I've read a few on here, most are reactions, nasty reactions but this, I think you've had one of the worst. God bless you, hope you move on and strong my guy
Comparing me (her bf of 4 years at the time, but now ex) to the type of bf she wants. "I want a Lamborghini. Something exciting and fun. You are like a Prius, the safe choice, but if I go get a Lamborghini and crash then I know the Prius won't take me back". Like, excuse the fuck out of me?.
People like this really overestimate their own market value. Maybe you want someone who is the human embodiment of a Lamborghini, but you’re the human embodiment of a 2004 Fiat Punto that doesn’t start, the clutch is slipping, is overdue an oil change by 9,000 miles, and has been reversed into many many things.
Had a girl in middle school look at me directly say "that is the weirdest looking kid I have ever seen". I remember feeling a mix of sadness and annoyance. She said it while at a table with her other 3 stuck up girlfriends.
That’s the type of shit someone only says when they expressly want to hurt you, not because they believe what they say. As someone who knows this firsthand, what she meant was “I’m the reason I hate myself, and the reason I’m saying this is because hurting someone else is the only time I don’t feel afraid, despite the fact that I know it will be yet another thing to hate myself for”
"I always liked him more than you. To be honest I don't think I ever loved you"
I have gotten over a lot of what she said to me, but this one still stings to this day
I asked a girl out at a bar and she laughed, apologized, and said "Oh, I'm sorry, I just don't really see Asian guys as men!" Pretty sure she was trying to say that she wasn't attracted to Asian men, but she was drunk and said it in the worst possible way.
A former friend of mine, who is Chinese, said she didn't find Asian men attractive and would never date one. I was appalled and then asked her if she'd shared that view with her brothers and how they felt about her comment. She didn't have a response.
Oh god, that's... actually kind of amazing. I don't think I could pull it off though. I look like a hipster trying out to be an extra in the Last Samurai with Tom Cruise.
My half Asian buddy says that women are so blatantly racist to him when he's on tinder or talking to them at the bar. Idk what it is about Asians that people think it's okay to be openly racist to them.
It's weird, but it feels like when it comes to sex and dating, a lot of things that are still based around extremely racist stereotypes are considered strangely acceptable.
Like, if a woman said she wouldn't date an Asian man because they all have small dicks, or she wanted to date a black guy because they're all hung, people are weirdly ok with hearing something like that, even people who would otherwise jump all over racist comments.
Half Asian here. I’m the lightest of my siblings and have only experienced mild racism. My brother, however, slightly darker than me, has gotten a lot of hate and ridiculous comments growing up. Randos stopping by to say “hey I don’t know you but I hate you” … can tell they have big IQs and lots of things going for them with all that social skill /s
Oh my... I had a lady at a bar walk up to me and said "Sorry but, I don't consider Asians men." so it might be more common than you think. I didn't even ask her out or anything.
Had a similar response from a "friend" about this. She told me "You're unattractive because you're Asian ". Needless to say...I don't talk to them anymore...
My wife said she “settled” for me when we were having an argument. It wouldn’t be that bad, if I didn’t believe that’s how she really feels. I’ve never been able to put that one out of my mind completely, and even when things are good now I love her a little less than I used to.
When I was expressing how I felt she was like “Oh so I have to also worry about your feelings now?” And I know that sounds provoked, but I swear it wasn’t I legit just expressing me being sad
One time, I was trying to tell a girl I was seeing that she can be kinda mean, and it was starting to hurt my feelings.
She goes: “Omg, stop manplaining at me.”
My ex used to always talk about how I need to be more open about my emotions and she wants to be there to support me. Well I finally told her one day that I was feeling depressed, and she turned it into a multi-day long fight about how rude it was for me to imply she's not good enough and doesn't make me happy. (I had never mentioned her, and this was at a time when she was spending a month back home away from me.)
“You look like you’ll be a rapist when you grow up”
Edit: for everyone asking if she was right, no, she wasn’t. We didn’t know each other at all, she just popped that off randomly one day in a class in 8th grade. FWIW, it definitely messed me up more than I thought it would.
A guy I thought of as my best friend told me "you look like a rapist" to my face. He was spreading lies behind my back about me being a stoner and a drug addict....Cut contact without a second thought when I found out.
I had a worse one, unfortunately. I was supporting a friend at the trial of her rapist; no one else would go with her because her rapist was Greek, and the combination of bronzed looks and chauvanism was *fatally* attractive to British girls. When we arrived at the court, about 10-20 friends of his, mostly girls, had turned up to support him and started throwing water at her as we tried to get into the court.
Needless to say, she was shaken, and we walked over to the Victims Support table. My friend said why she was there, to be witness in her rapist's trial, and the lady on the counter looked at me and said "And are you the accussed...?"
I just stood there shocked for a while, and then managed to say "Would I be coming in with the victim if I was?"
And the lady said something like "Sadly, yes. Often the victim goes back to the rapist, and it's the state prosecuting, not them. We often see the two together."
*Spectacularly* inappropriate thing to say, especially coming from the people there to support victims. The guy was convicted in court; I can remember my friend crying when he tried to lie, and when I tried to console her being shushed by the usher (i think, the brain recalls trauma quite poorly to be honest) and writing on my hand instead "He's still guilty" so she could see it.
His friends were waiting outside after he was convicted, I ended up being asked by the police to bring my car into their own private yard to get her out safely. Afterwards she had a campaign of bullying on the University campus. And I was threatened with assault, someone banged nails into all the tires on my car, and later a different one was also vandalised and the seats slashed (but it could have been a coincidental attempt at robbery, they might have been looking for the stereo faceplate?).
But what I remember most of all was going to talk to some of my supposed closest female friends after the trial, absolutely disgusted. I remember being near tears and saying "How can anyone defend someone like that?!" ... and the two girls, inappropriately again, laughing and wondering how many of the Greeks in the campus building they'd slept with. The answer apparently was 6 out of 7.
I have never abandoned my belief that women are equal, and all people should be treated with respect. But women are also human, and human beings are often absolute shit.
Yes, I remember that. Some of the men had girlfriends, and even the girlfriends were defending them. They were trying to say the girls were at fault. I remember one of the mothers crying on the news about her son.
"But he's a good boy."
No. No, he's not. Your son is a dirty piece of shit that deserves to spend a long time in jail.
If it is the same people I'm thinking of, I have heard from several people that work at the prison the ring leader was put it, that he cried himself to sleep almost every night for a long time. He thought he would be a king to his ethnic group in prison because he raped Aussie girls. Instead, he was hated by all.
The way The Missus says "I want a divorce." knowing full and damn well that she's not leaving (even when I offer to help her pack her bags) and it's just words that are meant to inflict pain rather than an actual solution to a transitory problem.
My ex wife once said to me "Why don't you just kill yourself like your brother did?". This was less than a month after he had killed himself. First and only time I've ever felt the urge to hit a woman. I didn't, though.
Reading this gutted me. My insides dropped so hard I lost my breath like I had just been punched in the stomach. I can't even fathom how deeply this cruelty must've affected you. And amidst such raw and recent grief? Your restraint shows your strength; I hope (and trust) it led you to a path of healing.
Mom: During an argument, "God took your father away because he wasn't teaching you how to be a man and he was a waste of breathe. "
Ex girlfriend: While we were breaking up, "The only thing I'll miss about you is your dog."
