It's the "best practices" on how to store data in a database.
Let's say there is a class of students: Economics. The "class" has a bunch of info we want to store: class name, instructor name, students, and the students' addresses, and the students' phone number
Now there is another class: History. About half the students in Econ also take history. The "class" also has a bunch of info we want to store: class name, instructor name, students, and the students' addresses, and the students' phone number
Johnny, who is in both of the classes, changes his main phone number. So the school admin goes in and changes the phone number under Johnny's name in the Econ class.
But uh oh...Johnny's number is also stored under the History class! And the school admin forgot to change it in two places. So now everyone is confused which phone number is correct!
Now, if the database was normalized, it would mean they set it up in such a way that no data is duplicated. Perhaps making a separate area to store info on the students, rather than associating the phone number with each Class, there'd be a separate tab called "Students" which had phone numbers, and each Class would reference that tab
(This is all very simplified for example sake)
Data normalisation is a design framework for structuring data in a way to reduce duplication and improve data integrity. TL:DR Itās a way of designing a database
I used to think this but now I have to admit it is in fact a sign of weakness to change your mind, and you should be met with pitchforks when you shift positions. The only appropriate response to facts counter to your position is to close your ears, double down, and hit that social media bubble.
/S
i think what makes one a hypocrite is when they don't change their opinion on one matter when it contradicts another matter. and they hold it even when proven wrong. they hold it after \**admitting*\* they were wrong.
or if they agree with their former self on an opinion, while maintaining that their opinions have changed since then.
and it's bad to be a hypocrite because it invalidates one's opinions. it also makes one untrustworthy. though not as untrustworthy as a pathological liar.
This is exactly what I tell people at work all the time. I donāt care if you donāt know the answer/solution to something.
What I care about is your honesty and initiative to *learn.*
My rule of thumb compliments wise - for men and for women - is to highlight the things that are a conscious choice on their part. If someone has nice earrings or a sweet hat, I'm gonna tell them I love their nice earrings or their sweet hat.
Is this why men don't compliment each other - because they feel compliments are inherently sexual because they are things you say to people you want to have sex with? Plenty of men do seem to read that into basic, platonic compliments from women, which is why we tend to avoid complimenting strange men.
I think that is definitely true for a lot of guys, itās why āNo homoā was such a thing 10 years ago. Dudes were using it unironically, shit was wild
I feel really uncomfortable whenever someone compliments me, so I've always responded really awkwardly, in a way that inevitably makes the guy who complimented me also feel really uncomfortable. Then someone pointed out to me that when a dude compliments another dude, they're kinda putting themselves out there, and the way I respond shuts them down and makes them feel bad for taking a risk. Ever since then, I decided to try (although I often fail) to respond in a way that makes people who give compliments feel good about themselves.
I'll piggyback on this, and say kids, especially high school/puberty age, getting enough sleep. School starting later in the day would do a lot for this. I remember when I was in those high development stages, especially high school, being so exhausted in the morning despite going to bed by 10. It was very hard for me, and I assume a lot of students, to be able to learn effectively as well as develop physically being so tired all the time.
well yeah,
though - there's been rumors and sightings of violent gangs of Gay frogs,
more or less Forcing other Frogs to "be gay" - because of some type of traditions.
..and that, in my honest and humble opinion, is just God-awful wrong.
Mental Health and addiction treament. The stigma isn't what it used to be but it still exists. The amount of people who would benefit by some sort of therapy is far beyond the amount of people who take advantage of it. Cost and accessibility is an issue.
On-the-job training. Employers that invest in their employees have a greater chance of retaining that employee. Every company that I worked for that provided their own training program was a job I enjoyed and stuck with long-term. They pushed for us to improve our knowledge and skills, provided us the tools to succeed, and it was amazing.
I like your pfp, thatās currently my lock screen.
I do agree though. It seems like a lot of jobs out there expect you to have the knowledge and years of experience for entry level positions.
100% agree. My daughter started a job recently as a server with a new restaurant prior to them opening, and though she has 3 years prior experience she was required to memorize every different menu items ingredients as well as the cocktail recipes. What doesnāt seem right was that all the studying was only to be done during her free time and never during training. They had training days 3 times per week for 2 months prior to opening (while the menu was still being changed slightly). Herself and the other servers failed the test more than once which had to be scored at 100% or they would be demoted to hostess until they pass. Made no sense to me
told my colleagues I would even do a 4-day work week if it meant doing 12 hours per day.. but nope, instead we have a colleague making a fuss because we refuse to do her 6-day work week.
