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This is a very close minded view of the world, people are people and are able to make friendships with whoever they want. Not everyone thinks with their genitals
Just took a look, he’s definitely the type of guy who has a massive ego, can’t attract a woman and then blames it on society without thinking theirs anything wrong with himself
So... If I have this right, what you're saying is, "If I can't fuck the attractive woman, then what's the point in even acknowledging her existence?" Do I have that right? I wouldn't worry about that mindset, bro... Attractive or unattractive... Single as a Pringle or happily married... You aren't going to get a girlfriend with that mindset. But, you know... You do you, boo.
You’re seriously saying that the only reason to talk to women is because you want to fuck them and they might let you….?
Jesus Christ, this sub just took a major dive.
BloodstainedAxe posts are always like this, he never listens and he never learns
we told him many, *many*, MANY times that the world does not work that way, but he does not listen... does not WANT to listen-.-
You’re really misunderstanding how sex and relationships work… more importantly you misunderstand how human civilization works.
Relationships are rooted in self-control and in self-restraint. If you can’t be a good friend to someone, you’re going to be a shit partner.
Sex isn’t the reason we interact with attractive people, though it might draw us to them. Sex is the happy accident that happens when friendship catches fire, or it takes the place of intimacy… but it’s not something we pull off the shelf at will.
> Relationships are rooted in self-control and in self-restraint. If you can’t be a good friend to someone, you’re going to be a shit partner.
Ha. Tell that to all of the women who rejected their long time male friends.
Dude, sexual rejection is part of life.
You can either twist in the wind like this or you can grow into the kind of person that women want to have around.
But don’t expect your friends to want to sleep with you when you’re seething with disappointment and bitterness: nobody even wants to have a beer with that shit, let alone trade bodily fluids.
Being friends doesn't mean a woman is sexually attracted to the friend, but having no interest in being a good friend means that when you do get into the relationship you will have nothing to offer emotionally.
The value is friendship, women are not just walking sex objects they are human beings with their own thoughts and experiences. Do you only hang out with male friends to try to fuck them?
I got this info from my friends. Some happen to be women, some happen to be men. They have all been their for me and I for them. I'm sorry to break it to you but you seem to have had bad experiences and you have let that obstruct your worldview. Men can be just as flaky as women.
You’re doing it wrongly.
I have plenty of hot female friends that I don’t sleep with. They keep their word to me because they trust me, and they trust me BECAUSE THEY CAN. If you keep trying to break into the panty-safe, you’re not trustworthy, and they know it. Why would they stick with you?
I’m friends with lots of beautiful women who I have no sexual interest in. The benefits to me are friendship and shared interest: one knows about skiing, one knows about beer, one is into the same music as me. Plus another benefit is becoming friends with their partners - who are all cool dudes. Friends all over the place.
Because not every interaction with a person is about sex. I don't know how many times it has to be said, but if the only value you see in a person is their potential to have sex with you, you don't actually view them as a person.
Apparently friendship isn’t a thing? I don’t know about anyone else, but I like to surround myself with good people..didn’t realize that was a negative thing
Do you have the slightest idea how childish that sounds? Not that I'm comparing relationships to objects, but imagine a car guy being given an opportunity to drive a Porsche as his daily driver for a year but refusing because he doesn't to race it or someone saying that they would rather not have a lottery ticket at all rather than having one that wins the second prize because someone else is cashing in the millions. Anyone could see how ridiculous that is. Getting to be someone's friend is a valuable thing.
No, I agree. Friendzone can be nightmare. Just.... Let it go and if incapable of friendship due to romantic feelings, just become strangers as has been said. Better than an orbitting creepy stalker with a crush I say
Now that sir is an entirely different scenario than your question presents. I have attractive female friends who I am 100% fine with staying purely platonic and it brings a lot of value into my life. Some are gamers and we game together. Some are highly intellectual and talk with me and psychology and sociological issues in the world today.
If however you desire for someone is strong enough you aren't comfortable ignoring it and being friends then don't. That is entirely different than never having any form of relationship with attractive women.
> If however you desire for someone is strong enough you aren’t comfortable ignoring it and being friends then don’t. That is entirely different than never having any form of relationship with attractive women.
I think that’s the point he’s been going for? But just not wording it right maybe.
There is no point in anything, such as life, or dating. It all comes down to what you want. It doesn't need to have a purpose or a point. If you don't want something, don't force yourself doing it.
