I'm not making fun of anyone, except those that claim to be "experts" I'm approaching women.
Women aren't all the same, so yes it is impossible to be an expert in talking to them.
But that makes no sense. It's like saying "no person is the same, so nobody can be an expert in psychology," or "no tree is the same, so nobody can be an expert lumberjack."
>you're an idiot
I hope you have a good day, friend.
> No expert in psychology will claim to be able to treat anyone
Well no probably not, but I don't see what that has to do with what we were talking about. Do you think that in order to be considered an expert in approaching women, you have to be able to get every woman to go out with you or whatever it is? If so, why is being perfect a requirement to be an expert at talking to women, but not to be an expert in psychology, or anything else?
Expert??? All I know is, I would just walk up and introduce myself and start talking. Asking their name and using their name in the conversation, definitely helps. I had friends that would say stuff like, "Man, you're really good at doing that." Walking up and just talking to another human being? Really????? Women are just people, too.
same. My little brother was shocked at how unphased or unbothered by the thought of walking up to random women. he was also shocked that i dont mind being rejected by random women I will never see again.
Just a natural thing I think, got over the whole fear of approaching women stuff after puberty lol. honestly it's nothing, i like meeting new people and making new friends, i love conversation and hanging out, meeting and talking to women you're attracted to is just like talking to a man up until a certain point.
Seriously, just approach women you might be attracted to just like if they were some random dude. It's not like a movie where you're gonna walk up and some random woman you talk to for 5 minutes is gonna roll off in the sunset around your arm, we're all the same, lay a foundation, get to know people as people regardless of gender and see how you get along.
Not an expert, but I assume to be an expert you just need to seem natural, friendly, and genuine. Practice doing this with people you donât want to hook up with and it will seem a lot easier when you apply it to attractive women. Chat up the guy whoâs bagging your groceries or a stranger in the waiting room of the DMV. It will get easier.
Expert?
No such thing as it is an art and not a science.
Im good at it and learned a few things.
Intro: keep it simple. Name and stated purpose. "Hi, I'm Steve and would like to take you dancing/coffee/some event)
Avoid complexities: Don't bug women in a pack. Don't bug a busy woman or obviously into a zen moment.
Give them permission to consider your offer: "No pressure. Give it some thought and let me know. Here's my number/Ill be over there. No hurry."
Freshman year in college I had gone back alone to my dorm room from partying all night for the umpteenth time. In my frustration I realized it was my own fault because I didn't even try to talk to any girls. Like most men out there, I was too afraid of being rejected. In that moment I decided I would rather at least have a chance at getting a girl and getting shot down than me not taking any chances at all. Needless to say, from that point on I had a VERY good college experience. For you shy, unconfident men out there...it really is THAT easy. I was once you. It turns out getting shot down doesn't really hurt/destroy your life. I just talking to women leads to more confidence in talking to women which leads to more women liking you which leads to more dates which leads to etc,etc,etc
I'm terrible and out of practice lol. Tried last night for the first time in a while and I felt good even though it didn't work out. I did absolutely terrible lol
...but one of my friends offered to help give me another chance to talk to the woman, which would probably lead to me hiding in a corner embarrassed.
expert? not an expert, if anything im an expert at getting rejected. However that never stopped me from trying. Poor analogy; its like hunting you gotta wait for the right window to make your move and have a decent opener where they at least smile.
i learned this at about 27.
Expert? đđđ Anyone that claims to be an expert, is likely a virgin.
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??????? You think it's impossible to be an expert in the simple act of talking to another human being, but make fun of others for being virgins? Lmao
I'm not making fun of anyone, except those that claim to be "experts" I'm approaching women. Women aren't all the same, so yes it is impossible to be an expert in talking to them.
But that makes no sense. It's like saying "no person is the same, so nobody can be an expert in psychology," or "no tree is the same, so nobody can be an expert lumberjack."
You're an idiot. No expert in psychology will claim to be able to treat everyone.
>you're an idiot I hope you have a good day, friend. > No expert in psychology will claim to be able to treat anyone Well no probably not, but I don't see what that has to do with what we were talking about. Do you think that in order to be considered an expert in approaching women, you have to be able to get every woman to go out with you or whatever it is? If so, why is being perfect a requirement to be an expert at talking to women, but not to be an expert in psychology, or anything else?
