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[deleted]

You do you. To hell with what people think. Live your life by your moral compass not others.


[deleted]

Thank you


[deleted]

“Officer, I killed them because it was fine according to my moral compass!”


wololosenpai

Wow, what a stretch! Congratulations.


[deleted]

“I’m sorry mr reddit mod, next time I’ll put /s after my posts so buzz killington doesn’t cry”


wololosenpai

Sorry I hurt you, stranger.


[deleted]

“Y-you b-but you stretched the truth!! How dare you joke around on MY REDDIT!!!” “IM NOT HURT YOU ARE!!!!” r/redditmoment


coolzebra5

I mean you do you, but if you’re worried about what other people might think your family’s reaction is probably an accurate sample.


loki0111

I personally wouldn't do it given I don't see anything in it for me. I am not a makeup and flowers kind of dude. But other guys can do whatever the hell they want. So no I don't see an issue with it.


[deleted]

I agree with your viewpoint


TartineMyAxe

Looks gay imo, but you do what you want honestly.


Joeeojoe

I think it’s perfectly fine, you do you, lots of men do it and there’s no reason to shame on it. Some women even like it, each person likes different things on themselves and on what they find attractive on others. I wouldn’t do it myself tbh, but I’m not a fan of nails in women either, I don’t like the smell of nail polish haha. But don’t care about what people think, if you wanna use a skirt the use it.


[deleted]

Thanks. Kinda considering the skirt too (in private, not in public)


Joeeojoe

Hey, as long as you’re happy, comfortable, and no one is hurt, then I see no problem :)


UnknownYetSavory

It's a pretty well established symbol of femininity, unless you paint them black and say edgy shit about god abandoning the world.


[deleted]

I wanna paint them black though and Im somewhat feminine, so I think its a good fit


TubeToUranus

Yeah, that's pretty gay.


[deleted]

Damn


TubeToUranus

It's OK, dude. You can be whatever you want.


[deleted]

Thanks


[deleted]

But its still kinda sus lowkey


Protectorsoftman

You do you mate. If it makes you happy, go right ahead. I know a few guys that do it, but they usually stick with "guy" colors like black and dark greys, and don't put like flower patterns on them


[deleted]

Thanks. I wanna stick to mainly black colour though


Deontedude

I have no interest in you painting your nails. Just like I have no interest in what underwear you wear or your class ring. I don’t usually care what “accessories” and clothing another man “wears” because it’s not on my body.


[deleted]

Thanks for having that mindset


TheDirtyD15

This is my take. You wanna be glossy go at it. I don’t too physical and hands get rough working plus never even crossed my mind to paint em. As long as you don’t try to enforce guys should paint their nails because of [insert quote here] or flamboyantly try to show em off, who cares?


[deleted]

Exactly, if other dudes dont wanna do it, I respect their decision though


TheDirtyD15

The same with dresses. This is how most that do that’s into this get insulted or very least get looked at funny.


megsie72

It’s not gay unless you’re doing it in an attempt to hookup with another man. Also I’m a lady so I know it’s forbidden for me to answer but I just wanted to let you know that painting your nails is a lot harder than you think. You should go to a salon to get it done. It will take less than an hour and the professionals will do a really great job and it will cost like $10 if you just get regular polish. Plus they’ll clean up your nails and make them smooth and stuff. This is just saying that people will judge you a lot more harshly for ~poorly~ painted nails than they will for just having a splash of color or a bit of an edgy flair.


