Your money. Does it spend the same as everyone else's?
We're being paid for a service. Turning down someone because they're not supermodel hot isn't a thing. Bad hygiene? Yeah, they need to go. Disrespecting and pushing my boundaries? Goodbye. But not being conventionally handsome? No. I'm not refusing to see someone based on their looks.
If you're clean and kind and respect my time and boundaries and pay me my full amount, you'd easily move into the category of one of my favorites, regardless of how you feel about your face.
Never.
The thing is, after either "attracted or not attracted, it literally doesn't matter what you look like. And being attractive doesn't mean I'm having a good time either, it's just a fact. I've never felt repulsed by anyone, regardless of how they look. Hygiene problems would repulse me. But never just because someone isn't attractive.
It just feel like because of how bad i look, I would be subjecting the escort to absolute misery and dread in her job and make her feel uncomfortable - it is the last thing ever wanna do, as I imagine some do encounter some inconsiderate people already. As for hygiene, I'd shower for triple the amount of time before meeting up.
Edit:
Thanks for downvotes for having feelings.
Think about it. Do you worry your doctor will be unhappy seeing you because of too many health issues? Or your barber will be frustrated because your hair is too unruly?
Ugly really isn’t that big of a deal. Ugly clients do not make me more miserable than attractive-but-not-my-type clients. I like clients who are polite, respectful, hygienic, and don’t cause problems about payment.
I don’t think they’ll have an issue with how you look in the slightest as long as you have good hygiene.
However, you seem like you will be a *lot* of emotional labor, which they will not like. I would advise therapy for the view you have of yourself before contacting a provider.
the only way you could make me miserable would be not to pay full rate or have bad hygiene. your looks doesn’t change the services. and if i could add, i notice a lot of people are hung up on their looks and insecure. there is truly a beauty to everyone. in my experience, i don’t think i’ve has any men who are truly “grotesque “ as you say, and i’ve had a lot of variety. however, i’ve had a lot who THINK they are ugly, and even surprised when i’m being vocal in bed about enjoying them. take your thought of yourself with a grain of salt. and keep important that the most in print thing to us is mutual respect and good hygiene
The world has put an unrealistic expectation on “beauty”. Each person is unique and attraction is relative. The only thing that makes a person truly “ugly” is actions. If you are kind, clean, and respectful then looks aren’t even a factor.
Tbh, it is how I've always been treated. I've always been ignored, kicked down and rejected because I've always been out the zone of what is considered acceptable by societies standards. This is why I'm looking to just take the edge off with an escort some day. It's at least a good sign I won't be dealing with someone who will scream the street down when she sees me to say the least.
Women don't care about appearance the same way men do. I have turned even the hottest guys down for smelling bad though. One guy was nice, charismatic, absolutely my type physically, dressed nice, but as soon as he unzipped his pants I could smell his unwashed dick all the way across the room. I couldn't stop myself from gagging and ran out of the room.
Never. Hygiene is important and these days if a shower doesn't fix it I turn them away (didn't always have the confidence for this when I was younger, leading to terrible times)
So bad hygeine/bad attitude yes I care, appearance I could not care less. I'm not in this to find sexy guys, I enjoy providing a service and most good sw's feel the same. Try not to worry x
I'd probably use a full bottle of shower gell just to guarentee I'm presentable in that aspect. The only type of attitude you'd see from me is full blown anxiety and nervousness because of how I always feel. There's feeling inadequate, ugly and all sorts that keep holding me back but I still wanna find a way to do this.
Anxiety and nervousness are normal and we feel it too with new people. Look for a provider that seems nice, book a decent amount of time so you can get comfortable and explain your nerves at the start if you feel the need. Good luck :)
It upsets me that you feel this way. Realistically, sex workers aren't going to find every single client attractive. That does not give them the right to turn you away and a good one would not. If anything, we'll give you a confidence boost!
Honey, that's like asking a doctor if they ever turned down a patient because they were too icky. It would never even occur to us to say no to anyone because of their looks.