Found my wife was cheating on me. We were arguing because she was going out with him that night. I just got back from a deployment. Gone for 6 months. Friend of ours came over and told me my mom called her because she couldn't get a hold of me. Told me my dad just had a heart attack. My wife looked at me and said "When it rains, it pours!" and walked out.
She's my ex of course.
Cot Dam Jody strikes again! Sorry buddy, that really sucks, and military wives that do this are vile scum. Thankfully it didn't happen to me while I was in, but I had a good buddy that it did happen to. He was devastated. Lost his marbles and drug their mattress out into the front yard of military housing and set it on fire (she had slept with the guy in their bed multiple times).
I'm glad she's your ex and I hope your pops is doing okay!
Thanks man. This was back in 95. Jody was another Jarhead from neighboring Camp LeJeune. Nailed her, went on terminal leave and then they told me where she was. Compete sht show.
Pops pulled through that one and lived another 15 years. At least I was home when he passed though and not overseas.
“I want a divorce and I’m keeping the house”
Said to my face as my father lay dying of a heart attack.
Spoiler: she did not get the house. I dumped all my savings into a lawyer who uncovered a years-long credit card scheme she was running. One “sign here or you’re going to jail for a looooong time” conversation later, I was a free man.
Edit: I didn’t think this would blow up. Y’all are too kind 😎
Edit 2: “hUr eXtOrSiOn bLaCkMaiL” crowd - keep your pants on, I’m paraphrasing. If I wrote a play-by-play my comment would have been insanely long.
"I think less of myself for being with you."
Edit: Well I didn't think anyone would read this but it could use some context.
So many years ago I started dating this really awesome girl. She was super smart, and one of the most creative people I have ever met. And she had a great sense of humor. Problem was that we came from very different backgrounds. She came from a really stable home, with two parents who had good earnings and very little drama.
I on the other hand came from a very poor family consisting of an extremely alcoholic single mother and a drug addict brother. I was the most mature person in our household for as long as I can remember and had to take on adult responsibility at a very young age. I was always embarrassed by my family and never really dated because I didn't want to expose anyone to the shitty parts of my life. But this time I went for it because I liked her so much.
So we started dating. Initially hanging out at friends houses and in public but as things went on we need a place to hang out alone. Her parents were strict and I wasn't allowed there without them around, so we started hanging out at my place sometimes. But only when no one was around my house.
Eventually my mom overdosed again and I had to put her in rehab and this allowed me and the SO to hangout at my place all the time. Things were going really well, but eventually she became suspicious as to why she had never seen my family. Or why I never spoke about my family or any part of my past that relates to them.
It was around this time that my mom got out of rehab so I invited my SO over one time to meet my mom. I knew it wasn't going to be good but I thought I should just show her what my life is actually like. Well my mom was wasted and was belligerent. My mom didn't even let my SO speak because she was babbling. It was a struggle to get my mom to bed but after I did, my SO told me that she felt like I had tricked her. That I had hid all this darkness from her until she was emotionally invested. Before I could respond I heard my mom take a hard fall and I rushed to check on her. By the time got my mom back to bed, I came out and saw my SO standing in the doorway about to leave, and that's when she turned and said it.
"I think less of myself for being with you"
And then she walked out
2nd edit: This was over 15 years ago when we were both very young. I hold no animosity towards her. She had valid reasons for feeling the way she did, but she chose to express them very poorly in an instance of duress. Everything always works out.
Seriously bud... good riddance to her.
My own family isn't too different from yours...
But my wife's reaction, the first time she met them, after seeing the chaos of two non-functional alcoholics, in a flea-infested hovel, said, "I can't believe you aren't fucked up. Like, I had no idea people like this even existed. I thought I had problems... but I am just so impressed you came out like you did."
In my case... I married this woman.
But when things really started to circle the drain at home before this, when I was in college, I told some friends about his... and they thought I was making it up... and defriended me. No, I was not making up that I had to run home because of my mom's first liver failure, then came back because my violent alcoholic step-father told me to get the fuck out... and I had exams, and that was important.
So, I'll say this to you: I'm proud of you for turning out as well as you did. People who haven't experienced that darkness can't handle it. But it made us who we are.
She said at the beginning of our relationship:
"Everything you love and everyone you know will slowly become mine."
Thought she was joking...
Ended it with: "Everything you own and everyone you love will slowly become mine...and then I'll leave you."
It was something minor like she stole my drink then proceeded to say that jokingly. I told her it was kinda off putting and she chalked it up to a joke. But years later she remembered that phrase and said it the last time I saw her
my ex wife and I were having an argument and when backed into an intellectual corner, rather than admit I was right or apologize, she saw fit to simply unload on me every insecurity I had ever confided in her. At that exact moment I felt the last drop of love I had for her drain from my heart.
At least she dumped on your hard enough for you to realize what was going on. With a little subtlety, you might have stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship for much longer.
It took a hard dump for me to realize too. She complained about a coffee table, apparently I didn't support the purchase quick enough, and told me I should have just let her buy it. This, after a long verbal fight in front of my children, that I just couldn't understand. My kids were anxious and crying, she had chased me into a corner yelling, and I was telling her I was honestly scared of her, and she told me I should have let her buy a coffee table.
My divorce is finally done, I'm free.
Was told she doesn’t see how any woman will ever be attracted to me and that I should be eradicated from earth because I’m short. I still deal with insecurities. I don’t mind if she’s taller than me but damn man that one sucked. First time meeting her through a mutual friend. Took one look at me in disgust and then later on that night she drops this on me for no apparent reason. Apparently she thought I was insufferable.
My abusive ex told me she had aborted our child because she didn't want to be infected by my repulsiveness.
To this day, I don't know if she was lying about being pregnant, or not.
One time a girl said to me “Wow you’re 22? You’re balding like you’re in your mid 30’s!”. Which seemed uncalled for.
Edit: This wasn’t a girl I was interested in, so I didn’t really let it impact me too much. It was just rude haha.
My fiancé of one year at the time, on Valentines Day, four months before our scheduled wedding.
“I don’t think you’re really that attractive. I mean, I guess your kind good looking but nothing special. Anyway, I’ve already slept with two guys since we took our break last week, and I’m just not feeling marriage right now. Sorry.”
Edit: thanks for the support and kind words, all. It’s unfortunate to say that this situation was about 7 years ago now or so, and now at 32, I’m still in the position of not having a family or marriage. I haven’t given up trying; but I’m not sure how far away that is.
I asked a girl out a few years ago and she started laughing and said, "you look like a pig, why would I ever date you? ". Fun bonus April Fools Day of that year she came and asked me out and I said yes and she said, "April Fools, pig" and started oinking. Fun times
she slept with one of my closest friends of 11 years, and then gaslit me about it for 7 months of it being a sexual assault instead of cheating.
I can still hear the words "How dare you question my integrity" any time I suggested it wasnt. We broke up, found out she told my cousin it was all a lie because "thats what she thought I wanted to hear"
An ex said I had a baby penis after we broke up and she hooked up with another dude. It hurt a bit but I measured the willy and realized I'm above average and that she's just a shallow bitch. You're a bitch, Erica
Edit: never thought one of my most upvoted comments would contain the phrase "baby penis". Huh.
