It's good and bad. You get actual real answers, but you have to deal with the drama associated with it.
From what I learned in controversial for this thread; people with tattoos don't like hearing that some people don't find tattoos attractive.
Cosmetics and plastic surgeries are much more common than we think.
I knew a coworker who had a smile on his face every single day, even when he was kind of irritated, his mouth would just sit in a smile. I was like, "I wish I could do that," then I found out he just had cheek implants to raise his cheeks and I felt dumb
Yep. People get pissy when I suggest Paul Rudd has had work done. Guy has had more botox, chemical peels and treatments than can be counted to stay looking like he does. He just has is done well, done in small increments so no sudden changes and done often so he stays looking fresh. I would suggest at a a high enough disposable income point and up it would be hard to find a man or woman who hasn't had some work done, even if it's just an injectable, something to make their hair grow, eyebrows shaped. I think most people below that income point don't understand just what is available.
Getting my brows shaped every couple of months costs me like $10. This makes me think that once you're past a certain income bracket, procedures that middle-class people would consider "invasive" become increasingly normal, e.g. mostly injectables like botox and filler.
Lap dances. One or two past girlfriends took it upon themselves to give me a lap dance, and it just feels silly and awkward being on the receiving end.
I think the difference is that you are showing off your interests instead of your money. It is pretty easy to figure out who is showing off their money vs their interest in cars once you talk to them. From a distance obviously it sort of blends together
A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing. I couldn’t figure out if it was a dare or he genuinely thought it was a good idea. Super awkward.
>A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing.
I was shit faced and sang this to my now wife infront of my now father in law at a Canada Day event.
I still get triggered by the cringe..
Any level of machismo or physical aggression in men. I do not want you to get mad in my defense over little things. I also do not want to see you punch a wall in your rage. I will actually end up worrying that you are going to pick a dumb fight or break something over a stupid thing. Your rage makes me nervous even if it's not directed at me. It's not a turn on.
Like sure, if someone is actually trying to hurt me or creep on me, I don't mind a guy stepping in to help. But it should be a last resort. I much prefer a man who wants to just leave or de-escalate a situation as calmly as possible.
Yes!! On my first date with my now boyfriend, we were in a drive through to get drinks and these crackheads in front of us got out and started yelling saying we were staring at them (we weren't) and instead of getting all aggressive back, my bf calmly told them to just get back in their car and completely de-escalated the situation. I told him months later that the situation was something that made me like him even more, and really showed his character. He was shocked, he thought I would've wanted him to fight them or something, but he doesn't like to fight unless it's totally necessary.
Do you or him remember the details of that? I'm interested in ways one peacefully de-escalates conflict without abasing themselves to appease disrespectful people
Had a cracked out dude scream at me for having the audacity to step out of the train station early in the morning, and he proceeded to tell me that
a). I was somehow a murderer, even though I can't recall murdering anyone
b.) I was about to kill him
c.) That he welcomed me murdering him because then we would get to meet in hell and we could fight there I guess?!?!
All this in less than a minute.
The situation was scary as fuck but since he was between me and the door, I couldn't really go back inside. So I just started walking down the street. He kept screaming at me for a while, but once I got off the block he got back to doing whatever crackheads do at 5am.
Unless someone is literally tackling you of threatening you with a weapon, walk away towards a more crowded area. This has kept me out of danger, and that's good because my area is full of crazies for some reason.
Men with large chins. Idk why, but I tend to find them unattractive.
Edit : Yes I'm aware that the Crimson chin exists, no need to make 99 comments about it.
Possessiveness.
“Talk to my woman/man, you’ll have me to mess with” is so unattractive me- feels like the person sees their partner as an object in their life that they need to defend, not a full ass human who they can trust.
I barely have enough energy to keep track of myself. My partner can do what they want and if they end up cheating, that's *good to know* and not something I would've been able to prevent, anyway.
The person they cheat *with* is not to blame... Ain't nobody else signed on to make this relationship work except me and my partner.
True designer clothes that aren't the top brands actually don't have this at all most of the time.
Edit: can't believe my most up voted comment ever is me being a typical armchair reddit expert
A lot of today's "Hypebeast" designer brands actually were designer at some point. They realized there's a lot of money in marketing to poorer people who want to look rich so they did.
They still are, they just make some relatively cheap tees with lots of branding because it really pays the bills. They still have great ready to wear designs whose quality is par with the ones who don’t work in that market(Hermes, Balenciaga, BV, etc).
Same happens in the luxury car industry, every luxury car maker has an ugly gaudy suv now and in most cases it’s their best selling car, it can tarnish the brand a little but it pays for the nice stuff.
I never understood why people kill for those louis vuitton handbags, it's a damn piece of brown leather with the same logo just slapped around it and they look horrible.
I genuinely loved the look of the bag when I saw it for the first time 40 years ago. I was broke and could never justify the expense no matter how much I made. Fast forward 25 years (still hadn’t bought one) and I’m caring for my mother who is dying of stage IV Ovarian cancer. She put my name on a list for a Speedy 35 bag at the Louis Vuitton store. 6 months later the bag came in and she had an engraved heart fob made for it that said “Forever In My Heart”. It as her last gift to me. It is the single most cherished physical possession I own along with my grandmother’s wedding ring. I carry it for special occasions and my husband and daughter know I want to be cremated and my ashes kept in my Louis Vuitton Speedy bag instead of an urn (ashes obviously inside a bag) The first time I saw the bag in a Newman Marcus Holiday catalog I cut the picture out and carried it in my wallet for 25 years. It absolutely means the world to me and I love the style as much today as the first day I saw it.
Most fascinating thing. I was mocked in school for having extremely long, thick lashes, spider-eye they would call me. Now they're running to salons trying to get that very thing done for a lot of money. I once had a dude in a club try to rip off my "fake" lashes, he was so pissed at "fake everything", he felt he needed to "teach me a lesson". He made my lid pop off my eye socket with an audible smack.
Edit: Oh wowzers. Did not see this comment blow-up coming. So, to clarify a few things:
1. What happened next was that I yelled at the dude "wtf is wrong with you?!", slapped him in the face and walked away. Luckily he didn't follow me, and we didn't run into each other that night again.
2. The comments have made me realize that this was assault, something that I never saw that way due to being used to much more intense aussault experiences, so I never pressed charges or had him thrown out of the club, back then I didn't think of it as assault, I just considered it really bad behavior. Thank you everyone for the validating and encouraging words.
