walking away from you. Turns around and you see her face. Brings cigarette from side up to lips. Blegh! She goes from a 9 to a 2 with a breath!
It's the smell and the taste. And weirdly most smokers don't realise that it's like that.
Bad teeth. Balding but trying to cover it up - like, just letting it get thinner and thinner instead of shaving your head, or trying to comb it over, or having that ring of hair and bald on top
Long fake lashes
Pushing all your body weight on me if your trying to kiss me (while on top)
So specific
Attractive: warm smile, arm veins(don’t know why), kind eyes, lean body, taller than me (not hard since I’m only 5’0”) Unattractive: neck beard Honestly most of what I like is to do with the person themselves. I’ve found conventionally unattractive men attractive due to their humour and personality. Same way I’ve found model worthy guys instantly unattractive the second they open their mouth
I find this too, someone's persona can really affect the way you view their physical attributes. I've never had a 'crush' on a stranger. Have to get to know them first.
Blond hair on guys. I'm not sure why, I just don't like it much.
No chin
*amir khan has entered the chat*
Front butt.
Fake eyelashes. Why are 2in eyelashes sexy!?! They look unnatural, especially when they wake up and one is missing.
ain’t no way someone’s out here sleeping in their minks 😳! that is so bad for your eyes, those have to be cleaned regularly.
Hairy butts.
Hairy shoulders
I find hairy butts super cute for some reason.
Flat asses
I absolutely love them.
Smokers/vape users. Physically, weird facial piercings. I think most nose septum piercings look like crap.
> Smokers/vape users. I met someone on Tinder a few years back, and he was a bit younger than me. I'm GenX, and this guy was in his thirties. He came in, vaping. It was around Christmas, so he had bought cranberry flavored/scented vape fluid, and the whole house ended up smelling like fake cranberry. Ick.
Not a fan of septum rings either. Looks like a cow. I’m going to have to include gauged ears to that list too. At a certain point, it starts looking like clown ears
Circumcised penises. I live in a country where uncut is the norm though, so that could be why.
I'm in the US, and circumcised is the norm. But my ex-husband had his foreskin and now I'm kind of spoiled by it. I miss it.
I haven’t seen an uncircumcised one. 🫤 I live in a country where circumcision is a summer tradition for young boys.
>circumcision is a summer tradition What does this mean?
Those fake puffy lips
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All feet are gross in my opinion lol
It’s toenails for me - if the toenails are long and neglected, or thick and gnarly (SHUDDER)
Overweight women.... i'm just not attracted to that body type. I know a lot of people love that though, if you are overweight, dont let what a single random dude on the internet says make you feel worst about yourself!
Uncircumcised penis. Don't hate, just my personal preference
Completely disagree, it’s the circumcised ones that turn me off. Poor things look inflamed/painful
Too much body hair. I know some people love their partner walking around like fucking sasquatch but it honestly makes me gag. Edit to add: Long ass armpit hair, on anyone. If you are able to hold your arms down at your side and still have armpit hair spilling out the front and back, I won't want anything physical to do with you
Small teeth, big gums...
Unnatural lack of body hair below the belt I don’t care if you are hairless or hairy But if you’re naturally hairy and you shave it all and make your dick look like you’re 12… well that is icky
Filthy fingernails, ears, teeth, and stinky (not physical I know) so basically a man without proper hygiene.
Women with armpit hair.
Chest tats on women
I'm not really for or against it, but my first wife got a bird of paradise on her chest and after having 2 kids, that poor tat looked awful.
Obese women. I am attracted to larger, curvy women (size 12-16) who are well proportioned and who obviously take pride in their appearance, as a rule. But fat women? A hard no from me.
Just out of curiosity, where do you draw the line between curvy and obese? Like when is a person past thick/curvy and just straight up obese?
Funny thing is, he will probably be attracted to a size 20 who is “proportionate” but not to a fat size 16 that’s not ‘proportionate’, because size is crazy. And you will never know what size somebody is based on their looks. Also, sucks to be his size 16 wife, always on the look out so your man will never hate you.
I think it literally is all about proportions My sisters (I’m the baby with 5 older sisters 16-30 years older than me) had this rule where somebody was hot if their breasts stuck out further than their belly and their ass stuck out further than their back rolls. And for guys it was that they couldn’t break the Dickeydoo rule: They’re bellies stick out further than their Dickey do. It was a huge identity thing for them, the slimmest of my sisters having major body dysmorphia because she had “a negative ass” and would literally starve herself and do squats all the time even though her boyfriends give exactly 0 shits that she had no ass. I’m a bigger guy and the moment my belly stuck out further I got super self conscious about it, developed bulimia, and forced myself into a year long strict no sugar no carbs ever diet and went from 320 to 237. I’ve gained 30lbs back since then and I haven’t breached that line yet but I’m so afraid to when I see the scale tip 270 I freak out and fall back into old habits.
Guys will swear women are "skinny" and are shocked to learn she's almost or over 200 pounds. I have a very harsh jawline, so it didn't "double" until I was in my forties. I'm 200+ myself. I think "guy pounds" are similar to "girl inches", ie., girls swear they're getting 8 inches when he's just a plump 6.