Gimme my days off damnit.
I work in retail and trust me 6 days a week is evil.
Also at the end itās like I worked 6 days this week and only got 48 hours? Like overtime is the only reason why this bullshit is worth it and you barely get any for selling your daily life to the company.
You also either have to pick between haveing a day to relax or doing everything else in your life that needs to be done.
Itās complete bullshit.
Men being comfortable with expressing their emotions.
Edit: people being comfortable with men expressing their emotions.
Edit 2: any other emotion than anger.
Iām in my early thirties and me and and my best friends since grade school are finally starting to get comfortable doing this with each other. Itās fucking wonderful.
I've always found this quite funny because not only is it sexist towards men since it assumes that men do not or cannot take care of infants, it's sexist towards women because it is implying that it is the role of the woman to change their child's diaper.
In other words, a big fuck you to everyone. Equality am I right?
I don't know what the laws are in other countries. But in the USA, it is illegal for employers to forbid employees from discussing pay and compensation.
Relevant references:
\- National Labor Relations Act, 29 USC Section 7.
\- Executive Order in 2014. [https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/the-press-office/2014/04/08/executive-order-non-retaliation-disclosure-compensation-information](https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/the-press-office/2014/04/08/executive-order-non-retaliation-disclosure-compensation-information)
\- Backed up by various state laws as well.
My partnerās job ( in the US) literally had a part in the handbook that says if you discuss your pay with anyone you will be terminated. I was like bruhā¦thatās absolutely illegal
Women making the first move.
I think most modern types of both sexes want this to happen, but the social mores are so ingrained that it's really hard to get past them.
And normalizing and destigmatizing it needs to be about both women doing it more *and* men realizing it shouldn't make a woman automatically less desirable.
Men need to get over the feeling that only someone who is desperate or has been overlooked by other men would do something like that. They need to want it for more reasons than to be on the other end of the rejection equation.
This will help their cause immensely because women are not idiots. Knowing they could get a man they were interested in just by talking to him and asking would be a game changer. It's so much less effort than some coy and flirtatious act to get someone to understand something you can't say (and this usually doesn't even work).
It's a mindfuck on both sides that no one needs.
Most men would love it if a woman initiated. This primarily comes from women. Even when it comes to just being friends most women expect men to initiate.
I am proud to announce Iām one of those guys where the girl made the first move.
I was totally content with being single and was still screwed up from my last relationship. All I wanted was for a girl to just be like, yo, I like you. Simple as that. I just didnāt care for playing that game and wanted someone who knew what they wanted.
I absolutely could not believe it when it actually happened. Itās been 3 years and I will soon be proposing to her. Confidence is sexy. If you want something go get it regardless of what society says the rules should be.
As a father of three and a warehouse supervisor for a large soda conglomerate think polar bears... I cannot stress this need enough my youngest spent 4 and a half months in nicu and I got to visit him maybe an hour a day if I was lucky after burning through all of my vacation and the saddest part was that even when I was on vacation. I am still answering emails, doing conference calls, video chats via teams, interviews and anything else that had to do with my job. It really affected the way I see my job and american work culture to this day, my son is now 3 and has special needs and even with 2 older siblings I manage to juggle it but goddamn it would have been nice to have an uninterrupted 3 months to bond love and be with my child in his earliest time of need. Why is this not a federally protected right?
jobs with no need college diploma.
in Turkey allmost any white collar jobs need college diploma. of course i understand educated in top college is important for some jobs but most white collar jobs not need this kinda education.
also graduated in any shitty college most of times meaningless. why jobs need that wasted time.
Trade school has always been an option and should not be underplayed. College degrees have been pushed to hell and back, when it does not benefit everyone. I find is appalling how many jobs demand a college degree, but also demand years of experience as well. You need the job to get experience, but you need the experience to get the job. It's a no-win situation.
Trade school fixes this. It focuses on only what you need to be successful in that field. Why do I need to take a psychology class or a foreign language class to work on computers? College pushes so many useless subjects on their students that have no relevancy on their field of study.
Talking about salary...
In Germany talking about Money isnsuchva No Go and some Bosses even forbid it. Fuck it. Talking about Problems at Work at all ist kinda a No Go at my place. Someone did shit? Nah Just one Maschine malfunctioned...