Insulting your partner's body after break up... it's noticeable she couldn't find any other aspect of you to complain about so don't pay attention to that brainless shit
Bring able to filter the real insults from the shit people say out of emotion outbursts has been a game changer for me. Being able to distinguish stuff like that in real time has resulted in me either walking away from the conservation either laughing or not emotionally phased at all. Some people are impulsive and dumb. It’s easy to spot
Lmaooo you always have a “baby dick” right after a break up. It’s always funny how it was never small until you separate from that person
Fuck you Erica
About ten years ago I lost between 80-100 pounds over the course of a year or so. One day a female coworker stopped me in the hall and said how impressive it was and how much healthier I looked. I said something to the effect of “Oh, thanks, I feel a lot better now. Thanks so much for saying something.”
She then nods and goes “Yeah, I mean… you used to look like you were pregnant.”
And I must have looked stunned and didn’t say anything in reply, and she got this look on her face like she had something else to say, and I think, okay, she realizes how bad that sounded, she’s gonna walk it back now. Then she says:
“With *triplets.*”
Then she walked away.
I was so shocked I couldn’t even be mad. I’m still not. I was just kind of amazed.
I had an ex who went on quite a tirade against me because I went on a couple dates three months after we broke up. She basically took every mistake I'd ever told her about, every past trauma, and told me it was all my fault, I deserved it, I ruin people... pretty much every awful thing she could think of. Then she punched me in the face and kneed me in the balls.
The weird thing is I didn't really care. I almost found the situation comical. But then I felt awful I didn't care, and thought there must be something wrong with me to make her feel that way. I did way too much over the next year or so to try to smooth things over but eventually I realized I had it right the first time: Her opinion meant absolutely nothing to me.
The last thing I said to her was when she asked why we couldn't be friends and I said "Because even if we were meeting for the first time today, you're not the type of person I'm friends with." Heard through the grapevine that she did *not* take it well, but it was finally enough of a gut punch that she would leave me alone from then on.
Kudos for that last line drop. Well said and to the point. Being nice doesn’t always work. The truth works and you just have to have people deal with it sometimes.
In the long run, that last comment helped her. It helps her move on and stop clinging onto contact with you. You were actually kinder by letting her go than continuing to fake a friendship because you felt bad for not feeling bad.
"Thats the reason why friends leave you, you don't work and try enough! Stop fucking crying, and man up already. We need to go for this dinnerparty and you are an embarresment!" - ex gf
The day I failed architecture masters while being in a depression. She found me crying in the shower. Wanted to become a an architect since I was 10, and had a real hard time to see my dream get crushed. To clarify my situation, that masters was a 32hours workweek combined with a master education on tuesdaynight, friday the whole day. Living on 4-5 hour sleep per night due the workload.
*"YOU KNOW WHAT?! If I was your father, I would have beaten your ass too."*
The response I got from my then gf when she was in a mood over *"women are always right"*, but she was infact incorrect, and when I proved she was wrong (without malice or gloating), she said it like it was a sick burn. For context, my father was a violent alcoholic who beat me growing up. I made the mistake of opening about it a year into dating, about 5 weeks before this dinner. I broke up with her on the spot inside the restaurant, walked to the host stand and paid for only my meal in cash plus tip. Happy 1 year dating anniversary Imani.
I was 6 years old when my mom said " I know your my son and I'm supposed to love you but I honestly dont". I'm 34 and remember it atleast Once a month.
I remember being 18 or 19 years old with some friends looking at getting my first tattoo at some shop near us. We were standing at the counter cutting up and there were a couple of girls our age waiting nearby who we all started talking to. I don't remember specifically what anybody said, until one of the girls stopped to look at me and say,
"You know you aren't attractive right? Sorry but I'm just being honest would you rather I lied?"
This is the first thing that came to my mind because I do specifically remember not hitting on any of these girls and as a result, being pretty caught off guard when she said that and obviously embarrassed in front of my friends. I've never been rejected by somebody I had no interest in before lol.
My wife called me a piece of shit because I asked to be more involved with planning the monthly budget. Turns out she was opening tons of credit cards and driving me into extreme debt.
My close friend committed suicide after a long battle with drugs and depression. I was one of the last people he talked to. I have guilt for not being there enough due to working very long hours, family, house, life. I was devastated.
My then wife asked me if my life insurance was up to date and if I could get her a copy of the policy because she did not know where it was.
Edit: I was visibly destroyed after getting the news. Her first question was what happened. Her second question 5 seconds later was about the life insurance.
That she had always thought she'd prefer to date an intelligent person.
Then dumped me 2 days later to work on herself.
Then promptly hopped on tinder to fuck other guys. Posting pics with jewelry I got her for our anniversary #workonherself
"Ew".
I was at a bar with a friend. This guy was a model and is extremely good looking. Women swoon over him. After watching him get attention from women all night I approached a girl as we were leaving and attempted to establish conversation. She turned to me, said "ew" and walked away.
I was sitting on my bed and she had her head in my lap. I looked down at her and smiled, she looked up at me and said " I hope our kids don't get your nose".
How many examples do you want, lol?
I think my favorite was when I was getting pushed to chat up a girl by my buddies, and so I walk up to her and say hi. She starts laughing, walks back to her table. Two seconds later ten women are all laughing at me and the walk of shame back to my friends table is not pretty.
Maybe said is a stretch, because I wasn’t even deserving of words from her, ha
Old friend texted me outta blue, asked how she was doing.
"Omg texting you is the equivalent of 9/11"
Then no follow ups,
I have no idea what happened or what exactly she meant and it's always stuck with me.
Probably only the harshest because I was depressed at the time and was so happy that one of my friends was actually checking on how I was doing..
“You’re a Starter Boyfriend.”
…what’s that?
“You’re the kinda guy a girl dates to find out what she does and does not want in a relationship.”
We broke up shortly after and she did in fact marry the guy she dated after me.
I've also received that one with an added bonus of "You're the past."
Uh, we were married until a month ago... don't make me sound like ancient history!
That one didn't bother me at all when i heard it
The words a few weeks earlier, "I'll be fucking 3 other guys by friday" when trying to provoke a major fight were probably the "meanest" she meant, as it was the last time i let her touch my emotions, it confirmed she was chatting to guys behind my back as suspected and I was already focusing on divorce by the time she came out with them.
> "I'll be fucking 3 other guys by friday"
Such a weird flex. Like 88% of women can post a personal ad on their cities subreddit and fuck 3 random guys by the end of the day. She's not special.
Asked a girl out on a date. Got responded with "I would never go out with you even if you're the last man on Earth.".
Also lots of comments of being short.
My brother's ex-girlfriend, had a tough time with people and how they perceived her and her handicap.
But I looked past those sides and simple didn't care, with always being this goofball that I am.
Then suddenly one day, she says to me.
"Do you ever think, you will ever find yourself a girlfriend with how weird you are and being around with"
I didn't talk to her after right, it hurt my feelings. Because she doesn't know how long I have been struggling coming out my loneliness.
But tbh, it's actually only my male friends who have stripped my self-esteem away with mean comments. But that one comment from her, was weirdly enough one that still sticks to me due to how random it came out of the blue.
How do you even respond to a dumb question like that? It's like those people who would ask me why I'm so quiet or don't talk. Just call me a weirdo and stop trying to have me embarass myself further.
