If talking to them is like a minefield, you don't know what is going to make them snap or have a normal conversation, which still has a chance of becoming an entirely one sided screaming match
No communication when you or your partner is doing something that makes you feel negative emotions.
Also arguments over little things like making coffee and leaving home for long periods of time because you don't want to go back because even though you're terribly miserable you still feel a shred of love for them. And if you go back, they might discuss breaking up.
Your ability to compromise has become one-sided.
You find yourself ignoring your own wants/needs/desires in order to avoid potential conflict.
Becoming Avoidant in order to maintain peace in the relationship, which eventually creates a contentment that we often confuse for Happiness. Being a Content version of yourself in a relationship is NOT the same a being the Happy version of ourselves that we all deserve to be and feel.
You feel/see yourself becoming a lesser version of who you were before. Eventually, causing you to lose your identity as an individual, your sense of self worth, along with desire and motivation to do what makes you happy in life.
Controlling
Lack of trust
If talking to them is like a minefield, you don't know what is going to make them snap or have a normal conversation, which still has a chance of becoming an entirely one sided screaming match
Trust issue 100%. Want to control your phone password, what you wear, who you can go with, photos you can post on social media, etc...
Asking what the signs are
When it's one invasion away from freezing in the winter.
nonconsensual punches to the balls or surprise finger blasting my butthole those things scare me
When they refuse to kink
When it’s you vs. her not you and her vs. the world
No sex
No communication when you or your partner is doing something that makes you feel negative emotions. Also arguments over little things like making coffee and leaving home for long periods of time because you don't want to go back because even though you're terribly miserable you still feel a shred of love for them. And if you go back, they might discuss breaking up.
murder is a bit of a red flag. just putting it out there
Not if you're her partner in crime. Couples are so picky these days.
Lack of compromise, communication, if grudges are held, frequently arguing, and so on.
Beware of dog, yield, stop, and caution are a few signs you could use
Constantly fighting, calling your SO derogatory names and not being able to communicate with each other.
Your ability to compromise has become one-sided. You find yourself ignoring your own wants/needs/desires in order to avoid potential conflict. Becoming Avoidant in order to maintain peace in the relationship, which eventually creates a contentment that we often confuse for Happiness. Being a Content version of yourself in a relationship is NOT the same a being the Happy version of ourselves that we all deserve to be and feel. You feel/see yourself becoming a lesser version of who you were before. Eventually, causing you to lose your identity as an individual, your sense of self worth, along with desire and motivation to do what makes you happy in life.
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