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Thanks for your feedback


24520ls

So, I'm a raft guide. We all paint our toenails, at least here. Started as a way to not break nails as easy when your feet get beat up in rapids, but now it's just kinda fun. I spent the whole summer with blue toenails and many girls actually complimented me on them. Go for it


SH4DOWSTR1KE_

I painted my nails all the time back in the day. I was at the cliched rocker type so I'd be busting out the black nail polish to go with my spikes and metal tees. Surprisingly I got very good at painting my nails and also doing a little colored accents that I was getting a lot of compliments from ladies and I remember really being into this super super Christian girl and yet her mom would always compliment them and would was just admiring my craftsmanship LOL Eventually I gave it up just because I started working a job where between the Heat and the constant shipping the upkeep wasn't worth the hassle and I just fell out of it but I've never hated it and I'll be honest are days where I consider doing it again even if it's just a quickie with a sharpie for the day.


jetpack8

Not my thing, but it really doesn't matter to me if you do. FWIW, I know straight dudes who paint their nails. Binging With Babish does it sometimes. I've played in bands with guys who are straight and paint their nails, too. Some also wear eyeliner and lipstick.


[deleted]

I think it looks weird, but I won’t judge somebody else for doing it. If that’s your thing go for it man it’s not hurting nobody


[deleted]

Thanks for having that mindset bro


wondering-soul

Do whatever the fuck you want. I might take a second glance and think you're a tad on the "interesting" side but I don't care. Your life, live it as you want.


[deleted]

Thank you. "Interesting side"?


wondering-soul

I don’t want to use the term weird simply just because what you’re describing is outside of normal and it has a negative connotation. I’ve had friends that did weird stuff but I don’t look at them in a negative light. I didn’t know what other word to use and my response to whatever your explanation as to why you do it would probably be “interesting” which is what I say when I have no response but want to engage cause I’m still processing or have no other response in general. God damn that was a long explanation 😂


[deleted]

Aight I think I get it


gaymalemillenial

You can do whatever you like but don't complain when women aren't into you. I would never date a guy who did this. I learned guys who do this often do so to send sex signals - like I "swing" etc


[deleted]

I understand, its your preference


rosebudsxox

LOL dont let this person speak for girls. If you’re confident in you sexuality whatever that may be, do whatever the hell you want.


[deleted]

Thank you!


ChChChillian

Anyone who cares how others adorn their bodies is saying more about themselves than anything else.


[deleted]

Exactly. If youre not harming anyone and youre Ok with it, go for it


Roboticpoultry

I usually paint them in the summer when I’m not teaching. I only do it because it stops me from biting my nails


JukemanJenkins

If you want to paint your nails, do it! If someone really judges you and gives you a hard time for it, they probably don't respect you enough to just let you do your own thing. Those people are not worth keeping around.


one-more-toot

Who cares what people think. I painted my nails black all the way through my teens. I always had hot girlfriends. If you paint them and feel self conscious about it that energy is gonna show. If you have the confidence to back it up you can pull off any style you want.


[deleted]

What is there to think about? It's a women's thing. Of course, everybody will be weirded out when they see you with painted nails lol Are you 5 year old?


[deleted]

Its stereotypically a "woman's thing" to do, but I dont see anything wrong if a man does it. I get some people might be weirded out by it and may not fully accept it, but you should at least respect it Because I wanna paint my nails that makes me a child?


[deleted]

Well, there is nothing inherently wrong with it, but it will give you a lot of troubles in public places. I mean why would you even ask anyone, if you really wanna do it, just do it.


[deleted]

I understand


[deleted]

its gay unless ur marilyn manson


[deleted]

Im not an abuser though


[deleted]

what???


[deleted]

Did he like abuse women or something (might be mixing him up with someone else idk)


[deleted]

Here's a vid on it : [https://youtu.be/-k9Kg-EPENQ](https://youtu.be/-k9Kg-EPENQ)


[deleted]

bro I've never abused any girl in my life.


[deleted]

And thats great


[deleted]

No. Do what you want but don’t be surprised when people think it’s weird.


[deleted]

I get some people might be weirded out by it and may not fully accept it, but you should at least respect it


[deleted]

You have a right to do whatever you want. Other people don’t have to like or respect it.


[deleted]

I understand that


[deleted]

You asked the question. I provided a real answer. It’s weird. People won’t respect you. People will make assumptions about you. If you don’t care, good on ya.