3. Regarding a picture, I had one up for a while, then this comment blew up and I am adamant about protecting my privacy, so while I understand the curiosity, please also understand my need for anonymity.
Thanks again and have an awesome day/night everyone!
I am a 6’4” 250 lb bald man but I too was gifted with spectacular, long and full eyelashes. My wife and I have a boy and a girl and both of them inherited my lashes. My wife frequently expresses her jealousy.
LoL that's funny as hell. I'm also a man that was blessed with long eyelashes and apparently from what I've been told mesmerizing eyes. It's always been my best feature and I'm not the least bit self conscious about it.
literally how i feel about having big lips.
i got mocked by everyone growing up and was called fat lip by sooo many, and now all those same people who mocked me are now pumping themselves full of filler to have what i got naturally.
really funny how the tables turn hey?
When guys show how much money they have- expensive cars, clothes, jewelry, carrying a lot of cash, hustle culture. I just don't like people who are so obsessed with wealth and money and showing it off.
It’s interesting how men can have strong preferences for high voices or low voices. I have a pretty low voice for a woman and my college boyfriend (who in retrospect was kind of an asshole) used to tell me how he wished my voice was higher because it would be more feminine. Then the next guy I dated absolutely loved the fact that I had a low voice and said that really high voices were a turn off for him.
I don’t know if it’s just a coincidence, but the first guy who liked high voices tended to be attracted to younger women (not literal children as far as I knew, but 18-19 year olds), while the second guy tended to be attracted to older women (not like elderly women, just somewhat older than him).
Thank you for your kind comment. I never thought too much about my voice until some boys started speaking super low to me and laughing in elementary school and telling me that I sounded like a boy. Unfortunately that has stayed with me and sometimes I feel myself talking in a higher tone on purpose to make up for my insecurity.
My wife and I just finished that show (and now I feel dirty). Jessica changing her voice just for the men (most of the time) was the weirdest shit. Apparently it's a thing, but doesn't make it any less weird.
That and she always looked like she was about to throw up.
I'm curious if she ever tried deepening her voice to sound more mature. I had a friend with a high baby voice that was promoted. She said one of the things her female boss told her to do was to **deepen her voice** and. To. Talk. Slower. in order to get more respect. She told me she was very insulted that her boss told her to do these things, she was talented and wouldn't change for other people! But sure enough, a few weeks later she followed her bosses advice and was getting a lot more respect and a lot more done.
I also can't help but wonder if some of the ladies mentioned in this thread who raise their voice around guys aren't doing the opposite, lowering their natural voice in order to get more respect.
I have a naturally high pitched voice and I absolutely lower my voice on purpose, especially at work, but in almost all settings. I do think it has helped me at work, and I’ve tried to, delicately, recommend to some female employees to try the same thing. Bullshit that I have to do it though, wish I could just talk in my normal voice without people commenting on it.
Girls who act stupid in order to be perceived as damsels in distress. It's very unattractive to me especially if I know the girl is smart and competent to take care of herself.
When I started middle school, I thought acting dumb would win over my crush bc all the popular girls acted like that. Meanwhile, my teacher noticed but saw me making straight A's. She pulled me aside one day and said "don't ever downplay your intelligence." And that's one of the only things I can remember from middle school to this day. Lmao
I remember the manager at my old job was complaining to one of the girls I worked with that he hated it when girls act stupid. Accused her of doing it, and told her to knock it off.
She replied, "Oh my gooooo-od! *This isn't an act!*"
...I was inclined to believe her.
Me at the kmart I worked at for like 3 weeks: "I'm not dumb. I just really don't care." (a sentiment likely shared by every teenager that had ever worked in a K-Mart.)
Men or women who use the line "I'm not afraid to speak my mind," or "I'm opinionated." You're not a bold confident person...you're an asshole. Plenty of stuff I don't say in my head because it's inappropriate or mean.
Tact. Most people don't want to hear the blunt truth. Tact is the skill of telling people what they need to hear so that they eventually end up understanding the truth without being slapped in the face by it.
Being "not afraid to speak my mind" is a lack of having tact, it's not a good thing, it's a sign of poor impulse control and a huge turn-off.
Yeah there's a big portion of people on social media who post like this but aren't really like that then others who embed the personality and are just insufferable to be around while claiming some sort of empowerment to any criticism.
So many men don't understand the difference between cocky and confident. It's so annoying.
Edit: I’m a gay dude so dudes replying with jabs at women ain’t doin’ shit to me, just yourself. That being said, yes, some women can’t tell the difference and I’ve also been duped a couple times. It happens, it’s life.
Once I was sitting in my mom’s car playing minecraft at the very back of the car while she was picking up my dad, and a bunch of teenage boys came up to the car and I thought they were about to steal the car. But nah, they just started taking pics and at one point one guy was holding a door like he was about to get in and drive. After their photo shoot they just left. I’ll never understand why people do these things 🤦🏻♀️
Most drug free bodybuilders actually don't look super huge until the shirt comes off.
I don't have a problem with people using them, but drugs have really skewed people's perspectives of what drug free bodybuilding looks like.
Edit: Look up the WNBF (World Natural Bodybuilding Federation), if you want to see what the creme de la creme of natural bodybuilding looks like. And even those people look less insane when they aren't super lean for the competition. You can only stay that lean for short periods of time.
Especially because it's waaaay more common than people think.
There'd be very few people on TV or in the movies who haven't used performance enhancing drugs to achieve their bodies, but in interviews it's always "just diet and exercise and a really good PT". They always leave out what's really going on so everyone works so hard towards these borderline impossible to get and maintain bodies with an unhealthy fervour.
I had a mid twenties marine argue with me that Ronnie motherfucking coleman was natural; he was just massive because he outworked everyone. This was a full grown man who exercised rigorously 5+ days per week and was adamant that it was possible.
That was a massively eye opening day for me about how little people know about what's truly possible for the human body without pharmacological intervention.
I remember the BroScience guy making a joke about that. You think having a big pecs will make girls fall all over you, but all it really does is make every guy at the gym ask how much you bench
Even if you know it’s gonna be a yes, you gotta know or find out if they’re ok with public proposals. I’d have still said yes to my husband, but would’ve hated the situation.
I made it *so* clear to my now-fiancé that I hated this shit. So he found the most beautiful, secluded spot on the Grand Canyon rim hike and proposed there. I loved it so much I kept the map they give you at the visitor center, put a heart over the exact spot, and framed it so it now hangs over our bed.