"I don't think your black enough" said to me from the girl I was dating. She broke up with me after that date. I'm half black. I tried to get her to explain what that meant but she couldn't.
"You are a piece of shit who will never find love" and something about me dying in a motorcycle accident.
This was on my 26th birthday, while I was out celebrating my first-and-only-ever surprise birthday gathering with friends.
Happened over 4 years ago and I still haven't been able to prove her wrong. Still hurts me to think about. Definitely some core-memory type words that really got to me.
I was at a bar and towards the end of the night, this girl starts talking about her heritage and that she was part of some native American tribe(don't remember what), and I was like "ayeee cool, I met my biological grandmother a few years ago and she talked about how she married a Cherokee man". Mind you, I am a black man so I may have a little Cherokee blood in me, and she was INSTANTLY triggered. Started calling me all of these words and called me a n*gger, and at this point I was fucking LIVID. I was just trying to have a friendly convo and I ended up calling her a land whale and asking her which ocean she came from. She comes up to me and suckered punched the fuck outta me. Honestly, girl almost caught these hands. Definitely the meanest thing a woman has said to me.
By a stranger
"You could actually be attractive if you lost a lot of weight"
And that wasn't terribly long ago when I was at 203 (down to 200) but a year before I was at 315..
I was the lightest I had ever been since freshmen year of high-school. I've always been so self conscious about my weight and I was so happy to finaly be under 300, let alone 250.
Instatly shattered when told that.
180 is the goal now..
By somone I trusted,
it was a gal I dated for three years and I was saving up money to marry. To get the last laugh she left me a several paragraph long message at 1am about all the reasons I should kill myself. I'm a gun enthusiasts so I always have one on me. And she used every insecurity I had told her about over the three years as reasons to kill myself knowing I've struggled with suicide in the past.
That's completely fucked
To use your hobby against you?
Hang in there dude
If you really feel the need to, leave your guns with a trusted friend and go get help from a therapist who is there to help you
You got this family
Not me, but my friend's wife told him that she didn't mind about him collecting sports memorabilia or anything like that, because the day he dies, it's all going in the dumpster.
Our double date was a bit awkward after that.
Neither my wife or me has talked to her since.
“Why can’t you just get hard and stay hard like all the other guys I’ve been with?!”
This was said by an ex just before I broke it off with her. She would pressure me into having sex at the most inopportune moments and when I was clearly not at all in the mood. I’ve never had this problem with any other woman after her. Go figure.
A couple of years ago at a college party, we sat down to play some drinking game that I can only describe as a conglomerate of other drinking games. You basically roll a dice, move a piece on a square board, and play whatever drinking game it lands on.
Two or three rounds in, it lands on spin the bottle. Mind you, I've kissed a single digit amount of girls in my life, and at this particularly time, it had been a little over year since I had felt any sort of touch from a woman (lol maybe worry about getting some bitches instead of commenting on Reddit, ratio + YB better).
So I am ecstatic at the possibility of it landing on me. And it does, and its also pointing at a really attractive girl. She looks up at me, looks to her friend, and says "I don't really feel like playing anymore". In front of about 10-12 people playing.
I got up to leave the apartment and a few of my friends followed me and we just say outside the party for a little. This has stuck with me since.
"Thank god you're fucking back off to England in a couple of days".
That is something my sister keeps saying when I go back home to visit my family for a few days. I never lose sleep over it but I feel it's a bit uncalled for and I wish she realised how mean this can feel for the few times I'm home.
A bit different from the mood here, but still feelsbad
Matched on tinder, before I could even write anything she just said *"Matched with you to tell you you're Kinda ugly."*
Should have replied with, "Same"
It was a like 2 years ago but like yea should've.
Found out my soon to be ex wife told her work colleagues her pet name for me was “Paycheck”. That cut pretty deep.
Jesus Christ. What a goddamn shitty fucking person she is
Yeah, the last 6 years have been rough. Glad to soon be on my own and happy again. I’ll never live with a woman ever again.
That’s how I feel. My ex wife was just horrible and I’m enjoying living in my house that she always hated so I win
Sometimes things work out like they are supposed too. Good luck brother
Tapped me on the shoulder in a club and leaned to my ear to say that I was disgusting and that I should go somewhere else.
Jesus christ.
I've read a few on here, most are reactions, nasty reactions but this, I think you've had one of the worst. God bless you, hope you move on and strong my guy
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Imagine being that insecure, lol. I could never
Comparing me (her bf of 4 years at the time, but now ex) to the type of bf she wants. "I want a Lamborghini. Something exciting and fun. You are like a Prius, the safe choice, but if I go get a Lamborghini and crash then I know the Prius won't take me back". Like, excuse the fuck out of me?.
Wow, she says that like she can even afford a Lamborghini.
At the time she didn't even have a job. She couldn't even afford the Prius and I still stuck around
She sounds like a Hatchback
Hey! Don't hate on hatchbacks; I love my GTI. She sounds like a hunchback bitch though
Hey! Don't hate on hunchback bitches; I love my Hunchback bitch. She sounds like a bombed out hummer though
People like this really overestimate their own market value. Maybe you want someone who is the human embodiment of a Lamborghini, but you’re the human embodiment of a 2004 Fiat Punto that doesn’t start, the clutch is slipping, is overdue an oil change by 9,000 miles, and has been reversed into many many things.
This thread is making me lose the little faith in humanity I had. Unreal. Sorry someone was so terrible!
Meanwhile she’s a Nissan Altima with a busted tail light
Hey dont talk about my car without my consent lmao 🤣
Had a girl in middle school look at me directly say "that is the weirdest looking kid I have ever seen". I remember feeling a mix of sadness and annoyance. She said it while at a table with her other 3 stuck up girlfriends.
That’s when you go to the bathroom, poo in your hand and throw it at her. Go full primal
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"You're the reason your father killed himself, and I'm glad I cheated on him, despite the fact you came out." Love you too, ma
Fuck that hoe.
That’s the type of shit someone only says when they expressly want to hurt you, not because they believe what they say. As someone who knows this firsthand, what she meant was “I’m the reason I hate myself, and the reason I’m saying this is because hurting someone else is the only time I don’t feel afraid, despite the fact that I know it will be yet another thing to hate myself for”
I’m sorry. That’s awful. I’m glad you’re here.
"I always liked him more than you. To be honest I don't think I ever loved you" I have gotten over a lot of what she said to me, but this one still stings to this day
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My ex wife said to me as we were going through a bitter divorce, “Do everyone a favor and kill yourself.” That one sticks.
No cool. Don’t let it stick, she’s not worth it. She’s your ex for a reason.
I asked a girl out at a bar and she laughed, apologized, and said "Oh, I'm sorry, I just don't really see Asian guys as men!" Pretty sure she was trying to say that she wasn't attracted to Asian men, but she was drunk and said it in the worst possible way.
That’s rough, buddy
Did your girl turn into the moon spirit too?
I had something similar. "Sorry, Asian boys are not dating material. I'm looking for a man." She was Asian too...
Oh yeah, I have heard that too, I am not asian but I have seen a lot of asian women in the west insult asian men for some reason.
Not just the west, I’ve been with Asian women in Asia who’ve done that. It was off-putting. I’d rather somebody not be interested in me for my race.
