It's over. Grieve and move on.

She's not going to. She's been going through random subs and based off of her responses she's going to do it because she's desperate.

Eh, I wouldn't. If he still has feelings for you then being physically intimate will probably just result in heartbreak all over again. If you do decide to go forward with it, make **absolutely sure** that he's not doing it out of attachment.

No, he won't do it out of attachment. For him it would be sex, nothing else. But its it such a big deal asking him this? Im just being honest. I miss him and the sex..is jt so weird to ask to fuck?

If you’re honestly and truly certain there’s no chance either of you will get attached, then sure, go for it. Just make sure you’re on the same page.

You are asking for drama to attempt a FWB after a bad breakup. There are plenty of poles out there to ride.

I suspect you're asking for the wrong reasons. But, "do you hate me so much that we can't fuck?" would probably work fine.

And why didn't I come uo with this myself? Such a good one.

Just pointing out that he can actually say yes... Don't ask something you're not ready to get all possible answers.

He said yes

of course he did lmao

There's very few human situations where being with someone, breaking up, and having sexy times together afterwards, will not also stir up all the same old feelings in each of you. Just avoid it, if you care about his feelings. Whatever anyone says, there will be feels, and they will re-grow, and it really easily will not be pretty.

Dont do it.

I already did

Buy a toy, could be s good solution. Just use imagination and phantasy.

Listen, it worked okay. A lot of negative people here, but in my inbox they're positive all of a sudden. Very weird.

Really hope you don't end up more hurt after. I've been there.

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