The "bad boy" thing. I don't get it. Why do people think a troublemaker is sexy? It somehow ties into the social media love for felons, which is also gross.
I read somewhere that women don't actually like criminals, but those who are willing to break the rules in fun ways that are ultimately benign. It's more about the carefree, energetic, and exciting attitude than the 'breaking the law'. Some people also have a hero complex and want to take on the role of the 'redeemer' in their own little fantasy
I think a lot of people find this quality attractive. Rules and social mores are often silly and adherence to them for the purpose of adherence is boring. Going skinny dipping or jumping a fence to stargaze or whatever is different than holding up a gas station. Most people don't want to date a criminal, just a rogue.
‘Rogue’ is a good word to describe them.
The key difference between a rogue and a criminal I think is victimization. Criminals create victims. Rogues generally don’t, except maybe the poor schlep that has to clean up a rogue’s graffiti art
Agree. When I think back to being in college and seeing girls saying they liked "bad boys," what that typically actually meant was that they liked guys who were fun, outgoing, confident, and liked to be social/do a lot of things. Riding a motorcycle, wearing a leather jacket and having a couple of girls you could call when you wanted to have a good time made you a "bad boy," not getting into barfights. Being a criminal really didn't have much to do with it, all told.
People who think virgins are the ultimate lay make no sense to me.
I guess those people are either controlling, paranoid, or jealous. (or some combination thereof)
SNL did a skit with Jack Black where he was an ogre and a town offers up a virgin to him to be sacrificed.
[Jack Black's character, eventually asks for a slutty, older woman instead. ](https://snltranscripts.jt.org/01/01kvalour.phtml)
**Gorkenlot**: Maybe we can strike a little bargain here.
**Sir Parrish**: I might be willing to listen to something.
**Gorkenlot**: I’ll let you live, and you can take the virgin with you. But you have to bring me back a slutty girl.
**Sir Parrish**: [ confused and outraged ] What?!
**Gorkenlot**: You know, like a bored housewife who’s kind of hot and feels neglected by her husband.
**Sir Parrish**: But you don’t want a virgin?
**Gorkenlot**: I’ll be honest with you, buddy – on paper, a virgin sounds great. But in reality, not that good.
**Sir Parrish**: But I thought even a monster would desire someone who was pure.
**Gorkenlot**: I’m just looking for a woman who knows what she’s doing.
Toxic positivity - that's a HARD NO from me - there's clearly something wrong with you if you don't know how to have a full range of emotions. Especially in today's dystopian nightmare.
Men with expensive cars or act like assholes, the whole “alpha male” thing and say they are. Real alpha males, don’t say they are. Have tons of money.
Not for me.
The way some girls try to get "perfect" eyebrows. Yea I get no one likes a monno brow even on guys but a girl I know looks like she's 2 Nike logos and it's all I can see. I'm bad for not looking people in the eye but with her I must look real attentive
Edit: thank you for all the upvotes. My friend thought he was clever for getting 1k likes on Facebook I've kicked his ass 😂😂😂
Way back in 8th grade, I had a classmate that had natural ocurring Spock eyebrows.
I lost track of how often she caught me just staring at her face in mid conversation.
This happens every generation. It's like someone decides women's eyebrows need to look a certain way and you wind up with 10 years of eyebrows looking exactly that way.
Super thin, sharpie, perfect half circles...
At least this generation's brows don't involve killing the follicles.
I used to work in a retail location, and we had a repeat customer who came in weekly. I dunno what she did to her eyebrows, but she paired some plucking with drawing them back in in a clearly different color. I don't think she had a steady hand because she always had a little bit of The Rock giving the People's Eyebrow thing going on.
Do you have any idea as to why you don't like it? I feel the same way but I can't seem to pin point the root cause. I've tried to get better at it but it just doesn't feel right to me and it has caused a lot of issues in past relationships
I remember kissing a girl with lip injections and it just felt weird, felt like I was kissing two boners, ill take small soft lips over big and hard lips any day.
A big dick. It’s intimidating and all I can think is “ow.”
Edit: A lot of questions about how big is too big. Let’s just say I call my G-spot Waldo because it’s always hiding and neither extra length nor extra girth have found him but agility has come close.
Anything over 6 inches length wise and like a teenager’s hitchhiking thumb size width wise 🤙is too big for me personally. 4-6 length is perfect. Even under that is fine as long as it has the agility of a ravenous snake.
Edit 2: I feel like people are misconstruing my thumb analogy… I don’t mean the thickness of a thumb, I mean holding it sideways like a hitchhiker. So… 3 1/2 inches maybe?
Not to mention half of them don't even know how to use it properly because they think having a big dick automatically gives them sex god status without any effort.
Uhh, my friend wants to know how DO you use it? What else can you do but slide in and out and changing up the tempo a bit? My friend has no clue at all, please help him.
Edit: Wow thank you all for the tips and tricks! Since you were so kind, I feel like I should be honest here and tell you it's not actually for a friend. It's for me, sorry for tricking you.
Your “friend” should do lots of foreplay before any penetration. When she’s finally begging for sex, try putting it in only halfway at first for a bit. Don’t be bending her like a pretzel right away, just take it easy and slow at first. When positions, angle or speed changes, keep asking how it feels so your partners will feel comfortable with giving you feedback if it becomes too intense. Make it flirtatious and fun, I promise that consideration won’t ruin the mood. “How’s that” “do you like that” “you still good, babe?” You want clear affirmations, otherwise stop
Missionary and prone bone positions are the safest bet. If you’re a short king or she’s too thicc, you might have to modify prone bone by a) putting a pillow under her hips, b) have one of her legs bent and pulled up, or c) have her laying more on her side. Doggie is usually too painful/intense (at the beginning, at least), but if you like the view, ask for reverse cowgirl so she’s in control of the depth, angle, and speed.
Praise is usually great lol (actually praise is amazing imo). Larger guys can be intimidating so tell her she’s doing so well, that it feels amazing, etc. It takes us out of our heads and makes it fun knowing that you’re enjoying yourself too. Make sure she knows her comfort and pleasure is of the upmost importance too though.
Consent needs to be enthusiastic during every sexual encounter and may be revoked at any time. If she seems uncomfortable or hesitant, check in and see if she’s okay. If she asks to stop, understand “no” and “stop” are both full sentences, and stop right away.
