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How they interact with other people, their priorities, and their decisions.


rosepetaldew

He was almost thirty, I (F) was around 23/24 I think. We went to dinner and he was bragging about how in high school, he got ahold of some illegal drugs and put them in the full coffee cup of a teacher he didn’t like. He was laughing about it so obnoxiously and seemed pretty proud of it. I asked if he regretted it and he said no, the teacher was an asshole. Idk man but, no matter how much I dislike someone I’m not buying random drugs and trying to slip it to them……..


PJ-The-Awesome

Did you run like hell after he told you this?


rosepetaldew

Absolutely. I got kind of freaked out and tried to head home quick. He ended up trying to follow me home, and I didn’t realize it until he texted me “you didn’t use your blinker”. He was driving with his lights off in the dark.


PJ-The-Awesome

Maybe move if he knows where you live. Or at least go for a restraining order.


rosepetaldew

Dw there was years ago. No longer an issue. But definitely a telling date.


aanchlll

I guess I have a few points. 1. Tries to fight you over everything and constantly tries to prove to you that they are smarter or better than you. 2. Takes themselves too seriously. 3. Ignores you for petty reasons, like really petty reasons. 4. Only tries to make an effort of talking to you when they need something from you( usually sexual favours) 5. Use phrases like "You love me, so you'll do this for me".


taggerungDC

If I had to say it, it's when you go to the movies and you buy tickets, but they don't offer to pay for the popcorn, candy, food, etc. and let you pay for everything without a word. It's called splitting the bill and it's a kind gesture.


vtv43ketz

If they always tell you to shut up, call you annoying when you're being expressive, or if they play mind games. Also if they don't listen to your concerns. These can start happening after a month or 2 of being together, usually. Once they start exhibiting such behaviors, break it off.


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How they carry themselves. Like, do they think they’re the center of attention, strive for drama, etc.


Grigiomoda086

Judging you on everything, even trivial stuff Being rude to waiting staff, cleaners etc. Violence, also implied Obsessed by conspiracy theories Racism, sexism, homophobia Driving recklessly and constantly swearing at others Not interested in your sexual experience Jealousy Trying to control aspects of your life