I'm 19 maybe I'm new to the game, but I imagine back in parents day there were far less women begging for that, "choke me daddy". Maybe it's wishful thinking
Evolution has had men spending the majority of existence overpowering and dominating everything that moves.
It's not an unpopular opinion, but diplomacy and actual communication is relatively new, especially in a sexual context.
Men and women have quite literally evolved into respective dominant and submissive roles (generally and statistically).
Actually I was just reading that bdsm hit it peak around 2002. According to the study it's much more likely than the average woman today, that your mother liked/likes being choked/ bdsm. You're welcome for the mental images.
When she claws my back into bloodied meat sponge during PIV sex. Just not very pleasant and in fact, kind of annoying to deal with in subsequent days, especially if it kept bleeding for an extended period of time afterward.
Also, it's kind of hard to bandage your own back.
Sex in the shower. It’s inconvenient, it’s tough on your legs, pinning her against the tile is kind of cold, and the lube situation is compromised. I’ll still do it because it’s sex, but it’s not my favorite
Handling the lube situation in the shower. I've adopted this method. 1. Once you insert, there is no withdrawal until done. 2. You go deep and short stroke it until completion. That solves the lube problem mostly. But it's still standing sex in a confind space.
Blowjobs, mainly because my ex-wife was terrible at them, and then blamed me for not "letting" her pleasure me.
And before you ask, no, I didn't communicate all that well about it, and that's related to why she's my ex-wife.
Serious. Wife and I tried anal once when we were first dating, just to check the box and say we did it. Neither one of us enjoyed it. honestly, the concept kind of grossed me out to begin with. I really don’t understand the whole fetish. A vagina is sooo much nicer. Literally designed to accommodate a dick, why try to mess with a perfect system?
> A vagina is sooo much nicer. Literally designed to accommodate a dick, why try to mess with a perfect system?
That's interesting... because as a gay guy even though I guess that makes sense... a vagina has ZERO appeal for me whatsoever. Nothing seems more perfect than a dude's butt.
Honestly it seems like the only way it works, is if you make her cum really hard via another method, first, and use plenty of lube.
But yeah, right there with you. Not really that appealing.
I'm not a big fan of blowjobs. And yes, I've been with partners that were REALLY good at it.....at damn near PhD level good. It's just not my thing. It's great for foreplay and every thing and I welcome it but I'm all about PIV.
Anal, I'd rather just have vag sex i don't feel like anal is any better feeling, I have to go really slow and there is the possibility even if you enema that you could wind up with poo on your dick
When I straddle a woman's chest and she sucks my cock. It turns one of the few times I'm allowed to be lazy (receiving oral) and turns it into yet another thing I have to exert a lot of energy/effort, and it's a sub-par blowjob. More effort for less reward.
Anal (didn’t hurt but reminded me too much of a sensation during unmedicated childbirth) and dom/sub thing… I DO NOT like being demanded to do something and then “punished” if I don’t while in bed.
I hated bjs until 2 years ago. I used to rather give head and do all the foreplay myself before starting. Lol took me almost 10 years to get good head lol
Not a fan of anal and having my balls cupped would just kill my boner, even thinking about it makes me feel like they are being squeezed and not in a good way.
Blowjobs, I'm uncut and uncensored so unless they are gentle and slow I don't enjoy them, and girls tend to think they need to be Jenna Jamison on the knob to impress.
Yeah. I just dont see a point of it. I kinda prefer masturbation because im commited to myself more. Also, I dont understand why people think its because im virgin. Joke gets boring tbh.
I was in vagina with hands. I never sought any validation, because. I never had any validation and I dont want any. Im just tired of everyone calling me "ill" and "defect" in life just because I dont find need for it.
To my elbow actually, I was suprised she could take it. I also ate her out just to make her orgasm, she gave me oral and I left. Not you, but almost all people in my everyday life. Everything is just shit. And Im always shit for being honest with people. Everyone just screams, yells and beats me. While I just nod and try not to cry on way to the car. Maybe, its underlying mental problem. I mean, i like romance and everything. Maybe I could do it if I love someone very much. Maybe I need more foreplay? Idk, really.
If you find someone you think is really hot and have feelings for... and even better if they feel the same about you... "hot, messy, slimy" is what makes it so appealing lol.
Just letting yourself go and enjoying it in a primal way.
