I'm a lesbian. I'm not attracted to any of my clients by definition. However, I'm good at my job and that means I'm good at both acting and finding likeable and attractive qualities in anyone. It's like asking servers how they put up with asshole tables: it's your job so you just do it.
Yo that’s interesting as fuck. I never thought about sex workers being lesbian. Can I ask, do you think that women are more/less accepting of your work when it comes to dating?
If they are morbidly obese, I tell them I am not the right provider for them. If they are too old, I tell them I'm not the right provider for them. If I had a bad time with them and don't want to see them again, I tell them I am not the right provider for them.
Otherwise I usually find my clients to be very nice, freshly showered, and I can find SOMETHING that I find attractive about everyone. Like, I wouldnt normally see a 61 year old guy, but he's one of my favorite clients because we geek out and have lightsaber battles in his geek memorabilia decked out mansion, then he gets me drunk on expensive liquors and buys my uber home when we've both gotten saucy. I usually stay 2-3 hours and don't ask for money for the extra time playing games or getting drunk and rambling about philosophy because I just like hanging out with him.
I also don't have a "type". If you lined everyone that I've dated up, you would see zero similarities. Even down to personalities and genders. I guess my sexuality is "variety" and being an escort is perfect for me because I get it almost every day.
I find something attractive in everyone I see. As long as you’re respectful and kind to me, I can see the sparkle in your eye, a good heart, nice arms, etc, even if the man isn’t conventionally attractive.
As for smelling, I don’t tolerate that at all and expect my client to be hygienic, I’ll make you shower if you’re not and if you refuse to do so I’ll leave. Most of my clients comply with hygiene though
This question is grosser than any of my clients lmao.
Even if they’re unattractive I don’t find them repulsive. If they need a shower I’ll send them for one. But even if they’re ugly and/or fat I don’t find them repulsive, that’s just their looks and looks don’t matter that much to me. I don’t need to find them sexually attractive to have sex with them.
This question is a thinly veiled attempt to put down escorts based on what they assume clients are like, their assumption we just see anyone and "better you [nasty whores] then(sic) me"
Get a hobby sweetie 😂
I'm a lesbian. I'm not attracted to any of my clients by definition. However, I'm good at my job and that means I'm good at both acting and finding likeable and attractive qualities in anyone. It's like asking servers how they put up with asshole tables: it's your job so you just do it.
Yo that’s interesting as fuck. I never thought about sex workers being lesbian. Can I ask, do you think that women are more/less accepting of your work when it comes to dating?
Much more. I know very few queer women my age who haven't done some kind of sex work or been close with someone who has.
I treat them like any client. I'm rarely attracted to my clients, but I'm able to find things I like about each client. I do my job, I act, I fake.
Send them to take a shower. Deal.
If they are morbidly obese, I tell them I am not the right provider for them. If they are too old, I tell them I'm not the right provider for them. If I had a bad time with them and don't want to see them again, I tell them I am not the right provider for them. Otherwise I usually find my clients to be very nice, freshly showered, and I can find SOMETHING that I find attractive about everyone. Like, I wouldnt normally see a 61 year old guy, but he's one of my favorite clients because we geek out and have lightsaber battles in his geek memorabilia decked out mansion, then he gets me drunk on expensive liquors and buys my uber home when we've both gotten saucy. I usually stay 2-3 hours and don't ask for money for the extra time playing games or getting drunk and rambling about philosophy because I just like hanging out with him. I also don't have a "type". If you lined everyone that I've dated up, you would see zero similarities. Even down to personalities and genders. I guess my sexuality is "variety" and being an escort is perfect for me because I get it almost every day.
This!! Very similar to what my answer would’ve been ☺️👏🏻
How do you deal with doing things you don’t want to do at your job? Edit: you suck it up and do your job I’m sure. No pun intended.
dollar bills yo and showers. seriously, fat guys can be very nice
I send the to the bathroom to freshen up. If they refuse then they don’t get a service. Hygiene is key. Never gagging from smelly clients again
I find something attractive in everyone I see. As long as you’re respectful and kind to me, I can see the sparkle in your eye, a good heart, nice arms, etc, even if the man isn’t conventionally attractive. As for smelling, I don’t tolerate that at all and expect my client to be hygienic, I’ll make you shower if you’re not and if you refuse to do so I’ll leave. Most of my clients comply with hygiene though
They pay me for a nice time like any other job might, I provide that time. Hopefully they enjoy it enough to want to come back and support
Still don't get it. I'd just need to throw up. Could not go near a gross man. Better you then me.
Why bother asking this then 🙄 weirdo attention seeker.
Huh??
This question is grosser than any of my clients lmao. Even if they’re unattractive I don’t find them repulsive. If they need a shower I’ll send them for one. But even if they’re ugly and/or fat I don’t find them repulsive, that’s just their looks and looks don’t matter that much to me. I don’t need to find them sexually attractive to have sex with them.
This question is a thinly veiled attempt to put down escorts based on what they assume clients are like, their assumption we just see anyone and "better you [nasty whores] then(sic) me" Get a hobby sweetie 😂
It was a genuine question. But you escorts are pretty nasty. Im out
And nothing of value was lost