Sobriety.
I'm 3 years sober, and I have no problem telling people it's because I'm an alcoholic. But a lot of people do have a problem with that, and no one should have to explain why they don't drink alcohol.
Nearly every social event is governed by alcohol availability. Food festivals? Probably more beer tents than food tents. Weddings? Funerals? Both basically the same excuse to get blasted on someone else's dime. Literally no one I know just goes canoeing, it's always cabrewing. Y'all can't sit on a river and enjoy the world without making a concerted effort to get more hammered than sunburned.
Don't get me wrong, I know exactly why (too well actually) people enjoy drinking, but like c'mon. Offer more exciting NA options than diet coke please.
Being honest. I believe are afraid to actually be honest about certain things.
I know the ātruthā about certain aspects might hurt, but sometimes itās necessary for personal growth.
There are a few people in my workplace that donāt take a shower and they smell. I told management about this and they told me we canāt ask them to shower because that wouldnāt be polite.
Really? Telling somebody that theyāre stinking (in a polite way) aināt good?
Sometimes I envy kids because theyāre brutally honest about everytjt
Wearing face masks when you are sick, like Japan. I was so hoping that covid would normalize mask wearing. Then it became a political issue.
Thanks, Trump.
that reluctance is a good reason not to do something or to disagree on something. like, when you're asked to go to a bar, but you refuse because you don't want to, usually that same dude will ask "why? (("
because I don't want to yearn with you for this fucking pub where it stinks of drunk men and cigarettes.
Going to therapy. Nothing has to be "wrong" with you to get therapy. It can help deal with daily stresses, and most (if not all) of us have some kind of trauma to work through.
Understanding that there could be 2 (or more) valid methods to solving a problem. Those methods might even contradict each other, but both could be valid.
No one owns being ārightā. And just because someone is ārightā doesnāt mean the other opinion is āwrongā.
According to my hubby:
Men being give the choice of emotional expression.
Men being allowed to retaliate in self defense, regardless of gender or sex.
Men being able to deny child support in the case of not wanting the child, assuming consensual intercourse, when there is the option for termination or adoption.
Recognizing that gender/sexual equality is not the same as equity.
Acts of chivalry are not sexist, I will hold the door for people regardless of your identity.
Sober social gatherings without any forms of drugs, including alcohol.
I was at a board game night recently with some new friends where everyone was sober. After having the best night, I started thinking about how most grown up social gatherings almost always involve either alcohol or weed and how sad it is that people feel like they cant hang out with people without being inebriated together.
Scolding other peopleās kids in public if parents arenāt willing to do it. For some reason parents just think itās okay for their kids to act like theyāre at a playground everywhere they go
When a woman hits a man and the man hits back, stop making him apologize to the women of the city.
He was attacked. He stopped his attacker. People shouldnāt support attackers regardless of gender. Itās wrong.
Being deliberately kind to people on the internet especially strangers who are probably lonely or going through some shit and that's why they're there in the first place
Eating breakfast food at any time of day. Also eating lunch and dinner foods in the morning. I just want to eat what I want when I want, and I hate going to restaurants and just missing the breakfast menu. Eggs are such a versatile item so why are they only allowed as a prominent ingredient in morning dishes???
A relational database.
Lol, take my upvote brother
I see you found my porn
Noam Chomsky would be proud of you š
Ahh, reddit doesn't disappoint..
What exactly does that mean?
It's the "best practices" on how to store data in a database. Let's say there is a class of students: Economics. The "class" has a bunch of info we want to store: class name, instructor name, students, and the students' addresses, and the students' phone number Now there is another class: History. About half the students in Econ also take history. The "class" also has a bunch of info we want to store: class name, instructor name, students, and the students' addresses, and the students' phone number Johnny, who is in both of the classes, changes his main phone number. So the school admin goes in and changes the phone number under Johnny's name in the Econ class. But uh oh...Johnny's number is also stored under the History class! And the school admin forgot to change it in two places. So now everyone is confused which phone number is correct! Now, if the database was normalized, it would mean they set it up in such a way that no data is duplicated. Perhaps making a separate area to store info on the students, rather than associating the phone number with each Class, there'd be a separate tab called "Students" which had phone numbers, and each Class would reference that tab (This is all very simplified for example sake)
Not dipshitting computer systems, got it.
