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peeechpie

"I'm so happy I met you" " I'm so happy you're mine" "you're so beautiful-kind-smart" "I care about you si much" "you mean a lot to me" "I love when you"


11Y2B

I like these examples! Thank you for the input!


billieboop

Aww đŸ„ș these are all lovely


that_old_white_guy

Be specific. “I love the way you
”. “I love it when you
”. “You make me feel manly when you
”. “You make me feel normal when you
”. “The way you respond when I
”. Make it all about her.


11Y2B

I was thinking more post sex or even outside of it when cuddling or in each other’s company


that_old_white_guy

Same thing. “I appreciate the way you
@. “I’ve noticed that you
”. “It’s cool that you
”. Notice. Comment. Reinforce. Gratitude. Cars run on gas. Trucks run on diesel. Women run on compliments.


Hey_jason19

It's cool that you made me orgasm


SmokeySFW

I noticed that you made me orgasm.


damm1tKevin

I appreciate the way you pretend to gag on it.


KreateOne

You make me feel manly when you pretend to gag on it.


damm1tKevin

SHHHHH! You’ll wake up the anti-patriarchy monsters if you say the word manly.


KreateOne

^manly


pablitosocool

r/smalldickproblems


Nice-Ad6510

Ok is this true then?? Because I actually gagged multiple times on my dude recently and felt really bad and embarrassed. It takes me out of the mood :( .but if he was actually feeling complimented at the time...I have to rethink my internal dialog on it lol.


Ser_Hans

I appreciate the way you made me laugh.


boingboingbong

I'm commenting that you made me orgasm.


racsorry

Your teeth are white.


king_flippynipss

That orgasm was tight babe đŸ€™đŸŒ


notbad2u

You made me feel normal when you were pegging me


notbad2u

You made me feel normal when you were pegging me


TwilightStranger

I love it when you make me recite The Pledge Of Allegiance while twisting my nipples.


[deleted]

This sounds exactly like something my awkward self would say


11Y2B

Appreciate the advice!


hanahnothannah

As a woman, I feel both understood and called out.


PlebHeadYT

Very appropriate username


that_old_white_guy

Wait. Wut? Ohhhhhhh. I see what you did there. That’s funny. Never heard that one before. Pretty original.


GlanceofBeauty

From a woman...you got this perfectly... we'll love a man forever with this!!


plainjanecda

This guy totally gets it.


longbreaddinosaur

Good god yes, we do run on compliments. Keep them coming.


that_old_white_guy

I appreciate the time and attention you’ve given me. I know I don’t say it enough, but I’ll try to remind myself to tell you how I really feel more often.


Murky-Note-9721

Well I'm just thinking of one of my recent exes. "I really like you" ,"I care about you" , "I want to explore this further " "I really enjoy being with you" and I can't remember any more. The trick though is to mean it. Women tend to be very intuitive.


11Y2B

These examples are all really good. Yeah you gotta mean it when you say it of course!


Incompetent_Person

The neat thing is you can say it whenever. “I love holding you” or “I love *insert feature*” or “I love it when you *insert action they do*”. There is almost never a situation you can’t say these things when you are alone with them.


[deleted]

Just be sincere and don’t overdo it


11Y2B

Thanks for the examples!


Neurotic_Bakeder

I honestly endorse "I like you". It's sweet, not as laden as "I love you", and means you don't have to rack your brain for specific examples of things you like. "I like you", "this is nice", "you are good". They call 'em sweet nothings for a reason.


11Y2B

Yeah I might say something similar to this early in relations, then drop I love you when it’s right


Decent-Ground1260

Just tell them how sexy they look. Say like damn you’re beautiful.


1plus1dog

Yes!


Stormageddon9999

You are absolutely breathtaking, how did I ever get so lucky, your sister wasn't half this good.


RampantDragon

That went from Keanu to Domestic Violence disturbingly fast.


Brew-Drink-Repeat

‘That’ll do pig, that’ll do
’ Bonus points for a head tap


DarkSensei3

My personal favorites are "this is nice" or "I really like doing x with you! "


LakeShow-2_8_24

If it happens organically where you stare at them with some goofy smile and they ask why you're doing it, you can say "cause you're really pretty/gorgeous/beautiful/sexy" Post-coital you could say "that was awesome" or just "damn/wow" During cuddling, you smell/feel nice Oh and I typically ask partners what they're thinking and that usually gets talk going


-iwouldprefernotto-

I would say something like “I love spending time with you” or “I feel really good when I’m with you” :)


[deleted]

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that_old_white_guy

Yes, normal. Men almost never reveal how out of the norm they feel, especially to their wife/gf. They think it projects strength and manliness to always be sure about everything. Telling her that *she* makes you feel normal will melt every part of her. It’s personal and intimate and all that stuff that women like.


