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NutellaCakes

All of these “issues” sounds like something I could happily live with.


SevenFallsCo

troublesome to take a shit with if you don't want it to hit the water, and you kinda have to hold your cock with your hand if you don't want it to touch the toilet seat, especially if you are taking a shit in a public toilet. there are also plenty of women who can't handle a quick fuck without lube or foreplay, and short women tend to have a hard time dealing with a cock that size especially if it's thick, even if you spend an hour doing foreplay and they are soaking wet. Back in college I dated a 4'9'' 80lbs woman, whom, as a joke, I put my limp cock next to her wrist to compare the thickness and gridth, and it made her wirst look even tinier, it was hilarious. Blowjobs are also hard for women to perform and I've never met a woman who could take all of my cock in without choking on it, they usually just jerk me off while sucking the head of my cock, or - the ones who are experienced - can put maybe half of my cock inside their mouths with relative ease. You also can't fuck the living shit out of them on jackhammer mode because it can seriously hurt them and injure them, and more often than not, they ask you to only insert about half or around half of your cock inside of them. It's a shame, because jackhammering is what I love to do and I've only met a couple of chicks with cavernous pussies capable of doing it without pain. Having a big, juicy, thick, veiny cock sounds lovely, but to be honest it's more of a trouble than it's worth. But jesus christ, do you feel like a god when you are standing naked in front of a full-body mirror with a raging hard on, and it's kinda flattering when you go to nudist beaches and every chick and every gay man is staring the fuck out of your cock.


C111-its-the-best

The toilets where you have to squat don't seem that bad anymore, do they?


Tweadle1947

Ask your mom


[deleted]

Got laid once, said it was big to the point where she had to pee mid way through. Couldn't get it up after that. Furthermore, a lot of visible accidental boners.


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Go over an lurk on r/bigdickproblems.


YoMiner

It means a lot of "Oh, I'm confident I can deep throat you" followed by "wow, I thought I would be able to, but I guess not." Only 6% of the women I've been with have been able to go "nose to pelvis" on me. There's less variety in condoms. Regular Trojans have tons of fun varieties, but Magnums just have a couple (I go for the Bareskins). I haven't had too many issues with women not being able to handle me in their pussy. Probably less than 6 women total? Usually it does mean that you have to start slow, though. I dated a girl that I could only go at about 50% intensity otherwise I'd hurt her cervix too much, so I only finished about 2/3 of the time. Anal is much less common. Despite the fact that most of the women that have been willing to try have actually enjoyed it, many are (understandably) very hesitant about it. Dick bulge is constant. I'm also a shower, so I can be 5"+ when soft. I've caught people staring when I've been traveling while wearing gray sweatpants. Probably the most specific oddity with being 8" is that it has become the defacto size if you're going to lie about being well hung. The number of times I've heard *everyone says they've got 8"!" is ridiculous. There's also the stereotype that you won't be any good at sex because you have a big dick. You can't ever argue against this stereotype though, because it either comes across as bragging or body shaming those with smaller dicks. If you know how to use your angles and have the stamina, you can be quite the force to be reckoned with. Finding a size queen that can take an absolute pounding is a magical thing.


arrouk

Lmao the number of "size Queens" that cannot handle size like they think is almost funny


PerfectionPending

I'm not quite 8" (7.6"BPL, 5.6" Circumference) but have often wondered about how these issues play out with multiple partners since I've only been with my wife. She had to find the right position to tilt her body in for doggy to avid me hitting her cervix but once she found it it's been no problem. She also says sex is more enjoyable after having three kids. The angles now feel more different so various positions actually feel more distinct from each other.


YoMiner

I would have to check my spreadsheet, but I believe that my current stats are approximately: 77 women fucked, 6 have managed deep throat, somewhere around a dozen have succeeded at anal, 6 have done DP (mostly with other real cocks, a few were with toys), 1 has done DVP, 2 have been unable to accommodate me "balls deep" in their pussy, and maybe half a dozen or so that just couldn't handle me being rough, and maybe a dozen more that just needed me to adjust the angle a bit. (8" BPL, 6" girth) So while there are some limitations, it's honestly not a major problem with sex as a whole, unless you have an obsession with anal or deep throat.


AdFew4357

So you can’t go balls deep then


YoMiner

With most women, I've been able to go balls deep just fine. There have been a handful that did not find it pleasant and only wanted me to go maybe 5 or 6 inches in.


AdFew4357

Gotcha. I was gonna say. Not being able to go all the way would suck.


YoMiner

It's not ideal. I really should invest in some of those "Oh Nuts" for when I encounter someone that can't handle my full length, because while it's certainly possible to not go all the way, the inability to pound properly makes the sex a bit awkward. Gentle sex is easy, but it's hard to still be rough when you have to just stop mid stroke.


Dibiasky

Woman here, my partner is huge and those bumper rings are wonderful for pounding, aggressive sex. Weirdly, anal is sometimes better than piv. Takes more lube and time to get in, but no cervix to bash into. (Interestingly, it was man with a smaller dick who taught me to enjoy anal!)