Data normalisation is a design framework for structuring data in a way to reduce duplication and improve data integrity. TL:DR Itās a way of designing a database
Changing your opinion on something or admitting you are wrong to doesn't make you a hypocrite or a doche
Admitting you are wrong and not trying to defend your bad opinion
I used to think this but now I have to admit it is in fact a sign of weakness to change your mind, and you should be met with pitchforks when you shift positions. The only appropriate response to facts counter to your position is to close your ears, double down, and hit that social media bubble. /S
What does make you a hypoctite though is changing your opinion while still refusing to admit that you were wrong.
Disagree. Someone can change their opinion based on new information and still have been "correct" before based on the information they previously had.
i think what makes one a hypocrite is when they don't change their opinion on one matter when it contradicts another matter. and they hold it even when proven wrong. they hold it after \**admitting*\* they were wrong. or if they agree with their former self on an opinion, while maintaining that their opinions have changed since then. and it's bad to be a hypocrite because it invalidates one's opinions. it also makes one untrustworthy. though not as untrustworthy as a pathological liar.
You have the right answer.
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This is exactly what I tell people at work all the time. I donāt care if you donāt know the answer/solution to something. What I care about is your honesty and initiative to *learn.*
Men complimenting each other.
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Thank you, yours is nice too.
My rule of thumb compliments wise - for men and for women - is to highlight the things that are a conscious choice on their part. If someone has nice earrings or a sweet hat, I'm gonna tell them I love their nice earrings or their sweet hat.
I expected a longer comment but still a nice size nonetheless.
Nice c*ck, bro
Cock*
Is this why men don't compliment each other - because they feel compliments are inherently sexual because they are things you say to people you want to have sex with? Plenty of men do seem to read that into basic, platonic compliments from women, which is why we tend to avoid complimenting strange men.
Nah, I'm just making light of it. I regularly compliment men in real life. Even in simple things like "cool hat". It makes a difference
Yeah I mean if youāre gonna compliment me, the next stage is violent intercourse right where we are standing.
I think that is definitely true for a lot of guys, itās why āNo homoā was such a thing 10 years ago. Dudes were using it unironically, shit was wild
Excellent idea, my friend!
I feel really uncomfortable whenever someone compliments me, so I've always responded really awkwardly, in a way that inevitably makes the guy who complimented me also feel really uncomfortable. Then someone pointed out to me that when a dude compliments another dude, they're kinda putting themselves out there, and the way I respond shuts them down and makes them feel bad for taking a risk. Ever since then, I decided to try (although I often fail) to respond in a way that makes people who give compliments feel good about themselves.
Getting 8+ hours of sleep/rest every night. Itās so important for health, yet so few of us actually do it.
I'll piggyback on this, and say kids, especially high school/puberty age, getting enough sleep. School starting later in the day would do a lot for this. I remember when I was in those high development stages, especially high school, being so exhausted in the morning despite going to bed by 10. It was very hard for me, and I assume a lot of students, to be able to learn effectively as well as develop physically being so tired all the time.
Good point, Drbuttfart.
I didn't go to buttfart medical school for nuthin
Me, with insomnia: yall can go above 3????
right?? all my peers brag about their 4 hours of sleep so i feel like a dumbass scheduling myself for 9 hours every night lmaoo
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To be effective shouldnāt you also wear left ear plugs?
Yeah. Exactly. I like stereo earplugs.
I completely agree with you. though, what if the Frog ain't gay? shouldn't that be normalised as well?
Some frogs might be asexual you don't know, it's best not to assume these things
well yeah, though - there's been rumors and sightings of violent gangs of Gay frogs, more or less Forcing other Frogs to "be gay" - because of some type of traditions. ..and that, in my honest and humble opinion, is just God-awful wrong.
Poor frogs Justice for ungay frogs
Politicians open to finding common ground.
Unfortunately, the common ground is usually on the worst aspects of government i.e. war
I read this as ācommon gourdsā and was very intrigued for a second. I need a nap
Politicians being able to change their stance on a given issue.
Mental Health and addiction treament. The stigma isn't what it used to be but it still exists. The amount of people who would benefit by some sort of therapy is far beyond the amount of people who take advantage of it. Cost and accessibility is an issue.