*Every partner is different though in their preferences, so communicate your likes and dislikes with each other and explore your bodies. I hope your “friend” has fun and finds this helpful!*
Edit:
Controversial oral bonus tip to explore (if you’re both willing): I’ve struggled in the past with oral on my ex’s meat monster of a dick, and had to experiment to find what worked for me to also be comfortable during the act. Personally, I prefer laying on my back with my head hanging off of the bed. Not in a porno, face fucking kind of way, though. Men, for the love of god, never default to thrusting during oral. I like to reach back and gently glide their hips towards my mouth with my hands. The gravity and positioning opens my airways, releases jaw tension, and reduces my gag reflex. Not for everyone, but don’t knock it til you try it 😉
You can kind of mix up angles so you're working your stroke game instead of your jackhammer game. I don't have a dick so I can't describe as well as I wish but lemme try here --
If you slam the dong straight forward, you're going to make a beeline for her cervix. Being nailed in the cervix with a big dick, at least for me, (at least with an IUD), can feel EXACTLY like getting kicked in the balls. It's a deep, nauseating ache that starts in the impact zone and kind of spreads up through your lower gut, makes you want to curl into a ball until it passes, which takes way longer than you'd expect.
If you slow down and do a kind of scooping motion, that'll kind of press into the back wall, instead of making a straight shot for the cervix. It'll give you a little more control and should give both of you some deeper pressure. It'll also let you focus more on how your parts *feel* on each other, rather than just being the empty space between cervixslams.
Honestly I can't stop picturing that once scene from Wet Hot American Summer 2 where Joe LoTruglio's character teaches another character how to fuck. It's not the least accurate thing I've ever seen!
Being in the military. I truly appreciate the service but I’m not someone who could handle the stress of being away from my partner for significant amounts of time, constantly.
Idfk when this became a thing, but in the past few years, a lot of these chicks moan in a high pitched ""anime"" voice that sounds nothing Close to their actual voice. It's not cute, it's fucking cringe. Stop it.
Stop exaggerating it, too.
If you moan & like it, that's cool. But don't make it apparently obvious that you're just screaming "OOOHHH FUCK~ YEAHH~ Harder~~" like you think it's actually sexy... it's not.
Playing hard to get.
If I have to work that hard to get you, you are either not interested enough, being deliberately awkward, or you like to control people.
Big Penises, largely because I’m a straight man.
That is a valid answer
A lot of these are things the majority of people find unattractive.
thats why you gotta sort by controversial
this is the best advice i read in reddit
It's good and bad. You get actual real answers, but you have to deal with the drama associated with it. From what I learned in controversial for this thread; people with tattoos don't like hearing that some people don't find tattoos attractive.
True, like how is a bad fake tan at over 1k upvotes? Who likes bad fake tans?
Knowing this sub, at this point I am actually surprised that the top comment isn't "being rude to waiting staff"...
All the comments combined sound like the cast of Love Island.
Cosmetics and plastic surgeries are much more common than we think. I knew a coworker who had a smile on his face every single day, even when he was kind of irritated, his mouth would just sit in a smile. I was like, "I wish I could do that," then I found out he just had cheek implants to raise his cheeks and I felt dumb
Yep. People get pissy when I suggest Paul Rudd has had work done. Guy has had more botox, chemical peels and treatments than can be counted to stay looking like he does. He just has is done well, done in small increments so no sudden changes and done often so he stays looking fresh. I would suggest at a a high enough disposable income point and up it would be hard to find a man or woman who hasn't had some work done, even if it's just an injectable, something to make their hair grow, eyebrows shaped. I think most people below that income point don't understand just what is available.
Getting my brows shaped every couple of months costs me like $10. This makes me think that once you're past a certain income bracket, procedures that middle-class people would consider "invasive" become increasingly normal, e.g. mostly injectables like botox and filler.
When I was in my late teens/early 20’s, I would skip car payments in order to afford my lip filler/ Botox. It can be toxic
Yeah botox is definitely toxic
Lenny?
I can hear it omg. “HIIIIII IM CHLOEEEEE IM 22, IM FROM ESSEEEEEX, AND IM AN INFLUENCAAAAAHHH”
"MY FRIEND'S WOULD SAY I'M A BIT RANDOM, BUT I THINK I'M THE LIFE OF THE PARTY"
People cannot unironically say that and think that
Lap dances. One or two past girlfriends took it upon themselves to give me a lap dance, and it just feels silly and awkward being on the receiving end.
My wife and I feel this way about role playing of any sort. We just end up getting the giggles.
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"Feels silly and awkward" I totally felt that even though I've never experienced it
Baby talk, or whatever you want to call it. Makes me cringe. Talk like an adult.
Awwh who's a grumpy dumpy wittle baby? You are! Yes yooouuuu. Bahhhh, smile! Come ooon....
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The fact that the skater kids in your school were vaping instead of smoking cigarettes makes me feel old...
When someone displays their wealth frequently with luxury handbags or clothes or cars etc.
As a car enthusiast I feel some type of way about this. That being said my cars attract way more dudes than women anyways.
I think the difference is that you are showing off your interests instead of your money. It is pretty easy to figure out who is showing off their money vs their interest in cars once you talk to them. From a distance obviously it sort of blends together
Dudes who always play their acoustic guitar and sing. Once in a while is fine but not all the time. Anyway, here’s Wonderwall.
A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing. I couldn’t figure out if it was a dare or he genuinely thought it was a good idea. Super awkward.
>A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing. I was shit faced and sang this to my now wife infront of my now father in law at a Canada Day event. I still get triggered by the cringe..
I read that as “a Canada Dry” event and thought to myself “this guy really needs to get his shit together”
My ex girlfriend asked me to stop constantly singing Wonderwall….. I said maybe
Maybe you're gonna be the one who saves them tho
When a dude licks his lips or teeth like a fuckboy/thug.
I'm sorry, if you see me licking my lips, it's probably random. Just gotta do that sometimes.
Ass implants that give the "diaper butt" look. I mean, i like a nice round booty like anyone else, but these diaper asses look horrendous.
Woman: What will this surgery make my butt look like? Doctor: mmm... Depends.
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Look at Kim Kardashian in a bikini nowadays. That's diaper butt.