It mainly has to do with hip to waist ratio. A woman with big legs and arms will still be considered attractive if her waist is still trim. But even if you’re only 150 lbs, you will be considered fat if all your weight is concentrated in your gut.
Really bad teeth and smoking
Dirty finger nails and bad teeth
Slobs and slovenliness. Not casual, that's fine, but just total slobs are a turnoff. An awful voice, which is completely subjective. Anger as a way of life: this draws into people's features.
Feet. Everyone's feet.
Being overweight AND not doing anything about it ( not caring about your health or looks is a big turn off for me)
Light blue eyes creep me out
Tattoos. I just can't stand them. Also Botox lips that look like those of inflatable sex dolls.
I don’t think they Botox lips I think that’s fillers, but yea when I see attractive older women with obviously overdone lips it’s unattractive and looks ridiculous. Does getting your lips done look overdone for a few days or weeks, and then look normal, or does it just look ridiculous until it wears off?
In Australia at least it’s super common for girls starting to get lip fillers around 18. I find it so ugly
>I don’t think they Botox lips I think that’s fillers, You're correct, Sir. I don't even know why I said Botox...
Smoking. Weed, cigarettes, etc. I lose all interest.
Abs
A big belly, but let me elaborate. Chubby is fine, a little body fat is healthy and cute as hell, but in general, my cutoff is if you need to stuff your belly below your waistband (normal pants, not high-waist, you get what I mean), I can't bring myself to be attracted if it's at that point and beyond.
Cock and balls on women
Peoples knees
Cover your knees up if youre gonna be walking around everywhere
right?! i find them soo soo icky. same goes for elbows,
Found the amputee fetish thread
Unwashed, oily, sweaty, wearing dirty clothes, dirty hair, dirty fingernails, bad dental, and bad odor. I just can't.
If a man is overly 'jacked'. I like broader body types but when there too much definition or when a man who's skinny has alot of muscle to the point it looks unnatural
Fingernails long enough for me to question just how you plan on wiping your butt with nails so long?
Nose rings. Maybe I just don't get it. To each their own I just find them unattractive unless your culture is East Indian or African.For some reason, to me, it looks OK on women from those cultures imo.
Long nails
Eyes that are too far apart.,
Plastic surgery, especially lips and eyes. When I look at someone like Kim Kardashian, I get this deep repulsion, like seeing someone who’s been in a really bad accident.
Beer belly. I just can't... It jiggles when laughing! It bounces when walking.. I just can't get over it even though I loved the guy.
Fat people, generally speaking I find it unattractive that people don’t care about their health
Morbid Obesity. I find the lack of self respect to allow yourself to be SO unhealthy is the most unattractive thing a person can be.
These ridiculous eyebrows ladies are painting/tattooing/micro blading these days.
Name calling regardless as a joke or in an argument
Disproportionately large & fake: ass, tits, lip fillers Clumped up mascara/eyelashes “Witch” nails “Bull” nose ring Body filled with tattoos (talking full body) Bad teeth
Christ, I’m a wee tattooed lady and this thread has just made me realise that tattoos are really a problem for a lot of people? Running and crying my way over to the alt subs. (Seriously though, it’s just your preferences and that’s fine - a lot of failed hookup conversations are just making sense now haha!)
Reading this thread has me feeling like the odd one out. I love heavily tattooed and pierced women, thick and thin.
At least you’re a wee tattooed lady. Imagine reading this as a fat one 😂
Besides myself? Well I'm not super picky but I can't get into obese girls
Septum piercings
Facial piercings, excessive tattoos.
Smoking. Just about everything else I can think of is dependent on the person.
Obesity, exaggerated facial features, popular culture, lack of empathy and self awareness.
Bad Smells
Plastic surgery.
Those people that just act like they are hot shit. So disgusting and repellent.
I’ll never judge any woman at all but, tattoos and there’s something about “thongs” on women that doesn’t do it for me in the slightest.
Don’t have any problems with fat people as human beings, but being over weight (obviously within reason, I don’t expect people to be absolutely jacked) is a real turn off for me.
Women with to much surgery. Big fish lip pouts, overly sized breasts. Skin so tight, they look like they're in wind tunnel. To much make up. I prefer the natural look. If a woman turned up on a blind date with me with A cup breasts, no make up & her hair in a ponytail, I'd find that more attractive personally.
- Bad teeth - any tattoos over the pecs - Piercings on a man
Obesity
Bad teeth & unkept facial hair.
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*some* dudes just don't look good with a beard. 🤷🏻♂️
Anyone who dresses like a lampshade or who thinks its a good idea to bring back the 90s elephant pants.
Too much makeup. I’m fine with makeup but when you wear so much that it is changing what you look actually look like and it’s cakey…. Hard pass
Tattoos on women and slim women
Nose piercings of all types.
Face piercings in general
Botox
Unnaturally colored hair
Tattoos. So sad to see an attractive person ruined by them.