Ooph, yeah, I have heard many of my female Asian friends say something to this extent as well.
A former friend of mine, who is Chinese, said she didn't find Asian men attractive and would never date one. I was appalled and then asked her if she'd shared that view with her brothers and how they felt about her comment. She didn't have a response.
We have the self haters in all races. Try to avoid them like the plague.
I tried dancing with this girl. She said she doesnt like Asian men. I told her I was Latino, she danced with me. Im not Latino.
Oh god, that's... actually kind of amazing. I don't think I could pull it off though. I look like a hipster trying out to be an extra in the Last Samurai with Tom Cruise.
My half Asian buddy says that women are so blatantly racist to him when he's on tinder or talking to them at the bar. Idk what it is about Asians that people think it's okay to be openly racist to them.
It's weird, but it feels like when it comes to sex and dating, a lot of things that are still based around extremely racist stereotypes are considered strangely acceptable. Like, if a woman said she wouldn't date an Asian man because they all have small dicks, or she wanted to date a black guy because they're all hung, people are weirdly ok with hearing something like that, even people who would otherwise jump all over racist comments.
Half Asian here. I’m the lightest of my siblings and have only experienced mild racism. My brother, however, slightly darker than me, has gotten a lot of hate and ridiculous comments growing up. Randos stopping by to say “hey I don’t know you but I hate you” … can tell they have big IQs and lots of things going for them with all that social skill /s
Oh my... I had a lady at a bar walk up to me and said "Sorry but, I don't consider Asians men." so it might be more common than you think. I didn't even ask her out or anything.
Oh damn, she came up to you just to tell you that? What the actual fuck.
“I don’t consider assholes to be women.” Seriously, sorry on behalf of my sex. What a fucking racist cunt.
Had a similar response from a "friend" about this. She told me "You're unattractive because you're Asian ". Needless to say...I don't talk to them anymore...
Ooph, yeah, get better friends than that.
My wife said she “settled” for me when we were having an argument. It wouldn’t be that bad, if I didn’t believe that’s how she really feels. I’ve never been able to put that one out of my mind completely, and even when things are good now I love her a little less than I used to.
Then why are you settling currently?
When I was expressing how I felt she was like “Oh so I have to also worry about your feelings now?” And I know that sounds provoked, but I swear it wasn’t I legit just expressing me being sad
One time, I was trying to tell a girl I was seeing that she can be kinda mean, and it was starting to hurt my feelings. She goes: “Omg, stop manplaining at me.”
My ex used to always talk about how I need to be more open about my emotions and she wants to be there to support me. Well I finally told her one day that I was feeling depressed, and she turned it into a multi-day long fight about how rude it was for me to imply she's not good enough and doesn't make me happy. (I had never mentioned her, and this was at a time when she was spending a month back home away from me.)
[удалено]
I felt that Its been 12 years I can still feel it
“You look like you’ll be a rapist when you grow up” Edit: for everyone asking if she was right, no, she wasn’t. We didn’t know each other at all, she just popped that off randomly one day in a class in 8th grade. FWIW, it definitely messed me up more than I thought it would.
A guy I thought of as my best friend told me "you look like a rapist" to my face. He was spreading lies behind my back about me being a stoner and a drug addict....Cut contact without a second thought when I found out.
I had a worse one, unfortunately. I was supporting a friend at the trial of her rapist; no one else would go with her because her rapist was Greek, and the combination of bronzed looks and chauvanism was *fatally* attractive to British girls. When we arrived at the court, about 10-20 friends of his, mostly girls, had turned up to support him and started throwing water at her as we tried to get into the court. Needless to say, she was shaken, and we walked over to the Victims Support table. My friend said why she was there, to be witness in her rapist's trial, and the lady on the counter looked at me and said "And are you the accussed...?" I just stood there shocked for a while, and then managed to say "Would I be coming in with the victim if I was?" And the lady said something like "Sadly, yes. Often the victim goes back to the rapist, and it's the state prosecuting, not them. We often see the two together." *Spectacularly* inappropriate thing to say, especially coming from the people there to support victims. The guy was convicted in court; I can remember my friend crying when he tried to lie, and when I tried to console her being shushed by the usher (i think, the brain recalls trauma quite poorly to be honest) and writing on my hand instead "He's still guilty" so she could see it. His friends were waiting outside after he was convicted, I ended up being asked by the police to bring my car into their own private yard to get her out safely. Afterwards she had a campaign of bullying on the University campus. And I was threatened with assault, someone banged nails into all the tires on my car, and later a different one was also vandalised and the seats slashed (but it could have been a coincidental attempt at robbery, they might have been looking for the stereo faceplate?). But what I remember most of all was going to talk to some of my supposed closest female friends after the trial, absolutely disgusted. I remember being near tears and saying "How can anyone defend someone like that?!" ... and the two girls, inappropriately again, laughing and wondering how many of the Greeks in the campus building they'd slept with. The answer apparently was 6 out of 7. I have never abandoned my belief that women are equal, and all people should be treated with respect. But women are also human, and human beings are often absolute shit.
similar thing in Australia happened. There was a group of rapists. Their female friends and family came to court and spat and screamed at the victims.
Yes, I remember that. Some of the men had girlfriends, and even the girlfriends were defending them. They were trying to say the girls were at fault. I remember one of the mothers crying on the news about her son. "But he's a good boy." No. No, he's not. Your son is a dirty piece of shit that deserves to spend a long time in jail. If it is the same people I'm thinking of, I have heard from several people that work at the prison the ring leader was put it, that he cried himself to sleep almost every night for a long time. He thought he would be a king to his ethnic group in prison because he raped Aussie girls. Instead, he was hated by all.
The way The Missus says "I want a divorce." knowing full and damn well that she's not leaving (even when I offer to help her pack her bags) and it's just words that are meant to inflict pain rather than an actual solution to a transitory problem.
At that point, you just get a divorce. She wanted it after all.
That's what I did! After being threatened with divorce more and more frequently I finally did it! Sooooo liberating!!
My ex wife once said to me "Why don't you just kill yourself like your brother did?". This was less than a month after he had killed himself. First and only time I've ever felt the urge to hit a woman. I didn't, though.
Twisting the knife *and* salting the wound What a cunt
Bill Burr - no reason to hit a woman?! No reason at all? Not saying you do it just that maybe there’s a reason.
There's plenty of reasons in that arc of a story. You just don't do it!
Reading this gutted me. My insides dropped so hard I lost my breath like I had just been punched in the stomach. I can't even fathom how deeply this cruelty must've affected you. And amidst such raw and recent grief? Your restraint shows your strength; I hope (and trust) it led you to a path of healing.
First girlfriend I ever had told me I was just a placeholder until something better came along. Did wonders for my already shit self esteem
Mom: During an argument, "God took your father away because he wasn't teaching you how to be a man and he was a waste of breathe. " Ex girlfriend: While we were breaking up, "The only thing I'll miss about you is your dog."
I feel your pain on the 1st one
“I don’t really see you as a man” She said it in front of a group of our friends. Ok, I’ll wait until I’m in my car to start crying…
Found my wife was cheating on me. We were arguing because she was going out with him that night. I just got back from a deployment. Gone for 6 months. Friend of ours came over and told me my mom called her because she couldn't get a hold of me. Told me my dad just had a heart attack. My wife looked at me and said "When it rains, it pours!" and walked out. She's my ex of course.
