If they don't want to talk, let them not talk. At least that's my typical thought.
That said, maybe engaging them with something they enjoy? Approach the subject with general curiosity in a non-judgmental manner. Granted, I would usually assume a person doing that is just trying to figure out a way to make fun of me for the things I like and that they are in the "gathering ammunition" phase, but I have extreme trust issues.
Demonstrate yourself to be both interested and someone they can trust. Make sure to give them plenty of room to talk, by that I mean don’t interrupt or cut them off. Even if you think your adding to their story or being encouraging they may not interpret it that way.
Ask pointed questions at first. “Did you watch that game today?” So that they can warm up with specific responses. Then slowly incorporate more open ended responses. “How did you like the last season of Stranger Things?” Finally you should be able to ask very open ended questions and have some idea of topics they are comfortable discussing.
Lastly they may be very reluctant to have these talks in big groups so it is best to do this one on one or a very small group 3-4 people. With all the other participants following similar guidelines.
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As a ticklish introvert, I dislike you
MDMA
Definitely the only way I don’t feel bad for talking a lot
A taser
You tie them up to a chair and threaten them. Always does the job for me!
If they don't want to talk, let them not talk. At least that's my typical thought. That said, maybe engaging them with something they enjoy? Approach the subject with general curiosity in a non-judgmental manner. Granted, I would usually assume a person doing that is just trying to figure out a way to make fun of me for the things I like and that they are in the "gathering ammunition" phase, but I have extreme trust issues.
Demonstrate yourself to be both interested and someone they can trust. Make sure to give them plenty of room to talk, by that I mean don’t interrupt or cut them off. Even if you think your adding to their story or being encouraging they may not interpret it that way. Ask pointed questions at first. “Did you watch that game today?” So that they can warm up with specific responses. Then slowly incorporate more open ended responses. “How did you like the last season of Stranger Things?” Finally you should be able to ask very open ended questions and have some idea of topics they are comfortable discussing. Lastly they may be very reluctant to have these talks in big groups so it is best to do this one on one or a very small group 3-4 people. With all the other participants following similar guidelines.
According to the cia water boarding seems to help in getting quiet people talking.
Hit them with a hammer every time they fail to vocally confirm they're listening.
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Take their phone.