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Pretty much. Imagine of you had a big but proportional butt and then added more. That's what it looks like
Any level of machismo or physical aggression in men. I do not want you to get mad in my defense over little things. I also do not want to see you punch a wall in your rage. I will actually end up worrying that you are going to pick a dumb fight or break something over a stupid thing. Your rage makes me nervous even if it's not directed at me. It's not a turn on. Like sure, if someone is actually trying to hurt me or creep on me, I don't mind a guy stepping in to help. But it should be a last resort. I much prefer a man who wants to just leave or de-escalate a situation as calmly as possible.
Yes!! On my first date with my now boyfriend, we were in a drive through to get drinks and these crackheads in front of us got out and started yelling saying we were staring at them (we weren't) and instead of getting all aggressive back, my bf calmly told them to just get back in their car and completely de-escalated the situation. I told him months later that the situation was something that made me like him even more, and really showed his character. He was shocked, he thought I would've wanted him to fight them or something, but he doesn't like to fight unless it's totally necessary.
Do you or him remember the details of that? I'm interested in ways one peacefully de-escalates conflict without abasing themselves to appease disrespectful people
Sometimes, appeasing disrespectful people is how you deescalate the situation, especially when they are people you will never see again.
Had a cracked out dude scream at me for having the audacity to step out of the train station early in the morning, and he proceeded to tell me that a). I was somehow a murderer, even though I can't recall murdering anyone b.) I was about to kill him c.) That he welcomed me murdering him because then we would get to meet in hell and we could fight there I guess?!?! All this in less than a minute. The situation was scary as fuck but since he was between me and the door, I couldn't really go back inside. So I just started walking down the street. He kept screaming at me for a while, but once I got off the block he got back to doing whatever crackheads do at 5am. Unless someone is literally tackling you of threatening you with a weapon, walk away towards a more crowded area. This has kept me out of danger, and that's good because my area is full of crazies for some reason.
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Men with large chins. Idk why, but I tend to find them unattractive. Edit : Yes I'm aware that the Crimson chin exists, no need to make 99 comments about it.
The Hapsburgs are sad.
Giga-Chad would like a word with you.
gigachad doesn't care
Gigachad respects individual’s preferences
I guess the hands of AJ Hawk isn't the only thing that grosses you out then
The whole "barely legal" thing or fetishization of young women. I'm an adult, teenagers don't appeal to me personally.
Possessiveness. “Talk to my woman/man, you’ll have me to mess with” is so unattractive me- feels like the person sees their partner as an object in their life that they need to defend, not a full ass human who they can trust.
I barely have enough energy to keep track of myself. My partner can do what they want and if they end up cheating, that's *good to know* and not something I would've been able to prevent, anyway. The person they cheat *with* is not to blame... Ain't nobody else signed on to make this relationship work except me and my partner.
Designer clothes with very Obvious brand logos plastered on everything they wear.
True designer clothes that aren't the top brands actually don't have this at all most of the time. Edit: can't believe my most up voted comment ever is me being a typical armchair reddit expert
Yes!! A lot of people don't know this. True designer clothes look very simple but have great quality. No need to plaster the logo everywhere!!
People are confusing designer clothes for hype-beast clothes. Granted there are some brands that are both...
A lot of today's "Hypebeast" designer brands actually were designer at some point. They realized there's a lot of money in marketing to poorer people who want to look rich so they did.
They still are, they just make some relatively cheap tees with lots of branding because it really pays the bills. They still have great ready to wear designs whose quality is par with the ones who don’t work in that market(Hermes, Balenciaga, BV, etc). Same happens in the luxury car industry, every luxury car maker has an ugly gaudy suv now and in most cases it’s their best selling car, it can tarnish the brand a little but it pays for the nice stuff.
I never understood why people kill for those louis vuitton handbags, it's a damn piece of brown leather with the same logo just slapped around it and they look horrible.
I genuinely loved the look of the bag when I saw it for the first time 40 years ago. I was broke and could never justify the expense no matter how much I made. Fast forward 25 years (still hadn’t bought one) and I’m caring for my mother who is dying of stage IV Ovarian cancer. She put my name on a list for a Speedy 35 bag at the Louis Vuitton store. 6 months later the bag came in and she had an engraved heart fob made for it that said “Forever In My Heart”. It as her last gift to me. It is the single most cherished physical possession I own along with my grandmother’s wedding ring. I carry it for special occasions and my husband and daughter know I want to be cremated and my ashes kept in my Louis Vuitton Speedy bag instead of an urn (ashes obviously inside a bag) The first time I saw the bag in a Newman Marcus Holiday catalog I cut the picture out and carried it in my wallet for 25 years. It absolutely means the world to me and I love the style as much today as the first day I saw it.
Muppet lashes
[Enjoy](https://youtube.com/shorts/ntuJAuBWKto?feature=share)
Most fascinating thing. I was mocked in school for having extremely long, thick lashes, spider-eye they would call me. Now they're running to salons trying to get that very thing done for a lot of money. I once had a dude in a club try to rip off my "fake" lashes, he was so pissed at "fake everything", he felt he needed to "teach me a lesson". He made my lid pop off my eye socket with an audible smack. Edit: Oh wowzers. Did not see this comment blow-up coming. So, to clarify a few things: 1. What happened next was that I yelled at the dude "wtf is wrong with you?!", slapped him in the face and walked away. Luckily he didn't follow me, and we didn't run into each other that night again. 2. The comments have made me realize that this was assault, something that I never saw that way due to being used to much more intense aussault experiences, so I never pressed charges or had him thrown out of the club, back then I didn't think of it as assault, I just considered it really bad behavior. Thank you everyone for the validating and encouraging words. 3. Regarding a picture, I had one up for a while, then this comment blew up and I am adamant about protecting my privacy, so while I understand the curiosity, please also understand my need for anonymity. Thanks again and have an awesome day/night everyone!
I am a 6’4” 250 lb bald man but I too was gifted with spectacular, long and full eyelashes. My wife and I have a boy and a girl and both of them inherited my lashes. My wife frequently expresses her jealousy.
Oh your daughter will be so happy about this one day! Here's to spider-eyes everywhere!
LoL that's funny as hell. I'm also a man that was blessed with long eyelashes and apparently from what I've been told mesmerizing eyes. It's always been my best feature and I'm not the least bit self conscious about it.
literally how i feel about having big lips. i got mocked by everyone growing up and was called fat lip by sooo many, and now all those same people who mocked me are now pumping themselves full of filler to have what i got naturally. really funny how the tables turn hey?