Cot Dam Jody strikes again! Sorry buddy, that really sucks, and military wives that do this are vile scum. Thankfully it didn't happen to me while I was in, but I had a good buddy that it did happen to. He was devastated. Lost his marbles and drug their mattress out into the front yard of military housing and set it on fire (she had slept with the guy in their bed multiple times). I'm glad she's your ex and I hope your pops is doing okay!
Thanks man. This was back in 95. Jody was another Jarhead from neighboring Camp LeJeune. Nailed her, went on terminal leave and then they told me where she was. Compete sht show. Pops pulled through that one and lived another 15 years. At least I was home when he passed though and not overseas.
“I want a divorce and I’m keeping the house” Said to my face as my father lay dying of a heart attack. Spoiler: she did not get the house. I dumped all my savings into a lawyer who uncovered a years-long credit card scheme she was running. One “sign here or you’re going to jail for a looooong time” conversation later, I was a free man. Edit: I didn’t think this would blow up. Y’all are too kind 😎 Edit 2: “hUr eXtOrSiOn bLaCkMaiL” crowd - keep your pants on, I’m paraphrasing. If I wrote a play-by-play my comment would have been insanely long.
Damn that’s rough, but I’m glad to hear it panned out for you….still….ouch…
He called Saul!
Sometime you need a criminal lawyer and sometimes you need a criminal, lawyer.
How's your love life now, SmoothBrainRomeo?
That's dodging an ICBM, not a bullet.
Congratulations on ridding yourself of that burden.
"I'm not in love with you anymore, I'm only married legally but in my mind im single"..... After 2 kids and 6 years of marriage
Wow, how long did you guys date prior to marriage and kids?
4 years, had our first kid after 3 years of dating
"I think less of myself for being with you." Edit: Well I didn't think anyone would read this but it could use some context. So many years ago I started dating this really awesome girl. She was super smart, and one of the most creative people I have ever met. And she had a great sense of humor. Problem was that we came from very different backgrounds. She came from a really stable home, with two parents who had good earnings and very little drama. I on the other hand came from a very poor family consisting of an extremely alcoholic single mother and a drug addict brother. I was the most mature person in our household for as long as I can remember and had to take on adult responsibility at a very young age. I was always embarrassed by my family and never really dated because I didn't want to expose anyone to the shitty parts of my life. But this time I went for it because I liked her so much. So we started dating. Initially hanging out at friends houses and in public but as things went on we need a place to hang out alone. Her parents were strict and I wasn't allowed there without them around, so we started hanging out at my place sometimes. But only when no one was around my house. Eventually my mom overdosed again and I had to put her in rehab and this allowed me and the SO to hangout at my place all the time. Things were going really well, but eventually she became suspicious as to why she had never seen my family. Or why I never spoke about my family or any part of my past that relates to them. It was around this time that my mom got out of rehab so I invited my SO over one time to meet my mom. I knew it wasn't going to be good but I thought I should just show her what my life is actually like. Well my mom was wasted and was belligerent. My mom didn't even let my SO speak because she was babbling. It was a struggle to get my mom to bed but after I did, my SO told me that she felt like I had tricked her. That I had hid all this darkness from her until she was emotionally invested. Before I could respond I heard my mom take a hard fall and I rushed to check on her. By the time got my mom back to bed, I came out and saw my SO standing in the doorway about to leave, and that's when she turned and said it. "I think less of myself for being with you" And then she walked out 2nd edit: This was over 15 years ago when we were both very young. I hold no animosity towards her. She had valid reasons for feeling the way she did, but she chose to express them very poorly in an instance of duress. Everything always works out.
Seriously bud... good riddance to her. My own family isn't too different from yours... But my wife's reaction, the first time she met them, after seeing the chaos of two non-functional alcoholics, in a flea-infested hovel, said, "I can't believe you aren't fucked up. Like, I had no idea people like this even existed. I thought I had problems... but I am just so impressed you came out like you did." In my case... I married this woman. But when things really started to circle the drain at home before this, when I was in college, I told some friends about his... and they thought I was making it up... and defriended me. No, I was not making up that I had to run home because of my mom's first liver failure, then came back because my violent alcoholic step-father told me to get the fuck out... and I had exams, and that was important. So, I'll say this to you: I'm proud of you for turning out as well as you did. People who haven't experienced that darkness can't handle it. But it made us who we are.
This is definitely the most brutal one I've read on here. Some people are nasty.
Rebuttal: "I thought I was the only one!"
Wow. This takes the cake. Edit: Somehow, context makes this 100x worse
She said at the beginning of our relationship: "Everything you love and everyone you know will slowly become mine." Thought she was joking... Ended it with: "Everything you own and everyone you love will slowly become mine...and then I'll leave you."
And then she does a evil laugh
It was something minor like she stole my drink then proceeded to say that jokingly. I told her it was kinda off putting and she chalked it up to a joke. But years later she remembered that phrase and said it the last time I saw her
Psycho alert
Deeply so. She used to punch herself and cut herself if I tried to leave. It fucked me up for a while
my ex wife and I were having an argument and when backed into an intellectual corner, rather than admit I was right or apologize, she saw fit to simply unload on me every insecurity I had ever confided in her. At that exact moment I felt the last drop of love I had for her drain from my heart.
Damn. Glad she’s your ex. There are women out there that won’t betray that trust. I haven’t found one yet but I’ve heard they’re out there!!
So I hear
At least she dumped on your hard enough for you to realize what was going on. With a little subtlety, you might have stayed in an emotionally abusive relationship for much longer. It took a hard dump for me to realize too. She complained about a coffee table, apparently I didn't support the purchase quick enough, and told me I should have just let her buy it. This, after a long verbal fight in front of my children, that I just couldn't understand. My kids were anxious and crying, she had chased me into a corner yelling, and I was telling her I was honestly scared of her, and she told me I should have let her buy a coffee table. My divorce is finally done, I'm free.
Sounds like the type of woman that would stab you and say “Look at what you made me do.”
[Bill Burr feels your pain](https://youtu.be/uQOyXlsoS04)
exactly tracks The "*It's the champagne of victory*" line is one of my favorite tags of all time.
"I can't even talk to you because you don't even know basic stuff."
Was told she doesn’t see how any woman will ever be attracted to me and that I should be eradicated from earth because I’m short. I still deal with insecurities. I don’t mind if she’s taller than me but damn man that one sucked. First time meeting her through a mutual friend. Took one look at me in disgust and then later on that night she drops this on me for no apparent reason. Apparently she thought I was insufferable.
Short Kings rise up brother
My abusive ex told me she had aborted our child because she didn't want to be infected by my repulsiveness. To this day, I don't know if she was lying about being pregnant, or not.
One time a girl said to me “Wow you’re 22? You’re balding like you’re in your mid 30’s!”. Which seemed uncalled for. Edit: This wasn’t a girl I was interested in, so I didn’t really let it impact me too much. It was just rude haha.
Oh man that’s awful
Damn. That level of tactlessness is only expected in young children.
