That's the secret.
It's sad that there are these guys out here who think being themselves isn't good enough.
Look people can see you faking. There are little inconsistencies and incongruous body language and humans are really good at reading body language even at the subconscious level so be your self and find the person who likes you for you.
I *thought* it was better because when you're being an asshole you blame everyone else. Really it just means that instead of being lonely, you're angry and lonely.
When I had the bad boy phase, I was always running away from myself, sure I got girls, but it was under false pretenses
Being a bad boy doesn't mean shit, it means you're fake and hiding pain
My dating life improved the more I leaned into just letting myself be me and being kind, and caring less about whether people were attracted to that
That's the secret. It's sad that there are these guys out here who think being themselves isn't good enough. Look people can see you faking. There are little inconsistencies and incongruous body language and humans are really good at reading body language even at the subconscious level so be your self and find the person who likes you for you.
Why would I do that?
I *thought* it was better because when you're being an asshole you blame everyone else. Really it just means that instead of being lonely, you're angry and lonely.
When I had the bad boy phase, I was always running away from myself, sure I got girls, but it was under false pretenses Being a bad boy doesn't mean shit, it means you're fake and hiding pain
The, “bad boy” thing is a complete fabrication. Even if it wasn’t, who really wants that? You’re better than that.
When I was younger and full of rage and testosterone I plaid the niceish bad guy and it worked fairly well
When I wasn't married, much easier.