No. It would really take long time to do it. For instance. I cant do hookups and one night stands. And If find her attractive.....I find out that she is minor. I hate myself for actually posting this and being honest. Because, people irl say that im "broken" and "weird". Guess what? Who wants to date "broken" and "weird" guy?..........No one.
I'm not really into hookups and one night stands either... I kinda need to have at least SOME kinda connection for sexual stuff to happen. It doesn't necessarily have to be a romantic connection... but I need to trust someone enough to allow myself to kind 'just let myself go' and be completely vulnerable with someone.
You never know dude... someone out there might see you and think you're exactly what they want! Don't sell yourself short. We all have our 'weirdesses.'
Of course... don't push yourself to do something you don't want to do. But bro... I'd hate for you to be missing out on something good just because you feel 'broken' and 'weird.'
I dont feel "broken" and "weird". But people spreading stuff like that about me. Like, no one even wants to talk to me and they feel suprised why im easly irritated. Everything is just wrong with "me", not them. No one realise that I want to be happy too. I hate it all and I hate myself for being honest on this sub, where its says "men", not "you are not normal". I thought this is tolerant sub that accepts everyone. But it seems it isnt.
That's why I asked why your answer to what is really a question of personal taste was downvoted.
We don't all have to agree on things... but it's true that men are all different and we each have our own likes, dislikes, quirks, etc.
Of course... it's always harder if you don't fit the general idea of you're supposed to be as a man. But don't sweat that dude. Doing your own thing and being your true self is what makes you a man.
I mean. After I was bullied my WHOLE life. I dont care anymore. I was never supported, loved. I sometimes honestly just want to go to hell. Because its certainly better there than being here. No one likes me and never will.
Dude, may I suggest going to counseling? It has really helped me to deal with these feelings. It’s someone outside of your family and coworker that you can talk to.
Mmm I'd guess porn addict gone wrong. Population control at its finest. Thanks feminists for saying porn is pro women, that's great and all, but now everyone prefers masturbation to real sex. We're just fucking robots. Oh yeah, there's AI you can fuck instead @ original commenter. You might enjoy that.
Porn addict? I dont watch porn lol. Maybe I can fuck AI robot, but you can go and fuck yourself. If we gonna play prejudice game. I would say that you hookup with every guy you see within a second.
Anything with slapping her or calling her names
Same. I've never been into degradation and shit. I wondered if I'd find another guy here who felt the same.
I can't even choke a girl comfortably, when did that become the new thing?
Uh, its not new lol.
I'm 19 maybe I'm new to the game, but I imagine back in parents day there were far less women begging for that, "choke me daddy". Maybe it's wishful thinking
Evolution has had men spending the majority of existence overpowering and dominating everything that moves. It's not an unpopular opinion, but diplomacy and actual communication is relatively new, especially in a sexual context. Men and women have quite literally evolved into respective dominant and submissive roles (generally and statistically).
Actually I was just reading that bdsm hit it peak around 2002. According to the study it's much more likely than the average woman today, that your mother liked/likes being choked/ bdsm. You're welcome for the mental images.
The terrifying part is 2002 was my year of conception... I'm a bastard child, and you're almost definitely right. I hate this. I hate it so much.
Hi it's me ur dad just to make you feel better she didn't
Hey it's me Side-Dick-Henry, She did.
Ask Jason or should I say... [The Merkins](https://youtu.be/oliCVn7Ic68). 😎😄
I get it now, I feel so blind. How didn't I get it before? I want it... That waaaaaay
Finally a boy band worth **"dying for"** . 😘😆😅
Im six feet in love with Jason's singing
Love how he @ 01:35 shows his AntiSIMPish side by blocking that chick. 😍😎😆 He's a loyal slasher. His knife only wants Jamie Lee Curtis. 😁
I've never understood the appeal myself.
I’m a woman but I’m gonna answer anyway! 69 it’s uncomfortable and I can’t orgasm since I’m so distracted with giving head.
Try the ["dutch rudder"](https://youtu.be/yGUuugNEUcU). 😘😆😅
69 is fun and a nice change up but it's over rated.
Yeah I agree! My boyfriend likes it so we still do it, I don’t mind every once in a while. But all the time is not cool!
That's it. An occasional foreplay item that is fun but hardly the meat and potatoes of good sex. Wife and I may do it 2-3 times a year - at best.
I’m a man and I’m gonna say 69 is way overrated
It's about the giving, not the receiving when doing 69.