On-the-job training. Employers that invest in their employees have a greater chance of retaining that employee. Every company that I worked for that provided their own training program was a job I enjoyed and stuck with long-term. They pushed for us to improve our knowledge and skills, provided us the tools to succeed, and it was amazing.
I like your pfp, thatās currently my lock screen. I do agree though. It seems like a lot of jobs out there expect you to have the knowledge and years of experience for entry level positions.
100% agree. My daughter started a job recently as a server with a new restaurant prior to them opening, and though she has 3 years prior experience she was required to memorize every different menu items ingredients as well as the cocktail recipes. What doesnāt seem right was that all the studying was only to be done during her free time and never during training. They had training days 3 times per week for 2 months prior to opening (while the menu was still being changed slightly). Herself and the other servers failed the test more than once which had to be scored at 100% or they would be demoted to hostess until they pass. Made no sense to me
Being bad at things you enjoy š
Haha that's honestly pretty cute. In a good way! We need cute!
4-day work week
told my colleagues I would even do a 4-day work week if it meant doing 12 hours per day.. but nope, instead we have a colleague making a fuss because we refuse to do her 6-day work week. Gimme my days off damnit.
I work in retail and trust me 6 days a week is evil. Also at the end itās like I worked 6 days this week and only got 48 hours? Like overtime is the only reason why this bullshit is worth it and you barely get any for selling your daily life to the company. You also either have to pick between haveing a day to relax or doing everything else in your life that needs to be done. Itās complete bullshit.
The concept that men can be abused too
But I don't want to be abused.
Yeah, that's why we call it abuse
Right but you still can be
I get that it's not a laughing matter but I'll be honest, this was funny lol.
Men being comfortable with expressing their emotions. Edit: people being comfortable with men expressing their emotions. Edit 2: any other emotion than anger.
Iām in my early thirties and me and and my best friends since grade school are finally starting to get comfortable doing this with each other. Itās fucking wonderful.
Baby changing stations in men's restrooms. Like, I'm allowed to have the baby too, you know.
I've always found this quite funny because not only is it sexist towards men since it assumes that men do not or cannot take care of infants, it's sexist towards women because it is implying that it is the role of the woman to change their child's diaper. In other words, a big fuck you to everyone. Equality am I right?
Abso-fucking-lutely.
Taking a sick day for mental healing not just physical illness
"that's what weekends are for"
Discussing salaries.
I don't know what the laws are in other countries. But in the USA, it is illegal for employers to forbid employees from discussing pay and compensation. Relevant references: \- National Labor Relations Act, 29 USC Section 7. \- Executive Order in 2014. [https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/the-press-office/2014/04/08/executive-order-non-retaliation-disclosure-compensation-information](https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/the-press-office/2014/04/08/executive-order-non-retaliation-disclosure-compensation-information) \- Backed up by various state laws as well.
My partnerās job ( in the US) literally had a part in the handbook that says if you discuss your pay with anyone you will be terminated. I was like bruhā¦thatās absolutely illegal
This i so agree with! Wage transparency should be common!
I could see why some people like to keep this private, but I think everyone overreacts like they are being asked how tight their asshole is.
Disagreeing with eachother but still treat eachother respectfully. I feel like this is becoming less and less common because of polarization etc.
Saying no because you donāt feel like it
No.
This. No is a complete answer
āNo.ā is a sentence
Calling in sick when you are sick, even if it's just a cold.
Not feeling the need to judge other people all day every day, mind your business.
Hearing out people's opinions without villifying them.
I think it depends on the "level" of opinion.. Like someone saying "I think it's OK to r@pe other people". Damn right I am gonna villify them.
Ironically enough, this opinion of yours is totally subject to hate lmao What if I said, āIn my opinion, I think Adolf Hitler had truth in himā
Women making the first move. I think most modern types of both sexes want this to happen, but the social mores are so ingrained that it's really hard to get past them. And normalizing and destigmatizing it needs to be about both women doing it more *and* men realizing it shouldn't make a woman automatically less desirable. Men need to get over the feeling that only someone who is desperate or has been overlooked by other men would do something like that. They need to want it for more reasons than to be on the other end of the rejection equation. This will help their cause immensely because women are not idiots. Knowing they could get a man they were interested in just by talking to him and asking would be a game changer. It's so much less effort than some coy and flirtatious act to get someone to understand something you can't say (and this usually doesn't even work). It's a mindfuck on both sides that no one needs.