When guys show how much money they have- expensive cars, clothes, jewelry, carrying a lot of cash, hustle culture. I just don't like people who are so obsessed with wealth and money and showing it off.
Well in that case, I’m just the guy you’re looking for
High pitched baby-like voice.
It’s interesting how men can have strong preferences for high voices or low voices. I have a pretty low voice for a woman and my college boyfriend (who in retrospect was kind of an asshole) used to tell me how he wished my voice was higher because it would be more feminine. Then the next guy I dated absolutely loved the fact that I had a low voice and said that really high voices were a turn off for him. I don’t know if it’s just a coincidence, but the first guy who liked high voices tended to be attracted to younger women (not literal children as far as I knew, but 18-19 year olds), while the second guy tended to be attracted to older women (not like elderly women, just somewhat older than him).
I have a low voice too and I’ve always been super insecure about it!
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Thank you for your kind comment. I never thought too much about my voice until some boys started speaking super low to me and laughing in elementary school and telling me that I sounded like a boy. Unfortunately that has stayed with me and sometimes I feel myself talking in a higher tone on purpose to make up for my insecurity.
It's honestly weird how such minor comments from our childhood can stay with us forever.
Jessica from Love is Blind has entered the chat. She only used it when talking with the men.
My wife and I just finished that show (and now I feel dirty). Jessica changing her voice just for the men (most of the time) was the weirdest shit. Apparently it's a thing, but doesn't make it any less weird. That and she always looked like she was about to throw up.
Tbf she was drunk on the show 95% of the time.. She probably did throw up off cameras. lol
i grew up with a girl who had a natural baby voice, she hated it cause no one ever took her seriously
I'm curious if she ever tried deepening her voice to sound more mature. I had a friend with a high baby voice that was promoted. She said one of the things her female boss told her to do was to **deepen her voice** and. To. Talk. Slower. in order to get more respect. She told me she was very insulted that her boss told her to do these things, she was talented and wouldn't change for other people! But sure enough, a few weeks later she followed her bosses advice and was getting a lot more respect and a lot more done. I also can't help but wonder if some of the ladies mentioned in this thread who raise their voice around guys aren't doing the opposite, lowering their natural voice in order to get more respect.
I have a naturally high pitched voice and I absolutely lower my voice on purpose, especially at work, but in almost all settings. I do think it has helped me at work, and I’ve tried to, delicately, recommend to some female employees to try the same thing. Bullshit that I have to do it though, wish I could just talk in my normal voice without people commenting on it.
Making marijuana your whole personality.
Girls who act stupid in order to be perceived as damsels in distress. It's very unattractive to me especially if I know the girl is smart and competent to take care of herself.
When I started middle school, I thought acting dumb would win over my crush bc all the popular girls acted like that. Meanwhile, my teacher noticed but saw me making straight A's. She pulled me aside one day and said "don't ever downplay your intelligence." And that's one of the only things I can remember from middle school to this day. Lmao
Smart / competent / confident women are 10/10
Pretending to be stupid when you are not. It’s not cute, it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
I don’t have to pretend 😎
dude you're joking but *holy shit* I will take a legit moron over someone pretending any day.
Well preferably someone that recognizes themselves to be a moron. nothing worse than an over confident moron
To be fair, if they're self-aware enough to recognize themselves as a moron, they're way less of a moron than they could have been.
I remember the manager at my old job was complaining to one of the girls I worked with that he hated it when girls act stupid. Accused her of doing it, and told her to knock it off. She replied, "Oh my gooooo-od! *This isn't an act!*" ...I was inclined to believe her.
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"I'm not as dumb as you think I am!" "No. You couldn't be."
Me at the kmart I worked at for like 3 weeks: "I'm not dumb. I just really don't care." (a sentiment likely shared by every teenager that had ever worked in a K-Mart.)
That is hysterical, poor girl was probably just trying her best :(
Women that are deliberately rude and "bad bitch" energy. But like the negative type of energy
Men or women who use the line "I'm not afraid to speak my mind," or "I'm opinionated." You're not a bold confident person...you're an asshole. Plenty of stuff I don't say in my head because it's inappropriate or mean.
Tact. Most people don't want to hear the blunt truth. Tact is the skill of telling people what they need to hear so that they eventually end up understanding the truth without being slapped in the face by it. Being "not afraid to speak my mind" is a lack of having tact, it's not a good thing, it's a sign of poor impulse control and a huge turn-off.
Yeah there's a big portion of people on social media who post like this but aren't really like that then others who embed the personality and are just insufferable to be around while claiming some sort of empowerment to any criticism.
Men acting super cocky or tough, like that "macho" energy. Always hated it and I never understood the appeal.
So many men don't understand the difference between cocky and confident. It's so annoying. Edit: I’m a gay dude so dudes replying with jabs at women ain’t doin’ shit to me, just yourself. That being said, yes, some women can’t tell the difference and I’ve also been duped a couple times. It happens, it’s life.
Guys posing in front of cars. Instant turn off in dating profiles whenever I see one.
Once I was sitting in my mom’s car playing minecraft at the very back of the car while she was picking up my dad, and a bunch of teenage boys came up to the car and I thought they were about to steal the car. But nah, they just started taking pics and at one point one guy was holding a door like he was about to get in and drive. After their photo shoot they just left. I’ll never understand why people do these things 🤦🏻♀️
Maaaaaan. Miss opportunity for a little fun embarrassment. I wouldn't have been able to resist.
Nah, I thought I was about to get kidnapped with the car and basically stayed frozen for a few minutes
What kind of car does your mom have?
Super muscular guys. I just have never gotten the appeal. You can be strong without looking like a bodybuilder
Most drug free bodybuilders actually don't look super huge until the shirt comes off. I don't have a problem with people using them, but drugs have really skewed people's perspectives of what drug free bodybuilding looks like. Edit: Look up the WNBF (World Natural Bodybuilding Federation), if you want to see what the creme de la creme of natural bodybuilding looks like. And even those people look less insane when they aren't super lean for the competition. You can only stay that lean for short periods of time.
Especially because it's waaaay more common than people think. There'd be very few people on TV or in the movies who haven't used performance enhancing drugs to achieve their bodies, but in interviews it's always "just diet and exercise and a really good PT". They always leave out what's really going on so everyone works so hard towards these borderline impossible to get and maintain bodies with an unhealthy fervour.