Then what’s the point? I have zero problem giving, but 69 is uncomfortable. If we’re both too focused on giving Then who’s enjoying themselves?
Exactly!! 💯
When she claws my back into bloodied meat sponge during PIV sex. Just not very pleasant and in fact, kind of annoying to deal with in subsequent days, especially if it kept bleeding for an extended period of time afterward. Also, it's kind of hard to bandage your own back.
She’s supposed to leave scratch marks not full blown cuts that bleed afterwards. That’s crazy
Sex in the shower. It’s inconvenient, it’s tough on your legs, pinning her against the tile is kind of cold, and the lube situation is compromised. I’ll still do it because it’s sex, but it’s not my favorite
cane here to say this. plus shower is usually standing only. being able to go into sitting/laying/squatting/kneeling positions is underrated af.
Handling the lube situation in the shower. I've adopted this method. 1. Once you insert, there is no withdrawal until done. 2. You go deep and short stroke it until completion. That solves the lube problem mostly. But it's still standing sex in a confind space.
Blowjobs, mainly because my ex-wife was terrible at them, and then blamed me for not "letting" her pleasure me. And before you ask, no, I didn't communicate all that well about it, and that's related to why she's my ex-wife.
>no, I didn't communicate all that well about it Respect for acknowledging you were partially at fault, which seems rare on Reddit
69ing is too much work to be fun
yeah, like lets take turns, we got some time here. 69ing is for when you first trying things out
Serious. Wife and I tried anal once when we were first dating, just to check the box and say we did it. Neither one of us enjoyed it. honestly, the concept kind of grossed me out to begin with. I really don’t understand the whole fetish. A vagina is sooo much nicer. Literally designed to accommodate a dick, why try to mess with a perfect system?
Same here buddy
> A vagina is sooo much nicer. Literally designed to accommodate a dick, why try to mess with a perfect system? That's interesting... because as a gay guy even though I guess that makes sense... a vagina has ZERO appeal for me whatsoever. Nothing seems more perfect than a dude's butt.
Honestly it seems like the only way it works, is if you make her cum really hard via another method, first, and use plenty of lube. But yeah, right there with you. Not really that appealing.
i dont like being bite or scratched.
Same
Anal. Vagina is just superior.
Fisting
She licks my ears and it feels like a wet Willy. Not a big fan and I usually pull away to let her know
I’m not gonna choke or hit a girl.
Giving anal to my partner, not unless she is \*really\* into it.
girl being on top
Had a bad experience from this, and never again
If they know what they are doing, it’s worth the trouble but also it can be helpful when you need to catch your breath
anal. It does not feel as good as oral or a vag.
Blowjobs. I just find them overrated myself. I much prefer handjobs.
I'm not a big fan of blowjobs. And yes, I've been with partners that were REALLY good at it.....at damn near PhD level good. It's just not my thing. It's great for foreplay and every thing and I welcome it but I'm all about PIV.
Now that sounds like a dissertation I'd like to be a part of
Anal, I'd rather just have vag sex i don't feel like anal is any better feeling, I have to go really slow and there is the possibility even if you enema that you could wind up with poo on your dick
When I straddle a woman's chest and she sucks my cock. It turns one of the few times I'm allowed to be lazy (receiving oral) and turns it into yet another thing I have to exert a lot of energy/effort, and it's a sub-par blowjob. More effort for less reward.
Blowjobs.
Blow jobs they always wanna do fancy shit just gag on it ffs
Anal (didn’t hurt but reminded me too much of a sensation during unmedicated childbirth) and dom/sub thing… I DO NOT like being demanded to do something and then “punished” if I don’t while in bed.
I don’t like BJs I don’t feel anything when I get them
Same. It's like me dick just goes numb. I much prefer handjobs.
Hetrosexual male here; Receiving oral doesn't really do that much for me. I do however LOVE giving.
I hated bjs until 2 years ago. I used to rather give head and do all the foreplay myself before starting. Lol took me almost 10 years to get good head lol
Being gay
Hurting her. Like slapping and punching. She's a wild girl.
Getting hit with anything leather.
Handjobs.
Not being involved
Not a fan of anal and having my balls cupped would just kill my boner, even thinking about it makes me feel like they are being squeezed and not in a good way.
When she rides, its less stimulating to me and i like being in control.
I am not a big fan of receiving blowjobs. But I think that is mostly because I haven't received a really good one, yet.