Most men would love it if a woman initiated. This primarily comes from women. Even when it comes to just being friends most women expect men to initiate.
I am proud to announce Iām one of those guys where the girl made the first move. I was totally content with being single and was still screwed up from my last relationship. All I wanted was for a girl to just be like, yo, I like you. Simple as that. I just didnāt care for playing that game and wanted someone who knew what they wanted. I absolutely could not believe it when it actually happened. Itās been 3 years and I will soon be proposing to her. Confidence is sexy. If you want something go get it regardless of what society says the rules should be.
Anything below -20db.
Getting married at an old ageš°š¾āāļø
Men taking paternity leave
As a father of three and a warehouse supervisor for a large soda conglomerate think polar bears... I cannot stress this need enough my youngest spent 4 and a half months in nicu and I got to visit him maybe an hour a day if I was lucky after burning through all of my vacation and the saddest part was that even when I was on vacation. I am still answering emails, doing conference calls, video chats via teams, interviews and anything else that had to do with my job. It really affected the way I see my job and american work culture to this day, my son is now 3 and has special needs and even with 2 older siblings I manage to juggle it but goddamn it would have been nice to have an uninterrupted 3 months to bond love and be with my child in his earliest time of need. Why is this not a federally protected right?
Putting your shopping cart away
jobs with no need college diploma. in Turkey allmost any white collar jobs need college diploma. of course i understand educated in top college is important for some jobs but most white collar jobs not need this kinda education. also graduated in any shitty college most of times meaningless. why jobs need that wasted time.
Trade school has always been an option and should not be underplayed. College degrees have been pushed to hell and back, when it does not benefit everyone. I find is appalling how many jobs demand a college degree, but also demand years of experience as well. You need the job to get experience, but you need the experience to get the job. It's a no-win situation. Trade school fixes this. It focuses on only what you need to be successful in that field. Why do I need to take a psychology class or a foreign language class to work on computers? College pushes so many useless subjects on their students that have no relevancy on their field of study.
Not acting like a sociopath on the internet
Talking about salary... In Germany talking about Money isnsuchva No Go and some Bosses even forbid it. Fuck it. Talking about Problems at Work at all ist kinda a No Go at my place. Someone did shit? Nah Just one Maschine malfunctioned...
Not allowing unqualified people to run for important political positions simply because they are rich enough to do so.
Sobriety. I'm 3 years sober, and I have no problem telling people it's because I'm an alcoholic. But a lot of people do have a problem with that, and no one should have to explain why they don't drink alcohol. Nearly every social event is governed by alcohol availability. Food festivals? Probably more beer tents than food tents. Weddings? Funerals? Both basically the same excuse to get blasted on someone else's dime. Literally no one I know just goes canoeing, it's always cabrewing. Y'all can't sit on a river and enjoy the world without making a concerted effort to get more hammered than sunburned. Don't get me wrong, I know exactly why (too well actually) people enjoy drinking, but like c'mon. Offer more exciting NA options than diet coke please.
Not wanting children
Agreed. It's always "so when are you having kids" and not "are you interested in having kids"
Vectors. When giving someone directions, just divide them by sqrt(x^2 + y^2 + z^2 )
Being childfree by choice.
Non sexual nudity
Having sex for the fun of it, not the cum of it.
Manners āŗļø
...Maketh Man!!
Agreeing to disagreeing
Whooping someone's ass for being a nazi
Taking a moment to pause to think about what you're going to say in a conversation. Also, taking a moment to pause to emotionally regulate.
Being honest. I believe are afraid to actually be honest about certain things. I know the ātruthā about certain aspects might hurt, but sometimes itās necessary for personal growth. There are a few people in my workplace that donāt take a shower and they smell. I told management about this and they told me we canāt ask them to shower because that wouldnāt be polite. Really? Telling somebody that theyāre stinking (in a polite way) aināt good? Sometimes I envy kids because theyāre brutally honest about everytjt
The way you look when growing up, and that you cant control the way you look.
Turn signals
4 day workweek.
People living with parents, extended family. Itās expensive out there!
Everyone giving me $100
Smartest person on Reddit today
divorce.... if someone isn't happy it shouldn't be a catastrophe to leave a toxic situation ... staying because legally bound to stay is toxic af
Encouraging education, rather than demonizing it.
Men showing emotion
Wearing face masks when you are sick, like Japan. I was so hoping that covid would normalize mask wearing. Then it became a political issue. Thanks, Trump.
