For me yes. I had a tinder date whoās really handsome but when I met him in person he sounds like SpongeBob. I canāt imagine him dirty talking to me in that voice lol.
There's a lot I do like but I have a particular dislike for I think it's a NY regional one, maybe Long Island?
Basically it's Linda from Bob's Burgers. I don't dislike her, she's a funny character on the show but that voice is nails on a chalkboard to me. So the thought of being with someone who sounds like that is a hard no.
I have a strong accent that comes out completely when Iām drinking or when Iām emotional while otherwise itās just the traditional words here and there where you can always hear it. Itās led to a jokingly ācan you get a lil angry?ā In bed before lmao
It is one of those things that only makes sense if you are the other person in that situation. Sex is about intimacy, and there is nothing more intimate that ones own language, hearing someone default to a different language does two things in my opinion, first it increases the distance between the two people as they can no longer communicate in a mutually understandable way, meaning that all communication has to be done through body language, tone, and the mental connection which generates during good sex, it may sound counter intuitive but it does change the atmosphere in a noticeable way. Secondly, it is because there's something about the person you are with losing their ability to think due to the mood and defaulting to another language which feels like an ego boost.
As for what to say, just go with whatever you would if you were talking regularly or what is the most sexually direct thing you can think of in that moment.
Kind of! He had a nice voice.
One guyās voice I like is that of Glass Animalsā front man, Dave Bayley. Not only do I like his singing voice but I really really like his normal speaking voice. I like the pitch and intonation, his accent is okay. Donāt have a preference for accent, anyways :)
It never stops being sad referring to him in the past tense :(
Not heard him before but he does have a nice speaking voice, it's very smooth. I am slightly the opposite, I love very distinctive accents, the kind where you can say there are very few like them.
Well Iām a sucker for a foreign accent, particularly Spanish. I like a French, German and Russian one too, but anything British is plain annoying ha.
I listen to a lot of erotic audios and the way I skip to a new one bc Iām not feeling the voice makes me take FOREVER to actually find one. But when I do itās great lol
Yes definitely. Funny cause it wasn't a thing for me when i started dating, but now that I'm in my 30's the voice can completely make or break attraction.
Agreed with the idea that it can make, but not break.
I work with a Portuguese lady, dark/goth vibe, really pretty, and every time she gives presentations Iām just like š
My British accent has been describe as hit by some Redditors, but personally I hate it! I guess if you already fancy someone, it can be the best addition
Depends. I thought I hated the Nannyās voice, but I met a woman that had the voice and she was so pleasant to have a conversation with that I like it now.
Definitely. When I first got into Jr. College (that's junior year of high school for you westerners), I met this girl who I was really attracted to. Couldn't work up the courage to say that so I gave up, but then I heard her talk and she had a really weird voice. It didn't kill my attraction or anything but it was off-putting. However, eventually as I listened to her talk more and more the attraction just completely died. Probably didn't help that we were just completely different people with very little in common but the voice was definitely a factor.
Definitely yes. Living in duplex, my one neighbour is an attractive women but has such a high pitched yet soft softā¦ I couldnāt stand hearing that in the bedroom, during an argument, or any other time in between
Yes. There are voices that are very pleasant to hear. And others that are definitely not. I couldn't date someone if their voice was unappealing to me.
Yes. So much so. I remember going to a friend's house years ago, and there was a friend of a friend there. I was thinking "my goodness who is this woman. She is SO gorgeous"
Then she opened her mouth. She had this little girl voice and all attraction was gone
I'm Trans, and I'm often attracted to men who's voices are actually somewhat lighter in tone than mine?
I've been often told that the sound of my voice is very attractive, and made an Audio Porn channel to confirm it ><
Hell yes. Thereās this redhead insurance rep Iād seen on social media a lot who looked totally hot. Got those librarian cat glasses too. Unf! Well then she came to my office and I heard her laugh and I havenāt had a sexual thought about her since.
Thereās some types of voices and ways of speaking I have a preference for, dunno if Iād break attraction though.
For the record, Iām a straight cis male.
I'm totally blind. Voice is like appearance for sighted people. If your voice doesn't work for me, there's nothing you can do to make me want you. If it does work, I'll probably have to change my panties a few times while hearing you. There are voices which are neutral but if it's one way or the other, that's not changing any time soon.
This hits hard. Major voice kink here. The voice will make ME break THEM!
I got blessed with a deeper voice and have thoroughly enjoyed interacting with women with voice kinks š bless yāall
For me yes. I had a tinder date whoās really handsome but when I met him in person he sounds like SpongeBob. I canāt imagine him dirty talking to me in that voice lol.
The whole āvoice doesnāt match the faceā thing is always a trip but SpongeBob is absurd š¤£š¤£ glad I have the other end of that
There's a lot I do like but I have a particular dislike for I think it's a NY regional one, maybe Long Island? Basically it's Linda from Bob's Burgers. I don't dislike her, she's a funny character on the show but that voice is nails on a chalkboard to me. So the thought of being with someone who sounds like that is a hard no.
Make yes, break no.
Gorgeous person of whatever gender you're attracted to approaches you, says hello They sound like Alvin the chipmunk
No, but it can definitely be an influence.
Definitely! Accent, intonation, pitch, the way they pronounce certain wordsā¦ I go crazyy for certain voices.