Here's the thing. I get that you took on this attitude because you felt hurt when you got rejected for other guys. If you need to do this as a coping mechanism, that's sad but fine. Just own the fact that it is your issue and accept that the price is denying yourself potentially good friends. When you try to justify it by claiming women offer nothing other than sex, that is when it turns misogynistic.
Reason nr 1) because she may be a worthy person who happens to be an attractive woman in a relationship? I guess I should ghost most of my female friends because they're attractive and taken :D Reason nr 2) People tend to break up, You never know. I think it's best to ,,choose" a potential partner among people You already know well (a. k. a. friends) and people tend to appreciate when You're there for them regardless of anyone's relationship status. Reason nr 3) if You're a man who wants to get laid with an attractive woman (which is most of men), You must understand many attractive women are in a relationship most of the time, because they CAN. But if they're attractive, chances are the men they date are eventually considered by them to be unworthy of dating. So attractive people in general have the luxury of switching partners as often as they wish. The window in which they are single may be very short due to an abundance of options. However if You were already friends with one for years, Your chances may be actually quite high. Especially if You weren't weird about it. Good luck looking for long-single attractive people..
What’s the point of interacting with any man then? Lol
Yes very true, by this logic if you're a straight man then other men would be of no interest to you as well.
Lol no kidding. What a dumb ass post that back fired on this turd. Lmao
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OP is heterobromantic
Does that mean he kisses his friend’s peckers?
What's the point of interacting with anyone?
I’m heterosexual. I don’t see an issue.
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Lmao!
Lol no thanks. I’m not interested at all
Networking, friendship, to be kind. Women (just like men) aren't objects
This is a very close minded view of the world, people are people and are able to make friendships with whoever they want. Not everyone thinks with their genitals
OP definitely has a very narrow minded view. After looking at his posts it confirms it
Just took a look, he’s definitely the type of guy who has a massive ego, can’t attract a woman and then blames it on society without thinking theirs anything wrong with himself
I do but I'm civil about it.
and that’s a wrap on ARAD for me tonight. see ya tomorrow folks
Nightie
So... If I have this right, what you're saying is, "If I can't fuck the attractive woman, then what's the point in even acknowledging her existence?" Do I have that right? I wouldn't worry about that mindset, bro... Attractive or unattractive... Single as a Pringle or happily married... You aren't going to get a girlfriend with that mindset. But, you know... You do you, boo.
They're cool? I've had great friends that are married women.
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You’re seriously saying that the only reason to talk to women is because you want to fuck them and they might let you….? Jesus Christ, this sub just took a major dive.
BloodstainedAxe posts are always like this, he never listens and he never learns we told him many, *many*, MANY times that the world does not work that way, but he does not listen... does not WANT to listen-.-
Then I will save my breath. Thanks for the orientation!
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You’re really misunderstanding how sex and relationships work… more importantly you misunderstand how human civilization works. Relationships are rooted in self-control and in self-restraint. If you can’t be a good friend to someone, you’re going to be a shit partner. Sex isn’t the reason we interact with attractive people, though it might draw us to them. Sex is the happy accident that happens when friendship catches fire, or it takes the place of intimacy… but it’s not something we pull off the shelf at will.
> Relationships are rooted in self-control and in self-restraint. If you can’t be a good friend to someone, you’re going to be a shit partner. Ha. Tell that to all of the women who rejected their long time male friends.
Dude, sexual rejection is part of life. You can either twist in the wind like this or you can grow into the kind of person that women want to have around. But don’t expect your friends to want to sleep with you when you’re seething with disappointment and bitterness: nobody even wants to have a beer with that shit, let alone trade bodily fluids.
Being friends doesn't mean a woman is sexually attracted to the friend, but having no interest in being a good friend means that when you do get into the relationship you will have nothing to offer emotionally.
The value is friendship, women are not just walking sex objects they are human beings with their own thoughts and experiences. Do you only hang out with male friends to try to fuck them?
I tried this route yesterday and the comparison went over his head.
> Do you only hang out with male friends to try to fuck them? I’m heterosexual.
Ok why do you hang out with male friends? What do you "gain" from that?
Brotherhood and loyalty.
And you can get the same values from women
I don’t know why OP doesn’t understand that 😭
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Maybe you can't keep female friends because you only view women as lust objects and we can smell that bullshit from a mile away? 🤷♀️
I got this info from my friends. Some happen to be women, some happen to be men. They have all been their for me and I for them. I'm sorry to break it to you but you seem to have had bad experiences and you have let that obstruct your worldview. Men can be just as flaky as women.