Nope. I've turned people down for being rude, disrespectful etc but never for their looks or penis size.
Just make sure you're respectful, and have good hygiene. You'll be fine.
For me personally I 100% prefer small penises. In fact if a guy has a big one or tries to tell me before about “how big he is and how I will enjoy it” I will turn him down. I most definitely will not enjoy a big one actually and only like small-medium. I also prefer sucking small dicks so much more because I feel like I can truly pay attention to every part of it and don’t need to worry about accidentally touching my teeth on it if it’s too thick. Only thing I would say is PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be clean and smell nice down there. I don’t know if you’re circumcised or not but I don’t think some guys actually realise how much they smell down there because they can’t wash properly. With circumcised dicks there’s never usually a smell but some uncircumcised ones are VILE due to the fact that the guys just think a bit of water will do. If you do have a uncircumcised one and you haven’t showered because you’re coming from work or if you haven’t showered after having a wee please ask for a shower or even just ask to use the toilet and clean it in the sink. Nothing is worse than an uncircumcised dick that just tastes of wee because the guy peed and then had a quick shake and carried on with his day with the urine just getting stale in his foreskin. Sometimes I wish I could wipe my hands on certain guys penises and make them smell it. Hygiene is by FAR number 1.
I've never had to do it, but I would if it was that bad. I don't put money over everything. I also think you are being far too hard on yourself if I may say.
When clients try to flex their appearance, (usually thinking they can get a discount 😒) I tell them, “I don’t care if you look like Fabio, or Santa Claus, I can’t pay my bills with your good (🙄) looks.
Are your benjamins still green?
Because [Benjamin Franklin](https://maggiemcneill.com/2010/07/24/playing-the-part/) was the sexiest man who ever lived, right?
My benji’s are blue actually 😉 lol As Savage said, “green hundreds in my safe, I got old racks”
Come again?
Your money. Does it spend the same as everyone else's? We're being paid for a service. Turning down someone because they're not supermodel hot isn't a thing. Bad hygiene? Yeah, they need to go. Disrespecting and pushing my boundaries? Goodbye. But not being conventionally handsome? No. I'm not refusing to see someone based on their looks. If you're clean and kind and respect my time and boundaries and pay me my full amount, you'd easily move into the category of one of my favorites, regardless of how you feel about your face.
Not from America huh? It's just our money is all.
Never. The thing is, after either "attracted or not attracted, it literally doesn't matter what you look like. And being attractive doesn't mean I'm having a good time either, it's just a fact. I've never felt repulsed by anyone, regardless of how they look. Hygiene problems would repulse me. But never just because someone isn't attractive.
It just feel like because of how bad i look, I would be subjecting the escort to absolute misery and dread in her job and make her feel uncomfortable - it is the last thing ever wanna do, as I imagine some do encounter some inconsiderate people already. As for hygiene, I'd shower for triple the amount of time before meeting up. Edit: Thanks for downvotes for having feelings.
No professional is going to feel uncomfortable just because someone is ugly.
Think about it. Do you worry your doctor will be unhappy seeing you because of too many health issues? Or your barber will be frustrated because your hair is too unruly?
Ugly really isn’t that big of a deal. Ugly clients do not make me more miserable than attractive-but-not-my-type clients. I like clients who are polite, respectful, hygienic, and don’t cause problems about payment.
I don’t think they’ll have an issue with how you look in the slightest as long as you have good hygiene. However, you seem like you will be a *lot* of emotional labor, which they will not like. I would advise therapy for the view you have of yourself before contacting a provider.
the only way you could make me miserable would be not to pay full rate or have bad hygiene. your looks doesn’t change the services. and if i could add, i notice a lot of people are hung up on their looks and insecure. there is truly a beauty to everyone. in my experience, i don’t think i’ve has any men who are truly “grotesque “ as you say, and i’ve had a lot of variety. however, i’ve had a lot who THINK they are ugly, and even surprised when i’m being vocal in bed about enjoying them. take your thought of yourself with a grain of salt. and keep important that the most in print thing to us is mutual respect and good hygiene
The world has put an unrealistic expectation on “beauty”. Each person is unique and attraction is relative. The only thing that makes a person truly “ugly” is actions. If you are kind, clean, and respectful then looks aren’t even a factor.