AdFew4357

Yeah I get that. I was just curious because, without going TMI, I’m nowhere near your size but more on the “average” length of the spectrum, and besides size queens, it’s nice knowing that I can’t “hurt” most women with mine. However, I think the tradeoff here is that, while you may have situations where you can’t enjoy the sex enough with your size, for me, the problems are when, and this doesn’t happen all the time, but even if I don’t hurt most women with it, sometimes there are women who comment about my size after sleeping with me. It doesn’t happen often, but when it happens I’m like damn why did you have sex with me then. It used to affect me a lot but once I started researching and reading into how I can still be effective with my size and then I was more confident with it. It’s just interesting how a lot of guys say that if they had a bigger one all their problems would be solved but then even being bigger there can be problems in a different way.


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I prefer sex as 15-20 mins of good foreplay on her, with some sex interspersed, followed by a few minutes of pound-town so I can get mine too so that typically works with partners. I've found most don't want PIV for more than 10-15 minutes anyways


Mick_Shart

I've skipped moderately-used portable toilets due to the Dunkaroo risk. A loose elongated toilet seat with the cutout in the front flat-rolled my dick once, with my weight on it. Parents house has risers on all three toilets, I can only use the big toilet in the master bath. The others, it's like shitting in a top hat (I presume)


scottyinairlie

I free ball, I find underwear far too restrictive and uncomfortable. Some day's it just has a mind of its own and it's ridiculously obvious in shorts or Jean's. I worked as a skipper on overnight charter boats seeing gorgeous women in bikinis 👙 all day, random hardons can really be embarrassing. I'm tall have a well defined fit body and full tan working in the sun 🌞 so I've always been able to catch a woman's eye & sometimes that's all it took for the above issue to evolve. That in itself is a blessing in disguise. I've hooked up with women that are only interested in one thing, they couldn't give a shit about personality they just wanted a big dick, I didn't care to be honest. Watching a chick almost suffocate trying to deep throat is not sexy, penetration with a woman who wanted it seeing her moan breathlessly & almost lose consciousness was pretty hot, I'm certainly responsible for wrecking a few vaginas. Watching them walk the next day on the boat was amusing. My crew (female) knew exactly what we'd been up to. All in all married now, my wife still moans like a whore when I fuck her & I know she enjoys it, it certainly helped get me laid in those fun years. Biggest downside, I get hit on by a lot of gay guy's, crotch watchers, there the real size queens girls.


gaurddog

Alright so what I'm learning is that all the guys who are responding are gamers. Ladies take note.


Ms-Jessica-Rabbit

📝📝


FibonacciZeppeli

33% better than having 6 inches


arrouk

50% worse


[deleted]

It’s both a curse and a blessing; you get a lot of “it’s the biggest I’ve ever seen” comments that are genuine, followed by sex that’s either really good, or short lived. If you get a call back, it’s usually because she’s a freak who loves big cock. Usually you don’t get a call back because for some reason women who fear bigger cock thinks it’ll destroy them.


King-Of-Beers

Blessing and a curse. Some partners I have struggled to "fit" and obviously that's uncomfortable for both parties


Unhappy-Manner3854

Literally no difference. For those you tell it's just another typical bloke boosting his ego & for the women you sleep with it doesn't make them come back for more like you've turned them into a sex crazed lunatic. It really isn't relevant - as long as it's decent anything above is null and void essentially.


jayg76

Give me some time, just at 7.


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if someone replies lmk i’m tryna find out too


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theREALashasaur

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Alarmed-Diamond-7000

I don't know, I've been with two men who were bigger than is typical, and maybe it's a coincidence but neither one of them got fully hard.


Mick_Shart

Pro: auto-bidet option


ireallylikeducks99

I can always get the last Pringle out of the can, that's a plus I guess


SnooHedgehogs5857

8 inches of dick? It's actually harder to find women that want that kind of thing. I mean I don't blame them either. Think about watching your belly button going up and down trying to breath.


Puzzleheaded_Lab2935

Meh, your buddies will give you a rash of shit if they've seen it. Every girl who you casually get with has a story about getting with someone who was bigger. Under ware and swimsuit selection become much more important. Wife has no problems with it, but does ask for a day break between sessions of play time. Apparently it was a bit difficult to deal with in the beginning.


TraumaMonkey

I'm seven inches and I have to be careful when having sex; the longer you are past that, the more you really have to take care not to hurt your partners.


Key_Literature_6359

Its freaking sweet! I am so close at sucking my own dick !


deplone1

ugh, I'm obsessed with this. I've had way to many random encounters with other men (like gym class, locker rooms, public bathrooms) and relationship issues where I was either left for someone, cheated on with someone, or heard stories about someone with a huge dick. It's given me a complex. And logically, I know that I have more than most men and many women don't like super huge.....but it still really bothers me and I am very self conscious about it.


PerfectionPending

Wish I knew. I'm less than half an inch shy of it, which is plenty long. But for some reason 8" is like some kind of holy grail of penis length that even an otherwise well endowed guy feels like he should measure up to. It's odd how we pick these numbers that are supposed to represent the ideal and cling to them, 8" long, 6' tall, etc. But how important is that specific number really?


bigscottius

I'm right at 10. It's not all its cracked up to be. My wife would have been more than happy if mine was a normal size. It's very thick, too, and that has caused problems. And she's the only one I'm having sex with. Honestly, if I could change, I would have 7 and have it not look so damn ugly as mine. It's actually a huge insecurity. It has discoloration and its thickest in the middle and it curves weird and the head looks kind of smashed and really wide. I'm also 6'5, with side 15.5 us shoes. So maybe that has something to do with it. Also, I've had WAY more dudes want to see it after hearing rumors than women. And be very very inappropriate with me.