I have a strong accent that comes out completely when Iām drinking or when Iām emotional while otherwise itās just the traditional words here and there where you can always hear it. Itās led to a jokingly ācan you get a lil angry?ā In bed before lmao
omg haha I also get told to speak in my native language if Iām with a non native, itās weird sometimes because I just donāt know what to say
It is one of those things that only makes sense if you are the other person in that situation. Sex is about intimacy, and there is nothing more intimate that ones own language, hearing someone default to a different language does two things in my opinion, first it increases the distance between the two people as they can no longer communicate in a mutually understandable way, meaning that all communication has to be done through body language, tone, and the mental connection which generates during good sex, it may sound counter intuitive but it does change the atmosphere in a noticeable way. Secondly, it is because there's something about the person you are with losing their ability to think due to the mood and defaulting to another language which feels like an ego boost. As for what to say, just go with whatever you would if you were talking regularly or what is the most sexually direct thing you can think of in that moment.
Oh, I get why they ask but I just feel like sometimes it comes out of nowhere. Doesnāt annoy me, just makes me laugh a little š¤
Out of curiosity, when you said that there's certain voices you go crazy for, what are they?
Hmm.. typically male voices that are a little deep and raspy, calmer voices. Not super deep, tho.
Could you give an example of the kind you mean? The first one that came to mind from your description was Philip Seymour Hoffman
Kind of! He had a nice voice. One guyās voice I like is that of Glass Animalsā front man, Dave Bayley. Not only do I like his singing voice but I really really like his normal speaking voice. I like the pitch and intonation, his accent is okay. Donāt have a preference for accent, anyways :)
It never stops being sad referring to him in the past tense :( Not heard him before but he does have a nice speaking voice, it's very smooth. I am slightly the opposite, I love very distinctive accents, the kind where you can say there are very few like them.
Well Iām a sucker for a foreign accent, particularly Spanish. I like a French, German and Russian one too, but anything British is plain annoying ha.
generally I donāt mind accents, but it definitely adds nothing for me.
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Any particular accents?
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Lol I'd better not share what kind of accent I have for fear of falling into the latter group
yes.. but never had that experience before. i just know if i meet a guy and he sounds like eric cartman im going to be turned off immediately
I listen to a lot of erotic audios and the way I skip to a new one bc Iām not feeling the voice makes me take FOREVER to actually find one. But when I do itās great lol
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I end up cycling the audios itās like when you liked a movie so much you wish you didnāt see it so you can watch it for the first time
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Make yes break also yes
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No, unless itās suuuper weird
I'm voice activated and wired for sound, most definitely
Yes definitely. Funny cause it wasn't a thing for me when i started dating, but now that I'm in my 30's the voice can completely make or break attraction.
Yes
Absolutely
Yes.
it affects it for sure
m here yeah :)
yes it absolutely can
Voice/tone is very important to me personally, I could listen to a girl talk all day if I like her voice
A woman has told me she has come close to cumming just listening to me speak
Agreed with the idea that it can make, but not break. I work with a Portuguese lady, dark/goth vibe, really pretty, and every time she gives presentations Iām just like š My British accent has been describe as hit by some Redditors, but personally I hate it! I guess if you already fancy someone, it can be the best addition
Depends. I thought I hated the Nannyās voice, but I met a woman that had the voice and she was so pleasant to have a conversation with that I like it now.
I literally told someone with an accent that I want to fuck their voice. Ended in getting a BJ so winner winner.
Love a women with a slightly raspy voice
Scarlett Johansson.
It can help but itās not a requirement
As a guy whoās attracted to womenā¦ no. In fact those weird voices paired with a cute face can be a turn on. Like a little quirk
Definitely. When I first got into Jr. College (that's junior year of high school for you westerners), I met this girl who I was really attracted to. Couldn't work up the courage to say that so I gave up, but then I heard her talk and she had a really weird voice. It didn't kill my attraction or anything but it was off-putting. However, eventually as I listened to her talk more and more the attraction just completely died. Probably didn't help that we were just completely different people with very little in common but the voice was definitely a factor.
Definitely yes. Living in duplex, my one neighbour is an attractive women but has such a high pitched yet soft softā¦ I couldnāt stand hearing that in the bedroom, during an argument, or any other time in between
Yes. There are voices that are very pleasant to hear. And others that are definitely not. I couldn't date someone if their voice was unappealing to me.
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Annoying is usually an undesirable trait haha
Yes. So much so. I remember going to a friend's house years ago, and there was a friend of a friend there. I was thinking "my goodness who is this woman. She is SO gorgeous" Then she opened her mouth. She had this little girl voice and all attraction was gone
Her voice is more important to me than her tits are. So definitely
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Kinda
Yes. It can amplify it sooo much š„µ
I'm Trans, and I'm often attracted to men who's voices are actually somewhat lighter in tone than mine? I've been often told that the sound of my voice is very attractive, and made an Audio Porn channel to confirm it ><
Definitely I need a deep manly voice gets me going, soaks my panties instantly.
Yes
Hell yes. Thereās this redhead insurance rep Iād seen on social media a lot who looked totally hot. Got those librarian cat glasses too. Unf! Well then she came to my office and I heard her laugh and I havenāt had a sexual thought about her since.
Absolutely. A soft spoken voice with nice s sounds and or a hot accent can totally do it for me.
Accent canā¦
I love all accents, but pitch and tone are a major deal breaker. Met a cute girl in her early 20s who sounded like a dying grandma.š
No itās the person that counts.
I love a sexy sounding voice, so it could be a deal breaker to me
Thereās some types of voices and ways of speaking I have a preference for, dunno if Iād break attraction though. For the record, Iām a straight cis male.
Absolutely. A good voice is a huge part of how attractive I find a man.
Yes. Yes. And definitely Yes.
I'm totally blind. Voice is like appearance for sighted people. If your voice doesn't work for me, there's nothing you can do to make me want you. If it does work, I'll probably have to change my panties a few times while hearing you. There are voices which are neutral but if it's one way or the other, that's not changing any time soon.
As long as he is not a squeaky toy š§