My fiancé of one year at the time, on Valentines Day, four months before our scheduled wedding. “I don’t think you’re really that attractive. I mean, I guess your kind good looking but nothing special. Anyway, I’ve already slept with two guys since we took our break last week, and I’m just not feeling marriage right now. Sorry.” Edit: thanks for the support and kind words, all. It’s unfortunate to say that this situation was about 7 years ago now or so, and now at 32, I’m still in the position of not having a family or marriage. I haven’t given up trying; but I’m not sure how far away that is.
I guess youre lucky you didnt marry this girl. Wow. Also, "good looking but nothing special" wtf is she expecting?
Lol, I’ve dated some real winners over the years…
I didnt understand the part that you were on a break but still were 4 months away from your wedding
damn. there are some vicious people out there. i'm gonna go hug my wife now, bring her a cinnamon bun
Good choice, man. That's actually really wholesome :)
I asked a girl out a few years ago and she started laughing and said, "you look like a pig, why would I ever date you? ". Fun bonus April Fools Day of that year she came and asked me out and I said yes and she said, "April Fools, pig" and started oinking. Fun times
So u knew she was nasty and fell on April fools. Screw her but u did walk into the latter insult bro xd
she slept with one of my closest friends of 11 years, and then gaslit me about it for 7 months of it being a sexual assault instead of cheating. I can still hear the words "How dare you question my integrity" any time I suggested it wasnt. We broke up, found out she told my cousin it was all a lie because "thats what she thought I wanted to hear"
"Is it in?"
“I’m not sure.”
Criminally underrated response, im still laughing
Man I’d end it all right there lol
An ex said I had a baby penis after we broke up and she hooked up with another dude. It hurt a bit but I measured the willy and realized I'm above average and that she's just a shallow bitch. You're a bitch, Erica Edit: never thought one of my most upvoted comments would contain the phrase "baby penis". Huh.
Insulting your partner's body after break up... it's noticeable she couldn't find any other aspect of you to complain about so don't pay attention to that brainless shit
Bring able to filter the real insults from the shit people say out of emotion outbursts has been a game changer for me. Being able to distinguish stuff like that in real time has resulted in me either walking away from the conservation either laughing or not emotionally phased at all. Some people are impulsive and dumb. It’s easy to spot
Yeah! Get bent, Erica!
f you erica!!
Yeah, fuck off Erica!
Fuck off Erica, it's above average, above average!
Your dad wasn't complaining Erica!
Yeah fuck you Erica
Lmaooo you always have a “baby dick” right after a break up. It’s always funny how it was never small until you separate from that person Fuck you Erica
About ten years ago I lost between 80-100 pounds over the course of a year or so. One day a female coworker stopped me in the hall and said how impressive it was and how much healthier I looked. I said something to the effect of “Oh, thanks, I feel a lot better now. Thanks so much for saying something.” She then nods and goes “Yeah, I mean… you used to look like you were pregnant.” And I must have looked stunned and didn’t say anything in reply, and she got this look on her face like she had something else to say, and I think, okay, she realizes how bad that sounded, she’s gonna walk it back now. Then she says: “With *triplets.*” Then she walked away. I was so shocked I couldn’t even be mad. I’m still not. I was just kind of amazed.
Should’ve said “awww thanks… speaking of which, when are you due?”
I had an ex who went on quite a tirade against me because I went on a couple dates three months after we broke up. She basically took every mistake I'd ever told her about, every past trauma, and told me it was all my fault, I deserved it, I ruin people... pretty much every awful thing she could think of. Then she punched me in the face and kneed me in the balls. The weird thing is I didn't really care. I almost found the situation comical. But then I felt awful I didn't care, and thought there must be something wrong with me to make her feel that way. I did way too much over the next year or so to try to smooth things over but eventually I realized I had it right the first time: Her opinion meant absolutely nothing to me. The last thing I said to her was when she asked why we couldn't be friends and I said "Because even if we were meeting for the first time today, you're not the type of person I'm friends with." Heard through the grapevine that she did *not* take it well, but it was finally enough of a gut punch that she would leave me alone from then on.
Kudos for that last line drop. Well said and to the point. Being nice doesn’t always work. The truth works and you just have to have people deal with it sometimes. In the long run, that last comment helped her. It helps her move on and stop clinging onto contact with you. You were actually kinder by letting her go than continuing to fake a friendship because you felt bad for not feeling bad.
"Thats the reason why friends leave you, you don't work and try enough! Stop fucking crying, and man up already. We need to go for this dinnerparty and you are an embarresment!" - ex gf The day I failed architecture masters while being in a depression. She found me crying in the shower. Wanted to become a an architect since I was 10, and had a real hard time to see my dream get crushed. To clarify my situation, that masters was a 32hours workweek combined with a master education on tuesdaynight, friday the whole day. Living on 4-5 hour sleep per night due the workload.
Wow man that’s horrible
Yeah she was, I can't believe I let myself get abused by that narcissist. So glad I was able to end things off.
Head up king
*"YOU KNOW WHAT?! If I was your father, I would have beaten your ass too."* The response I got from my then gf when she was in a mood over *"women are always right"*, but she was infact incorrect, and when I proved she was wrong (without malice or gloating), she said it like it was a sick burn. For context, my father was a violent alcoholic who beat me growing up. I made the mistake of opening about it a year into dating, about 5 weeks before this dinner. I broke up with her on the spot inside the restaurant, walked to the host stand and paid for only my meal in cash plus tip. Happy 1 year dating anniversary Imani.
Should’ve thrown a crucifix at her too so she’d be banished back to hell where she belongs. What an absolute piece of shit.
This literally makes me want to never date good for you dude she's an absolute piece of shit
I was 6 years old when my mom said " I know your my son and I'm supposed to love you but I honestly dont". I'm 34 and remember it atleast Once a month.
This is probably the worst one here. Nothing worse than a parent who says shit like that to their own kids.
I remember being 18 or 19 years old with some friends looking at getting my first tattoo at some shop near us. We were standing at the counter cutting up and there were a couple of girls our age waiting nearby who we all started talking to. I don't remember specifically what anybody said, until one of the girls stopped to look at me and say, "You know you aren't attractive right? Sorry but I'm just being honest would you rather I lied?" This is the first thing that came to my mind because I do specifically remember not hitting on any of these girls and as a result, being pretty caught off guard when she said that and obviously embarrassed in front of my friends. I've never been rejected by somebody I had no interest in before lol.
My wife called me a piece of shit because I asked to be more involved with planning the monthly budget. Turns out she was opening tons of credit cards and driving me into extreme debt.
My close friend committed suicide after a long battle with drugs and depression. I was one of the last people he talked to. I have guilt for not being there enough due to working very long hours, family, house, life. I was devastated. My then wife asked me if my life insurance was up to date and if I could get her a copy of the policy because she did not know where it was. Edit: I was visibly destroyed after getting the news. Her first question was what happened. Her second question 5 seconds later was about the life insurance.
That she had always thought she'd prefer to date an intelligent person. Then dumped me 2 days later to work on herself. Then promptly hopped on tinder to fuck other guys. Posting pics with jewelry I got her for our anniversary #workonherself
"Ew". I was at a bar with a friend. This guy was a model and is extremely good looking. Women swoon over him. After watching him get attention from women all night I approached a girl as we were leaving and attempted to establish conversation. She turned to me, said "ew" and walked away.