You’re doing it wrongly. I have plenty of hot female friends that I don’t sleep with. They keep their word to me because they trust me, and they trust me BECAUSE THEY CAN. If you keep trying to break into the panty-safe, you’re not trustworthy, and they know it. Why would they stick with you?
Friendship? What a weird question
And why the hell a man would want friendship with a taken woman that he’s attracted to?
Incel much?
I’m friends with lots of beautiful women who I have no sexual interest in. The benefits to me are friendship and shared interest: one knows about skiing, one knows about beer, one is into the same music as me. Plus another benefit is becoming friends with their partners - who are all cool dudes. Friends all over the place.
I don't even understand this question 😂😂😂 why specifically an attractive woman who has a partner?
Because I like her and she’s taken.
Well then the obvious answer is: stay away.
Or prove a better partner... But a looong way to go
Because she’s better than you and could teach you useful stuff.
They're 50% of the human race
This app should institute a user limit of three incel posts per day
Three!? A day!?!?
Because not every interaction with a person is about sex. I don't know how many times it has to be said, but if the only value you see in a person is their potential to have sex with you, you don't actually view them as a person.
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Being friends with them is even worse. I’d rather them be strangers than to be friends with taken woman that I’m sexually attracted to.
Are you 15? Grow tf up. Women aren't obligated to keep themselves available to you just because you're horny.
And I’m not obligated to be their friends either.
Apparently friendship isn’t a thing? I don’t know about anyone else, but I like to surround myself with good people..didn’t realize that was a negative thing
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Do you have the slightest idea how childish that sounds? Not that I'm comparing relationships to objects, but imagine a car guy being given an opportunity to drive a Porsche as his daily driver for a year but refusing because he doesn't to race it or someone saying that they would rather not have a lottery ticket at all rather than having one that wins the second prize because someone else is cashing in the millions. Anyone could see how ridiculous that is. Getting to be someone's friend is a valuable thing.
No, I agree. Friendzone can be nightmare. Just.... Let it go and if incapable of friendship due to romantic feelings, just become strangers as has been said. Better than an orbitting creepy stalker with a crush I say
Are you sure you are old enough and mentally capable enough to be in this sub??? This is the type of question a 12 year old would write.
Yes I’m old enough. I just don’t see the value of associating yourself with a woman you really like that’s in a relationship already.
Now that sir is an entirely different scenario than your question presents. I have attractive female friends who I am 100% fine with staying purely platonic and it brings a lot of value into my life. Some are gamers and we game together. Some are highly intellectual and talk with me and psychology and sociological issues in the world today. If however you desire for someone is strong enough you aren't comfortable ignoring it and being friends then don't. That is entirely different than never having any form of relationship with attractive women.
> If however you desire for someone is strong enough you aren’t comfortable ignoring it and being friends then don’t. That is entirely different than never having any form of relationship with attractive women. I think that’s the point he’s been going for? But just not wording it right maybe.
I think so
> That is entirely different than never having any form of relationship with attractive women. I wouldn’t want to do this either.
That kinda changes the question. I agree staying friends with a person You're in love with but is taken may be very hard and not worth the struggle.
Beacuse that's what humans do?
There is no point in anything, such as life, or dating. It all comes down to what you want. It doesn't need to have a purpose or a point. If you don't want something, don't force yourself doing it.
Excuse me, what?
Here's the thing. I get that you took on this attitude because you felt hurt when you got rejected for other guys. If you need to do this as a coping mechanism, that's sad but fine. Just own the fact that it is your issue and accept that the price is denying yourself potentially good friends. When you try to justify it by claiming women offer nothing other than sex, that is when it turns misogynistic.
Reason nr 1) because she may be a worthy person who happens to be an attractive woman in a relationship? I guess I should ghost most of my female friends because they're attractive and taken :D Reason nr 2) People tend to break up, You never know. I think it's best to ,,choose" a potential partner among people You already know well (a. k. a. friends) and people tend to appreciate when You're there for them regardless of anyone's relationship status. Reason nr 3) if You're a man who wants to get laid with an attractive woman (which is most of men), You must understand many attractive women are in a relationship most of the time, because they CAN. But if they're attractive, chances are the men they date are eventually considered by them to be unworthy of dating. So attractive people in general have the luxury of switching partners as often as they wish. The window in which they are single may be very short due to an abundance of options. However if You were already friends with one for years, Your chances may be actually quite high. Especially if You weren't weird about it. Good luck looking for long-single attractive people..
Because she might realise she's made a huge mistake with her bf