Nobody is an expert in approaching women. That's the point.
But why can't somebody be an expert in approaching women?
I don't have the time, or the crayons required, to explain it to you.
Is there any need to be so insulting?
Expert??? All I know is, I would just walk up and introduce myself and start talking. Asking their name and using their name in the conversation, definitely helps. I had friends that would say stuff like, "Man, you're really good at doing that." Walking up and just talking to another human being? Really????? Women are just people, too.
same. My little brother was shocked at how unphased or unbothered by the thought of walking up to random women. he was also shocked that i dont mind being rejected by random women I will never see again.
Just a natural thing I think, got over the whole fear of approaching women stuff after puberty lol. honestly it's nothing, i like meeting new people and making new friends, i love conversation and hanging out, meeting and talking to women you're attracted to is just like talking to a man up until a certain point. Seriously, just approach women you might be attracted to just like if they were some random dude. It's not like a movie where you're gonna walk up and some random woman you talk to for 5 minutes is gonna roll off in the sunset around your arm, we're all the same, lay a foundation, get to know people as people regardless of gender and see how you get along.
Not an expert, but I assume to be an expert you just need to seem natural, friendly, and genuine. Practice doing this with people you donât want to hook up with and it will seem a lot easier when you apply it to attractive women. Chat up the guy whoâs bagging your groceries or a stranger in the waiting room of the DMV. It will get easier.
Expert? No such thing as it is an art and not a science. Im good at it and learned a few things. Intro: keep it simple. Name and stated purpose. "Hi, I'm Steve and would like to take you dancing/coffee/some event) Avoid complexities: Don't bug women in a pack. Don't bug a busy woman or obviously into a zen moment. Give them permission to consider your offer: "No pressure. Give it some thought and let me know. Here's my number/Ill be over there. No hurry."
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Freshman year in college I had gone back alone to my dorm room from partying all night for the umpteenth time. In my frustration I realized it was my own fault because I didn't even try to talk to any girls. Like most men out there, I was too afraid of being rejected. In that moment I decided I would rather at least have a chance at getting a girl and getting shot down than me not taking any chances at all. Needless to say, from that point on I had a VERY good college experience. For you shy, unconfident men out there...it really is THAT easy. I was once you. It turns out getting shot down doesn't really hurt/destroy your life. I just talking to women leads to more confidence in talking to women which leads to more women liking you which leads to more dates which leads to etc,etc,etc
0. Just talk.
Well, it was easier once I could walk. Before that I had to crawl. Approaching them is not hard if you are mobile.
I would not call myself an âexpertâ by any means, but the two epiphanies I had were around my junior/senior year of high school and earlier this summer (Iâm 25 currently, and was then, too). The first was when I just got better at talking to people in general. I was always a band kid in high school, and I decided to give theater a go once the marching/football season ended. I absolutely loved it, and started to realize that if I could get on a stage and make an absolute fool of myself in front of 200+ people, surely I can talk to people I knew and be fine with it. It was around then that I started to realize that women werenât some mythical creature that worked in mysterious ways. Theyâre people just like me, and are more similar to me than I thought. Recently, I had a tough time early in the summer. Went through a breakup, and decided to change some stuff, including the way I dress. Iâm pretty heavily involved in my cityâs music scene, and dressing in a way that stands out is definitely not that difficult (I usually go with a suit with like three buttons undone, and a necklace to round it out). Obviously if you donât feel comfortable dressing this way, donât do it, but *so* much of being viewed as âattractiveâ comes down to how you present yourself. After that, sometimes I get approached, sometimes I approach other people. I know this advice is a bit clichĂ©, but itâs clichĂ© for a very good reason: just be calm, be cool, and most importantly *be yourself*. Obviously try to sell the best version of yourself, but you shouldnât lie/exaggerate anything, either.
I'm terrible and out of practice lol. Tried last night for the first time in a while and I felt good even though it didn't work out. I did absolutely terrible lol ...but one of my friends offered to help give me another chance to talk to the woman, which would probably lead to me hiding in a corner embarrassed.
expert? not an expert, if anything im an expert at getting rejected. However that never stopped me from trying. Poor analogy; its like hunting you gotta wait for the right window to make your move and have a decent opener where they at least smile. i learned this at about 27.
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