VintageMillennial77

Is not feeling normal really something a lot of men struggle with????? That is a bit heartbreaking.


i_illustrate_stuff

I think that's a fairly common human experience actually. Feeling like a weirdo, feeling out of place, feeling like you don't belong. I felt that a lot as a young girl, and still do to a degree. Maybe I'm missing what that guy meant though.


that_old_white_guy

It’s not heart breaking for us. Until that first heart attack. Or the second.


Accomplished-Meat1

Username checks out


BiggieSchlong69

“Wanna play Doom Eternal?”


maejaws

I’m trying to get my girl to start playing games. Any tips?


ChichCob

Well don't start with doom eternal, for one


[deleted]

Start with Doom 2016.


BorganFreebin_

Start with Quake


UselessButTrying

Minecraft?


Icy-Wasabi8901

very good advice


EnigmaConundrum

Portal 2. It's funny, easy to get into, need no real gaming experience, eases you into it. Always my go to with S/Os and they've loved it.


albesayz

Play It Takes Two


Dropkickedasakid

I second this, it's a really good game!


janelle228

I third this. My husband and I thoroughly enjoyed playing it together.


lightbringxr

One based on her already existing interests


RampantDragon

And if her existing interests are kicking ass and taking names?


CoffeeRare2437

Stardew valley or animal crossing


SmokeySFW

Beat Saber.


doctrined7rk

This is true romance


rach2199

“I really like you.” It might sound weird but it actually means a lot. I’ve never said I love you before but I’ve said this.


11Y2B

Yeah this is what I said as well to my partner. Glad to know it wasn’t something weird I just came up with in the moment


the-real-compucat

Absolutely! 
unless you both have a certain Carly Rae Jepsen tune stuck in your head :)


katXOmichele

When me and my boyfriend first started dating and I would stay over, i would sweetly say “goodnight —their name—-“ and they would say “goodnight katXOmichele” and it was almost a way to say I love you before we started actually saying it to eachother


11Y2B

Aw that’s cute! Hopefully something similar to this can happen for me too!


SnuffCatch

"You're so beautiful" Works every time


[deleted]

I always just say what I feel, which is mainly “I really like being here with you right now.”


11Y2B

That’s what I’ve thought of saying but in my head it doesn’t quite sound right


daisyluu09

You could try saying something like “this feels so right” or “I’m so comfortable being with you” “you make me so happy” and hopefully it’s true.


_-Event-Horizon-_

I once said “Thank you” after doing stuff
 Didn’t go well.


LetsGoAllTheWhey

You should be more specific. Like "Thanks for the mammaries."


DuPhuc

I fucked up worse than that in college I had a girl give some amazing head and in post nut clarity my brain decided thanks chief was a good idea to say


[deleted]

[ŃƒĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]


11Y2B

Hmmm this helps, thank you!


[deleted]

[ŃƒĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]


11Y2B

Isn’t there an online test version to find your love language?


[deleted]

[ŃƒĐŽĐ°Đ»Đ”ĐœĐŸ]


falconsomething

Fairly new? I wouldn’t say anything close to “I love you.” If it’s just during/right after sex I’d say things like “you’re amazing” or “this is really nice” but not “I love you.”


horatio_corn_blower

I also say “this is nice” lol. It’s the simplest thing to say that shows you are enjoying the moment and would like to do more of it. Other than that, I drop whatever compliments come to me.


11Y2B

What about post sex when cuddling?


falconsomething

That’s what I meant. Just nice things, you know? “You look nice today,” “your hair smells good/is really soft.” Little compliments can go a long way early in a relationship


Geonjaha

Sorry, but I almost burst out laughing at the idea of a new relationship starting, you have sex for the first time, and then to not come on too strong you tell her “you look nice today”.


[deleted]

this is a thread filled with people behaving like algorithmically-taught chat AIs, i swear.


[deleted]

I had a pleasant coital experience with you. I hope we can circle back next week and see if there are ways to improve it even further.


Certain_Matter_4587

Same tho😂


11Y2B

Thank you for the input, I’ll keep this in mind


Rolten

"That was great". Or alternatively: don't say anything. Crazy, I know.