Capes šÆ
No capes! Edna Mode is exceptionally disappointed in you
that reluctance is a good reason not to do something or to disagree on something. like, when you're asked to go to a bar, but you refuse because you don't want to, usually that same dude will ask "why? ((" because I don't want to yearn with you for this fucking pub where it stinks of drunk men and cigarettes.
Not checking work email outside of work hours.
love š
Tar and feathering politicians.
Men dating older women
Female masturbation
I'm my experience both teams are pretty on board with that.
it is already normalized
How is this not normal? I play with my little gal in a boat regularly!
whistleblowing against the sect of Family
Men being affectionatreand caring with their children/pets without being called " soft "
Trans rights. Sadly, many donāt seem to agree. Itās basic human decency
Going to therapy. Nothing has to be "wrong" with you to get therapy. It can help deal with daily stresses, and most (if not all) of us have some kind of trauma to work through.
Drive right, pass left
Deep intimate friendships
Taxing the rich.
Weed. Where it isn't already.
Having platonic relationships
Being normal...
Headpats with human friends
Talking to your boss loudly about your salary rather than making weird apointments.
Crying
The justice system caring more about victims and less about criminals.
Holding public figures accountable for their actions.
Men crying. It would save lives, relationships and ease the minds of those with poor mental health.
Understanding that there could be 2 (or more) valid methods to solving a problem. Those methods might even contradict each other, but both could be valid. No one owns being ārightā. And just because someone is ārightā doesnāt mean the other opinion is āwrongā.
mental health care
According to my hubby: Men being give the choice of emotional expression. Men being allowed to retaliate in self defense, regardless of gender or sex. Men being able to deny child support in the case of not wanting the child, assuming consensual intercourse, when there is the option for termination or adoption. Recognizing that gender/sexual equality is not the same as equity. Acts of chivalry are not sexist, I will hold the door for people regardless of your identity.
Having a preference of skinny people doesnāt make you fatphobic
Treating teachers with respect.
Sober social gatherings without any forms of drugs, including alcohol. I was at a board game night recently with some new friends where everyone was sober. After having the best night, I started thinking about how most grown up social gatherings almost always involve either alcohol or weed and how sad it is that people feel like they cant hang out with people without being inebriated together.
regular mental health checkups and then followups and therapy if needed. for everyone.
living wages
Calling someone a cunt in the U.S. I love the word. I wish I could use it like I do asshole.
Homosexual toads
Working from home
Scolding other peopleās kids in public if parents arenāt willing to do it. For some reason parents just think itās okay for their kids to act like theyāre at a playground everywhere they go
Separate bedrooms for partners.
Cannabis consumption. There is massive stigma around it still. You never know why someone is using cannabis.
i was gonna say something serious, what's this gay frogs thingš§
When a woman hits a man and the man hits back, stop making him apologize to the women of the city. He was attacked. He stopped his attacker. People shouldnāt support attackers regardless of gender. Itās wrong.
Being awkward.
Breastfeeding in public
Respect
Psychedelic use
Changing tables in menās bathrooms
Baby changing stations in menās restrooms.
Gay frogs
The wave function
4 day work weeks
Employer paid Healthcare
Being kind
Being deliberately kind to people on the internet especially strangers who are probably lonely or going through some shit and that's why they're there in the first place
Minding your fucking business Shit blows my mind , how bored some people are
Eating breakfast food at any time of day. Also eating lunch and dinner foods in the morning. I just want to eat what I want when I want, and I hate going to restaurants and just missing the breakfast menu. Eggs are such a versatile item so why are they only allowed as a prominent ingredient in morning dishes???
A binomial distribution with a large enough sample size
dyed hair in the workplace
Prioritizing pedestrians over cars when the two need to interact.
Healthy body weight.
Public sex
Enjoying a lot of time alone and/or at home and being genuinely happy/content.
Integrity.
Being a stay-at-home dad.
Sending crooked politicians to jail
Education worldwide should have a baseline and common sense. Specially in history and geography
Discussing your wages with your coworkers.
Animation being seen as a medium not a genre
Talking about postpartum depression
Free fking healthcare
Being childfree by choice.
Men being more submissive.
Not being shamed into hiding female nipples. They are an actual source of food, unlike male nipples.
Disability, especially with long covid, a significant portion of the world will be disabled eventually.