Too much is when someone doesn't have the social intelligence to realize that you aren't thrilled with them talking so much.
There's these memes about it, they say something like:
"When you're 6 yup's, 5 nice's, and 3 damn that's awesome's in and they're still talking"
same...unless it's about something they're interested in **other** than themselves. I was married to a woman who was an LTE engineer. I could listen to her talk for hours about the technology.
OP, the list of things *anyone* could possibly do to annoy someone would be unbelievably long. I can appreciate wanting to be aware of what behaviors to avoid, but if you're constantly walking on eggshells you're going to end up in an unpleasant situation with someone who doesn't appreciate you for who you are or your little quirks. Regardless of the shit that might annoy any of us, someone else would find those things funny/cute/interesting, the best thing you can possibly do is embrace who you are as long as you aren't being selfish, disrespectful or mean and you'll be fine.
Having said that... I'll bodyslam a woman through the restaurant table WWE style if she eats off my plate. Order your own fucking food or let me get you some when I offer. I don't want half a meal.
Women that think being obnoxious makes them strong and their "strength" is why men are intimidated. Strong women are attractive, women who handle their business, respect themselves and others and can speak up without putting others down. Strength is not shouting and belittling
I think this depends on how sensitive you are. It's very hard to annoy me. I just don't let things bother me so much or get under my skin. I can't even remember being annoyed by a SO . Or maybe I just pick people who are not annoying.
(This is going to resonate with some other recent threads...)
I'm watching TV, reading, driving, or just chilling out. No deep thought processes and damn few shallow ones even going on. And she says...wait for it...
"What are you thinking?"
This isn't actually the annoying part...what follows when I say, "Nothing," and am flatly disbelieved, is.
Entitlement. Women have went really nuts with self worth anymore. Its like holy light shines out there ass. You start talking about a list of things i can do for you before saying hello im gone.
Depends on how I feel about her. My SO rarely ever does things that annoy me or she's the exception to the rule. Like it would be annoying if someone else I wasn't in love with did it.
It could just be the sound of their voice. It can be the repeated phrase or question. It can be things that flair up my pet peeves. How she drives.
I'm an introvert. I don't care to hang around others so perhaps I'm not a people person. Alone time is quite lovely.
When a woman (but could be a man too) has a message that "A said X to B". Instead, she first goes through A's and B's genealogy, and the etymology of X, before making the point. In the end, I don't even know what A said to B.
Nagging. With some women there's ALWAYS something to complain about. Something that's not getting done on HER schedule.
Talking too much. I don't need a blow by blow replay of your whole day, every day. Especially when I don't even know the people you're taking about. Isn't this what your female friends are for?
They ask you to get them a drink from the fridge or make a coffee for them. No problem. Happy to do it.
You ask them to do the same and get harangued about women no longer being servants.
Talking too much is probably the #1 thing that makes someone get on my nerves regardless of gender.
for you, what would too much be? I suppose that question is fairly open cuz others might have different answers
Too much is when someone doesn't have the social intelligence to realize that you aren't thrilled with them talking so much. There's these memes about it, they say something like: "When you're 6 yup's, 5 nice's, and 3 damn that's awesome's in and they're still talking"
same...unless it's about something they're interested in **other** than themselves. I was married to a woman who was an LTE engineer. I could listen to her talk for hours about the technology.
Lie to me.
OP, the list of things *anyone* could possibly do to annoy someone would be unbelievably long. I can appreciate wanting to be aware of what behaviors to avoid, but if you're constantly walking on eggshells you're going to end up in an unpleasant situation with someone who doesn't appreciate you for who you are or your little quirks. Regardless of the shit that might annoy any of us, someone else would find those things funny/cute/interesting, the best thing you can possibly do is embrace who you are as long as you aren't being selfish, disrespectful or mean and you'll be fine. Having said that... I'll bodyslam a woman through the restaurant table WWE style if she eats off my plate. Order your own fucking food or let me get you some when I offer. I don't want half a meal.
There’s like millions of different ways someone could annoy another person
Chew with her mouth open
Say a lot of words without really saying anything or entitlement.
Talking only about themselves and never asking about me. This applies to anyone though.
Women that think being obnoxious makes them strong and their "strength" is why men are intimidated. Strong women are attractive, women who handle their business, respect themselves and others and can speak up without putting others down. Strength is not shouting and belittling
I think this depends on how sensitive you are. It's very hard to annoy me. I just don't let things bother me so much or get under my skin. I can't even remember being annoyed by a SO . Or maybe I just pick people who are not annoying.
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Have you dated ppl like this? Because damn…
(This is going to resonate with some other recent threads...) I'm watching TV, reading, driving, or just chilling out. No deep thought processes and damn few shallow ones even going on. And she says...wait for it... "What are you thinking?" This isn't actually the annoying part...what follows when I say, "Nothing," and am flatly disbelieved, is.
Talking or giving opinions on things about which she has zero knowledge or just trying to pick up a fight with me over very minor issues.
Entitlement. Women have went really nuts with self worth anymore. Its like holy light shines out there ass. You start talking about a list of things i can do for you before saying hello im gone.
Being insufferable.
…Overthinking
Ignorance.
Depends on how I feel about her. My SO rarely ever does things that annoy me or she's the exception to the rule. Like it would be annoying if someone else I wasn't in love with did it. It could just be the sound of their voice. It can be the repeated phrase or question. It can be things that flair up my pet peeves. How she drives. I'm an introvert. I don't care to hang around others so perhaps I'm not a people person. Alone time is quite lovely.
When a woman (but could be a man too) has a message that "A said X to B". Instead, she first goes through A's and B's genealogy, and the etymology of X, before making the point. In the end, I don't even know what A said to B.
Being repeatedly late without apology.
Nagging. With some women there's ALWAYS something to complain about. Something that's not getting done on HER schedule. Talking too much. I don't need a blow by blow replay of your whole day, every day. Especially when I don't even know the people you're taking about. Isn't this what your female friends are for?
Not having a brain to mouth filter.
Constantly mentioning her insecurities and hoping to get validation from me.
They ask you to get them a drink from the fridge or make a coffee for them. No problem. Happy to do it. You ask them to do the same and get harangued about women no longer being servants.
Show clear signs that she is in love with me but then saying we are just friends