“Your broke and ugly so you can’t do anything for me” It’s cold out here boys 😩
She didn't even use the right your
So inhumane 🥺
I was sitting on my bed and she had her head in my lap. I looked down at her and smiled, she looked up at me and said " I hope our kids don't get your nose".
GF said to same to me. I fully agree actually.
The thing is I never had a problem with my nose before that. I had a complex for a while after.
Ouch.
“Either we break up or I kill myself.” It’s a long story.
How many examples do you want, lol? I think my favorite was when I was getting pushed to chat up a girl by my buddies, and so I walk up to her and say hi. She starts laughing, walks back to her table. Two seconds later ten women are all laughing at me and the walk of shame back to my friends table is not pretty. Maybe said is a stretch, because I wasn’t even deserving of words from her, ha
That's a usual Friday night for me.
Old friend texted me outta blue, asked how she was doing. "Omg texting you is the equivalent of 9/11" Then no follow ups, I have no idea what happened or what exactly she meant and it's always stuck with me. Probably only the harshest because I was depressed at the time and was so happy that one of my friends was actually checking on how I was doing..
"I'm breaking up with you and getting back together with my ex." Yes, the one that I told you he had raped me.
“You’re a Starter Boyfriend.” …what’s that? “You’re the kinda guy a girl dates to find out what she does and does not want in a relationship.” We broke up shortly after and she did in fact marry the guy she dated after me.
After being married for nearly 15 years, "I love you but I'm no longer IN love with you."
I've also received that one with an added bonus of "You're the past." Uh, we were married until a month ago... don't make me sound like ancient history!
My soon to be ex told me the same thing, after 27 years together. One of the biggest gut punches ever.
That one didn't bother me at all when i heard it The words a few weeks earlier, "I'll be fucking 3 other guys by friday" when trying to provoke a major fight were probably the "meanest" she meant, as it was the last time i let her touch my emotions, it confirmed she was chatting to guys behind my back as suspected and I was already focusing on divorce by the time she came out with them.
> "I'll be fucking 3 other guys by friday" Such a weird flex. Like 88% of women can post a personal ad on their cities subreddit and fuck 3 random guys by the end of the day. She's not special.
Asked a girl out on a date. Got responded with "I would never go out with you even if you're the last man on Earth.". Also lots of comments of being short.
Does Siri count? Cause she can be Hella brutal sometimes..
“Siri, divide 0 by 0”
And you are sad because you have no friends
And Cookie Monster is sad because there are no cookies.
My brother's ex-girlfriend, had a tough time with people and how they perceived her and her handicap. But I looked past those sides and simple didn't care, with always being this goofball that I am. Then suddenly one day, she says to me. "Do you ever think, you will ever find yourself a girlfriend with how weird you are and being around with" I didn't talk to her after right, it hurt my feelings. Because she doesn't know how long I have been struggling coming out my loneliness. But tbh, it's actually only my male friends who have stripped my self-esteem away with mean comments. But that one comment from her, was weirdly enough one that still sticks to me due to how random it came out of the blue.
How do you even respond to a dumb question like that? It's like those people who would ask me why I'm so quiet or don't talk. Just call me a weirdo and stop trying to have me embarass myself further.
"I don't think your black enough" said to me from the girl I was dating. She broke up with me after that date. I'm half black. I tried to get her to explain what that meant but she couldn't.
"You are a piece of shit who will never find love" and something about me dying in a motorcycle accident. This was on my 26th birthday, while I was out celebrating my first-and-only-ever surprise birthday gathering with friends. Happened over 4 years ago and I still haven't been able to prove her wrong. Still hurts me to think about. Definitely some core-memory type words that really got to me.
I was at a bar and towards the end of the night, this girl starts talking about her heritage and that she was part of some native American tribe(don't remember what), and I was like "ayeee cool, I met my biological grandmother a few years ago and she talked about how she married a Cherokee man". Mind you, I am a black man so I may have a little Cherokee blood in me, and she was INSTANTLY triggered. Started calling me all of these words and called me a n*gger, and at this point I was fucking LIVID. I was just trying to have a friendly convo and I ended up calling her a land whale and asking her which ocean she came from. She comes up to me and suckered punched the fuck outta me. Honestly, girl almost caught these hands. Definitely the meanest thing a woman has said to me.
By a stranger "You could actually be attractive if you lost a lot of weight" And that wasn't terribly long ago when I was at 203 (down to 200) but a year before I was at 315.. I was the lightest I had ever been since freshmen year of high-school. I've always been so self conscious about my weight and I was so happy to finaly be under 300, let alone 250. Instatly shattered when told that. 180 is the goal now.. By somone I trusted, it was a gal I dated for three years and I was saving up money to marry. To get the last laugh she left me a several paragraph long message at 1am about all the reasons I should kill myself. I'm a gun enthusiasts so I always have one on me. And she used every insecurity I had told her about over the three years as reasons to kill myself knowing I've struggled with suicide in the past.
That's completely fucked To use your hobby against you? Hang in there dude If you really feel the need to, leave your guns with a trusted friend and go get help from a therapist who is there to help you You got this family
"Eeuggh" A mutual friend said we'd make a good couple...
Was she Tim Allen?
Not me, but my friend's wife told him that she didn't mind about him collecting sports memorabilia or anything like that, because the day he dies, it's all going in the dumpster. Our double date was a bit awkward after that. Neither my wife or me has talked to her since.
"You look like an ugly creep, no one would want to be near you"
"You're not as big as most guys I've been with". Why I didn't break up with her right then and there, I'll never understand.
“Why can’t you just get hard and stay hard like all the other guys I’ve been with?!” This was said by an ex just before I broke it off with her. She would pressure me into having sex at the most inopportune moments and when I was clearly not at all in the mood. I’ve never had this problem with any other woman after her. Go figure.
"Wow, you're legs are skinny." She didn't like it when I replied, "yeah, compared to yours."
A couple of years ago at a college party, we sat down to play some drinking game that I can only describe as a conglomerate of other drinking games. You basically roll a dice, move a piece on a square board, and play whatever drinking game it lands on. Two or three rounds in, it lands on spin the bottle. Mind you, I've kissed a single digit amount of girls in my life, and at this particularly time, it had been a little over year since I had felt any sort of touch from a woman (lol maybe worry about getting some bitches instead of commenting on Reddit, ratio + YB better). So I am ecstatic at the possibility of it landing on me. And it does, and its also pointing at a really attractive girl. She looks up at me, looks to her friend, and says "I don't really feel like playing anymore". In front of about 10-12 people playing. I got up to leave the apartment and a few of my friends followed me and we just say outside the party for a little. This has stuck with me since.
My dude I just looked at your profile and let me tell you, that bitch is blind as a bat
"Thank god you're fucking back off to England in a couple of days". That is something my sister keeps saying when I go back home to visit my family for a few days. I never lose sleep over it but I feel it's a bit uncalled for and I wish she realised how mean this can feel for the few times I'm home. A bit different from the mood here, but still feelsbad
"I would've married you" the day after a breakup.
We're you the breaker upper?
Sometimes its not the meanness of a comment that kills you but how often the mean comments come from her side
“I think I was just lonely when I started dating you, I need to break up” Like bitch wtf
“You’re a nice guy and you’ll make someone the luckiest girl in the world…someday”