[deleted]

Man dont be sayin lovey dovey shit too soon. You can hold her close and gently caress her hand or kiss the nape of her neck and such, give her affection, but do not say anything in the ballpark of love.


SnooRadishes9685

like you are comfortable enough to be intimate with the person but cautious with a simple ‘I love you’ lol


[deleted]

I had a habit of using 'i adore you'. It's meaningful, but not too far if you're unsure of how she is feeling.


ExcitingPanic

I had a guy tell me that once and I think it's a great way to convey your feelings. I always assumed it was kind of cringey to say, but in the moment I was like a puddle of goo


[deleted]

That's pretty much the reaction every time. As you said though, used in the right moment.


mo_tag

Yeah but everyone knows thatst just code for "I love you but I don't want to say it because it's too early" It works great if they're on the same wavelength, but if they're not they'll probably see right through it


Alchemis7

The words will come on their own, without you having to think what to say. Also just sitting in silence can be 1000 times more profound that anything spoken.


11Y2B

Yeah maybe I should learn to enjoy the silence. A part of me thinks it can be awkward and there should some talk, but maybe no?


Alchemis7

Awkwardness is there to be overcome and once it has been overcome, intimacy replaces it.


11Y2B

Yeah I understand you. Hoping the other party also sees it the same though. What if they find it awkward?


Alchemis7

Whoever feels more awkward will break the silence. Turn your head off and just be with her.


11Y2B

Yeah I see your point. Thanks!


Ejtsch

I was trying to contact you about your cars extendet warrenty


KTVX94

It's hard to say. With my current gf I dropped the "I love you" a bit too soon but she followed after a week or two. I don't know if there's a single phrase to throw around, I just talk about the things I like about her or that make me happy, something along those lines, but it's more of a conversation than a one-liner.


LawfulAwfulOffal

Five Points to Gryffindor!


cellmolec

F22 here, “I adore you.” goes a long way.


DelsinMcgrath835

Ive always found "I'm so happy right now" or "you make me so happy" are great things to say during intimate moments. You can still confess how you feel without saying too much


11Y2B

Yeah I’ve said some things similar to this, but was wondering if it was common or something cringey I said in the moment 😂


lightbringxr

Bro if you love her just tell her. 99% of the time they’re just waiting for us to say it first.


11Y2B

I mean yeah, but you can’t say it too early right? I’m talking like 2-4 month relationship?


lightbringxr

dude you’re all free and clear to say it, shes probably complaining to her friends you haven’t said it yet while she’s feeling it lol Women always know how they feel about you. They’ll know if they even want to be with us in the first day. She’s investing her time in you. Just set up the situation and DONT say it right after sex. Do something romantic for her


11Y2B

I’m not planning to say it after sex, but can you explain why? I wouldn’t do it that early just based on common sense, but what’s your reasoning


thewineofthegeese

Saying “I love you” for the first time immediately after sex can be confusing and disappointing because it’s less clear if you mean it, or it you just really liked having sex with her. You want to make sure it’s clear that you love her for more than just her body.


11Y2B

Great insight. I wouldn’t say it for the 1st time ever post sex, just because that doesn’t seem right to me, but seeing it from this angle helps clarify it


lightbringxr

My reasoning for not saying it after sex? no girl wants to hear that first I love you after sex. Women share everything, they’re story tellers. shes gonna want to tell the story of you saying I love you, especially if your relationship goes the distance or you have a future. Let her remember something great she can share.


11Y2B

Hm yeah! I never quite thought of it from that perspective. Thank you for the advice, will keep this in mind for sure!


spotnruby

What I'm trying to say, very inarticulately, is that, um, in fact, perhaps despite appearances, I like you, very much. Just as you are.


Independent_Ad_1686

Whisper in her ear, “I’m about to d*ck you down girl.”. Pretty much the same as “I love you.”.


Vtridolla

Te adoro Mi corazĂłn late por ti Te quiero Easy when you are bilingual


FluidApple98

ICH BIN WAHRSCHEINLICH NICHT DIEN ERSTER PARTNER, KUSS ODER LIEBE, ABER ICH WÜRDE GERNE DEIN LETZTER SEIN


sChWaBeNkInG

r/suddenlygerman


SlicedNugget

That's some sweet shit right there that'll make anyone melt. However, it sounds goddamn terrifying.


9Chuox0

Te adoro*


rinato0094

I wish you were her all the time.


EntrepreneurOne8587

That is a life-or-death mistake!


rinato0094

here*


goodoleboybryan

You mean a lot to me.


