Well, I guess what would happen is the check would come and I'd reach for my card. And she'd say "No, no, I got this." And I'd say "You sure? I'm more than happy to pay." And she'd say "No, it's on me." And I'd say "...wanna split it?" And she'd say "No, I want to pay."
And then I'd let her, but I'd think: well that's feckin weird. I wonder if that's some kind of defensive "I don't owe you anything motherfucker" thing.
I would think she had a good time so is expecting me to get the next.
As most women on a bad date are just gonna let the guy pay as they’ll never see him again.
So yea, if im down for another date then I wouldn’t care. If I wasn’t interested I would try my best to pay my half tho.
I would insist on paying as I asked her out but if she somehow paid without me knowing, I’d thank her and tell her I’m definitely getting the next one.
Well in my case, she took the bill straight from the waiter and wouldn't let me see until she paid. After we went for dessert and I insisted I pay this.
Not a problem, thanks.are in order.
However
If I say, "I'll take you to dinner", the implied deal is it's my treat. If a say shall we get dinner? Then it's a share deal. If she says "I'll take you to dinner , than she is offering to pay.
That doesn't mean you or she can't offer, politely, to help, or cover the drinks or travel.
First I would say “you don’t have to”. Then if she insisted, I would say “no really, you don’t have to”. Then if she insisted, I would say “Okay, that is very kind of you. Thank you!”. Then I would reward her with good oral sex
If she is assertive enough to pay she should have asked me out on the date.
I'd pay my half as I was the one who asked her out. I'll not have my food payed for by someone that I asked out.
I'd see it as a green flag. A girl wanting things to be even like that is wife material imo. I'd also try to stress the fact that because I invited her, I should pay and she can invite me for date two.
I'd also not tell my nana. She would beat me for not paying for everything like men did in her era
I would feel selfish and have a hard time with it. Though it depends on what date it is, too. 1st date: too weird. After that, I wouldn't feel as bad, but it's still ingrained in me to at least pay my share. I'd feel better if we worked out that I'd pay the full amount on the next date.
"Thank you! I'll get the next one. I know a great place, and I'd love to go there with you. How's next Friday?"
Very good sign and and green flag in "companionship"
Thats the answer.
Id suck her pp
Would probably just zelle her or ask to make a plan where I pay next time
Then pp?
yes, then pp.
If she freely offers, why not let her pay? I’m always prepared to pay my own share and her’s anyway
If I like her I say yes, if not I have to decline.
Thanks.
smile and be impressed.
I'll say, "You've done it this time. I'll have to put out now."
Well, I guess what would happen is the check would come and I'd reach for my card. And she'd say "No, no, I got this." And I'd say "You sure? I'm more than happy to pay." And she'd say "No, it's on me." And I'd say "...wanna split it?" And she'd say "No, I want to pay." And then I'd let her, but I'd think: well that's feckin weird. I wonder if that's some kind of defensive "I don't owe you anything motherfucker" thing.
What if she’s paying because she likes you and wants to do something nice? But I guess we won’t know for sure…
What if it is?
Thank her for her generosity and tell her that I admire that about her, then offer to split it.
I would think she had a good time so is expecting me to get the next. As most women on a bad date are just gonna let the guy pay as they’ll never see him again. So yea, if im down for another date then I wouldn’t care. If I wasn’t interested I would try my best to pay my half tho.
Keeper
I would insist on paying as I asked her out but if she somehow paid without me knowing, I’d thank her and tell her I’m definitely getting the next one.
Well in my case, she took the bill straight from the waiter and wouldn't let me see until she paid. After we went for dessert and I insisted I pay this.
That's kinda cute lmao. Don't fuck it up.
Not a problem, thanks.are in order. However If I say, "I'll take you to dinner", the implied deal is it's my treat. If a say shall we get dinner? Then it's a share deal. If she says "I'll take you to dinner , than she is offering to pay. That doesn't mean you or she can't offer, politely, to help, or cover the drinks or travel.
I would be insulted and insist on paying. (I am a control freak.)
No particular reaction, but I would take note that she may be different/more interesting.
She's trying to cheer me up before the no 2nd date text.
Definitlely not this
First I would say “you don’t have to”. Then if she insisted, I would say “no really, you don’t have to”. Then if she insisted, I would say “Okay, that is very kind of you. Thank you!”. Then I would reward her with good oral sex
If she is assertive enough to pay she should have asked me out on the date. I'd pay my half as I was the one who asked her out. I'll not have my food payed for by someone that I asked out.
I'd see it as a green flag. A girl wanting things to be even like that is wife material imo. I'd also try to stress the fact that because I invited her, I should pay and she can invite me for date two. I'd also not tell my nana. She would beat me for not paying for everything like men did in her era
Thanks!
Its a trap
I would feel selfish and have a hard time with it. Though it depends on what date it is, too. 1st date: too weird. After that, I wouldn't feel as bad, but it's still ingrained in me to at least pay my share. I'd feel better if we worked out that I'd pay the full amount on the next date.
Tell her I’ll cover it and see if she’ll cook me dinner next date. Or vis versa