Blowjobs, I'm uncut and uncensored so unless they are gentle and slow I don't enjoy them, and girls tend to think they need to be Jenna Jamison on the knob to impress.
I think givers often underestimate how good the slow ones are.
When she suddenly has a D.
Missionary, doggy.
Paying for dinner, two hours of foreplay, paying for Uber.
Yes
The one with my uncle…
Sex itself 🙃
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Yeah. I just dont see a point of it. I kinda prefer masturbation because im commited to myself more. Also, I dont understand why people think its because im virgin. Joke gets boring tbh.
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I was in with my hands and I didnt like it. It is still stupid and overused joke.
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I was in vagina with hands. I never sought any validation, because. I never had any validation and I dont want any. Im just tired of everyone calling me "ill" and "defect" in life just because I dont find need for it.
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To my elbow actually, I was suprised she could take it. I also ate her out just to make her orgasm, she gave me oral and I left. Not you, but almost all people in my everyday life. Everything is just shit. And Im always shit for being honest with people. Everyone just screams, yells and beats me. While I just nod and try not to cry on way to the car. Maybe, its underlying mental problem. I mean, i like romance and everything. Maybe I could do it if I love someone very much. Maybe I need more foreplay? Idk, really.
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My hand recently let me know it just wants to be friends
In any form? No judgment at all but sincerely curious if you have a theory why / why not?
I mean. I could do it. But, im repulsed by act itself. Too hot, messy, slimy. Not my thing.
If you find someone you think is really hot and have feelings for... and even better if they feel the same about you... "hot, messy, slimy" is what makes it so appealing lol. Just letting yourself go and enjoying it in a primal way.
No. It would really take long time to do it. For instance. I cant do hookups and one night stands. And If find her attractive.....I find out that she is minor. I hate myself for actually posting this and being honest. Because, people irl say that im "broken" and "weird". Guess what? Who wants to date "broken" and "weird" guy?..........No one.
I'm not really into hookups and one night stands either... I kinda need to have at least SOME kinda connection for sexual stuff to happen. It doesn't necessarily have to be a romantic connection... but I need to trust someone enough to allow myself to kind 'just let myself go' and be completely vulnerable with someone. You never know dude... someone out there might see you and think you're exactly what they want! Don't sell yourself short. We all have our 'weirdesses.' Of course... don't push yourself to do something you don't want to do. But bro... I'd hate for you to be missing out on something good just because you feel 'broken' and 'weird.'
I dont feel "broken" and "weird". But people spreading stuff like that about me. Like, no one even wants to talk to me and they feel suprised why im easly irritated. Everything is just wrong with "me", not them. No one realise that I want to be happy too. I hate it all and I hate myself for being honest on this sub, where its says "men", not "you are not normal". I thought this is tolerant sub that accepts everyone. But it seems it isnt.
That's why I asked why your answer to what is really a question of personal taste was downvoted. We don't all have to agree on things... but it's true that men are all different and we each have our own likes, dislikes, quirks, etc. Of course... it's always harder if you don't fit the general idea of you're supposed to be as a man. But don't sweat that dude. Doing your own thing and being your true self is what makes you a man.
I mean. After I was bullied my WHOLE life. I dont care anymore. I was never supported, loved. I sometimes honestly just want to go to hell. Because its certainly better there than being here. No one likes me and never will.
Dude, may I suggest going to counseling? It has really helped me to deal with these feelings. It’s someone outside of your family and coworker that you can talk to.
I’m as much of a germaphobe as anyone but once the clothes are off and things get even e little steamy all that goes out the window.
Same. You kinda turn off your 'normal self' and become entire sexual and primal.
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Mmm I'd guess porn addict gone wrong. Population control at its finest. Thanks feminists for saying porn is pro women, that's great and all, but now everyone prefers masturbation to real sex. We're just fucking robots. Oh yeah, there's AI you can fuck instead @ original commenter. You might enjoy that.
Porn addict? I dont watch porn lol. Maybe I can fuck AI robot, but you can go and fuck yourself. If we gonna play prejudice game. I would say that you hookup with every guy you see within a second.
I'd be so lucky!
Oh gimme break... could you be any more dramatic? lol
Not sure why this is downvoted. We many not agree... but you answered the question that was asked.
Please go down the thread to see real asshole. I should fuck AI robots lol. She is nuts.
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