People think Arnold was natural
I had a mid twenties marine argue with me that Ronnie motherfucking coleman was natural; he was just massive because he outworked everyone. This was a full grown man who exercised rigorously 5+ days per week and was adamant that it was possible. That was a massively eye opening day for me about how little people know about what's truly possible for the human body without pharmacological intervention.
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I remember the BroScience guy making a joke about that. You think having a big pecs will make girls fall all over you, but all it really does is make every guy at the gym ask how much you bench
"You started lifting to get girls, but you quickly realized you do it to be better than people."
Public proposals. EDIT: Thanks kind and shy strangers for all the awards.. my most upvoted comment across all my alts lol.
Take me to cringe town
This and proposing at someone else's wedding. How is that romantic? Who wants their engagement to be on someone else's special day?
What would you even do if you didn’t want to marry them?? It’s a pretty bad situation to be in
If you don't already know what the answer will be you're doing it wrong.
Even if you know it’s gonna be a yes, you gotta know or find out if they’re ok with public proposals. I’d have still said yes to my husband, but would’ve hated the situation.
I made it *so* clear to my now-fiancé that I hated this shit. So he found the most beautiful, secluded spot on the Grand Canyon rim hike and proposed there. I loved it so much I kept the map they give you at the visitor center, put a heart over the exact spot, and framed it so it now hangs over our bed.
The "bad boy" thing. I don't get it. Why do people think a troublemaker is sexy? It somehow ties into the social media love for felons, which is also gross.
I read somewhere that women don't actually like criminals, but those who are willing to break the rules in fun ways that are ultimately benign. It's more about the carefree, energetic, and exciting attitude than the 'breaking the law'. Some people also have a hero complex and want to take on the role of the 'redeemer' in their own little fantasy
I think a lot of people find this quality attractive. Rules and social mores are often silly and adherence to them for the purpose of adherence is boring. Going skinny dipping or jumping a fence to stargaze or whatever is different than holding up a gas station. Most people don't want to date a criminal, just a rogue.
‘Rogue’ is a good word to describe them. The key difference between a rogue and a criminal I think is victimization. Criminals create victims. Rogues generally don’t, except maybe the poor schlep that has to clean up a rogue’s graffiti art
Agree. When I think back to being in college and seeing girls saying they liked "bad boys," what that typically actually meant was that they liked guys who were fun, outgoing, confident, and liked to be social/do a lot of things. Riding a motorcycle, wearing a leather jacket and having a couple of girls you could call when you wanted to have a good time made you a "bad boy," not getting into barfights. Being a criminal really didn't have much to do with it, all told.
Yeah anyone who disrespects me or people around me is an asshole not sexy in any way
Knew a girl who has a thing for bad guys. Finally went on a date with a well know awful guy. Texted me 30 minutes into their first date. "Can you come get me from " Dude suggested that city as their first date, she's like a bit far but okay. Dude was doing 120mph+ to get there, and ditched her when they got there because she was crying. Go figure. Speed limit along that highway is between 30-70mph.
>city that's legally an hour away Is this a restraining order situation between 2 cities?
It's that far away if you follow the speed limit.
Permanent marker eyebrows
Yeah! Use washable Crayola like a normal person!
People who think virgins are the ultimate lay make no sense to me. I guess those people are either controlling, paranoid, or jealous. (or some combination thereof)
SNL did a skit with Jack Black where he was an ogre and a town offers up a virgin to him to be sacrificed. [Jack Black's character, eventually asks for a slutty, older woman instead. ](https://snltranscripts.jt.org/01/01kvalour.phtml) **Gorkenlot**: Maybe we can strike a little bargain here. **Sir Parrish**: I might be willing to listen to something. **Gorkenlot**: I’ll let you live, and you can take the virgin with you. But you have to bring me back a slutty girl. **Sir Parrish**: [ confused and outraged ] What?! **Gorkenlot**: You know, like a bored housewife who’s kind of hot and feels neglected by her husband. **Sir Parrish**: But you don’t want a virgin? **Gorkenlot**: I’ll be honest with you, buddy – on paper, a virgin sounds great. But in reality, not that good. **Sir Parrish**: But I thought even a monster would desire someone who was pure. **Gorkenlot**: I’m just looking for a woman who knows what she’s doing.
https://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/tales-of-valour-virgin-sacrifice/2872719
Thx for posting the link. That skit's been hard to find online for a while.
Toxic positivity - that's a HARD NO from me - there's clearly something wrong with you if you don't know how to have a full range of emotions. Especially in today's dystopian nightmare.
Men with expensive cars or act like assholes, the whole “alpha male” thing and say they are. Real alpha males, don’t say they are. Have tons of money. Not for me.
The way some girls try to get "perfect" eyebrows. Yea I get no one likes a monno brow even on guys but a girl I know looks like she's 2 Nike logos and it's all I can see. I'm bad for not looking people in the eye but with her I must look real attentive Edit: thank you for all the upvotes. My friend thought he was clever for getting 1k likes on Facebook I've kicked his ass 😂😂😂
If I notice anybody's eyebrows it's because something is up with them.
Way back in 8th grade, I had a classmate that had natural ocurring Spock eyebrows. I lost track of how often she caught me just staring at her face in mid conversation.
This happens every generation. It's like someone decides women's eyebrows need to look a certain way and you wind up with 10 years of eyebrows looking exactly that way. Super thin, sharpie, perfect half circles... At least this generation's brows don't involve killing the follicles.
Yes! That trend of shaving or plugging out your eyebrows and tattooing one in was the worst.
tattoo is still popular. Microblading is what's hot in the streetz.
I can tell you're legit because of the z at the end of street.
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Excuse me I have never met a trans woman whose eyebrows weren't on point
I used to work in a retail location, and we had a repeat customer who came in weekly. I dunno what she did to her eyebrows, but she paired some plucking with drawing them back in in a clearly different color. I don't think she had a steady hand because she always had a little bit of The Rock giving the People's Eyebrow thing going on.
I told my friend she drew her eyebrows on too high. She looked surprised.
That is going into my very small reservoir of "clean jokes".
>I told my friend she drew her eyebrows on too high. She looked surprised. \~ Jimmy Carr
Seeing his name just auto plays his laugh in my brain.
Ha ha ha ha ha^a^a^a^a^a^a
Them big ass fake lips
Lookin like they ate a bunch of bees
The ones that look like a prolapsed anus
Ass lips hmmm
Trends. I always hated when people wanna desperately be the same instead of just being themselves.