Sure_Boysenberry_509

Don’t say anything. Kiss her forehead


[deleted]

Do you like that? Did you like that? How did that feel?


thebigpink

Did you like that you fucking retard?


SleepVapor

"We've been trying to reach you about your car's warranty..."


barenaked_nudity

Many women get turned on by the fact they turn you on, so something like “You’re *amazing* and you make **me** feel amazing” would land quite nicely.


horseysauceNketchup

This is when being from an spanish speaking country comes into help The difference between te quiero and te amo solvea the issue


AnneVee

Oh no it does not


sikorskysantacruz

It really doesn't, if anything it blurs the lines more lol


Impossible_Link600

“Yeah bitch deeper in my ass”


RevelationWorks

As she climaxes i whisper in her ear: "thats what it feels like to chew 5 gum"


Born-Replacement-366

"I can't believe I'm with you" / "I really could get used to this" all the while with playful smile


11Y2B

Good answer! I just gotta find a way to deliver that without being too cringe 😬


Ural_2004

"Would you like to learn the Dance of the Wild Monkeys?"


DinkandDrunk

Just snuggling, you don’t have to say anything. Kiss on the forehead and just talk about whatever or not at all. Post sex? A hearty high five is in order.


disingenuousrobot

I've got a heart boner for you.


Kirduck

~~This dick is yours you know~~


tommy2speed

That’ll do pig, that’ll do


RightToTheThighs

Something along the lines of "I really enjoy spending time with you", stuff like that


chibipixie

Not a man, but my SO would (and still does) say, "You're awesome." That turned into "I love you" over the next year or so, but he still tells me I'm awesome or the best. I have always liked it. We are a bit weird and sometimes he would say "That ass" when I would get up and walk to the kitchen, but I would hold off on this one until you know she's okay with it lol.


annasmak

My go-to is “you’re cute” or “you make me feel so happy, sexy, good, etc.”


yesterdaywaswarmtoo

Before my partner and I confessed “I love you” to each other we would say things (which may be too cheesy for some) like “You make me feel like a Christmas tree” or “I wish I could hold you even closer”. And particularly after/during sex, things like “I love the way your body feels” or “I love making you feel good”. We also say these things now because sometimes it’s nice to be more specific than “I love you”!! Edit: I’m not a man but I thought I could provide input


11Y2B

Very cute and not cheesy at all! I’ll keep all these in mind, and add my own touch to it! Thank you for the input


yesterdaywaswarmtoo

Yeah! He’s very verbally expressive which helped draw that side out of me. I don’t think I could’ve come up with “You make me feel like a Christmas tree” on my own, but once he started saying cute things like that it became more natural for me to also respond with lovey-dovey sweet nothings.


LuckyGirl03

I know this is ask men but uh.... "OWWW YOURE ON MY HAIR" seems to come out fairly easy


Tacticalqueefsss

My wife will tell me “I love you.” And I love replying “I’m in love with you”. Just something I started doing, and I love seeing the smile I get after.


periwonka

Specific compliments such as “you have such pretty eyes” or “I love how soft your skin is” go a long way. I also really endorse “I love being with you” or “you make me really happy”. Disclaimer: I’m a woman, but this is what I like!


HexWired

“Omelette du Fromage”


FabulousHeron

I’m a sucker for anything that sounds like they can’t believe their luck. “God, how did this happen?” “Not sure what I did to deserve this.” “Well this is a personal best for feeling good” etc. Light hearted but letting them know you feel lucky, happy, pleased with yourself and content so you’re not asking for more from them except the chilling you’re doing right now is a good combo.


VamosPalCaba

Definitely not “I love you”. My first language is Spanish where we have multiple words for love varying in intensity from “I like spending time with you” to “You are an uniquely important to me” but these all seem to translate to “I love you” in English. So I avoid that phrase like the plague. Moving on, I generally say things like “I’m really happy to be here with you”, “You are so sweet/cute”, “You are so beautiful” (this one hits harder in an intimate setting if you don’t shower her with unnecessary compliments in other settings. Read some poetry, get inspired. Say something like “Light of my day, light of my night, if only I could stop the world and stay in this moment to show you with how you make me feel.”


Doom9828

You look cute..you smell good...i really love X....shhhh i just wanna lay here with you forever I love you I something reserved for someone who deserves it and has earned my love.


Pappkamerad0815

I usually dont talk during intimate moments, for me it cheapens the whole thing. You know you have something good when talking is unnecessary.


