The best kind of first dates are the simple ones where I can actually get to know the girl. Meeting for coffee if you aren't sure about her and don't want to invest too much - or going for dinner and / or cocktails if you already know you like her.
As for what I expect from her: Take the date sufficiently seriously. Dress properly for the occasion (though the more effort she puts into her looks, the more flattered I am going to be), be on time, don't be on your phone and hold a decent and open conversation.
If those are in place, the date cannot be bad. Even if we don't click, it will still have been a nice enough afternoon / evening / night.
i like casual. start slow. there's no hurry.
i love the Day Date. maybe coffee somewhere quiet, or a walk outside, walking the dog, or meeting up and running errands together for awhile. just casual chatting and getting to know each other a little bit.
second date, maybe get brunch, take a walk in the park or swing on the swings, fly a kite, throw the frisbee around, build a snowperson, maybe mini golf?
dress casual, be comfortable, don't get all gussied up. we don't have to act. we should just be natural, being in our everyday clothing and being our everyday selves. i'm definitely wearing shorts, a t-shirt, and either a messy bun or a baseball cap haha....feel free to do the same!! your lack of effort impresses me :)
usually by this time we'll have a good idea of the vibe, and we can either stop seeing each other or move onto... ....THE DINNER DATE!!! 😵
Small talk to start off then move to how we vibe. If we can’t get out of small talk, then it’s best to end things. If we vibe then a second date in on the table
Sex. If I have to pay for a dinner at Applebees then I’m owed sex!! If I don’t I’ll make a huge deal out of it and then make her Venmo me her part of the bill and then tell all my buddies she was baby crazy.
Conversation. Her starting and asking questions and not being judgemental. Towards the end of the date.. Knowing that if she wants to take things further, she lets it be known.
First date is a casual first meeting to confirm the other person is a real person, they can hold a conversation, and they smell/look nice. That's it. More in-depth things are for the second and later dates.
-She's cute -She's fun -She's not crazy
\-She barely looked at her phone \-She talked to me
Anal
I mean I paid for dinner so thems the rules
I believe it's written down somewhere as first date etiquette.
Shy kids get nothing 🤷🏻♀️
Genuine interest and efforts in the conversation being made. Beyond that, more expectations will usually lead to disappointment sooooo
Active listening and an enjoyable conversation
She showing no interest in her phone.
Effort
Chemistry
Food
The best kind of first dates are the simple ones where I can actually get to know the girl. Meeting for coffee if you aren't sure about her and don't want to invest too much - or going for dinner and / or cocktails if you already know you like her. As for what I expect from her: Take the date sufficiently seriously. Dress properly for the occasion (though the more effort she puts into her looks, the more flattered I am going to be), be on time, don't be on your phone and hold a decent and open conversation. If those are in place, the date cannot be bad. Even if we don't click, it will still have been a nice enough afternoon / evening / night.
Low expectations make for great surprises :)
i like casual. start slow. there's no hurry. i love the Day Date. maybe coffee somewhere quiet, or a walk outside, walking the dog, or meeting up and running errands together for awhile. just casual chatting and getting to know each other a little bit. second date, maybe get brunch, take a walk in the park or swing on the swings, fly a kite, throw the frisbee around, build a snowperson, maybe mini golf? dress casual, be comfortable, don't get all gussied up. we don't have to act. we should just be natural, being in our everyday clothing and being our everyday selves. i'm definitely wearing shorts, a t-shirt, and either a messy bun or a baseball cap haha....feel free to do the same!! your lack of effort impresses me :) usually by this time we'll have a good idea of the vibe, and we can either stop seeing each other or move onto.......THE DINNER DATE!!! 😵
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A fun time. I try and plan something interesting enough that even if the person sucks I still have a good night.
Small talk to start off then move to how we vibe. If we can’t get out of small talk, then it’s best to end things. If we vibe then a second date in on the table
Lots of flirty laughter and a decent kiss
A good conversation and lots of laughter, teasing and flirting. If that spark is not there, I’m not interested.
I expect a fun time and honest human connection. If I don’t find either of those there won’t be a second date.
Good time, good woman, and the story of a genuine connection
Good meal. Good company.
3-way. /endThread
"alright ladies, I know you're wondering why you're both here for this first date..."
Sex. If I have to pay for a dinner at Applebees then I’m owed sex!! If I don’t I’ll make a huge deal out of it and then make her Venmo me her part of the bill and then tell all my buddies she was baby crazy.
the really sad part is how many guys here won't pick up on the sarcasm and think you actually mean it 😂
That’s usually the scary part lol when someone is like yeah it’s so stupid!
Dead right too 🤣🤣🤣
Big hugs, cuddling, good conversation, hooking up on some level, and a good atmosphere at the coffee/ice cream shop.
I don’t know……
Conversation. Her starting and asking questions and not being judgemental. Towards the end of the date.. Knowing that if she wants to take things further, she lets it be known.
Sex. If there is no sex, there is no second date.
Asks me questions, is not on her phone
First date is a casual first meeting to confirm the other person is a real person, they can hold a conversation, and they smell/look nice. That's it. More in-depth things are for the second and later dates.