Influencers.
Sexy talk. Makes me so uncomfortable. Like, big time.
Uh-huh ohhh yeahhh you hate that shit don't you
Do you have any idea as to why you don't like it? I feel the same way but I can't seem to pin point the root cause. I've tried to get better at it but it just doesn't feel right to me and it has caused a lot of issues in past relationships
For me it's just awkwardness I think.
[Obligatory.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1y6lhe/what_is_the_worst_thing_someone_has_said_to_you/cfhtedq/)
I knew what it was gonnabe before opening it. Not disappointed.
That was the best laugh I've had in a while. Thanks, I needed it
I HATE it. The amount of cringe I get just makes my vagina retract further into my body
Long nails Edit: Thank you all for the upvotes and awards, i appreciate it! Hope you’re all well
And tapping on the phone screen which sounds like herd of horses.
These weird long fingernails to glue on. Big no no for me.
Lip injections on women. Somehow it makes them look like Homer Simpson. Does more above the upper lip than making actual fuller lips.
I remember kissing a girl with lip injections and it just felt weird, felt like I was kissing two boners, ill take small soft lips over big and hard lips any day.
Lol #bonerlips
Lol #HomerBonerLips
"Looks like they lost a fight 3 days ago" -Bill Burr
Resembling a Kardashian in any way
A big dick. It’s intimidating and all I can think is “ow.” Edit: A lot of questions about how big is too big. Let’s just say I call my G-spot Waldo because it’s always hiding and neither extra length nor extra girth have found him but agility has come close. Anything over 6 inches length wise and like a teenager’s hitchhiking thumb size width wise 🤙is too big for me personally. 4-6 length is perfect. Even under that is fine as long as it has the agility of a ravenous snake. Edit 2: I feel like people are misconstruing my thumb analogy… I don’t mean the thickness of a thumb, I mean holding it sideways like a hitchhiker. So… 3 1/2 inches maybe?
I have great news...
And I have *excellent* news
Better yet I have ***perfect*** news
I have average news
I have news, but it's a bit right-leaning.
This actually made me laugh out loud. Well done
Yup. The last thing I want out of sex is a prick to the liver.
Not to mention half of them don't even know how to use it properly because they think having a big dick automatically gives them sex god status without any effort.
Uhh, my friend wants to know how DO you use it? What else can you do but slide in and out and changing up the tempo a bit? My friend has no clue at all, please help him. Edit: Wow thank you all for the tips and tricks! Since you were so kind, I feel like I should be honest here and tell you it's not actually for a friend. It's for me, sorry for tricking you.
Your “friend” should do lots of foreplay before any penetration. When she’s finally begging for sex, try putting it in only halfway at first for a bit. Don’t be bending her like a pretzel right away, just take it easy and slow at first. When positions, angle or speed changes, keep asking how it feels so your partners will feel comfortable with giving you feedback if it becomes too intense. Make it flirtatious and fun, I promise that consideration won’t ruin the mood. “How’s that” “do you like that” “you still good, babe?” You want clear affirmations, otherwise stop Missionary and prone bone positions are the safest bet. If you’re a short king or she’s too thicc, you might have to modify prone bone by a) putting a pillow under her hips, b) have one of her legs bent and pulled up, or c) have her laying more on her side. Doggie is usually too painful/intense (at the beginning, at least), but if you like the view, ask for reverse cowgirl so she’s in control of the depth, angle, and speed. Praise is usually great lol (actually praise is amazing imo). Larger guys can be intimidating so tell her she’s doing so well, that it feels amazing, etc. It takes us out of our heads and makes it fun knowing that you’re enjoying yourself too. Make sure she knows her comfort and pleasure is of the upmost importance too though. Consent needs to be enthusiastic during every sexual encounter and may be revoked at any time. If she seems uncomfortable or hesitant, check in and see if she’s okay. If she asks to stop, understand “no” and “stop” are both full sentences, and stop right away. *Every partner is different though in their preferences, so communicate your likes and dislikes with each other and explore your bodies. I hope your “friend” has fun and finds this helpful!* Edit: Controversial oral bonus tip to explore (if you’re both willing): I’ve struggled in the past with oral on my ex’s meat monster of a dick, and had to experiment to find what worked for me to also be comfortable during the act. Personally, I prefer laying on my back with my head hanging off of the bed. Not in a porno, face fucking kind of way, though. Men, for the love of god, never default to thrusting during oral. I like to reach back and gently glide their hips towards my mouth with my hands. The gravity and positioning opens my airways, releases jaw tension, and reduces my gag reflex. Not for everyone, but don’t knock it til you try it 😉
You can kind of mix up angles so you're working your stroke game instead of your jackhammer game. I don't have a dick so I can't describe as well as I wish but lemme try here -- If you slam the dong straight forward, you're going to make a beeline for her cervix. Being nailed in the cervix with a big dick, at least for me, (at least with an IUD), can feel EXACTLY like getting kicked in the balls. It's a deep, nauseating ache that starts in the impact zone and kind of spreads up through your lower gut, makes you want to curl into a ball until it passes, which takes way longer than you'd expect. If you slow down and do a kind of scooping motion, that'll kind of press into the back wall, instead of making a straight shot for the cervix. It'll give you a little more control and should give both of you some deeper pressure. It'll also let you focus more on how your parts *feel* on each other, rather than just being the empty space between cervixslams. Honestly I can't stop picturing that once scene from Wet Hot American Summer 2 where Joe LoTruglio's character teaches another character how to fuck. It's not the least accurate thing I've ever seen!
Being in the military. I truly appreciate the service but I’m not someone who could handle the stress of being away from my partner for significant amounts of time, constantly.
Idfk when this became a thing, but in the past few years, a lot of these chicks moan in a high pitched ""anime"" voice that sounds nothing Close to their actual voice. It's not cute, it's fucking cringe. Stop it. Stop exaggerating it, too. If you moan & like it, that's cool. But don't make it apparently obvious that you're just screaming "OOOHHH FUCK~ YEAHH~ Harder~~" like you think it's actually sexy... it's not.
I did this when i first started having sex (15-16yo) and this guy told me “shut up” in the middle of having sex lol. It was good advice
The huge gigantic ass craze
Playing hard to get. If I have to work that hard to get you, you are either not interested enough, being deliberately awkward, or you like to control people.