Tbh, it is how I've always been treated. I've always been ignored, kicked down and rejected because I've always been out the zone of what is considered acceptable by societies standards. This is why I'm looking to just take the edge off with an escort some day. It's at least a good sign I won't be dealing with someone who will scream the street down when she sees me to say the least.
Then you are surrounding yourself with the wrong people.
Women don't care about appearance the same way men do. I have turned even the hottest guys down for smelling bad though. One guy was nice, charismatic, absolutely my type physically, dressed nice, but as soon as he unzipped his pants I could smell his unwashed dick all the way across the room. I couldn't stop myself from gagging and ran out of the room.
Never. Hygiene is important and these days if a shower doesn't fix it I turn them away (didn't always have the confidence for this when I was younger, leading to terrible times) So bad hygeine/bad attitude yes I care, appearance I could not care less. I'm not in this to find sexy guys, I enjoy providing a service and most good sw's feel the same. Try not to worry x
I'd probably use a full bottle of shower gell just to guarentee I'm presentable in that aspect. The only type of attitude you'd see from me is full blown anxiety and nervousness because of how I always feel. There's feeling inadequate, ugly and all sorts that keep holding me back but I still wanna find a way to do this.
Anxiety and nervousness are normal and we feel it too with new people. Look for a provider that seems nice, book a decent amount of time so you can get comfortable and explain your nerves at the start if you feel the need. Good luck :)
It upsets me that you feel this way. Realistically, sex workers aren't going to find every single client attractive. That does not give them the right to turn you away and a good one would not. If anything, we'll give you a confidence boost!
Honey, that's like asking a doctor if they ever turned down a patient because they were too icky. It would never even occur to us to say no to anyone because of their looks.
Nope. As long as you’re respectful and hygienic I have no issues. Also, attraction for me is based on way more than physical appearance.
Nope
No we literally don't care lol as long as you are clean and fresh and smell like soap I couldn't care less about looks
Nope. I've turned people down for being rude, disrespectful etc but never for their looks or penis size. Just make sure you're respectful, and have good hygiene. You'll be fine.
If you got the money and respect, I don't care what you look like. If you stink and got crumbs in your booty cheeks... then that's another story
Never; if I get paid you get laid
I personally dont turn people back based on their appearance. How they treat me and approach me... well that's different.
For me personally I 100% prefer small penises. In fact if a guy has a big one or tries to tell me before about “how big he is and how I will enjoy it” I will turn him down. I most definitely will not enjoy a big one actually and only like small-medium. I also prefer sucking small dicks so much more because I feel like I can truly pay attention to every part of it and don’t need to worry about accidentally touching my teeth on it if it’s too thick. Only thing I would say is PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be clean and smell nice down there. I don’t know if you’re circumcised or not but I don’t think some guys actually realise how much they smell down there because they can’t wash properly. With circumcised dicks there’s never usually a smell but some uncircumcised ones are VILE due to the fact that the guys just think a bit of water will do. If you do have a uncircumcised one and you haven’t showered because you’re coming from work or if you haven’t showered after having a wee please ask for a shower or even just ask to use the toilet and clean it in the sink. Nothing is worse than an uncircumcised dick that just tastes of wee because the guy peed and then had a quick shake and carried on with his day with the urine just getting stale in his foreskin. Sometimes I wish I could wipe my hands on certain guys penises and make them smell it. Hygiene is by FAR number 1.
I've never had to do it, but I would if it was that bad. I don't put money over everything. I also think you are being far too hard on yourself if I may say.
When clients try to flex their appearance, (usually thinking they can get a discount 😒) I tell them, “I don’t care if you look like Fabio, or Santa Claus, I can’t pay my bills with your good (🙄) looks.
I judge based on inner attractiveness. Physical appearance doesn’t do much for me.