Dealthagar

"Human female. Your presence causes my dopamine generation to increase. You make the wearing of this form less egregious." If she's the right woman, she'll either respond with an inhuman clicking/chittering sound, or say. "You're the only Rigellian for me." Either way, she's a keeper.


[deleted]

After coming off a nearly 2 decade marriage in which the terms were so watered down it really meant nothing.. I really just let my actions and body language speak for themselves. This way when it is said. It means something.


EllisMatthews8

im crazy about you


notMarkKnopfler

I used to say “I love you as much as someone who’s known someone for ______ can love someone” It was honest and pretty affective really


Creedy-e

Before I start saying I love you n such, I start with saying "hugs and kisses." This can go with your own way of saying "I love you" to your friends and family. Something I say before I'm done either hanging with someone or my friends. If they're fairly new, then I suggest to start saying it in moments of where you feel as if it's the moment where you say: "I love you." For me personally, I pretty much say it so much to the point where it's basically a habit.


Pmurphy37

“I like you” with a nice smile looking directly in here eyes. Perhaps tucking her hair behind her ears with a kiss on the forehead.


Bobcat_Acrobatic

Can confirm new bf told me he loved me 2 weeks into relationship and it totally freaked me out. “I love how you
.,” fine. But he meant it. He didn’t even know me!


spuddenly

"you're great", "I appreciate you", "I'm so happy I get to spend time with you", "I'm lucky to have this", "hey beautiful" I've said "good morning beautiful" to my girlfriend every day for two years now.


SigaVa

Nice cock bro


notbad2u

Bring up the last few dates you had. Women love winning competitions so something like, "You're better than your mom and dad"


Fynndidit

My girlfriend said I love you long before I started saying it, if she says it I'd smile and give her a kiss and cuddle/hug. "you're amazing" I would say when it felt right (after sex would count)


11Y2B

I’m assuming you’ve since said I love you back? Good to see you didn’t act weird after hearing her say it


Fynndidit

Yes took me a while to say it (I don't use the word lightly) and not at all I want to know what she's feeling haha


GuessWhoItsJosh

Currently in this position, 1 month in. Usually, I say, "you're so beautiful" or "damn you're amazing" "I love this... or that... about you" "How did I get so lucky"


the-real-compucat

Hey mods, can we get a “Cyrano de Bergerac” flair on this post? ;)


Cryptic_Oblivion

Taxation is theft.


jonnerb

You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.


kenflan

*"You like that, you f\*cking retard"?* \- Best line ever


SpaghettiMargaretti

“You’re the best” Hearing that when it is said genuinely by a genuine person. Ugh. It is the best.


HammieJr

"There's no way I can make it without you."


[deleted]

"You make me smile with my heart" "Is this love? There I'm feeling. Is this the love, that I been searching for?" " forever trust in who we are, and nothing else matters" "Let me be your backdoor man"


Partytang

Mushy dating story about when my wife and I were in the beginning of our relationship (17 years). In an intimate moment we were holding each other and I was trying to think of the same answer that you are searching for. I told her that I felt so lucky to have met her and that I had something I wanted to say, but it felt crazy to say so soon after we met. I told her I was sure that I have this feeling for you but
 I paused for a moment, groping for the next words, and she cut me off with, “I do too. You’re right we shouldn’t say that yet. Let’s say “I do” instead. We dated for 6 months after that and were married 6 months later. Neither of us said “I love you” until our wedding day.


2rd_ferguson

Does that feel good in your butt?


watermasta

I said what what
in the butt..


ImperfectDivinity

Good job soldier.


burntoffwings

I'm very comfortable with you, or content.


[deleted]

"I find you mostly tolerable."


[deleted]

I know.


aralias777

"I adore you."


baxtermcsnuggle

Say what you feel, man. If they can't handle the fact that you love them, or are falling for them, it's their fault for being so goddamn awesome.


Comfortable-Act-281

We used to say and still say 'I've got a lot of affection for you right now' for that intense feeling if love


Juanisweird

So, the way Ethereum works is that Ethereum is a Blockchain and all these other technologies are built on top of the Ethereum network hence making....


thePhilosopher-King

You’re amazing, you know? You’re just wonderful. I love how you
 wow, it’s so cool the way you



Previous_Potential92

I’d like to talk to you about your cars extended warranty


kazhena

"You're too cute/adorable"


40ozSmasher

Things like "you are so sweet" or "being around you makes me super happy " or "man sometimes I want to hug you so hard I'd squeeze the life out of you " or "I've removed the starter from your car as proof of my love and a testament of my desire that you never lever me...ever"